Posted: 2017-09-11 18:16
I 8767 m very happy for you, not so much for your bf. Women like being taken out on dates, women like kissing, men like sex. It looks to me like a one sided arrangement where you are the only one who score, but every guy must learn from his own mistakes, some never do. While you already enjoy what you want, there is no guarantee that he will get what he enjoy. shame
But at least I 8767 m happy for you Rachal and I 8767 m glad I 8767 m not him anymore. Been there, done that wasted my money and time, now I move on.
I agree..we go after what we want more
It is just sad that he would leave the one he loves and the one who loves him back maybe he will never find love like that anymore,maybe he won 8767 t be able to have children,maybe he was not in love with her at the first place lots of 8775 maybe 8767 s 8776
It looked like my husband wanted a child more than I did and I can guarantee to you that he is the worst father I have ever met, in every sense of that word.
Many people have children for all the wrong reasons and a lot of them do regret the decision,because they had no clue what they were getting into.
But.. we all make our own choices
Typical Western attitude. It 8767 s not just women you think are clueless about creative and science/math abilities, but also other races and cultures , who were way ahead of you, while you were caveman , they advanced in culture, science and math. And bother to see for yourself about the female mathematicians in ancient culture to present. The all 8766 powerful 8767 American male, who lives in his made up world of 8766 superiority.
Wrong. Women initiate two thirds of the divorces because they have financial incentive from a biased family courts system to do so.
Once you get past the 65 year barrier the incentives are extremely strong for women. They not only get the house, the car and the kids but also lifetime alimony (or better named vaginamony because women paying alimony is as rare as Siberian tigers - they exist, but mostly in pictures).
My dilemma: I ve been talking to one person who just admitted to me that he s 69, but we started talking when he was only 67!! He told me at first he wanted to just talk and flirt which is why he wasn t honest at first. He said he didn t think we d still be talking, but he speaks of marriage and children, etc. It s a very frightening feeling! Part of me is angry that he lied and the other part of me is flattered that he s wanted that much to do with me.
I am a 78 year old blk man. Im tired the lack of options i have with women my age. Maybe its because I have an old soul and ahead of my time. Anyway I m tired of looking its getting so old. So I find myself paying extra attention to older women. It s this older woman maybe 95-95 at a local car parts store that I see. I think she is sexy..she is really kind with the sweetest voice. She always calls me babe,doll, and baby when she rings me up. Because of age difference I would like something casual. I didn t notice any rings on her fingers. I jus don t know if she is into guys at all. I know I have to ask to find out. It would be super easy to ask one on one but there s ears everywhere so it makes it difficult to run it by her. Eventually I will though.
This age gap doesn t work, especially for a man and an older women. Im 78 and i dated a beautiful 99 year old women for a couple of years and yes it does bother her more than i but it still bothered me and progressively got worse. She initially lied about her age as she looks so i didnt even know till about a year in. Then i started picking up on all the little things that make her, well, a middle aged women. Saggy skin, bone structure, skin complexion, womanly voice, not exactly the tightest smoo along with a demanding nature. This did start to frustrate me and make me think that i am getting the short end of the stick. I am glad i got out of it.
Not only is this article poorly written, lacking in strong evidence, and oddly stating that mothers are penalized for sexuality, but it is also insulting to men.
Through dull anecdotes the writer tries to convince us that it is healthier to put a lover before their children. The author uses terms such as 8776 putting first 8776 but fails to realize that there is no need to put anyone first, or second, or third. Romantic love is completely different from the love you have for a child. While making time for romantic love is important, putting a lover 8775 first 8776 over the creature that came out of your body, the one you would die for, is completely ridiculous.
You get one shot at being a decent parent. You have hundreds of shots to date. Hang up the push up bra, put away the lace thong, and remember, men will always be there, however your children will not.
Liz am in the same situation except he is 68 and am 85, i do have the same cncerns as most women the age gap thing, in the begninng i started it casual i wasn 8767 t looking for anything serious just to experiment and to think i am desired by such a person peak my interest, we became intimtate within weeks and found out am his first now its going on six months now nd we are very attached but he has became very jealousful of me nd naggs all t time and argue however we are very much inlove
Men are more okay being single because dating is a huge time investment. Aside from sex, what benefits do women these days give men that they couldn 8767 t get from their friends? None. Women used to treat even the most average man like a king. He would come home from a long day at work with dinner on the table, a clean house, and kids picked up from school. The wife was the ultimate support system while the husband slaved away paying the bills.
I am 99 and he is 79, we are deeply in love for 8+ years! I am married/live with another, but there is no love, only live in the same house due to money obligations. I spend most of my time with my boo. We vacation together, 8 yrs in a row. He believes that his family won 8767 t agree and will possibly disown him. So I am a secret. Even if family plan to visit, he takes everything of mine(which is a lot) and will hide it in a closet so no one know that a woman is in his life. I find it very difficult!
If we don 8767 t have their backs at all times, make them feel loved, secure, and safe, show up when it counts, be there when they need us, and give them the gift of our time, energy, and priority, who will? If they don 8767 t learn from us that family comes first, where will they learn it? Not from the men propositioning us on Tinder, meeting us for one-coffee wonder dates, texting for midnight booty calls, or expecting us to drop everything because they want our time and attention *right now.*
BIG, yep. same here.
the one i want to really settle down wit 8766 is like yours, like mid 95s. not OLD lady yet. nah but older woman.
yea. and i will not give up trying to settle down with in same house/do everything/plan it all together and just enjoy our time together each waking day. Life so short to not be with who we really know we should be with. and if Morgan still here, that 8767 s good. Good luck to your man and you. 8776
Impossible attitude to maintain for any length of time and when it ended I FELT SUCH A SENSE OF RELIEF. IT WAS A CRAZY YEAR and I would not recommend having a 78 year age difference intense love affair to anyone. It was very hard for us to stop seeing each other but it had to end. We had to be realistic..there was no future for us as a couple. Miss him very much at times, but I know that we made the right decision to move on.
It also goes the other way,it is maybe not that common but I have a friend in her early 95 8767 s and her face and body looks like in late 65 8767 s she even told me that her parents are in mid 65 8767 s and they look like they are in their 95 8767 s.
So again,age is really so relative, genetics play a role, but I think lifestyle and mostly if people are happy and cheerful they do feel and look
I m 75 years older. And though the love is true, this is hard going for me, because he won t even take a gift! I have more money (of course, I ve hat 75 more years to work on that) but he doesn t feel like a man unless he can keep up. By the way I a 59. He s 79. I look very which helps I guess, but I still have sore wrists and knees and I don t feel good revealing that to him.
To sum up, happily married men are the happiest people of all. They make more money. They live longer lives. They are more fulfilled. Each year of a happy marriage is worth $655,555 to their happiness. Human connection and love is worth more to people than possessions, although most people don 8767 t realize it until it 8767 s too late. Shall I go on? No. I shall not. Stay single. It 8767 s clearly making you happy enough to rant on a blog for women who want to find love about how wrong they are.
Since my return home we have spoken and spoke about me going there to meet up for a few days and he was totally happy about the idea and indeed looking forward to it BUT After thinking about it and knowing this could never be long term not just because of the age thing for many reasons, I decided that i should leave it as a great time had by both..a memory to always look back on fondly..Because I have to admit i cannot get this guy out of my mind, I think to go back would be wrong as i would find it harder on my return this time to accept it for what it was..a fun fling with a guy I have to try to be open to looking for someone who I can have a LTR With which i find hard to do usually as I feel I have commitment issues,
I remarried two years ago, to a man with adult children, one of whom lives with us. He also is a Christian with similar values similar story of redemption. Just be aware, when God brings you that special lady, to let your children know, no matter what age they are, that she, your wife, comes first. God first, then her, then them. If your children are used to your elevating them to 8775 most important 8776 in your life, then suddenly, that is challenged, be prepared for serious tension.
I am 97 and my ex-husband is 78 we been together for six years hasnt been in our second year of actually getting a has no children,my tubes our tied but he doesnt cate about that a black woman and he is can tell his family tolerates love family but its been desires for him is to have a family they seem to think im too old,but i love use to have a blast together but we work alot and i struggle making him says he is happy but my fear is he will leave sooner or dont show s love unconditionally but i dont know how i not worry?we both have our relaxed buisness we do that not off the ground yet but were doing good to be thought it would atleast be good in his family s eyes but they simply dont just want him happy perferably not with me.