Posted: 2017-09-11 16:39
Except right out of the gate you are making an assumption about how people spend their time, what they eat and what they do based on nothing but their body. I don t have more than a single drink maybe twice a month, I barely eat any junk food, and I work out consistently, and yet I m overweight. And that s why the whole you re making a choice is disingenuous and unrealistic, because sometimes, there are more things required than just simplistic A, B and C to get that kind of physique.
I agree with benh57. I too don 8767 t look at profiles that have sexual usernames and if I see a pic of a woman wearing a baby doll,thong, in bed trying to look naked having the blanket go just low enough to give the idea or anything, anything that would be demeaning not only to herself but to other women, I keep going and in the off chance I get contacted by someone like this, I don 8767 t answer. I guess it because I was raised to respect women, admire them for who they are, not what they look like and to cherish this blessing we men were given when God made woman for man.
Nowadays it 8767 s very,very hard to find a woman with decency, morals and value.
Hey, I just wanted to say thanks for all the advice here. It was a pleasure to read. A friend of mine has been struggling with his profile, and was convinced that he was the reason he wasn 8767 t getting much interest. I 8767 m never for tricking anyone, but I told him online dating is as much about advertising oneself as advertising a product, you have to be thoughtful with what you choose to put out there and how you represent yourself. We 8767 re working on a profile together now, mostly cause I insisted he let me try to help before closing his down for good.
please note that the person with all this stories is a staff working with privaterecovery or bestrecovery who now breakup from them and now have his own site, all this sties is to kill the image of privaterecovery or bestrecovery because his own keylogging site is not patronised beware of fake and bad people like him, because he personally right back to him introducing a new keylogging site to me which happens to be his, but i don 8767 t use site and i don 8767 t have such time
But frequently the person contacting tech support is not the decision maker on buying software. Ideally, the software company should be able to contact the purchasing decision maker and say the equivalent of, 8775 Your contact person is being gross to our tech support people. Fix this. 8776 In our org, this kind of behavior from the tech contact towards tech support would be dealt with pretty harshly. Not sure if this would work with other organizations though.
The thing is, the way evo-psych attraction is presented is usually there is one universal standard of beauty that is hard wired by biology and if you don t have it, you re Alone Forever. This leads to things like relatively normal guys blaming their lack of dating success on the ratio of their jaw width to chin width (true example) or guys insisting that all you need to score mad babes is to get jacked like Wolverine (also true example, both former commenters here) and act properly ALPHA. It reduces attraction and by extension all human interaction into a simple deterministic set of check boxes.
The funny thing is my experience was almost the other way around. Being body conscious enough to cosplay in spandex 65-75 years ago but not being a body builder was enough to put you in that gray area of presumed gay until you hit on a woman. So there was a certain pressure not to be feminine by putting a lot of effort into your looks, especially for a long haired, soft faced skinny guy.
Yes, part of the issue is that Hugh Jackman is a naturally skinny, pretty man, which makes him, physically, completely wrong for the part. In the source material, Wolverine is short, stocky, and at best, sexy-ugly (think modern-day Mickey Rourke, James Woods, or Edward James Olmos). Admittefly, he magically rises to be exactly one head taller than any woman he s drawn standing next to, but canonically, he should look and sound less like Hugh Jackman and more like Glenn Danzig or a more buff Michael Wincott. He s not supposed to be a GQ cover model like Cyclops, Angel, Iceman, Gambit, and pretty much every other X-Man. Casting someone with Jackman s frame is squuezing a square peg into a round hole.
Now that you mention it, Jane doesn t really have any traits that make me think of her as a scientist. Which isn t to say that she should have to be a stereotype, but I think it s symptomatic of her not having many traits at all, unless they re strictly required by the plot. She doesn t seem to have hobbies, it s not entirely clear what she s been doing professionally since meeting Thor, it s not entirely clear what about her makes her enjoy the more colorful characters who are shown as being her friends and loved ones. I think she s one of the blanker slates in the MCU despite large roles in two movies, which is a shame, because it seems like the concept of astronomy grad student who stumbles into a world of mythology and magic could have been used to build a more interesting character.
I don t see GQ or Esquire running any articles about which brand of SPF 55 you should use to get than milky white skin all year round just so you can look like these desirable men. Men s Health and the like are spending far more time on the Marvel Studios approved type work out. But I think this goes more into how women do more to reinforce women s beauty stereotypes (and men to men).
The same compassion for those seen as weak creates political correctness, which constrains discourse and is complacent to the extremely sensitive PC-authoritarians that use violence and shaming to advance their cause. While Google hasn’t harbored the violent leftists protests that we’re seeing at universities, the frequent shaming in TGIF and in our culture has created the same silence, psychologically unsafe environment.
• Reverend Dr Michael Bernard Beckwith speaks on Wed evenings and Sun mornings at the Agape International Spiritual Center in Los Angeles. You can either watch the livestream or go to watch from the archives right now for no charge (perhaps the Nov 9 service will be of interest lecture starts around 56:55). He is one industrial-strength wallop of inspiration and the best living orator I know. The services are spiritually-oriented and non-denominational. I think of it as church for people who don’t usually go to church.
I couldn 8767 t agree more. Whenever I hear of these 8775 alternative 8776 dating lifestyles (., perpetual, not just a fling every so often) I see damaged people or people lying to themselves.
There 8767 s also damage/risk from the practical side of such arrangements the proliferation of STDs (esp. HSV-II and HPV) and previously curable STDs are coming ever more drug-resistant.
But it IS unrealistic. For people who don t enjoy working out. Jeez dude, I don t get why that s too hard for you to understand. You saying it s not unrealistic and then listing a major major caveat is contradictory. It is unrealistic for many of us. We aren t complaining that it s unrealistic for the people for whom it s possible. For actors paid to look the part, for people like you who love working out, no one is saying, Isn t it a pity that people who enjoy working out and are paid to do it cannot possibly get cut. It s unrealistic because not everyone is YOU. And there is a value in complaining that society has set these expectations up for EVERYONE. Not just YOU.
The same thing applies here as well. A woman who gets jumped in a dark alley doesn 8767 t deserve it. But, if she can avoid the dark alley, and save herself an assault, she is better off. And, women in the workforce don 8767 t 8775 deserve 8776 the garbage they get, but some tools to protect themselves and minimize the problems still put them in a better place than they would be if they just waited for all the guys around them to change their ways.
I have admittedly not watched enough Agents of Shield, so to me he s still just meh. I think, though, that this ( m not really one for the clean-cut office manager look, but Coulson as a character just rocked it to the point that, yeah, hot. ) definitely shows how looks are not the end-all to attraction. That s kinda how it is in real life, too. I have definitely dated (read this: had hot, steamy sex with) and have been seriously attracted to men that if I had just seen a photo of them, I would have breezed on by. But OMFG, they were so competent and collected and smart and awesome and TAKE ME NOW.
with that said, Anonsie 8767 s post, which is awesome, is a reply to mine, and contains the word 8775 you 8776 85 times. Observer 8767 s post, which is also a reply to mine, and is full of good suggestions I 8767 m already following, contains the word 8775 you 8776 69 times. do you honestly believe this was the universal 8775 you 8776 and not pointed specifically at me as an individual? i don 8767 t see how the context of the messages supports that conclusion, but if that is your interpretation, then i can understand and accept it.
I value diversity and inclusion, am not denying that sexism exists, and don’t endorse using stereotypes. When addressing the gap in representation in the population, we need to look at population level differences in distributions. If we can’t have an honest discussion about this, then we can never truly solve the problem. Psychological safety is built on mutual respect and acceptance, but unfortunately our culture of shaming and misrepresentation is disrespectful and unaccepting of anyone outside its echo chamber. Despite what the public response seems to have been, I’ve gotten many personal messages from fellow Googlers expressing their gratitude for bringing up these very important issues which they agree with but would never have the courage to say or defend because of our shaming culture and the possibility of being fired. This needs to change.
if senior mgmt. won 8767 t do their jobs, i 8767 d say it 8767 s time to take more drastic steps:
6. turn on logging for all chats, or use some other method to ensure every single word is recorded
7. instruct operations staff: as soon as a customer makes an inappropriate remark, turn that call over to mgmt. when this happens, mgmt. needs to advise the customer the comment was inappropriate and refuse to do anything to address the technical issue until they express their agreement to stick only to the technical problem. once they realize their technical problem is not going to be addressed, they will have a reason to cut it out.
8. if/when senior mgmt. doesn 8767 t back up the OP on this, make it clear that you have kept records of sexual harassment of both you and your employees, and you are doing what the law requires both to prevent a harassing workplace and to ensure employees know they are not expected by mgmt. to tolerate harassing behavior. if senior mgmt. still doesn 8767 t get it, it 8767 s time to hire an attorney.
We see these men lionized in television and film, on magazine covers and billboards a look and lifestyle that is literally marketed to us. Gerard Butler 8767 s Leonidas in 855 is the cinematic ur-example you don 8767 t get much more alpha than the totally jacked king of the Spartans but the Internet provides its own real-life swole-models. Witness the so-called 8775 King of Instagram 8776 (there 8767 s that 8775 alpha 8776 leader title again), Dan Bilzerian. His Instagram account is photo after photo of Bilzerian shooting guns, partying with porn stars, lounging around his mansion and private jet.