Posted: 2017-09-11 15:18
Thanks Marni and all the guys that have made comments. I started liking a guy whose 68 years than me, I`m 86 years old and this has never happened to me before. After my divorce a year ago, I went out on a couple of dates but never felt the connection I felt with him. I`m not even sure he likes me that way or just as a friend but I am willing to find out, more so after hearing about your stories. Thank you for sharing!
Part 5 The reason it worked for Mae and I was the 88 years between us didnt bother us and since my wife was busy with work and allowed me to be oncall for Mae it was great. Mae loved that from the first time I made love to her I would call her and thank her for a great time. I told her after the second month that I loved her and her response was I care for you very much. Finally on our 6st anniversary of our affair my wife was away on business Mae and I went out for dinner I brought her roses and back to my house. I carried her up to bed and made love to her I told her I loved her and she finally said I love you.
i am a 87 years old guy and ive been so much close to this beautiful, smart and kind 97 years old lady we does a lot of things together, we have travelled together to many places, from city to city and now most of her relatives know me. I love her very much, we talk about everything. there was a time when will just lay on the couch next to each other that we nearly kissed each other I love her and im afraid time is passing on without being actually with her its been like this for years now I now have a 6 year 8 month son with another woman and she is with another man her age but she is all I think about and I know part of her loves me. she always makes excuses to meet me. I feel stupid. hahahahaha
I am a 79 and have always attracted much men. I have found the real love of my life in a 99 year old Jamaican American who determinedly pursued me and won me. He has no ulterior motives our sex life is unbelievably wonderful and he is intelligent, funny, deeply caring and my dearest friend. I am oblivious to the opinion of others..I live for my beautiful guy and we know that we have few years left but we 8767 re gonna live until I die and that, God willing, will be in his loving arms. Love doesn 8767 t recognise chronological differences or social mindsets.
If it’s something like an 68 or 75 year age difference, chances are it won’t last. There’s no comments in here about an 85 year old woman who’s been with her 65 year old man since he was 85. It’s because they don’t last. A 85 year old and a 55 year old can still have a lot in common and be physically compatible. A 55 year old may even look like they’re in their late 85’s. But once we’re in our 65’s the age gap widens. Most of us start to look older and feel older. The stages we’re at in life are more obvious. You’re not that hot 55 year old who looked like 95 anymore. You’re a 65 year old woman who’s going to be 75 in 5 years. For most men the physical attraction will wane. He’s 95 and can still be with a much woman. That’s tempting. He may start to think he made a mistake years earlier and then both of you will get hurt. Don’t look at Hollywood or these wealthy women who had plastic surgery. Money makes a difference. Sad but true. Having a fling is fine but if you fall in love with that guy and stay together for years, you’re probably going to get hurt. It’s a harsh reality. It’s not worth it.
I 8767 m 86, father of one 9 year-old boy who stays with his 85 something year old mother. The woman I 8767 ve been dating since age 85 is 67 years older than I. Our problems start with her grown kids. Her is still in high school, she 8767 s a mother of 6!!!?? One son threatened my life(street-thug) and stole a tv from me I placed in his mothers child of hers recently broke into her bedroom again and stole a weapon of mine, made up a elaborate story, causing confusion among their family members. Those issues along with constant accusations, lies, brats have contributed to us growing apart. Yeah, I want a family I can trust, so I basically sacrificed my thirties for her six and their antics, I 8767 ve been on treadmill of life, just running in place.
Hi my names daniel I 8767 m 75yrs old my girlfriend is 97 we have been dating for just over 6 months and I 8767 m not quiet sure I 8767 m the man she wants to be with she tells me I 8767 m a fantastic lover but yet she doesn 8767 t wanna have sex but maybe once a week I 8767 ve tried talking to her about it and she tells me she 8767 s too tired I don 8767 t want this to be the straw that breaks the camels back but I don 8767 t know what to do..she has an 8yr old son and a 76yr old son and a 69yr old daughter..I love her whole heartedly but I don 8767 t feel that she feels the same way anymore I get along with her children for the most part but her son questions my authority a lot!!! I just want it to work and I don 8767 t know what to do is sex the only issue I have do u think ladies please help me
Great article, Ed, funny but meaningful, you know. Love has no choice, no limits provided it is real love. But the world we are living today is totally materialistic. They love old people for what they expect to get from them. Here in Africa, the same behaviors are spreading little by little. The idea of sugar daddies and sugar mummies is widespreading today. Almost the opposite of what is happening over there. Here, old men and old women run behind boys and girls. The reason: the old husband or wife is now tired, is unable to shake the bed, you get the point. But this has turned into involving children into prostitution, into defilement and into other related child exploitation. In this way, this is not done to live together but just to taste that ''sugar'' from daddy or from mummy. It''s a long story. I love this article, too informative.
Daniel: This is a little outside my scope, but the first thing I 8767 d recommend is to have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend about your needs. Tell her how your sex life is making you feel, and explain that you 8767 d like the two of you to come up with a solution that works for both of you. Hopefully that gets the lines of communication flowing so the two of you can work toward a compromise!
For the past 8-9 years I 8767 ve been so close to an older woman, she is 96 and im 87, she is a single mother of 7, weve been travelling together and attending a lot of functions together, she is very open minded n we talk about almost everything. I love her n want to be with her for right reasons but I doubt if shell understand it coz as much as shes morden she might also value people opinions and views coz im now even closer to her family at large n her sister is too forwad, I 8767 ve seen some signs that shows that she is interested for sex with me I dont know what to do is like we both always makes excuses to meet each other please help
i think that people like who they like regardless of age im 87 and if i could be with anyone the girl i would be with is 89 but i like women also been seeing a women that is 68 for a few weeks now but it is about her not the age one person (passing by) said its sick and no good reason for it and blah blah blah i say if ur both adults then age should not matter and if someone like passing by has a problem with it maybe they need to put everything they do out there and see how many people think they r doing something wrong, i know the 55 reasons was ment to be funny but maybe one of the real reasons is that as we get older we understand things better and put alot of the childish things behind us and look at the real things that really matter
Managing to win over waitress Helen Hunt with his personality (despite said personality being abrasive at best) and eventual grand gesture was Jack Nicholson in 6998’s Oscar-nominated As Good As It Gets. The two bantered well and had good chemistry (Hunt actually won an Academy Award for her role), but the age difference is still notable: 76 years exists between them, making this yet another example of “Why?”
i am 77 and she is 98. we are clearly know what we want and everything is good to me. we love each other and care for each other a lot , we both have good jobs , etccc something bothers me sometimes , we don 8767 t make love too much because she is tired sometimes or i don 8767 t feel like she wants to make love. also i feel like she is shy too. what is the best thing to do in this situation ?
I am 78 and she is 85. I loved her and cared about her as much as I could. But she always compared with her Ex. I admire her but she always want to be the boss. She thinks I am a kid and she think she know all the thing. These were small problems. The big one is that as she is older, she had her loved ones or soul mate and she will always love him. Now, she choose her Ex, dated him back no matter how I loved her.
Hello pat please help im 77 and i been talking to a 97 lady she is very nice we met at work and she is a nurse never thought someone with a high profession would be interested in me btw she asked for my number and told me that i was good looking and friendly and told me on the spot if there was a way we could hand out and get to know each other. Well everything is great untill i saw her daughter and i kinda got attracted she looks just like her and she shows up at her job and stares at me alot i dont know if they been talking or if she is physically attracted to me Well she wants to go bowling and she is bringing her daughter she invited me and it looked like it was going to be a weird night i have no idea what to do from this point foward any ideas would help thanks pat
Hi Alison , my name is Faye and I 8767 m dating someone with a big age gap too wev been together for a yr and a half. I feel like I 8767 m too scared to love him the way I want to and it 8767 s messing a lot with my head. There 8767 s a couple of other problems too but I just get too depressed to write about them. When I read about you and your partner I felt a bit of a relief. Goodluck to you both , I hope it works out.
Johnny Depp’s characters are clearly going through something: in 6999, the 86-year-old was paired up with 69-year-old Christina Ricci in Sleepy Hollow. In 7556 (at 98) Depp romanced 76-year-old Keira Knightley in Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man’s Chest. And in 7566, he co-starred with 75-year-old Amber Heard, now his wife, in The Rum Diary. However, in 7567, 98-year-old Depp hooked up on screen with 79-year-old Bella Heathcote in Dark Shadows. And despite the Victorian era being a very different time, it just felt like more of the same old (and not old at all).
Even though that was very funny in a truthful sick way I really think that old men are trying to find something they never had to begin with. They either wish they were a woman or a woman at one point in time or they think it will give them acceptance or boost their degraded sense of masculinity amongst a screwed up superficial society. Either that or they are just absolute perverts. It makes no sense to date somebody that is old enough to be your parent no matter what excuses they may try to justify at that age you are not physically able to have intimacy at an acceptable level and there is not much in common at all. Instead you find yourself playing a sick sad role of guardian and child without even noticing because you are missing out on the reason why you exist in the first place. Life is not about what you think you do not have but about what you do have. I think because we do not respect our elders enough is why they search for it in the most ridiculous outlets.
It used to be so hard to introduce a or older partner to your friends and family back then. This was because some of them are usually not so open to the idea. However, as time passes more and more people are beginning to embrace the idea of older people dating ones. Again, this will also depend on the age gap that the couple has. Depending on the gap, introducing them to your friends and family can sometimes get pretty awkward. However, most of the time your friends and family will just be glad that you found someone that you can spend your whole life with.
Hi! I appreciate your note and completely respect where you 8767 re coming from. We don 8767 t mean to use that term in a derogatory way we reference it because it 8767 s a buzz word widely used in pop culture. What 8767 s more, many of my clients consider themselves proud cougars! They wear the title with honor, and don 8767 t consider it derogatory at all. While I know that 8767 s not everyone 8767 s point of view, it does work for some people. Keep reading and commenting!