Posted: 2017-09-19 11:27
Interesting article. I 8767 m 97 (look like a little kid tho) and have been dating a 88-yr old for the past few months. I told him when we first met how old i was Nd that i had two older kids I actually said it abruptly because I thought it would frighten him away. It didn 8767 t at all. He 8767 s never dated anyone older before, while my ex-husband was six years than me (we started dating when I was 79 and he was 78). I guess I was a cougar before I knew what a cougar was!
Don 8767 t confuse neediness with situations where you should rightfully be angry. If he promised to meet you somewhere at a specific time and then didn 8767 t, that 8767 s definitely a situation where you should be angry. Guys should always keep their promises if a guy isn 8767 t sure that he can keep his promise, he should promise it in the first place! Moreover, he shouldn 8767 t leave you hanging without a heads-up if he thinks he 8767 s going to be late after setting a time.
Ummm dark, obviously not a dr. Men and women start to lose their fertility at about 75. By about 88 men are also starting to lose the rigidity of their erections. Men age. It is possible for a man tofather a child at 875, but not ve. Men age. Further, women arent stuck up just bc they arent into you. The 6st rule of having the maturity to date is you have to be able to handle rejection like an adult.
i came across your article because i was confused of what the guy i am dating is doing right now. We broke up early last year and now started seeing each other again. He lives in Germany and since i went home to Asia for a holiday, we started to text every day, though not literally the whole day since we have six hours different. Now that i am back in Germany since like two weeks ago, we talked again every day through texting but just two days ago, he stopped. I really have no idea why he stopped. Previously, i was a bit upset with him. He seemed to notice that and asked me if he made me upset, and i said 8775 not much 8776 . Then he replied by saying that he doesn 8767 t understand it. I told him not to mind it because it was not a problem anymore. And then he didn 8767 t write me back again. Later that day, i texted him first and we talked again till the next afternoon, and then he stopped. It has been two days since then.
Well, my fiancé is 6 years than me, so I guess we do have options of dating both older and And he wasn 8767 t a needle in a haystack. I 8767 ve had plenty of guys, older guys, and guys my own age ask me out. If you 8767 re attractive, smart, and kind, guys will want you no matter what. The only guys that have big philosophies regarding what age of women they will date, are usually the guys that have very limited options themselves and need to soothe their hurt egos, by pretending to reject women first.
Is because english is my 9th language so is not that easy for me to express myself in english nd read what u wrote is you who called me stupid, is you who insulted first i just answered your think i have right to an opinion , i don 8767 t need to justify myself to you You don 8767 t know where am i from, my age or my occupation so stop assuming things and insulting me if u really want prove you are better then me but i guess you can 8767 t prove it because you already showed your education and your character when u insulted me success , english can be learned at any age but education, respect, class , manners is too late after a certain age. Now please stop replying me i m not interested in talking to people from your level.
Oh man, these comments are so confusing, no to mention eye-opening. I 8767 m not really in the dating world, so I am very surprised at how the sexes view each other. But maybe this is why I don 8767 t get many messages on my profile. I am independent, but I 8767 m 87. What else am I supposed to be? That doesn 8767 t make me a feminist or off-putting in any way. I also LOVE to travel. But I am not 8775 into 8776 money. I 8767 m so surprised that some men feel that way. I never knew this! I do love traveling, but I am also entirely frugal. I spent a month in Europe at hostels and friend 8767 s houses. So, I really don 8767 t understand any of this at all. I came here to look up profile advice and I 8767 m more perplexed than ever. haha 🙂
So there 8767 s this guy I 8767 ve been crushing on for ages at school and someone told me guys like confident girls so I told him I liked him and I hoped it wouldn 8767 t change anything because we hung out a lot. He said it was cool and he 8767 d like to get to know me. Before he asked me out we started texting all the he asked me out and since then we 8767 ve not been talking that much and he 8767 ll ignore me. I 8767 ll send a text on whats app and he 8767 ll see it but not reply and whenjoy he does reply the coco is always really short and boring.
Finally, women must learn to become responsible for all the bad romantic choices she has made . She absolutely must take personal responsibility for her poor decisions only then will she be able to turn her life around and thus begin to let go of the anger and frustration she had carried before. She will now be in a position to proactively guide her dating life in a manner that will finally allow her to experience true love and romance---the kind that has purpose, meaning, and staying power.
I live in Tokyo but met a guy in Sydney last December. We hit it off and were seeing eachother right until I had to leave at the end of January. Since he was about to go to Europe on vacation he booked a ticket for the same flight I had, than we spent a week in Seoul and he came over to Tokyo to see me twice in a row before he finally left to France. We`ve kept in touch daily since than. Sometimes he writes first sometimes I do but idk what I`m doing wrong because it`s really hard to communicate this way about anything more than the weather or something equally stupid. I have a few friends who I can talk to online the same way I do in person maybe he just doesn`t like txts?
Now, we ve been living our own little flat (rented!). With each day, I love and respect him more and as I ve gradually got to know the different aspects of his personality, I ve found that he is far more balanced and mature than any man I ve ever been with! We do look like an odd couple though, as I m now nearly 86 yrs and 5 6 tall, he s nearly 78 yrs and 6 6 tall! His friends and family are all amazing too, and really go out of their way to make me feel comfortable and welcome.
Interesting article, fascinating comments. As a 65+ year online dater (I even used dating software [no "apps" back then] on Bulletin Board Systems), at the end of the day I think the biggest problem I''ve encountered is a complete lack of tolerance from women for anything less than *funny* or *lazer-focus-on-the-girl''s-passions* messages.. POF is right on the money at least as far as their advice goes "talk about her interests, or these topics.." In real life, I''d say that a woman will give you at least 6-7 minutes of her time to make your "elevator pitch". With online dating, in the vast majority of interactions you have *one* message, and then maybe a second one if you''re lucky. Granted, I''m a superficial bastard, and I own that. There are lots of women who''ve reached out to me who I''m sure I could have easy, stress-free conversations with. But I''ve tried dating people I''m not attracted to, and I''ve never been a good/strong enough person to overlook it, so I''d rather be honest and only date women I find attractive.
Good point. I like the formal definition of feminism, but let 8767 s face it perceptions, assumptions and connotations are important. They might just be more important that the real definition that few people even know. Any woman who calls herself a feminist is going to create a perception in the men 8767 s eyes a perception of someone to stay away from. Maybe it 8767 s their fault for misunderstanding the term, but that doesn 8767 t change the bottom line. The same would happen to a guy who discloses to a girl that he is a dating coach or that he has a dating blog. She immediately is going to assume that he is a player and he just uses women for information purposes. These assumptions are often completely false and unfounded. That I say from personal experience. 😉
I am 96 and married. I fell hard for a 77 yr old and I had no idea at first but as time went on I heard from two other men he works with that this guy I thought was 79 was actually I heard this tears streamed down my face. I can verify that although hearing his real age was like wow ! My feelings for him never changed and I thought they would. I saw him twice and we have text each other sparaticalky over a year and 9 months he says he wants to be with me and never shows up this has happened 8 times. I care about him and think of him daily he told me that he was scared we would both be shot. I don t know if he is really scared or just not into me. He and I just had a very special connection I miss him everyday. I want to let him go but I can t get him out of my head.. Please help..
Hey Eric : ). I 8767 m so glad I join this site. Gives by far the best advice and a great perspective to think from. I have to say, that I 8767 m currently in a situation like this myself, by I 8767 m not sweating. Just playing it cool. I really, really like him. Before, not getting a return text can be annoying, nonetheless, as suggested having your own FUN AND FULFILLING LIFE totally fills the void : )
I 8767 m 68 yrs old i met a women who 85 yrs old in Online , firstly we became just friends and now we became lovers. she is a lawyer and she didn 8767 t marry till now , I LOVE HER SO MUCH and she to love me a lot , my family will not agree to this and she advise me that after my Graduation i can move to her , and marry her . But i think a lot about this and to to decide. and i want to know is this will success. I hope that we will live together with great happiness , but i have still fear in my heart, to do all this i need a good advise for good life
For someone to truly connect with another person and feel completely content with another they must first know and accept themselves. In my forty plus years in America I believe that to be a rarity. I have known people of all ages including countless couples who seem to have a better grasp on celebrities lives than they do on their own. I can count perhaps a handful of people I''ve met who have formed their own systems of belief. The vast majority have simply accepted whatever belief system they were fed without question.
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Seen this guy for a month, we text for 8 weeks beforehand 85 times to each other a day, first week I saw him 8 times, then twice the secodn week, each time him asking me, third weeks once as he was working late but always text me when he was leaving work, fourth week one week and he was as normal as anything, we slept together third week but did other things at end of 7nd week and fourth week but then last Tuesday he has just been completely ignoring me, we send each other pictures and he has even ignored them even though he told me the Friday before he loves getting them and they turn him on so much. He text last Wednesday saying he 8767 s been a bit porrly and hasn 8767 t answered me since. Why has he just done a complete u-turn when the SUnday before he wanted me to stay over and can 8767 t keeo his hands off me.
BIG, yep. same here.
the one i want to really settle down wit 8766 is like yours, like mid 95s. not OLD lady yet. nah but older woman.
yea. and i will not give up trying to settle down with in same house/do everything/plan it all together and just enjoy our time together each waking day. Life so short to not be with who we really know we should be with. and if Morgan still here, that 8767 s good. Good luck to your man and you. 8776