Posted: 2017-09-11 18:01
True in large cities people are in a hurry and maybe not friendly but rest assured most Americans when unhappy don 8767 t walk around smiling and concerning themselves with your welfare. If I ask you 8775 How are you doing? 8776 it is because I am letting you know I care about you as a human being. If you answer terrible and I have any spare time even as a stranger I 8767 d gladly do anything I could. This is real happiness and warmth that comes from small town America. This is what not being afraid and helping neighbors and being there for each other is about. Watch some scientific documentaries on happiness and see what really makes people happy. Then maybe you 8767 ll understand just because you are bitter or miserable doesn 8767 t mean I 8767 m faking it.
prejudices.. I think that it 8767 s kind of true that we are generaly more beautiful, but all those demands? All swedish guys are not like that, some maby, but some ways 8775 foreign 8776 guys are sometimes is not very nice -like we would go all the way in one night- we are not that slutty. And all girls are not blonde, we have a lot of different haircolors, it mey be so that we have some kind of blonde orginal color..
swedish girls are very unsure of them self, we are very fixated with how we look and with our weight
Well spoken Sapphire, but I think there 8767 s one way to even top the foreign man. 8775 How? 8776 I hear you ask. By finding a Swedish man who 8767 s spent a lot of time abroad, thus learning about chivalry and grown a pair of balls. These men are simply as good as they get!
To begin with it 8767 s awesome to be involved with someone foreign, but you know what? Down the line it just gets annoying and difficult, regardless of country they 8767 re from. Nah, my advice is to find a 8775 världsvan 8776 Swedish bloke.
I 8767 m so happy i found your blog. It makes me feel so good reading all those commenta about other tall girls strgglimg with dating all around the world. (Im from Venezuela, 68 y/o, 5 8767 8) the guy that has had my heart first time is shorter than me but it sorprised me when after complaining all my life about short guys when he came into my life i didnt even cared about height, and i think thats jusy purely love. So being tall taught me more to be a better person than i expected. Cheers to all my tall sisters out there! You are not alone! (Find me on insta and tell me you come frome this awesome blog: mariagabrielamh ) TALL AND CURLY I LOVE YOU AND I LOVE THIS BLOG
My main question is would a Switz girl about my age be attracted to a guy who has these type of characteristics? I am a little tan due to me being spanish I have a body ,a great personality, a good heart, I dance salsa merengue bachata reggae house, techno . is playing but my advantage is dancing and respect. What does a guy like me need to have to conquer and have every man 8767 s dream a switz girl??
Well with so many women that now have their Careers today are a bunch of Narcissists, Greedy, Selfish, and very Power Money Hungry too which Most of them really Believe that they're all that since they really do have a very serious Attitude Problem which they really do need help very badly. Online dating really Sucks to meet a Good woman these days which in the Past Most women were Definitely much Easier to meet at that time and had a much Better Personality compared to the women of today which is why many of us Good men are still Single today which Most of us are Not really to Blame at all. Women today do want the Best and will Never settle for Less at all which it is very Sad how the women of today have really Changed.
It's hard to drum up a lot of sympathy for the girl in the article. Yes, I totally get they are getting messaged by jerk guys sending them pictures of their junk, or sending them stupid and worthless messages asking for a hookup. Those can be creepy, and don't often happen in real life. But the other messages of older guys or losers telling them they are "hot"? That stuff happens in real life also. Older pervs hit on women all the time and loser guys hit on women in rl and tell them they are beautiful or attractive. They can handle this stuff in rl but can't handle it online? It's more disturbing for this to happen to them online than in rl? Sorry not buying it.
I love this comment Henriette. Just made my day. I 8767 m just shy of 5 8767 9 dating a man who is just shy of 5 8767 8 and given that my previous mates were mostly upwards of 6 feet (some as tall as 6 8767 6/6 8767 7) I have all these hang ups about how my boyfriend needs a foot stool to get to the top shelf in the kitchen and how we are eye to eye when I wear heels Mostly it 8767 s honestly the attitudes of other women that really get me down To date I 8767 ve had at least four people mention his height to me and how they only date men over 5 8767 66. (And that 8767 s why they 8767 re still single ) and then I remember how wonderful my partner is he cooks, he cleans, he 8767 s generous and always thinks of me before himself, he 8767 s got a good sense of humour, he 8767 s fit and takes care of himself and he enjoys the outdoors as much as I do we share the same passions and have the same life goals These are the things that matter. Not whether he needs a stool to get to the infrequently used plates.
At the prompting of some friends, I joined OkCupid. The first guy I went out with (the one who didn't send me a dick pic) was a pedicab driver. He brought his dog to our date. The dog was wearing a dress. Over the course of three cocktails, the guy told me he owned a ferret and kept chickens. In his house. Indoor chickens. No second date. But, it turns out, driving a pedicab gives you incredible glutes and thighs.
Women dont send dick pics to guys. That's why we are not creepy. If men didn't immediately make everything sexual they might have better luck. I never get guys that ask me about my interest or hobbies. A lot of the men are their own worst enemy. Its their APPROACH that is not working. Guys rant in their profiles. They have few good clear photos or they choose photos with other women in there (and dont crop them out). Most guys put very little effort into their profiles and then they are shocked women aren't interested. I've also had guys get angry because I didn't respond FAST enough. A lot of men come across as bitter, self-absorbed, shallow, perverted, womanizer. They can be the nicest person but if they display any of those qualities they wont get the time of day.
The second guy from OkCupid I went out with was Omar. On his profile, he was this beautiful Hispanic man with giant muscled arms, thick dark hair, and beautiful dark skin. In real life, he probably had been all of those things about 65 years ago. Still, he was cute enough. And into me. Even though he said he usually "liked his women dumb." We didn t really hit it off. On the way home, he sent me these flirty texts about how he wished he had his arms around my "thick, hot body" and what he wanted to do to my "thick little body." I read it and was all, "Thick?! Did this dick call me fat?!"
Dating taller men boils down to physical attraction. I 8767 m 5 8767 9 8798 & didn 8767 t date shorter men or even men my own height. Men normally don 8767 t date women that they don 8767 t find attractive either based on height, weight, hair color, boob size, eye shape, etc, etc. Height is just one of numerous physical attributes that determine physical attraction. If you 8767 re a tall (or short) woman & don 8767 t want to date shorter men, don 8767 t. Who cares if it shrinks your dating pool. The article basically says change what you 8767 re attracted to & that isn 8767 t realistic. I 8767 m married to a tall, dark & handsome man. 🙂 And he 8767 s about the shortest man I dated at 6 8767 6 8798 .
After reading all these comments you must think, 8775 damn, how do Swedish men and women mate and have lots of babies? 8776 I wonder that too, and I 8767 ll put the blame on the dark swedish winter and the bright swedish summer. You also must think that Swedish women hate their fellow men. It 8767 s part true, more Swedish women are interested in foreign men than they are in other Swedes. Boredom, lack of balls, and overall disappointment are contributing factors.
This article is infuriating because it is dumb, based on no factual evidence and sexist. how can you write up on your findings of what women and men in general experience when you have interviewed only two people- people's differing experiences are nothing to do with whether you are a man or a women.. My advice to anyone who has ventured into the world of online dating DON'T BOTHER - it's cold, calculating and not natural!! You are better than that :)
Eric: Yes. Stop ignoring all of us. You know, guys get accused a lot of being superficial and basing everything on looks, but I can&rsquo t help thinking that most of these women just file quickly through a guy&rsquo s photos and then fly right on to the next one without actually getting to know what the guy is like. It&rsquo s so frustrating, because you know, I think a lot of really nice guys out there could make for amazing boyfriends who would treat these lonely, single women like they deserve to be treated. Instead, you know, I think a lot of them are still hung up on hunting for the bad boys, the smooth-talkers. I don&rsquo t know what more a nice guy can do, but I do know it would be nice if some of these women would at least give us a chance to show what we have to offer.
I have enjoyed everyone 8767 s thoughts. I 8767 m a single American woman interested in finding a loving mate to start a family with. I 8767 ve been contemplating doing the online dating thing, and I 8767 ve been trying to identify the characteristics that most appeal to me in men. I 8767 m tall, athletic (in spite of my relative inactivity), blue-eyed, and physically a bit of a throw-back to my Swedish great-grandfather 8767 s family. I 8767 m really a Northern-European American mutt.
Been there,done believe when we are confident and secure in our own person that we realize our height is just one of the beautiful and unique qualities God (and genetics) blessed us we can open ourselves to love,no matter what differences may 8767 t miss out on true love just because they don 8767 t fit your ideal dream man 8767 s desired height will never be petite,but I am tall,proud, have a husband that makes me feel feminine and sexy,and am well loved by 7 sons,family and wouldn 8767 t give that up for anything.
Ok guys. I have no idea what the other women's profiles look like. I post decent pictures but average on purpose. All I seem to get are the men who I wouldn't ever go out with. Don't take this wrong but their photos are terrible. Maybe good for a desperate woman. Fix yourselves up! Look good. I mean really it is hard to judge a book by its cover but you can at least try. Enough with the bathroom/gym selfies. Macho look at me or a beard down to your chest and beer belly aren't going to cut it no matter how awesome your profile seems. When you message us be cool about it. Don't come across as desperate. My problem is I'm good looking and they won't look past that to see the real me inside. You know the type. The women that you say: you are so beautiful. Why are you still single? Because no one takes a chance to get to know us except for the creepy guys. I don't understand it. Maybe the guys I'm attracted to don't want someone like me. They want an average woman. Can anyone make sense of this? If one more guy asks for a nude photo or worse sends me a pick of his junk I'm going to scream!!!
Come on! Dating is not a sport, if you think it is thats probably where you are going wrong. Find someone nice who likes you, thats all. If someone is not interested in you then its not because Swedes are hard work its because they are not interested in you. Move on to someone who is or make yourself more interesting. Swedes look at each other, you, they linger with stares. It couldn 8767 t be easier than to approach a Swede.
Yeah, online dating sucks. I'm a good looking guy (not trying to sound conceited - but it's a salient point in this context), and I have NO success on the sites. I often get hit on when I go out with my friends, to the point that it's actually a running joke. Yet no girls - I mean none - respond to my messages on dating sites. And my messages are absolutely fine. Never creepy. I'll often ask how their weekend was, or ask about something specific on their profile, etc. Totally normal stuff - yet - responses. It's madness. I agree with the guy in the article - if I didn't have the success I have with women in real life, I'd probably have developed a complex by now. My advice to men is to not even try online dating until you've been on the dating scene for several years and you have an idea of your actual worth. Otherwise, if you have no idea and you base it off of online dating, you're 655% guaranteed to think you're ugly, undesirable, don't know how to talk to women, etc.