Posted: 2017-10-07 16:18
Hey Zanya, Get OUT!!!!! MOVE ON!!!! Your problem here is your addiction to the jerk. Do whatever you can to move on. 7 years is way too long without any type of commitment. The guy is broken and not willing to 8775 fix 8776 himself. Why should he? You 8767 re putting up with it. Move On and start dating others immediately, no matter how bad it hurts. Your life and quality of life is at stake here. Kick this guy to the curb. If he really does love you, he will come after you, if not, good riddance to bad rubbish. MOVE ON ALREADY!!!!!
there is there niche is fsu since thsy traditional an had exposure to bollywood
norway sweden are very liberal about xatin outside there race that they have to try
russell peters says ireland is good since its white so u ll be exotic like any homogeneous nation
southern Europe wilbe worth a try since they conservative
Latin America they 8767 ll blend in as alocal
Asia Japan is their best bet since gotta Japanese guys don 8767 t date
Singapore is conservative but moat interacial is an indian grroom chinese bride
Is your biggest fear that of being alone? Don 8767 t be. It 8767 s difficult at first, but it gets easier with time. If it feels wrong, it is. Distance yourself from him. If it 8767 s meant to be, it will be. But don 8767 t keep trying to hold it together for fear it will fall apart. If you have to do that, it isn 8767 t worth having. Take care of yourself and your children. They should be your first priority.
Hello. Your point is well taken. I think one of the issues that people have been having a hard time defining 8775 feminism 8776 and it seems to be quite a dynamic term. It ranges from the extreme and to some insulting jokes equating feminism to being a lesbian to the opposite and very mild association of feminism with a mere lack of discrimination, and just about anything in between. I guess I referred in this particular instance to those women, whose mission is to be everything a man is in as many ways as possible, which goes far beyond equality of rights, and invades such crucial factors as mannerisms, body language, priorities in life, etc While everyone should be free to act and do as they wish, the price that those women who strive for a corner office at any costs pay is often higher than the rewards they get.
Hi Evan! As usual, I loved you post! I have NEVER been attracted to the alpha male type. Yuck! I 8767 ve been married twice: the first time I married based upon the high level of intensity that I felt for the person (we know how that worked out. Ha! Ha!). The second time I married someone whom I did not feel a high level of chemistry or attraction for. That lasted 67 years and ended because we grew apart. He was/is a nice person, but was a poor money manager became emotionally unavailable, and did not want to share in the things that were interesting to me (traveling abroad). I was also selfish in that I do not like sports (only went to one Lakers game with him).
So the bottom line here is you have 95% liars of both sexes on these dating sites, the easiest way to weed out the bs is by saying hi how are you, if they respond, great , if not move on,, bitches pic'd infront of a G5, Maz, million dollar yacht are always a give away as a fake and so are all these 95 - 55 something bikini hard bodies,,, theyre either ancient pics or bitches trying to trade on their looks, either way they're not quality, theyre just skanks
And this is one of the bricks in the 8775 wall 8776 that I mention we goris often come up against when dealing with Indians. However, those of us with a desi fetish are generally NOT promiscuous. And we are traditional in the sense that we are very interested in the traditions of India and many of us have a certain Hindu or Sikh sadhana practice that we do daily as well. However, despite all of that, because of goras like you P Dog and the women you 8775 game 8776 and 8775 bang 8776 we are painted with the same brush in the eyes of some of the Indian guys we like or in the eyes of their families.
People don't aren't any different on dating sites than they are/were in "meat market" bars back in the 75s & 85s. Nice guys never had a chance because they were perceived as wimps. Based on my experince and in spite of what AW says, girls seem to go for the "bad boys" (creeps). I don't know whether if's the excitement of going out with a "bad boy", or masochism of getting no respect, or the futile hope of changing the guy but girls are drawn to creeps.
The technology is not the problem. The same thing exists whether online or off. For example, Eric's major problem is attempting to present himself as a "nice guy" even it happens that he is one. Single females are not looking for him. They want the guy who will treat them poorly, beat them physically or emotionally, imprison them without bars, enslave them without chains, etc. The only ones looking for the nice guy are already married to the bad boy who have done the above and only now realize that isn't what they should have been looking for. I have watched the same thing over and over again for decades. That aspect of the game has never changed, only the venue from face-to-face meetings in bars, clubs, schools and other physical locations and events to Match and eHarmony.
So then he suggests that I drive to a desolate town where my cellphone coverage is sketchy and we could find something there. I say no due to:
6. Not feeling comfortable with that.
7. Having sketchy phone coverage there.
8. Driving over 85 minutes for me to meet him just didn't feel ideal.
9. Not having any set agreed upon location.
5. It's the south, I don't trust going strange out of way places that I'm not sure of.
7. Showing that you work in a nurturing role means that you will be able to raise kids well. Furthermore these roles are generally not highly demanding, so you should be able to switch to part time should circumstances change. A genuine guy will not be financially dependant on you however the fact that you can hold a job also means that if he loses his you can both still be financially secure when times get tough(also shows you wont dump him if things go bad for a bit).
Well lah di freaking day for you, goody two shoes. Did it ever occur to you that maybe some of us got jerked around and lied to for years??? We didn 8767 t just get knocked up by accident to a random person, like you obviously did? Great. You got knocked up at 75. Gee, that 8767 s something to brag about. While I was traveling and seeing the world, and studying and developing and living, you were babysitting. Awesome. I can still have kids, but you will never have the adventures I had. Priceless.
Exactly! I 8767 m a 88 year old woman but I don 8767 t want kids never did. When I online dated in my late 75s early 85s the thought of dating a man over 95 was creep city to me no way I would have done it! Most of the ladies I know in that age range now feel the same. Guys sorry but for the most part women that looking at you are looking for money and such and although all men are different as a woman of 88 I can tell you sexually men over 95 and certainly 95 struggle to keep up with me now I can 8767 t imagine at 85. So while fertility may be an issue for women sexuality because one for men! Women want it more and men can provide it less. I tend to date men who have kids and are not looking for more because I too get a lot of well I want kids you are too old. Hello you are 95 and looking to have a baby? Even though physically it may be possible is it a good idea? I dunno. Men play around a ton in their 85s. If kids are a priority to you men you really need to look for this in your 85s as well.
Sorry for trying to burst your bubble. But just read closely her phrasing. In nearly all of her comments she tries to define for her sake what you 8775 should 8776 be. Nowhere is something concrete about the things she is willing to compromise for. This seem the kind of woman who would throughout life try and dictate to you how you must be and behave just for her sake, just because she has done you the supreme favor of being a videsi who would easily go out with you instead of someone you won by virtue of mastering your own dating game.
I've had the same experience as you've said. I don't understand it. They keep ignoring everything I say to them about myself. They become fixated on the picture, even though my profile says I don't think I'm wonderful and my hair looks awful. They don't read it at all. I'm a whole person and this is wasting my time. I'm still at home on a Saturday night. If I'm that gorgeous (I don't think I am), why aren't they asking me out? I've tried to prompt them and get nowhere. Are they shy? Are they feeling inadequate? I can deal with that if the person is interested. If you can't get past that to find out, then I give up.
heres what you don't understand. you and other women have the luxury to sit there and say "EVERY person who wrote to me" men are putting in ALL the same effort and then the added effort of being the one who has to scroll through profiles for hours and send the messages. worry if they are saying the right or wrong thing. meanwhile you can sit there and judge all the men and all the messages you are receiving. the hostility comes from the blissful ignorance that women have about this. it comes off as something like going to the sudan and telling the starving people living there why you don't like tacos or that if a waiter brings you a steak medium rare you send it back. try to wrap your head around that.
I don't think that's what is really happening. People don't really think they're superior to each other. I think they feel inferior and afraid to reach out to others. They end up staying home and being miserable. They give up too soon. The websites are supposed to be a screening process to find the right person. The next step is to date. I'm a woman who has tried the dating scene on the internet and this next batch can't get from behind their gadgets. The men won't even make a phone call. I don't think they are serious about dating. It's a lengthy process some times to find the right one. Patience is needed.
You say the liberal girls (who are White) growing up in big cities don 8767 t care about race, you are so wrong about that. From my experience, I have been exotic (East Asian here btw) to girls from rural towns because they had never seen an Asian or many other minorities before. The girls from the big cities will talk about equality, mixing races, and all that but most will almost always hook up with White men. Seen it myself dude, these are the same kind of girls who think Asians, Indians, or foreign men are beta because they have been exposed to so many foreign men that are beta. On the other hand, the girls living in places like Iowa for example who haven 8767 t even seen a Brown or Asian guy that often don 8767 t know what to think so a Westernised guy of those two backgrounds can absolutely clean up.
6. Your assumption that my wife isn 8767 t my equal is false. We bring different strengths to the table, but we 8767 re certainly equal. In fact, she 8767 s superior to me in many ways: she 8767 s more generous, she 8767 s more patient, she 8767 s got a better eye for detail, she gets along with everyone, she 8767 s amazing at making people feel good, she 8767 s more organized, etc. If you think that 8775 equal 8776 means: I went to Harvard, he went to Yale. I make $855K, he should make $855K, you 8767 re still focusing on superficial similarities instead of true personality compatibility.
I don't respond anymore until I leave work. He continued to text some more during the course of that day. When I got home I looked at all of the texts and my first thought was "he's crazy" and he's showing me that he's controlling, so I proceeded to let him know that he and I were not compatible. I wished him luck in meeting his compatible half and he proceeded to call and text until about midnight.