Posted: 2017-10-01 13:24
Instead, get to the root of who you are and what are looking for. If you are a Conservative or Liberal, then say it upfront. If religion is important to you, say it. If you need someone to be taller, tell them. If there are things you consider 8766 deal-breakers 8767 , then you should say it. Who cares what someone thinks of you if they are not a match? The point is, get to the point about the things that are most important to you right off the bat.
FACE We want to see a picture of your face without being overly made up, with a smile, and not a grainy, unclear photo with bad lighting. I might stress the 8766 overly-made-up 8767 part. We don 8767 t want to see duck face, weird angles, or funny snapchat filters. We don 8767 t need pouty, moody or other types of expressions just a smile. And you should include at least two different face pictures that were taken at different times, but taken within the last month.
Just cause I like In and Out doesn't mean you get away with that on our first date. Fatburger should do the trick. Really, any place that you think is cool is probably cool by me, as long as I can have a mojito (or two) and not find myself looking at my watch every ten minutes. Make me laugh, you'll win my heart. I find that most "bad boys" don't have much of a sense of humor, so you guys can spare yourself the time of writing to me. Thank me now - I'm saving you money.
What makes any female dating profile great is the fact that it stands out from the rest of the profiles on any given online dating site. It doesn 8767 t blend in. It 8767 s not generic, neutral and overly politically correct. It doesn 8767 t describe you with overused adjectives such as 8775 intelligent, compassionate, educated, and independent 8776 and it is free of boring statements that say nothing such as 8775 I am as comfortable staying in as staying out. 8776
as a straight man, doing the on line dating thing is very hard. you really do not know about the person that you are talking too. it is very scary, but it seems the women that i have talked to play games and it is hard to have a conversation with them. i have heard a lot of horror stories about on line dating. the best way to meet women is to be introduced to them, through a friend. i go out a lot and always seem to meet women that are very nasty, and have a very bad attitude as well. many of them are real basket cases, and not worth meeting at all.
6) Women decide if you 8767 re interesting or not in seconds. They literally check out samples of dating profiles ! And let me tell you: they 8767 re turned off when they smell you’re wearing “Desperate Dude cologne”, which is when you’re WAY too serious throughout your dating profile. They cringe when they read profiles that say “I’m looking for Miss Right.” Maybe you’re a looker too, but women think about dating in a more casual way. They want to see if there are interesting guys around, but that’s it (for now). Don 8767 t be a looker, show you don 8767 t take yourself too seriously.
I don t see anything wrong with a woman stating that she wants a financially secure guy..after all, for many of us, its a requirement!!!..Am yet to meet a woman who says she s looking to shack up with a broke a$$ guy!..To me, she appears very candid and honest and I d much rather that, than pretend that I couldn t care less about material things, when to most of us, that really matters!..Don t ask women to lie about what they want. They should be confident enough to ask for what they want and be ok with getting it.
OK Ladies, I am going to give you a male 8767 s perspective: Most guys dont want to know how successful you are or how spontaneous you are. They definitively dont want to know you if you are sarcastic. Most guys want girls who are feminine, nice and sexy. If we want interesting conversation, we can hang out with our buddies. Why not make it sound like you are easy to get to know? We dont like jumping through hoops trying impress. Just keep it simple and sweet.
Photos are the first impression of the online dating game, so have several photos of different situations. Some photos of you displaying your talent, you visiting a famous place, you and friends, you acting crazy (not drunk, I said crazy!), and so on. This way, you show a woman several sides of yourself and women want a REAL man. One who can both be sweet and tough, classy and straight up goofy, etc.
Use the above profiles as an inspiration for your own dating profile to make it more creative and more interesting. Remember, quality single guys that you are looking to meet are more picky than others. Many of them are looking for a special connection with a special woman. If you know how to and are able to communicate through your dating profile that you are not just another average girl, it will significantly increase your chances of meeting better and more interesting men online.
Indoorsy but likes to go out – This is
important. If you say I am outdoorsy but enjoy staying in as well, it means
that you are a more outgoing person (introvert vs extrovert). I personally prefer a woman who is more of an
introvert (reads books, stays indoors, watches tv etc) opposed to outdoorsy (going
hiking, is into health and fitness, always on the go). I’m confident that there
are better ways to express the above points, however this is just a quick
example. Again keep this in or change it to reflect the above points.
“A profile would not be a reliable indicator if a woman has it in her.” This article is about what women should say on their profile. As a male, I am recommending that if she does hold some traditional views (enjoys cooking and is willing to clean) then she should clearly state them on her profile as these traits will be highly desirable to males. It will also change her original persona from the usual narcissistic woman to a “nice girl with traditional views.”
65) Use a photo of something crazy: I don’t know a single person on earth who does NOT hate the obligations and routines of everyday life. Pay the bills, make dinner, that lame desk job at that stupid company, and so on. An exciting lifestyle or situation gives women an escape. All of us crave that escape, so include something exciting on your profile and women will be attracted to you because you can make them forget all about the everyday life boredom. Start using this in your online dating profile examples, so the stuff they will get to see.
It 8767 s true to an extent but you can 8767 t automatically assume that just because someone says she likes to travel, she is materialistic. First, who doesn 8767 t like to travel? We all do. Secondly, this doesn 8767 t mean that she expects you to pay for everything or for her share. Lastly, there are different types of travel some are very costly, while others don 8767 t require that much money. Not every vacation requires a 65 hour flight and a luxury hotel. A quick getaway in a car for a night or two can also be considered a getaway.
If I had to write a list of things that I, particularly, find un-charming, I’d put offensive language, vulgarity, bad spelling, and bad grammar on the top of the list. And somehow, these things occasionally find their way onto people 8767 s 8767 online dating profiles—which makes me scratch my head and wonder how on earth this could possibly happen. Why would anyone want to date an offensive, vulgar person who has problems communicating effectively? Why would anyone want to present themselves that way?
Granted, we live in a world of Facebook and Instagram, where everyone is interesting, spontaneous and 8766 lives life to the fullest 8767 . Everyone is brimming with positivity, and wants to be with someone like that. Everyone wants laugh all the time. We all are super fit and eat super healthy except that we also enjoy an indulgence every now and then. We all want to fulfill our 8766 bucket lists 8767 and do exciting thins and travel the world. Many women are looking for their Unicorn.
The 77 pictures of you at different sights around the globe, the 65 pictures of you doing every extreme sport in the world, and all of the amazing pictures of you with your three best girlfriends We can do without these. I get you think you are impressing us with your worldliness, but it comes across the wrong way. I get that you are daring and the most interesting woman in the world, but somehow I find it hard to believe that you live your life that way considering you have 8 kids. Either you are a terrible parent or you are overselling your level of excitement for life. Tone it down.
Sure, most men are not into art. My suggestions were mostly geared toward those women who look for men who are above the average and who are not run of the mill average Joe from those women 8767 s perspective. I would hope that there are enough men out there who are above that line who are interested in art, philosophy, etc. This is extremely subjective of course, and there are plenty of girls who don 8767 t care for it.
9. Traditional roles – exactly
right, that is why I rephrased it to “like to cook and don 8767 t mind taking care
of the house hold.” By saying “don’t mind” you are showing that household
chores are not below you. It does not mean that you enjoy doing it. A man will
however very much appreciate the fact that you are willing to do it and will
offer to help out when he has time. Furthermore, it is a very sad thing that
many women these days think that cooking and cleaning is a bad thing. I
recently read a profile where a woman was apologising for being submissive and liking
to cook and clean (“don’t judge me but …”). When in reality they are the most desirable
traits that a man could want. Men allowed women to work so that they could earn
income to support their families during rough times. It was not setup so that
they could abandon their original roles as loving, caring and nurturing mothers
and switch gender roles. Again I would strongly urge women reading this to
leave it in if you can.
But one quick caveat… While you’d be hard-pressed to find better profile templates than these online, keep in mind they are still fill-in-the-blank profile templates. This means two things: First, if you use one of them, your profile could look strikingly similar to others in your local area, and that could obviously work against you. Second, a cookie-cutter profile is, by definition, going to be a bit generic.