Posted: 2017-09-11 17:50
An amazing article, I could not agree with you more, thank you! The only thing I want to add is the possibility of someone lying as they simply happen to be a bad person. I was recently seeing a guy that I later on found out was seeing someone else at the same time, while he repetedly told me I was the only person he was with. This leaves me to the only conclusion I could think of, that he is simply a bad and deceiving person, en egoist.
I can see why someone would feel like these men are pursuing black women after their best years have passed them, or after they have had a family with a white woman. People really need to see past these things, there is only so much a person can handle. While I am grateful for people like the Lovings, we all need to realize not everyone is or was willing to risk their lives for love. Think about it, how many women on here would risk their well-being trying to make it work with RayRay?
8775 It 8767 s not moral to date someone who has the age of to be your father 8776 . Most men I would date would still than my father, no problem. lol It looks very bias of your part, sound like 8775 it 8767 s not moral a christian to date an ahteist 8776 , 8775 it 8767 s not moral a white to date a non white 8776 , 8775 it 8767 s not moral a poor to date a rich 8776 goes on
This IRR is our 8775 movement 8776 , our march, our desegregation policy, we just don 8767 t see it because we always needed the BM lens to see ourselves with. Let 8767 s be honest with ourselves and take off the BM 8767 s shades. The spirit of KKK is in our hoods killing and raping our children, except they don 8767 t have sheets or hoods, they have bandanas across their faces and sagging baggy pants. Which one of us is gonna step to these thugged out MF 8767 ers? What will we say when 85 years from now we are asked why didn 8767 t you do such and such to prevent the killing of children??
Very good advice, especially about being creepy and acting your age.
I currently have a mistress that is a little over thirty years than I am.
We enjoy each other thoroughly, as friends, companions, and sex partners.
I always just try to act like me, be a gentleman and that way there is no change when we get together.
She is much more an active sex partner but does not expect me to always keep up. If I 8775 tire out 8776 , she knows she can continue and we still both enjoy the act.
On a related note, there DOES seem to be a vein of thought where anything less than the 8775 ideal 8776 WM/ interest in black women is met with suspicion. I remember another well educated, older, slightly overweight WM who expressed interest in BW to Chris a few years ago. He was also met with suspicion that he was only interested in BW because white women didn 8767 t want him. Not every non-black guy is a wealthy Adonis with a perfect dating record involving black women.
But back to finding out you are bland and like everybody else as I think it relates to dating. You think that would feel unifying except that since most people by in large are unexceptional and you were raised with such praise of your average gifts only to find out they are really average it kind of sucks And so when you start to date on-line 99% of the people seem so average and blah because because you are drawing from this HUGE pool of what looks like blah to you sooooooo you put even more label and definitions on yourself to prove you are not average and are unique, to try and stand out but don 8767 t really want to wade through the see of blah yourself. Yet too find a good match takes time and if everybody expecting the other 6% of unique peers to wade their way through the blah to you,you get nowhere.
Part 8 I being 85 and my wife 77 made it easy for me to have Mae 68 as my mistress! My wife was thin but large chest 86dds! We worked different shifts and she was 65 miles from home,I had plenty of time to go to Mae 8767 s and take care of her needs! When I would come home from the midnight shift I would see my wife off to work I would go to Mae 8767 s we would make love and I would go to sleep! Mae would wake me at 8 we would make love again I would shower with Mae and get home in time to make supper! I know I was only married 8 months but Mae and I were soulmate 8767 s! My wife would she Mae at the store once in a while and one time my wife came home and said she gave Mae my cell number in case she needed help since Mae 8767 s husband left her for a woman! This made Mae and I getting together so much easier and my wife never dreamed that I would take a lover 88 years older when I had a wife 8 years
All I can say is I can 8767 t get away fast enough from evil people, man woman or child!!! I normally don 8767 t lie, but if it 8767 s going to get me away from a bad situation, I will formulate the TRUTH in a way that the other person would NEVER understand, and the other PERSON would call me a liar for telling the truth, although using HIS/HER TAINTED and EVIL PERCEPTIONS against their own 8775 truths. 8776
Once a cheater calls me a liar, they have already lost their own sick game, because I have never cheated on a boyfriend, fiance or husband or lied about being 8775 intimate 8776 with someone I may now call a friend. THAT is the difference about pathological liars who cheat! They think everyone else is a cheater too, and call them a liar because THEY CAN 8767 T BELIEVE that other people DON 8767 T CHEAT, OR THEY BELIEVE that others LIE ABOUT IT, when they don 8767 t!!!
I am 77 years old and have now been dating a 96 year old lady. She is so Beautiful. She has a perfect body. She works out three times a week. That is how I meet her. She has 8 kicks from a 67 year long marriage that ended in a bitter divorce. I could go on for hours about how well we get along and how I think I might be a little in love with her. So we have been seeing each other for about six months. We became intimate the first time we went out. The problem we have now is that she is pregnant. Yes yes yes she warned me but I, I guess did not take her seriously. So I would forget birth control and she never pressed it and we 8767 ll she pregnant by about 7 months. I am not sure of this or anything right now. I don 8767 t know what to do. I mean everything is good now but what about ten years form now. I mean how about 75 years from now. I like older women but I like women and women my age as well. I just alway thought that I would marry a girl my age and be married a couple of years before we had kids. I mean I am not I love with thus woman that is going to have my baby. What do I do. Help
One word of advice and this is not a lecture only one hit at a time with that incense. I 8767 ve seen it do some scary things. Seriously. Not usually but one time is one time too many. It 8767 s just too damn bad that things had to take the path they did when they made the natural stuff illegal then nobody would have to worry about getting poisoned with things that we have no way of knowing the ingredients.
Great it does set the record straight with me. I still think that women are attracted to older men because older men will typically represent a thicker that 8767 s just me :-). The bottom line is that you are probably very right in that about half the available women out there have no qualms about dating older men even men who are only marginally older (. a 85 year old woman dating a 55 year old man).
Jennifer when you refer to yourself in the sentence 8775 leaving us alone 8776 are you suggesting that you are in the group 8775 women 8776 that you also mention? Your photo would suggest to me someone in the age group that would normally be identified as a potential partner for anyone between the age of 85 and say 55 hardly a woman. So what age group are you suggesting are 8775 dirty 8776 and 8775 pervs 8776 . Perhaps they are actually assessing you as closer to their age group than you do.
I am free, financially independent, etc, and women of various ages are interested in me. I will admit there are women who just don 8767 t consider anyone outside of their personal parameters, be that 7 year age difference or 75, but that 8767 s fine- only a loser would want to be with someone who doesn 8767 t want to be with them. And yes, there 8767 s a lot of gold diggers out there as well, and at 65 with not a lot to offer in the beautiful face and body dept., maybe you shouldn 8767 t be so stingy with the one of the main ways you could attract women: resources. Or maybe you don 8767 t have anything to give anyone else, Just barely enough for yourself?
My friend Gabrielle met her boyfriend at a restaurant opening. They are twenty years apart, and they’ve been together for two. He “treats me like I’m a person,” she told me. “I watch so many of my other friends agonize over text messages from guys who... just clearly don’t care.” The stereotypes, she says, are true: Older men are attentive, they aren’t threatened by your career success, they didn’t grow up watching porn on their laptops, and they certainly don’t expect sex from you before you’ve even had a chance to meet. It’s not an “old-fashioned” dating scheme, it’s just a more humane one. “I wasn’t trying to go back in time,” Gabrielle added at the end of our conversation. “Nobody wants to go back to the 6955s, we just want to be treated with respect.”
Keioni I 8767 m surprised the feelings of girls are being mocked like this. I 8767 m 86 now and like older men sometimes, but I 8767 ll never forget what it felt like before, and I would think this would be a safer place for that issue, but I guess old white men 8767 s feelings are top priority. I don 8767 t get the impression that everyone spent their youth where they would have to deal with that though. I think if you live in a mostly black place you wouldn 8767 t encounter it as much, it would be old black men creeping on you instead. I 8767 ve never had an old black man hit one me. Not once.
Mae and I spent 77 years as lovers,best friends,soulmates! Our 88 year difference in age never came into question! I knew I loved her and the day she said to me I never thought I 8767 d find a man who loved me but I was wrong you truly love me! She started to cry so I picked her up carried her to bed and made passionate love to her! We treated each other with love and Mae taught me how to love and I used her lessons to make my wife feel loved!
I 8767 ve been going through this with my husband over the past few years ( at least few years that I know of) and the main thing that I 8767 m more frustrated with than anything is when he turns it around that it 8767 s my fault that he 8767 s lying to me! So this is my point to anyone on both sides of this conversation! Men and woman that physically and mentally abuse their spouse and as their doing it and say it 8767 s their fault for them hitting them or verbally abusing them, This is the same thing these men are using lies and then turning it around it around on us and telling us it 8767 s our fault the reasoning why their lying to us! So wake up! It 8767 s never ok to lie to your spouse! If you need to lie your hiding something or you need to get out before it gets to the abuse
6) I really don 8767 t think a Facebook page is the place to feature singles anyway if I was really looking for someone, I probably wouldn 8767 t do it on Facebook, but if I did..I wouldn 8767 t want to be advertised in front of thousands of strangers who could comment anything they wanted to (especially since I 8767 m so sensitive)..I think if you 8767 re still going to feature people, disabling comments is a good idea. Those who are interested can send you a private message.
I think I would be ok with it at my age, but when the opportunity came up I said no. Sure, why not fun for a little while, but then what? 75-somethings move, they change jobs, they lose their phones, they don 8767 t really know how to cook and have no money or furniture, and they need to learn about saving, or else call on mommy and daddy for help.
So for all the 8775 fun 8776 I also see a lot of downsides. Looking down the line and my parents are older and will likely be in declining health, it would really stress me out to tell a 75 or 85 something that if we got married, and anything happened to me, they 8767 d be on the hook to take care of all three of us and disperse my money from the wills, administer medicine or even finish raising my kids. God willing it 8767 d never happen but most 75 somethings and even some 85 somethings I 8767 ve seen are still kids themselves and don 8767 t think about those things. I think kids in their 75s need time to mature, and nothing will change that opinion of mine, that they 8767 re not really adults until about late 75 8767 s.