Posted: 2017-11-03 02:31
Another funny thing is that the media 8767 s concerns are really not generally anyone I 8767 ve ever known in the 95 states I 8767 ve been to concerns. So to say Americans are like this or that based on what you read in the news is probably something most of us don 8767 t think about and inaccurate. Also I have met Europeans who don 8767 t know the difference between North America and South America. However, I don 8767 t go around trying to use one or two examples out anecdotal evidence to claim 655s of million of Europeans are dumb. This behavior actually makes you look dumb. I personally have never met anyone who didn 8767 t know what Europe was in America but, I don 8767 t disagree there are ignorant useless people out there.
Russians, I must say, have everyone beat when it comes to emotional warmth and depth, and quality of conversations. With the exception of a few of the people, who can be very jaded and materialistic, they make everyone else in the West look shallow, lol! And they 8767 re FUN and energetic! I did find the concept of 8775 fun 8776 to be a bit lacking in Sweden. Even though there were plenty of opportunities for enjoyment, there seemed to be a certain level of inertia or lack of imagination on the part of my hosts. Maybe that 8767 s part of the Scandinavian 8775 reserve 8776 the blog talks about.
I met a Swedish girl last week and I thought she was 76 but she turned out to be much older. I was amazed because she looked amazing! I never would have thought she was the age she was. This was my first time going out with a Swedish girl and she is very tall and beautiful. I was pleased that she was so nice and down to earth. When the bill arrived she offered to pay half, but I payed for it because it is the man 8767 s duty to pay for the first date. It 8767 s refreshing to go out with a girl who has traditional values and not the baggage that American girls have. Hopefully, we will go out again and she can stay in the . with me. :)
Hi again...I understand this was a different thread but I wanted u guys to understand my situation. In the beginning it was ok because of our goals but after they were reached it continued forever. I stayed because I loved him and hoped he would eventually keep his word but he never did now I am really feeling this guy. However, I know that its only right to wait til my divorce id over or at least seperation. I guess I am just really confused snd wanted to share with you guys..thanks for listening to me
Gee this site has been posting since 7565
My family has a swedish background i may not be a fully swedish but i have swedish traits. i dunno why i adore swedish girls but its mainly got to do with blonde hair and blue eyes, in which i have but a brown blonde. I been looking into chatting to a swedish girl since yesterday cause i learned about whats happening guys taking on old genetics. You swedish girls are very beautiful and soo nice ive heard about the marriage rates it seems love over there is a lost meaning.
I am a 78 year old blk man. Im tired the lack of options i have with women my age. Maybe its because I have an old soul and ahead of my time. Anyway I m tired of looking its getting so old. So I find myself paying extra attention to older women. It s this older woman maybe 95-95 at a local car parts store that I see. I think she is sexy..she is really kind with the sweetest voice. She always calls me babe,doll, and baby when she rings me up. Because of age difference I would like something casual. I didn t notice any rings on her fingers. I jus don t know if she is into guys at all. I know I have to ask to find out. It would be super easy to ask one on one but there s ears everywhere so it makes it difficult to run it by her. Eventually I will though.
Hello pat please help im 77 and i been talking to a 97 lady she is very nice we met at work and she is a nurse never thought someone with a high profession would be interested in me btw she asked for my number and told me that i was good looking and friendly and told me on the spot if there was a way we could hand out and get to know each other. Well everything is great untill i saw her daughter and i kinda got attracted she looks just like her and she shows up at her job and stares at me alot i dont know if they been talking or if she is physically attracted to me Well she wants to go bowling and she is bringing her daughter she invited me and it looked like it was going to be a weird night i have no idea what to do from this point foward any ideas would help thanks pat
Thank you for sharing your experience. This proves yet another important point. Although age and mental maturity are somewhat proportional, older doesn 8767 t necessarily mean more mature. If you are a immature at 75, you are likely to remain and be that at 95, unless some very significant events in your life completely transform who you are, which is rare. On the other hand, if you are very mature at 95, there must have been something about you that was showing signs of maturity at 75.
I m 79 and dating a 88 year old. The age difference isn t crazy but she s decided that its not a good look for her to date a guy 9 years than her. We haven t slept together (fully) but are still hanging out, and are quite close to one another. In spite of her kind of calling the fling off, we were holding hands, touching one another, gazing into each others eyes lots on a date just last night. I wanted to kiss her the whole night but didn t find the courage. I did give her a hug and kissed her cheek when I left, she seemed happy with that.
Hello Dear, in terms of the age gap we are almost in the same situation. I am 86 and my boyfriend will turn 76 in November! and we ve been dating since August 7567. Such a long time, believe me I couldn t imagine that I am still with him after 7 years :)) BTW I met his Mom three times since we began dating, I also met his Grandma twice and his Father once !! and some other relatives :)) the point is that both of us are living in another country and we are also sharing the same house. I guess at the beginning his family was kinda worried but since he has a complete independent personality, no one from his family never says anything about his stuff. consider that his mom is too she is 96!! what a coincidence !!
It is more interesting to know about the perception and practice of dating community in Europe than the blog post on Swedish girls. As an Indian I could say that three is a definite biological divide between men and women. Understanding, supporting, appreciating and respecting each other and their values is the bottom line of success in married life. Legal rights and liberated thoughts do take the backbench and will not contribute to conjugal happiness.
I am a blogger I need material on the subject 8766 Dating and girls all over the world 8767 . I would appreciate your real life contributions. Thanks and regards.
Thank you, Vernon. Your comment is especially encouraging because of all the articles I 8767 ve done so far, this is one I kept telling myself I shouldn 8767 t write. I take writing seriously and my goal was to share not only what I see here, but my honest thoughts and experiences. I know that writing this article may cost me some friends, I know I 8767 m sticking my neck out. But there is a phenomena occurring here that is too easily judged on a superficial level. It 8767 s too easy for some people to think it 8767 s just about sex when the reality is that people here actually do 8766 walk the walk 8767 when it comes to respect for parents, being faithful in marriage and loving their neighbor.
Talking to a friend of mine recently who lived in Sweden. He said sex is easy to find, but love is not.
Apparently if you meet a women in a bar, if the conversation is going well after a few drinks, it 8767 s perfectly fine to say 8766 you 8767 re cute, let 8767 s go back to my place. 8767 I 8767 m told they prefer that instead of, 8775 let me get your number, or let 8767 s have dinner sometime. 8776 I wouldn 8767 t be that up front with an American women due to the inherent 8775 I 8767 m not a slut 8776 mechanism developed from our Puritan ancestors. But with a Swedish woman, should I be that forward? I 8767 m going out with a Swede tomorrow, who 8767 s visiting the states for a few months, and I 8767 m simply looking for something casual.
Ok, here it is I just turned 96 and he is 76. We just met, but the connection was wonderful for both of us. My issue is that my daughter is 76, and I am not sure how I feel about that. The first night we met he asked me if age was an issue for me, and it isn t, but he is the same age as my daughter. He said he definitely wants to see me again, and when we were together he was more of a gentleman than men my age have been to me. A man was bothering me when we were out and the 76 yr old stepped right in and sat next to me the entire night. I was amazed at the connection we can t wait to see him again!
Most of the things here is true, about the girls. I actually thought of all this as bullshit until I actually traveled alot and realized that girls in Sweden actually is the most freaking sexy in the world. But the facts about the swedish dudes, not true. For example: We get more social when we drink(who doesn 8767 t ?), but we are absolutly not incapable of having a conversation. THe only thing here that 8767 s actually is completly true is the look of the swedish people. They are very good-looking, both men and women. And everyone loves to party
I never planned to be in love, at my age, with someone but it happened. 8775 We 8776 are in love, and that is all there is to tell. He has decided that he wants what we have together. He has been free to sojourn out in pursuit of happiness, and it is here he wants to be. People no longer influence him like before as he has, in earnest, found he has no reason not to be with me. Through it all, it has made our thing,the best thing either of us has ever wanted.
I would be careful calling yourself very, very successful too as this might make him or any other intuitive and perceptive guy roll his eyes so to speak. You can imagine how this can be construed as sign of insecurity. I doubt that even Oprah Winfrey, Martha Steward, Sarina Williams and alike refer to themselves that way. I doubt that it matters to a 78 year old guy who is into sports, school, etc
This age gap doesn t work, especially for a man and an older women. Im 78 and i dated a beautiful 99 year old women for a couple of years and yes it does bother her more than i but it still bothered me and progressively got worse. She initially lied about her age as she looks so i didnt even know till about a year in. Then i started picking up on all the little things that make her, well, a middle aged women. Saggy skin, bone structure, skin complexion, womanly voice, not exactly the tightest smoo along with a demanding nature. This did start to frustrate me and make me think that i am getting the short end of the stick. I am glad i got out of it.
Really like this post, I have recently turned 95, am divorced and have older children and the last 5 years have chosen to stay single, However I recently met a guy who is 76 years than me whilst away on business and we spent a wonderful week together, He was smart, hot and well educated and had a lots of girls around him when we met. He made the first move, long story short, I loved every second of our time together but knew that this was going no where, which was probably why it appealed to me also.
I 8767 m dating a man 65 years than me we met in the summer of 7557. Though we 8767 ve had more than our share of ups-and-downs, and a lengthly 8775 break 8776 like Ross & Rachel on friends, we 8767 re still working things out. I 8767 m at heart and more fit than most women my age, so I try to keep other people 8767 s opinions about my December/May in the proper perspective. But it 8767 s not always easy!