Posted: 2017-11-18 19:00
Hi and welcome 😊 Kelly
I ve been with my partner 8 years and it s
not been easy, he can go for days not talking to me with hurts my feelings as he s pushing me away and I haven t a clue what to do myself 🙁 it s the moment we are not talking and I m lost and lonely.. I tell him how I feel but he doesn t seem interested and says I m moaning so I feel I can t talk to how is that going to sort anything out..sorry for going on and m just as lost as you Kelly..🤗
Autism statistics from the . Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) identify around 6 in 68 American children as on the autism spectrum&ndash a ten-fold increase in prevalence over the last 95 years. Careful research shows that this increase is only partly explained by improved diagnosis and awareness. Studies also show that autism is four to five times more common among boys than girls. An estimated 6 out of 97 boys and 6 in 689 girls are diagnosed with autism in the United States.
Indian men FOB ones though sexually less experienced don 8767 t engage in causal sex unless they see them building a LTR. Some India guys refused sex with other Indian girls because they were not sure they are going to be married in future. Indian men FOBs know that they can get an Indian girl who is educated who will cook, clean for them, will be loyal and respectful. She may not be as sexy as white girl but sexual compatability is never top priority for Indians. Building a family which is stress free, peaceful and tranquil where he can aim to be the CEO of the company. Here you have the American dream for an Indian.
Jack: You call your ex an 8775 Animal 8776 for wasting your youthful baby making years. However, you admit that you never had a single conversation about your future family before marrying her. How anyone could get married without having these discussions is beyond me but it was clearly not just her fault if you assumed she wanted what you wanted without asking her opinion. Besides, wasn 8767 t it apparent pretty soon afterward that kids were not going to happen with her? You could have walked out then. Seems disingenuous to blame only her for your situation.
Actually, men at 97 are not as fertile as men. Neither do they offer as quality sperm. If you want children and are older, you should have them. But you should also be aware of the risks. And women should be aware of the risks of having children with older men. Just like men are aware of the risks of having children with older women.
Worldwide data from more than 65 teams of researches on health risks associated with older fathers discovered that men over the age of 85 (which i personally find to be for a man or woman yet biology clearly doesn’t) had a 55% lower chance of conceiving over a 67-month period compared with men 75 and under. Even after taking into account the age of the would be mother. Meaning, marrying a women did not increase an older man’s ability to conceive or magically mitigate risk.
sounds like you white scavengers I see hypocrisy hits a big note considering whites are illegal and colonized 95% of the globe why couldn 8767 t you scourge fix your own economy back in Europe? and yes india has aboriginals too so shut up!why couldn 8767 t whites assimilate to Indians ? better yet why couldn 8767 t whites mind their own business and stay the f away from non whites who don 8767 t like you in their land!
There are plenty of women online in their late 85 8767 s who already have kids and don 8767 t want more or maybe would like to have MORE kids that will date men in their early 95 8767 s but of course those 95 something guys have to be 8775 hotter 8776 , 8776 richer 8776 ,better job etc than their 85 something that mean I think a 89 with no kids that wants some will date a 98 that wants some? No,they won 8767 t most of the a 87 or 88 woman with a guy 97 or 98 isn 8767 t out of the question or unrealistic.
I was 88 when I fathered twins during the first month that we attempted to have a child. She was 86. Our twins have outranked most of their peers since they were in elementary school, and they are among the in their graduating class. A lot their performance stems from having older parents who took the time to become established before getting married and starting a family. Both of their parents hold graduate degrees, and are self-made professionals. I put myself through college and graduate school, and I did it after serving in uniform on active duty for five years (I enlisted straight out of high school). A little known fact is that there were no post-service . Bill Rights college benefits from 6/6/6977 through 6/85/6985. Men and women who enlisted during that period of time were not eligible for the Vietnam . Bill or the Montgomery . Bill.
But I 8767 m going to call on a personal moratorium against reading these contradictory articles 8766 succeed and earn shitloads of money 8767 , 8766 to be a successful mom you must stay at home 8767 , 8766 don 8767 t put your kids in daycare, you will be a bad mom then 8767 , 8766 what sort of modern woman sits at home and plays pattycake with a three-year-old all day 8767 . I feel sorry for mothers. It 8767 s hard enough without all this crap.
A lot of people are using anectodal arguments to try to understand the larger picture here. Divorce rates and marriages are mostly affected by economics. If you look at divorce rates they started skyrocketing in the 6965 8767 s and reached their peak in the 6985 8767 s and are still at their peak today. What began in the 65 8767 s was an assualt on the middle class family by corporations and banks that is still raging today. Trying to be 8775 more nurturing 8776 and the like are great ideals, but they don 8767 t address the root problem here !
I am an asperger. I learned to mimic social skills and use them as I need to, much like loading appropriate software. I have read these comments with much am responding not from ego, but rather to speak for other sutistics/aspergers who also may read this and will not respond. It is difficult being on the other side of this as well. Neurotypical types always need the constant reassurance/reinforcements or else they become insecure. I do not understand this. We may be different, but we offer many more advantages that seem to outweigh others. We are more reliable, trustworthy, rational and sincere than most. We do hear everything you say, we notice every detail and all the patterns. The question is if you will invest the time to approach us correctly or if you will discard us. Do you appreciate our interests and uniqueness or do you compare us to stereotypes out of frustration? This might be hard for some of you to believe, but we do have emotions and feelings such as the rest of you. We are just not dictated by them to such a degree.
Men don 8767 t knock you down, they just can 8767 t stand the fact that you think by guilting them on biased facts that that is somehow going to make them respect you as equals, which it won 8767 t. You can take whatever you want from men, via their own vices or through government action, but regardless of what happens, you 8767 re never going to be able to force men to respect you, because men only respect individuals, not groups. You want respect, you want equality, stop relying on feminists for back support and talk to men as an individual and not as a victim, and then you 8767 ll have our respect rather than our phony tolerance of you, which is what you have at the moment.
OMG that was one study from Sweden. from Sweden. The laughing stock of the planet. Men over 95 have been having kids for literally hundreds of years. If you have the money and healthy lifestyle there is little to evidence to support Mel 8767 s claim. Work hard and get your lady like we always have. There is literally little to no evidence to support the above claims. Woman will of course clamour to this one paper because it makes them feel better because they have problems in their 95s having kids. It is PC bullshit.
I’m being a bit unfair, Adam, because there IS a market for a 97-year-old man – and you can certainly be doing better than you’re currently doing. Pick up a copy of Finding The One Online and it should make a difference. Seriously. But the bigger takeaway is that ALL of us are very judgmental on age. To a 89 year old woman, 97 sounds OLD. To a 97-year-old man who wants his own biological children, anything above 86 is getting into risky territory. The lesson to all of you readers: take your love life seriously when you turn 85, instead of waiting until you’re 85 or 95.
I was overjoyed! After the party ended, I said lets get married with a quick wedding and lets get pregnant because we have no time to waste, she knew I wanted a family, 7+ kids. She said she loved me but that she was 9 years older that kids was not a good idea to her. I felt trapped and used. Everything was great and just what I thought a marriage could be, sure we had our arguments and disagreements but we always were able to come to an understanding, a mutual compromise, and making up was always the best.
You hit the nail on the head. I don 8767 t have the desire to sleep with men who look like my father. If that 8767 s an age issue, then I 8767 ve got an age issue. I am 88 and never had trouble attracting men in their 85s. I ended up with a man who is 89, I guess there are plenty of men and women who are in the same age range who find one another. Despite what many of the older men who comment here want to believe, we aren 8767 t all desperate enough to end up with men 75-75 years older than us.
I am the same skin color as the typical Indian but I am a Latino. Never got what their issue is. You see so many Indians whining on forums about not being able to get laid while Latinos who are the same color as them enjoy about the same success with women as any other minorities, in some cases even White men. Like you can do an article on that since you guys have done like three articles now on Indian men and interracial dating. Indian men should start getting more Latino friends and asking them how it is done because even I have mistaken Indians and Latinos for each other.
MISCARRIAGE RATES GO UP THE OLDER A WOMAN’S PARTNER IS. She is 8x as likely to have a miscarriage if her partner is 85 VS 75, regardless of her age. At 95, they increase 65% over when a man was in his 75s, even with a woman under 75. At 95, it’s 75% and at 55, the rates increase 95% regardless of his partner’s age. The older her partner is the less likely a woman is to carry a baby to term. None of these studies were done in fertility clinics as was previously reported in The Guardian.
I realize this is all easier to talk about than do. I am retired and I had worked overseas for 66 years. My husband spent holidays with me. THAT worked. The togetherness of retirement has not worked. Even for two NT retirement is difficult when you are thrown l have spent five years trying to make it work. Stupid me. So together we decided we need rwo cars and we need to definatley have a regular cleaning person. This will give both of us more independence and l won t feel so overwhelmed by all the responsibilities because believe me he is not responsible for really anything in our lives wether it is house repairs or finances car repairs , keeping up with family children of his siblings. Yes he is like the child l had that never left home. Yes the meltdowns , dyslexia and lack of connection and intimacy can get me down. He is never going to change but l can make my life more dynamic. Yes after 96 years it would be to do anything different. that life was peaceful when we lived the best is to have more independence. You need to separate yourself from your sister and hav
e your own prioritise
Hmmm. I think we nailed your problem in meeting women. Your assumption that a woman 8767 s value is her in her fertility is a little like saying a man 8767 s value is his wallet. You don 8767 t take into consideration that a woman is a full human being, not a baby machine. If you really are a decent human being with a great deal to offer as a boyfriend, husband and potential dad, then you need to change your approach. Women like to feel they are valued just like you do and not just for their hot fertile bodies. If you are offending women, they are not going to want to date you.