Posted: 2017-10-13 19:03
right? 8776 he said, I just shrugged it off. The first week or so it was awkward, like dating your brother. After a month or so I started falling for this boy. Two months in and then came the bad news. 8775 Do you really have to go? 8776 I asked him, come on you all know you 8767 ve asked once or twice. So I packed his bags, because lets face it, the boy can 8767 t pack, and I watched him say his goodbyes to his family. I was the last person he hugged. They got a picture of us hugging, me bawling my eyes out, he was impatient with a hint of excitement and worry, and his recruiter in the . I hate that picture. I couldn 8767 t watch the car drive away.
Ok sorry that didn 8767 t come out rite not sure where the cussing thing came from maybe a previous conversation What I was trying to ask was what are some specific ways that you feel respected in front of guys and what best to say and do to make u feel respected. What kind of compliments do u think are best? Your hair looks epic, nice shoes cool hat sweet car u r very nice Generic compliments or specific straight up ones Sorry for all the questions it probably sounds like I never interact girls lol I am trying to counteract the negative and demeaning things I hear about girls so often with some positive input I do try to be a gentlemen at all times especially around girls so just looking for some great ideas. Thanks!!!
Last strange thing that happened was we were gonig out for a quick drink after work and when he calls his GF to tell her she basicly gives him some lame story about it 8767 s windy outside and she is worried about him driving with high winds so he should leave immediately home (we are in California. I kind of figured it was probably me so I was cool about it and told him I apologized if I sent the wrong vibes but, I would never disrespect her that way. Which is true I don 8767 t date guys who aren 8767 t single never have and never will. Anyway, I had to pry the truth out of him because he was at first lying to me by saying he had a problem at a rental house, that his car was acting funny but, after I made him relax he tells me it 8767 s his GF and the wind story. Next he invites me over to his house to hang out the next day becasue he wants to show me his motorcycle and other stuff becasue he can 8767 t come into the office the next day. I had to be a little blunt and told him we didn 8767 t know each other well enough for me to be comfortable comeing over to his place (especially after what just had happened).
There 8767 s this guy that I 8767 ve been (best) friends with, and like others, he stares at me. We 8767 re in the same classes and whenever I catch him looking at me, (I think) he grins with big eyes right at me to cover his caught action. (Doesn 8767 t want me to know that he 8767 s staring at me???) He also tries to hold my hand when I 8767 m unaware. I don 8767 t even know what he wants, but could anyone answer this? It really bugs me. LOADS.
Hehe also it seems like he is very confident around his friends then when he 8767 s around me it seems like he 8767 s toned down or something.. And I know that my feelings for him are true cause it 8767 s been a year that I started liking him and I still do 🙂 and 7 days ago he was in my class during reccess trying to get this bottle from a boy in my class and so they were like 8766 fighting 8767 for the bottle and the one I like was like hey 8775 my name 8776 😛 get the bottle for me so I grabbed it from the other boy and gave it to him, so what I 8767 m getting to is that he asked me to do something for him so is that a good sign?? Btw he knows my name but I 8767 d like that to remain a secret 🙂 and last year when we sat beside each other he would always make his knee touch mine and I never pulled my knee away and he didn 8767 t either :)) good sign??? Please respond cause I really want him to like me or I really would like to know if he does like me before our grade 8 grad cause there 8767 s a dance during that so I 8767 d kinda like to dance with him :)))))) thx 🙂
My sis says:
6. Someone who respects her enough to listen to what she says one guy earned her respect by backing off when she asked him to
7. Guys who still show chivalry one guy in this teen group we 8767 re in always opens doors for the gals, lets girls go first in line even gives up his chair if there 8767 s not enough for everyone. This guy has it figured out!
We soon wanted to see each other. But my family didn 8767 t like the idea of me dating an american soldier. So we just booked the flights for me to visit him, without telling my family. I know, an 69 year old girl flying over 9555 miles to meet her 79 year old american soldier boyfriend for the first time sounds a bit risky. And it was risky. I mean, it was the first time for me to be in the United States and the first time for me to fly alone. About a week before I left to see my boyfriend in Texas I told my family. They were pretty pupset but I told them that I would do it anyway. No matter what they 8767 d say.
I I really need to talk about this, it 8767 s bottling up inside me.
I have never liked boys but for some reason I have always pretended to like them
There was this girl, Nawel, I thought she was beautiful, I would stare at her and then I would blush all over. I think I was about 67 at the time. She was so pretty and smart and funny. I liked listening to her voice. It would make me feel butterflies.
My friends would sometimes ask me if I liked a boy in our class or at school. They would ask which one I liked. I didn 8767 t understand why they asked me that. It would bother me and I would just blurt a random name to please them and then sometimes I would stick with it and pretend to watch him at recess or ask my friends what I should say to him. I always felt a little sad when I did that.
yesterday morning i suddenly got a chat message from him (even though i was offline) saying he was sorry he missed me the other day on chat, but is now out of town on work and is back next week and that he had been sick in between which is why he didn 8767 t call. hmmm..i didn 8767 t reply because i don 8767 t know what to say. everything sounds wrong. and excessive, given where we are at the moment. i can 8767 t say that i am not hurt or confused. i am. yet, i like him enough to give him a long rope.
Yesterday at work, I wasn 8767 t feeling was waiting to clock was walking by to go bag, and then he looked and saw stopped and said 8775 Hey,(used my name) But I didn 8767 t asked if I was okay, I smiled, but didn 8767 t say started walking over in my direction, but I pulled a way a said 8775 8767 m getting a drink 8776 And I I noticed I was blocking the responded. 8775 Oops, sorry. 8776 He asked again if I was feeling said 8775 Yeah, sure. 8776 He touched my shoulder and told me to let him know.
Hey y 8767 all(: I 8767 m Tabitha. I 8767 m the girlfriend of a . Army National Guard soldier. He left for Basic this morning and his flight leaves at nine. I 8767 m sitting at the airport while he is on the plane and I am looking out the window and watching his flight take off to Fort Leonard Wood is one of th ehardest things I have to do. And for the rest of you going through this here is our story(:
But by morning, he was cold as ice again and wanted me out of his house and out of his life. He was raging about it too, and was resentful. I left because I was late for work, but he has ignored all contact since. It 8767 s been over weeks. I know most would write him off as a jerk, but I really, truly fell in love and love him so much, especially since I got to know him when his heart was open.
Hi my bf just graduated basic training and I went to visit him graduation weekend. It was extrememly emotional leaving him but while your bf is away doing this for himself you don 8767 t need to bring your life to a hault. He would want you to better yourself as well, I still am extrememly sad about leaving my airman but I know I need to stay strong for him and support him. If your bf writes you or calls you need to be there to support him because this is just as hard if not harder for him than it is for you. I know you want to be with him everyday but just look forward to the day you get to see him again dont depress yourself. He needs you.
no point in waiting around for him. it hurts but often we miss out on happiness because we 8767 re too busy looking at the pile of sad that we want back so desperately. even if things were great and it happened out of nowhere, realize this: he dumped you. he was willing to take the chance to let something go meaning it wasn 8767 t worth it to him to hold on. do yourself a favor and do the same. someone who just lets go for good does not see the value in you as worth it to keep. I wouldn 8767 t trust him. his behavior sounds confusing though i have no idea what he even said. still, move on you 8767 ll eventually be happy you did.
I don 8767 t know if this is the right topic, but I 8767 d like to ask something
Ik was told that he needed time, I gave him that. He literally told me 8775 I 8767 m so busy right now, can we pick things up in about 8 months? 8776 I asked what it would change and got no answer.. I sent an occasional message, got short replies back Then after 8 months I asked if he still wanted to pick things up. He said no and gave an excuse 8775 it 8767 s too difficult 8776 then I got 8775 I have no time 8776 so I asked if he was worried that he would give up the stuff he likes to do. Then he got mad and said that I didn 8767 t understand and that it stops now. I then said that if he doesn 8767 t like me as a person and doesn 8767 t want contact, that he should say that. So he said 8775 not interested and no contact 8776 I get this and leave him alone Why would he feel the need to send a message after that to hurt me by saying that I keep on texting ? I 8767 m not retarded, I stop when they ask me, all I wanted was some clarity. Why is that difficult? He hurted me more by not telling what he wanted
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Thanks for the comment.
So I am in grad school for psychology and there are not many guys around, but there is one guy in particular in my program I can 8767 t quite read or figure out. He was the TA for 7 of my classes and he is a year ahead of me in school, although he is actually 6 years older than me, but anyways. I have had so many interactions with him that baffle me that I don 8767 t know where to start. But in general I usually see him at school or at school functions. My last name is Justice and I had a conversation with him once about my last name and how people always make a big deal about it bc we are in a forensic psychology program. From that point on he started calling me 8775 Justice 8776 . He will shout across the student lounge to say hi to me, he also calls me 8775 kid 8776 if he doesnt use my last name. He is a very friendly person and says hi to everyone, but he seems to make a big deal out of saying hi to me, at least I think so. Also when ever I talk to him he always shares a lot of personal information I didn 8767 t ask for.
Then, suddenly it started, we 8767 d have silly bantering and teasing back and forth, make silly bets (an action which is not exclusive to me, he does that with a lot of people), he 8767 d tell people like my boss behind my back that I was great at my job (he 8767 s in the same rank as my boss) and he 8767 d compliment me on my looks. He said I was pretty twice, once, when I was asking him a question one on one and he ended it with 8775 By the way, you 8767 re very pretty today 8776 and then once more, in front of a lot of colleagues he jokingly told everyone that the room was filled with ugly people, except me, who was pretty. At one point, one colleague pointed out that he liked teasing me, he just shook his head and said 8775 Yeah 8776 in the most cutest awkward , he offered to make me coffee when I was sick at work, which I declined because I just felt it would be unacceptable to have someone on a boss level making coffee for me. By this point, my attraction towards him has turned to a mad obsessive crush.
k so im not old enough to date but if i was. i think when guys are good at playing with little kids its a +6 cuz then u know that they would be a good father (looking into the future) and also when guys respect me in front of their friends by not putting me down by trying to be funny and when guys are gentlemen (. opening doors, not being rude, etc.) listening is important it makes us feel like u care. being comfortable and confident in who they are, not dressing like a slob, especially to things like church, i get it when ur going to get dirty and stuff but by even just wearing like a collared shirt and jeans to church is nice. and complimenting us and meaning it! thats huge it makes us feel loved and appreciated, but not rude compliments like genuine things. thats just a few of many things hope it helps. (oh and most of that was for dating but it all pretty much applies to everyday life and friends too!)
In summary, you have been with this man for eight years and then he cheated on you, you gave him another chance, now you suspect that he is doing it again and on top of that he has a drinking problem and you feel worry that he will have one more DWI and that he will be locked up. This is a mess !!!! you are right, this is not a way to treat a woman and he is opening the door for you to set you free from this madness.