Posted: 2017-11-14 20:00
I 8767 m so glad it 8767 s not just me who got that vibe from this letter. There 8767 s a deep dissonance between 8775 I am humbly accepting criticism and correction with grace 8776 and 8775 but you 8767 re all still wrong and filthy deviants who don 8767 t know as much about What God Really Wants as I do and need to learn to see things my way. 8776 The letter has both elements in plenty, and sadly for me the bad outweighs the good.
In addition, I 8767 m sending ultimate good feels to the OP I really am impressed with the dialogue she opened up, and utmost with how she handled the situation. Values aside (no cheekiness, there really mean that), I applaud your willingness to head-on confront opposition and find opportunity within, instead of doubling down. There 8767 s enough of that already in this life.
Thanks, OP. You didn 8767 t separate yourself from those who hold different values in fact, the opposite. You opened yourself up to the world or what part of the world is represented in AAM (my opinion that part of the world is awesome : ) ). I try to hold that same standard to myself, but it is so refreshing to see it done before me really helps open doors (for myself) to help others who don 8767 t share my values. Just, thanks : )
Fellows, sometimes women are exposed to certain acts of violence that leave them with child(ren) as the end product. Some women have psychological issues which contribute to them acting out inappropriately in the quest to fill a void intheir life and the end result could be child(ren). Sometimes, that child could be the result of your loving actions irrespective of how careful and responsible you are. I know, but I am not making excuses, in fact I am trying to think how I can justify 5 babies and 8 baby daddies in your early 75s..Anyway!
Hi Antonia,I am a Indian guy living in must say I am very impressed with the info you 8767 ve given seems from your article that Swedish people are highly independent and individualistic which I believe other nations should learn from you mean seriously,why should a guy pay the bills to 8775 be with a woman 8776 ?If the girl has any interest in the guy she would pay for her for one prefer dutch do not like women who like to find a man who could 8775 provide 8776 for am sick of this responsibility of a think Indian girls over here should learn a few lessons from their Swedish counterparts. Everyone has got the right to exist for their own do not pay attention to what other readers are article is fantastic and I would request you to urge all your fellow Swedes to retain this you heard it right,Its a VIRTUE not a VICE!
Personally I wouldn 8767 t try to replace my kid 8767 s Dad, and I wouldn 8767 t expect a guy I was dating to take over 8775 Daddy duty 8776 while being around my kids. However, realistically, if you 8767 re together long enough that 8767 s likely going to happen at least a small amount. If you end up living together and you walk in on a three year old about to smear paint on your tv, are you going to run up and stop him or just hang back and wait for Mum to come deal with her kid? If you 8767 re that against dealing with children, stay the fuck away from single mums, because I can tell you now they do not need any more heartbreak in their lives.
Honestly to tell you the truth NO RACE will want you after you dated a black guy. Because he was successful some might forgive however Im telling you no race including Middle Eastern or Asian and even your own will want you because you have it in your mind that you can save RACISM. Look just take the burden off your shoulders and go back to dating your men or other races THAN BLACK. Tell no one you dated a black guy and you will have a better life. I PROMISE you as I know what a lot of white women go through. Ive had many White girlfriends tell me they wish they didn 8767 t DATE a black guy rather someone of another race because there is too much contrasting differences. Good luck with your life and I hope you 8767 ve moved on I want you to be happy.
Having raised 6 daughter and 7 boys already and in the process of raising 8 more boys, I am petrified. I have 5 boys who have and will 8775 regurgitate his words from hell 8776 8 of those boys have NO basis to NOT think that sex before marriage is wrong. Its ok to not be married because parents aren 8767 t. Living together and even cheating are a way of life ingrained already. This 8775 Godly 8776 life is foreign. We pray and we correct and try to show them what life 8775 should 8776 be, but what if its not enough? They are good boys, they just need prayer, so please pray for my boys.
I 8767 ve been waiting for this update since it was noted that Alison had it. I 8767 ll share it with my high school kids tomorrow since they asked me if it was in yet. I 8767 m disappointed. You don 8767 t have to say the word 8775 whore 8776 for people to know you 8767 re thinking it. I 8767 m guessing the thought process you were brought up with still impacts your thought process today. That makes me sad. So while you 8767 ll remove the verbiage from your vocabulary, I hope you 8767 ll do some deeper reflecting and think about people beyond their dating/married/gender lifestyle. Everyone has something of value to offer the world and I feel like, OP, you 8767 re missing that based on the comments that you make about 8775 sexual deviancy 8776 8775 liberal Christians 8776 and 8775 immorality. 8776
We may not have drinking fountains labeled black and white anymore, but all we have done is remove the label. We don’t talk about it. We don’t teach it. But there are black neighborhoods and white neighborhoods, black colleges and white colleges, churches, restaurants, clubs, etc. Spots where the black people go and the white people don’t. It’s unspoken, but everybody knows. Well, everyone except my naïve self apparently.
Abstinence taught from a proper perspective does work. I know many women who have saved themselves for marriage. I married in my 85s as a virgin, so was my husband. Teaching abstinence from the premise as a way to avoid unwanted pregnancy and STDs doesn 8767 t hold water when a girl is in a compromising position. Everything she 8767 s learned flies out the window in the heat of that moment. However, teaching girls that a holy God commands us to live holy, and that sins of a sexual nature are sins against the body while all other sins are sins outside of the body and that immorality is, in fact a serious sin that the Bible says will prevent you from inheriting the kingdom of Heaven, not a 8775 mistake 8776 (that implies you were doing something right, when something wrong inadvertently occurred) this will set the proper foundation for abstinence training. Our people must understand that sex within the proper confines of marriage is wonderful and holy, but outside of the proper confines is dangerous and sinful.
I have friends who have been and assaulted. All by white guys. I 8767 m talking 85% of my female friends. Further white men systematically my ancestors and the ancestors of those who look like me on a regular basis without blinking and then came up with a dozen stereotypes to justify it. By your logic I should then dump my white boyfriend history shows white Europeans and their descendants are hyper violent. Everywhere colonialism has been there has been theft, mutilation, apartheid etc. Almost every single mass shooting in America has been done by white men. Historically Blacks, Indians, and others have more reason to fear whites than the opposite. However, this has nothing to do with your daughter dating a black man. You have decided that you believe all black men are vicious, and all black men are exactly the same. That is racist, that is bigotry. There is no way around it in the slightest. Having a black person you call 8775 friend 8776 does not eliminate the fact that you have a problem with black people.
I was recently in Stockholm. One day in the morning a very cute guy caught my eye in the train station. But I was too busy talking with a friend (we were lost, oops) and this guy appeared again from nowhere by our side, he looked at me and got out of the station. I was like 8775 ok, probably he is waiting for someone 8776 , and then, five minutes later, he did the same walked inside the station, looking at me, and went away. Three times. Haha!
Heres my situation, I 8767 m sorta seeing this girl from work im 75, shes 77 and she has a kid. We aren 8767 t serious, I haven 8767 t really asked her out but I did tell her I loved her. We have been messing around for a month or so pretty much just go over to her place to just have sex and talk, she wishes I would come more as I always wait until her mother and son have fallen asleep. I know im eventually goanna have to stop avoiding them both and say hi. I am not quite sure how to talk to a 8 year old in a cool. collected manner like what do I say and ask? 8775 im banging your mother 8776 ? please guys help me out
I was taught right from wrong, and I really wanted to be good and save myself for my husband. But I was permitted to date too and the standard was set too low. I was pregnant at 67. I married my child 8767 s father, who was a virgin until I tempted him, and we set higher standards for ourselves and our children. I was honest about my failure with our children, and explained why it is important to save yourself.
In my case, when he was 8775 so considerate of my time and feelings 8776 , it was that he was much more considerate of his time and feelings and extremely touchy when i started living with him. When I was meeting him for 8 years, before we decided to live together, he was really the prince on white horse for me, so adorable so adorable .. he was my dream. :/// and just when we started to live together i realized what the thruth was
So we didnt live happily everafter
The amount of condescension and tunnel visioned logic in this post makes me just chuckle while I shake my head in shame. The post starts with an incorrect premise that every American child is a middle class white mom blogging mini-van driving, 7 more bedrooms than you actually need, got a trophy for not even trying kid. The post does nothing to even identify reality and the various and difficult issues attached to contraception, promiscuity, and purity culture. News Flash: no two Christian denominations handle these issues the same way.
The reason for the skewed abuse rates are because a lot of abuse goes in reported. Due to the woman not wanted her spouse to lose his good job or wanting their kids father labeled an abuser. While that isn 8767 t considered if the offender is black. Which I don 8767 t care if they are reported because no one should be at on their spouse. Just don 8767 t pretend like a lot of these crimes aren 8767 t hidden or go unreported in staggering numbers.
When I lived in Italy, I often got approached by different men who wanted to ask me out. All kinds of people, too waiters, policemen, the guards at the Vatican Museums, shop keepers. This dating culture differs a lot from Sweden 8767 s, and it just goes to show that if you want to make it in the dating game in unknown territory, you 8767 d do well to find out which rules apply there first.
If you and the woman are just trying to have sex then you should not be meeting her kids. In the current day and age kids know what the hell is going on and that awkward feeling you get when she forces 67 yr old Johnny to go to bed so you all can make out on the couch is warranted. Women you gotta be smarter than this, go back to his place, keep your kids out of it, and leave the little ones with a babysitter.
Yes, and there is also the matter of whether or not they are united to Christ by faith at the time. Behaviorism vs a changed, indwelt heart, seeking to walk inWisdom vs folly, etc. I was always taught that sex outside of marriage is unChristian, but I was never taught why, not that it would have mattered, because I only thought I was a believer, but still enslaved to my flesh. It wasn 8767 t until around my 95th birthday when the Lord actually saved me and opened my eyes and changed the center and course of my heart and desires that it became very clear to me that I had been 8775 natural 8776 (not a Christian) all my life.