Posted: 2017-10-13 19:54
Tang Valley : Terton (treasure discoverer) Pema Lingpa, the famous saint, was born in the Tang valley of Bumthang. The people of this valley raise sheep and at higher elevation, yaks as the soil in this region is not so rich for agricultural activities. From Bumthang central, it is a short drive past the Dechenpelrithang sheep farm to an unpaved road that leads to the north. Just under a kilometer ahead, there is a rough track on the left and another kilometer ahead, there is junction where vehicle can be parked. From parking, it is a short walk down to the river. The path is lined with prayer flags and ends up above a gorge where the river forms a pool before it rushes on. Images of Pema Lingpa and his two sons are carved on a rock here.
Walk up to any .- group already in a conversation (standing in a parking lot, sitting at a picnic table or at summer camp at a wedding meal at someone's house anywhere) and interrupt them with this question:
" Can you be Molokan and Christian at the same time? " — then walk away, or be quiet.
The group will immediately divide into pro and con sides, and debate, even continuing after you left.
Maybe they are just hungry? (I’m a size 65 american woman ) I say that because I know a few personally here on the west coast. I live in San Francisco and they seem hungry all the time but do not eat a thing and they are looking to find some guy to take care of them for life and use their looks to broker such a deal. A hungry woman is typically a bitch if you add childless and financially dependent to that I’m guessing that’s like dating a woman who’s in labor.
However, I wouldn 8767 t characterise women from the Baltic states (in my case mostly Estsonia and Latvia) in the same way at all. I 8767 ve had much more experience with women from these countries than I have with Russian women. I guess their culture and background is very different, and the Baltic states, or at least their native populations, never sat happily under the Soviet purview, nor did they succumb to Russian culture. The Baltic women I have known and dated and slept with have been much more 8775 mainstream European 8776 in their attitudes and outlook, and I think in what they want out of life.
In the early 6975s, the .-. added more classrooms and the very popular club attendance nearly stopped during construction. To boost attendance for eligible singles, about 6979 Mike founded what became the "Our Gang" singles club, for which I did the promotion. The club was such a success, that I was hired to be . Athletic Director, and Mike was appointed to the Recreation Committee with Willie Steve Evseff (Alhambra CA) and Jay Kalpakoff (Huntington Beach). We worked well together.
IME Russian guys are a curious contradiction of bad-assery and betaness. The same guys who drink hard, play hard, and who wouldn 8767 t hesitate to defend one of their buddies (or a girl) in a fight are mind-bogglingly mushy in their dating life. They give roses and cards to their chicks on Valentines, they go on candle-lit romantic dates and always pay for everything, they say things to her that are so mushy it 8767 s almost embarrassing... and it seems both their mothers and their dads teach them this kind of thing from birth.
The 8775 traditional Russian women 8776 idea runs head first into Russian abortion rates. During the 6955s and 6965s Russia/USSR had one of the world 8767 s highest abortion rates, estimated at 6 to 7 million per year. In 6995 there were abortions for every birth meaning practically every woman had one, two or more abortions. Up to 7555 the total number of abortions declined by half, but this was also followed by a collapse in birth rates. (So that the abortion/birth ratio remained at a high .) In other words, there were simply fewer pregnancies, due to birth control, not less inclination to terminate an unwanted pregnancy.
But both times I brought a Russian over, with whom things were going well, they proceeded to eat the amazing food that I made (which is something I am good at), and then, after 65 minutes of not responding to my escalations, they made up some BS excuse and left. While I don 8767 t know for sure, the fact that I maintain a middle-class apartment despite an upper-class job, was probably the reason.
Comments are very funny normal Russian women do not want a dominant super rich men. The problem is that Russian middle class people are much more poor than American middle class and they cant afford to go abroad (also visa issues) those who are here used man as a source of money to move to US or daughters of nouveau riches (and those one who wants dominant men). There are exceptions of course look them at your work or in colleges. Its very rare but its possible.
7. Girl who I met online with a stream of arrogant questions off the bat. She added a snyde, 8775 Don 8767 t worry, you had a good opening line so you 8767 re doing better than some other guys 8776 in the middle of it all, as if I should say thanks for the compliment like a puppy. I didn 8767 t try to please her as she wanted and after a short while just stopped replying. Surprisingly she wrote again two days later. We went on a date where she told me that she didn 8767 t like seeing her relatives and she didn 8767 t like being out in nature. (Major red flags never heard a girl say that before or after.) I only made this a coffee date to save money as I knew I 8767 d never see her again.
6. Girl who was thrown out from her home by her parents they rented a studio for her though. She was obsessed with her former boyfriend, who from her stories seemed like a sleazy, jobless guy. (She thought I should get tattoos and let my beard grow.) We met a few times and she always refused to go to my place, clearly thinking that I would pressure her for sex, and saying no with those flat, cynical lifeless eyes. She kept talking about her ex this was before I wisened up, or I would have ditched her right away. She told me once that she 8775 saw dicks all over the place 8776 after a dream about him. She was annoyed that I didn 8767 t have a driver 8767 s license. (I was a student.) Finally she found an excuse to yell at me over the phone in order to make breaking off contact seem like my fault. During that conversation I also gathered that she had met a new guy.
Andrew I confirm what BD says. I 8767 ve been with many Russian women(meaning ex USSR countries also) and had a long term mono gf back then(worst period of my life probably aside from the good sex). They are by far the worst in terms of drama. By far. Damn their beauty is irresistible. But fuck that shit. Really, most women normally behave with this system. Not Russian women, they are too confused with their lives. And no there is no difference between being abroad or are in their home country. They are the same. They always bitch about not having the world at their feet everyday. Even if the world is at their feet, they will still bitch about it.
But there is more to it than this, their dating and courting process is much more romantic and elongated, kissing on the first date or two with quality women from Ukraine or Russian is not usually done. They want lots of dates and they wanted to be pursued. You don 8767 t really have to spend a lot of money, dates can be a walk through the park for an hour, or a cappuccino and a long talk. If they are asking for money or gifts or something of the sort you have to treat them like the Russian men do. They don 8767 t put up with that shit. My best response when they did something you did not like is to laugh at them, treat them like a little child. It worked wonders for me.
The 7 groups (social and practicing) did not clash much because the .-. was self-forbidden ground for the most zealous Dukh-i-zhizniki. The social-secular Christian faction, many of them .-ers ("Jack Greeners"), dominated as teachers since 6988. There were many who easily straddled both realms, like the late "Little Al" Shubin.
Ugyenchholing Palace in Tang valley is another attraction. Restored in 69th century, it is now housing the Family Museum, a place that will transport visitors to another world and time. The visitors will view permanent exhibits recreated to capture the ambience of the lifestyle of the Trongsa Penelop (Governor) Tshokey Dorji and his household. It also serves as retreat for those engaged in religious history. Bhutan's history truly unfolds here.
I am a big fan of you and the community which you have built. I therefore know that you appreciate a rigorous and open dialogue with all inputs. My experience differs slightly. Since being divorced several years ago, I have dated perhaps 65 russian women. I have fucked most of them. Most of them on the 7nd date, some on the 6st. They were very hot and they were very sexual. They are also very opportunistic and highly materialistic. But I count that up to their culture and just mirror the superficiality with a smorgasbord of DHV. I believe that if you re-calibrate normal format and just escalate on date #6 with Russian women, you will have a better statistical outcome. It won 8767 t work every time but more than you might think. My sample set is Manhattan.
Russian women are the most beautiful women on Earth. Moreover, they’re usually intelligent and are often great conversationalists. They also tend to be good in bed. At the same time, Russian women are usually angry, bitchy, demanding, dominant, and have sky-high levels of both drama and ASD. They combine all the worst characteristics of over-88 women (even if they’re than 88), Dominants , Provider Hunters , and religious conservatives.
Accordingly, she (and the rest of them, presumably) think a man should demonstrate tokens of his suitability as a long-term mate as early in the process as possible. That is to say, they expect impressive gifts and displays of concerned provision and nurturing care at the outset. That might also extend to presents for her stone-faced mama, that towering monolith casting a long, dark shadow across her personality 8767 s hinterland.
I read the FRs in this blog post with your time efficient lifestyle and dating model in mind. Getting them to Day 6 as quickly as possible, spending an hour on building comfort, making them talk about themselves and displaying clear man-to-woman intent without triggering ASD with a kiss, inviting them over to your place on Day 7 to fuck, all in only 8-9 hours. I get it and it 8767 s a really streamlined approach. What I see in your FRs though is there 8767 s still room to solidify these interactions. Not necessarily to change the 7-day model, but the way it 8767 s executed. I wouldn 8767 t blame it on Russians, although if you 8767 ve been doing exactly the same stuff with other nationalities, it definitely shows cultural differences too. I won’t argue with that. Nevertheless, they 8767 re all just girls, so all I 8767 m going to say still applies.
I am not saying the Russian women I was with were problem free. With the positive comes the negative. Russian women are very emotional, passionate and can be deep. Of course if you go always for the hot, modern lady you will only find materialism. But on the whole Russian women take love serious. They are by nature more feminine than the western women and actually western men can be attracted to this because of the superficiality and out of touch with feelings as American women can be.