Posted: 2017-10-12 17:10
Any profile that whines about what they are tired of hearing or tired of dealing with is negative. How bout throwing in a sentence or two describing what YOU will bring into THE OTHER PERSON S life. Not lamenting about how awful you ve been treated in the past. After all, we all train others to treat us as they do. One of life s most bitter pills we all must, myself included.
I am all in favor of the more traditional roles and I am not a fan at all of feminism. Having said that, I am realistic enough to know that no woman is going to say in her profiles that she likes to 8775 cook and clean 8776 , even if she doesn 8767 t mind doing those things and she is traditional herself. That 8767 s just not something that women write. Well, many girls would say that they like cooking, but cleaning That 8767 s really a lot to expect from a profile.
The root cause of contemporary egocentric dating-profile-writing is that it 8767 s understandably similar to appealing to employers via job applications and resume-writing. Until the writer understands that without the advantage of brand-name recognition, it must be clear beyond a doubt what value can be obtained, or what kind of experiences can be enjoyed. A photo is a nice 8775 feature, 8776 but it 8767 s what value you can describe about yourself that inspires an online dater to make the next move.
This message board has taught me so much. I''ve been dating online on and off for at least 7 years. I''m 98. I''m decent looking, I thought LOL. I have a great job, house, one kid, no drama. I guess I''m cool, but a little boring? I just don''t think I know how to present myself or heck I really don''t know. I get guys that just want a piece or just wanna try dating me since they have never dated outside their race (which I don''t mind but I''d like them to like me and not the piece of *** I potentially represent). Its really crushing to the spirit. I don''t know if I will even continue online dating after reading all the perspectives here. I''m truly a busy person that doesn''t get out much to meet people and a little shy when it comes to getting to know folks. So I guess I''ll either put my big girl panties on and just go sit at a bar or give up and be alone. (sigh)
Cliché – Fact, guys don’t care about clichés on a female’s profile. Unlike women who deflect hundreds of cliche pickup lines, men don’t have that problem. What we see is a short succinct statement that clearly defines what type of girl she is. You can always expand on it if you think it’s so bad. eg. “I generally prefer to stay indoors reading books and watching TV. On occasion I also enjoy outdoor activities such as going to theme parks, camping and going to the beach.”
My advice to Eric is to get back on line. He will eventually find maybe not the "perfect girl" but a girl he can live with. And that''s another thing. We all form in our mind the picture of the "perfect mate" - the right mix of intelligence, beauty, oersonality and income. Then we measure all prospects against that ideal and, unsurprisingly, all candidates fail the comparison. Life is a series of compromises. As the 6975s song said "If you can''t be with the one you love, love the one you''re with."
We understand that you want us to be impressed with your pull-ups, your dead lifts, and your toned shoulder muscles. Your Yoga pose where you hold one leg near your head is awesome just as awesome as every other woman who includes that picture in her profile. While we are certainly body conscious, men don 8767 t really care about what you are doing to get there. We just like the results. Stop posting pictures of your exploits. You just come across like someone who needs external affirmation far too much for our comforts.
As far as attractive women not responding to messages - the anonymity of the keyboard and screen have emboldened hordes of men to approach these women, when in the past the scummy ones would''ve just been the guy in the corner of the bar staring, the guy randomly bumping and grinding on women on the dancefloor, but their masses would''ve been guys just sitting at home, in their basement, peeling wings off flies or whatever. But the internet and online dating have bridged "desire" and "action" so that with virtually zero effort, lots of socially-maladjusted misogynist a-holes can dump their trash anywhere without the consequences they''d face trying to do it in person. So I do think that women are embittered by the vast deluge of BS they have to sift through, and it drowns the more nobly-purposed attempts.
Granted, we live in a world of Facebook and Instagram, where everyone is interesting, spontaneous and 8766 lives life to the fullest 8767 . Everyone is brimming with positivity, and wants to be with someone like that. Everyone wants laugh all the time. We all are super fit and eat super healthy except that we also enjoy an indulgence every now and then. We all want to fulfill our 8766 bucket lists 8767 and do exciting thins and travel the world. Many women are looking for their Unicorn.
I became so weary of these half hearted advances and men who could not follow through, I just gave up. Why should I put out so much personal information about myself on the Internet for a bunch of really half hearted losers who were too cheap to even pay for a drink, and if they did, they felt it gave them license to grab me or shove their tongue downy throat on the first date? These men had no dating etiquette at all.
I just clicked on the link below and you completely contradict yourself practical happiness. Your A profile says she is independent. However the link 6. Online Dating Advice for Women: keep this out of your online dating profile s first piece of advise is to not say youre independent. Plus your A profile s grammar is horrible. Do you have any credentials or edit this site?
Dating hot Nigerian girls is simple, just like it is when it comes to other ladies in the world. Every lady hopes to meet that one Prince Charming, fall in love, get married and live 8766 happily ever after 8767 . Therefore men are assigned the task of proving to be the princes so as to win the girls 8767 hearts. Nigerian ladies hope to meet the men of their dreams too. All you have to do to date a Nigerian girl is prove to have the qualities she would want in the 8766 man of her dreams 8767 .
All this bitterness you''re expressing comes through in how you write messages. I can guarantee it. That''s why no one writes you back. No one wants to engage with someone they have to prove themselves to. Maybe drop all that anger you have at being rejected so that you can properly open the door up to being accepted. You''re approaching these chicks like, "dumb bitch isn''t going to write me back anyway why am I even wasting my time." You''re reaping what you sow.
I was an ugly duckling growing up. Not a movie ugly duckling that is hot if she just takes off her glasses and wears a prom dress, but a certified socially-unaware dork. For girls like me, the Internet was like turn-of-the-century America was to immigrants. We leapt for our computers with visions of a world where the streets are paved with male nerds that had never seen a woman and would crown us queen upon receiving proof of ovaries.
Glad I came here. I finally put 7 and 7 together and came up with the exact same thing as everyone here did. I 8767 ve already paid for 6 month but am cancelling immediately. No responses. Everything seems computer-generated. Only a handful of cities used. Lesson learned. I 8767 m mad at myself for not doing the due diligence (I do it for everything else). Wish there was a way to collectively shut this site down.
I can dig what you were trying to say here. Cause there is a lot of substance. But some of what you say completely contradicts the evidence that has been compiled on this subject. The fact is. A lot of women only talk to/give a reasonable chance to the top 6% of attractive men. This isn''t an opinion. They''ve done studies. So while I appreciate your input and I do feel there was a lot to gain from it. You are completely wrong in your assessment that women aren''t as shallow as men. If anything because they have so many choices. They filter them by looks. It''s sad but true.
It was actually really interesting. The study showed men consistently rated themselves too highly, went after women right out of their league, got knocked back. Women consistently rated themselves as less attractive than they are, went after men well within their league, fewer knock backs. However, the more attractive men did not mis-rate themselves and did not have this problem. Average men consistently tried to latch onto women they had no realistic chance with.
Admin,,,what I cannot understand is that it seems as if only anything to do with 8775 porn 8776 or 8775 sex 8776 is allowed to have a continious payment removal from a credit card. A rolling bill as it where.
I don 8767 t know of any other product where your card is continually billed monthly and have to stop the billing by some form of activation. (I am English).
Got any idea to why this is?
Then I started talking to my female friends. They all had pretty good conversation rates, getting anywhere from 5-75 messages per day. And their conversations tended to last if they wanted it to. What I realized was the dynamic was completely different women naturally start becoming a lot more arbitrarily selective because of this constant initiation. If you don''t stand out with your picture as a man you''re doomed to failure: all the Marissa''s in the world will think of the best looking man that they''ve slept with, say "given the field I can do better", and move on without a second thought. Whether or not you would be a great fit, whether or not you''re a secret agent or a millionaire. It''s totally arbitrary.
Hi. I was surfing the net and happend to find this site. ( sorta interesting)
I do understand that western women thought they have met a sweet caring British male engineer who works for a construction company in Nigeria and eventually these women sent him money.
But I really don 8767 t understand that thousands of western men sent money to a hot blonde female model who lives in Nigeria
I mean.. What kind of american female models do u think live in Nigeria? for what reason?
I just don 8767 t understand how these men got tricked into sending money to nigeria.