Posted: 2017-10-13 23:08
I don 8767 t know if this is the right topic, but I 8767 d like to ask something
Ik was told that he needed time, I gave him that. He literally told me 8775 I 8767 m so busy right now, can we pick things up in about 8 months? 8776 I asked what it would change and got no answer.. I sent an occasional message, got short replies back Then after 8 months I asked if he still wanted to pick things up. He said no and gave an excuse 8775 it 8767 s too difficult 8776 then I got 8775 I have no time 8776 so I asked if he was worried that he would give up the stuff he likes to do. Then he got mad and said that I didn 8767 t understand and that it stops now. I then said that if he doesn 8767 t like me as a person and doesn 8767 t want contact, that he should say that. So he said 8775 not interested and no contact 8776 I get this and leave him alone Why would he feel the need to send a message after that to hurt me by saying that I keep on texting ? I 8767 m not retarded, I stop when they ask me, all I wanted was some clarity. Why is that difficult? He hurted me more by not telling what he wanted
OK I need advice. I have this crush and I don 8767 t know if he likes me but I was getting information through my friend who was also my crushes best friend (kind of obsessive I know but I 8767 ve been friend zoned for three years) but my friend recently confessed his feelings for me I love him but I love him as a friend and I don 8767 t know what to do because I can 8767 t ask him to play detective because that is a really horrible thing to do to him and I don 8767 t know what to do. Help!
By our sophomore year, we had located an affordable apartment that we
could share. We each had separate bedrooms plus a kitchen and a living
room. The rent was more than two dorm rooms but we had much more
privacy and less noise. Since I didn't have to worry about one of the
guys getting into my stuff, I loaded up all of my clothes from Aunt C's
and moved into the apartment full-time.
hi I 8767 ve been dating this guy fr two weeks now,we haven 8767 t had sex or wat we just h asked for sex and I just didn 8767 t go for it coz I tot its too soon for us den yesterday night he was just acting h just broke up with me telling m he 8767 s got stuff going on in his life he 8767 s trying to fix himself but he just couldn 8767 t so we should step down cause he Dont want to hurt me because hurting me would hurt should I do am confused 🙁..
At the beach, there was almost always a dance or something going every
night. Michelle and I would dress in light cotton dresses, sandals
with no hose and go down to the dance-hall. We'd usually stay until
about 66 pm. Michelle would end up dancing with every boy in the place
while I watched from the side. At first, a lot of boys asked me to
dance, but I didn't really know how and really wasn't interested in
dancing with boys, especially slow dancing. After a few weeks, they
stopped asking. Instead, I watched the band and dreamed that I was one
of them up on the stage.
Hi Tegan. seems like this guy really cares about you but he is trying to speed up the break up process. And the only thing I can advise you to do is to end it with him in good term. The fact that you want to work things out with him over the summer is antagonizing for him since your practically making it sound like you are playing with his emotions. to make it simple, he sees it this way 8775 if you cared to be with him, you would not let him be alone 8776 . I am not saying your cruel but based on what you explained, that seems to be the case with him his point of view.
to add on today he walked with us and started off with 8775 how r u? 8776 and victoria told him but i said nothing. he smiled at her and turned towards me and asked again. later on my cousin said she felt awkward walking with us cuz she said we kept talking to eachother and barely talked to her and is saying we are perfect. i like this guy so much since he, as i mentioned, is funny. we talked about everything from being tired to all the singers we hate (ADELE)
So obviously there is this guy, and we are pretty great friends. We don 8767 t have any classes together, but we do ride the bus together. We are a year or two apart, him being older. In the mornings, I sometimes catch him looking back at me (In a effort to make me laugh, he does it all the time and knows it doesn 8767 t take long for me to realize) and we will just smile at each other. Before school starts we 8767 ll sometimes talk to each other, sometimes he seems to sneak up on me by surprise. After school, he 8767 ll be waiting outside of the bus for me and walk with me to it, insisting I sit beside him. We always chat, and lately he has taken to ticking me in mini-wars. Very funny! He baked me some cookies for Valentines day and when will sometimes randomly pat my head and mess with my hair. I just can 8767 t tell if all of this is just his way of being my friend or if he likes me! My friends think he does, and a few people on the bus have commented that we seem to be really, really good friends.
There 8767 s this guy that I have known since 6st grade, and we 8767 ve always been on good terms with one another. I asked him to a dance last year, but he cancelled a few weeks before saying how he wanted to wait to date, but that if he were to go with anyone, he would want it to be me. now here we are a year later, and when we text each other, he seems really flirty, always complimenting me, saying we should talk more, etc. But what has me confused is, I 8767 m always the one that texts him first, it 8767 s never the other way around. What does this mean? Am I being pushy by being the one that texts first? Help!
Beth, I completely agree that being in an affair is wrong but, I am also aware that people make mistakes and have done things that they regret. Telling people off about what they have done won 8767 t fix anything and it won 8767 t erase what happened. You haven 8767 t walked in her shoes so don 8767 t be so quick to judge her. There is a major difference between giving people advice and making people feel like shit. Also, I pretty sure this woman was asking for Eric 8767 s advice not yours. As for the woman who calls herself damaged I would like to tell her that what she has been through does not have to define her as a person. She is a human being and she deserves to be respected. My only advice to her is to A. Not get into another affair, B. Remember that this man that she had an affair with does not deserve her and C. Please try to figure things out with your husband especially since you have children. I can tell you that divorce aucks ass for kids a lot of the time. I would know I am a child of divorced parents. Whatever you do please have your kids best interest in mind.
Super sorry but I forgot to mention that we have known and gone to the same school since preschool so 65 years 🙂 and lol I think he liked me in preschool too 🙂 and he always smiles at me 😉 but I 8767 m super sad cause we are going to different high schools next year 🙁 and I had his number but we both got new phones and I 8767 ve been kinda to shy to ask for it again but when we did have each others numbers, he got a concusion so he wasn 8767 t at school so I texted him 8776 where were you today 8776 and then he told me about his concusion so I repiled 8776 aww now I feel bad for you :( 8776 and he wrote 8776 naww don 8767 t feel bad for me 8776 is that a good sign or what?? Sorry I 8767 m bugging you about this so much :/ please reply though 🙂
Hey, great article! The information here goes both ways, doesn 8767 t just apply to men but to women too. I broke up about 9 months ago, I have been single since then, and honestly I want to be like this for a while. My new gain freedom feels so good! Been experiencing new stuff, including dancing classes and don 8767 t need to report to anyone. Or hear from a girl, 8775 - Oh now you 8767 are in a dance class with just women! I don 8767 t want you there! 8776
well I have this friend he 8767 s just like my best friend we 8767 ve been friends for 68 years now well we were separated for 9 years but found each other again it so happened that I had a boyfriend by then and he had a girlfriend(we were in love for years but none had the courage to tell the other) it so happened that my boyfriend got me pregnant then left me after learning that my best friend apparently saw me through it all now she 8767 s 6 months,however my best friend says he 8767 s not in love with me but he gives mixed reactions he cares for me so much he says he can 8767 t stand losing me, he is always missing me and likes teasing me a lot,he plays father figure to my daughter and always trying to attend my important occasions he broke up with his girlfriend is he really in love with me?
I have a big crush on this guy. He 8767 s actually my neighbor. He 8767 s really sweet to me and stuff like that. The problem is my friends asked him if he liked me and he said no. I 8767 ve been taking a lot of quizzes about this and most of them say he likes me back. The thing that Is throwing me off is that he is complementing me in soccer, no one else just me. And he makes direct eye contact and smiles when I 8767 m around. Sorry I this is too long but I need ur help! Oh yes and we also text alot and he often asks what we should talk about now signaling that he likes talking to me.
he eventually contacted her asking her to 8775 help 8776 me (Him to her: 8775 she is not eating or sleeping don 8767 t know who to ask can you take her for walks and food she won 8767 t speak to me she is angry with me) she instantly said 8775 i have no idea what you 8767 re talking about.. i heard she (meaning me) 8775 lost it 8776 on a few other friends, call me 8776 (with her number) they even tried to plan an 8775 intervention 8776 to 8775 help 8776 me (this was all of course just an excuse to contact each other neither attempted to actually help me At All).
He looks at me a lot
His friends look at me with a grin
He smiles at me whenever i am around and tries to hold my gaze but i often neither smile and even break the eye contact 6st
He once got red when i entered the class and stopped talking to his friends
He once was looking over and over again at the door with a tensed face and when i entered the class he looked relaxed
He once laughed very loudly on one of my most silly jokes and even he tried a lot to make me laugh
BUT HE HAD NEVER TALKED TO ME OR MADE A MOVE
Does he hate me or does he like me comment please please
I like to smile at him in those instances in class web we HAVE to work with each other, but I think I might have said something to make him mad. A male friend in my class (he 8767 s not into me) wad trying to prove that my crush wasn 8767 t attractive to the entire female population of our school. This was several months ago, so I was still a new student. When he asked me if I found Anonymous attractive, I told him no (downright lie, now that I think about it), and my crush heard me.
i just started talking to this guy about two weeks ago now, we work together…he told me i have pretty eyes, im pretty, im mad cool, a fun person to hang with.. he even paid for me on our date at the movies. the first date was at a fair and he asked for my number at work that day and we went on rides and had agood time..the second date was the movies and i laid on his shoulder and we hada good time, he paid for it all..walked me to my door and NO KISS…then we hung out at the mall a few days ago and when he left..NO KISS, just hugs…he said he likes me when i asked but idont know..thing is im always texting him first and it makes me think he dont like me..but once itext him we text for hours.. what does anyone think???
About a month ago he texted me saying he was thinking about me. I was curious so I replied. Apparently he had been taking care of his mother during the last stages of cancer and was doing a lot of self-reflection. He wanted to apologize for the way he acted in college. We started talking everyday from when he woke up till I went to bed. At one point I was going to visit him and stay over. I realized I had feelings for him and told him I didn 8767 t know if it was a good idea. I asked him where this was going, but he said he was just 8775 conversing 8776 with me.
Things were coming full circle. I, a transvestite, was the child of a
transvestite. How could he (she) do this to me! Then I realized this
must have been why she allowed Aunt C to raise me, to allow me to find
my own course in life without any inadvertent influences from her.
Suddenly I felt a need to embrace my mother.