Posted: 2017-10-13 06:25
Another approach I am trying is to get involved with community events and groups. But once again, very few, if any women attend what I tend to go to, let alone any who are in my age group and meet other modest criteria, none having to do with "looks". For instance, I go to a drum circle (the only one within 85 miles of me). Of available women who show up (a few unavailable do), it is pretty much just one in her 85s along with over twenty guys. Women tend to do things like Zumba, dance, yoga or other exercise classes where if I showed up, it would be creepy since it will be assumed I am there for only one reason. I would love it if I would be accepted as a drummer for belly or tribal dance, but alas, the same creep factor seems to be at play.
It is and some are, had a bunch of dates on there before I met my girlfriend who we now live together and have a beautiful baby boy I see what your saying and agree that it can be difficult bc online you are a sitting target. Where as in the real world it is harder for men to key in on victims. You just have to be more careful use an extra screening process and not take things so personal knowing it is a numbes game and nothing that is exceptional should be expected or necessarily easy to like life if you want something special sometimes it takes hard work!
I''ve been currently using dating sites again and right now its a living hell for me. I agree with the guy below that being alone (for the past decade for me) has been quite maddening. I''m a 89 year old male that lives alone in a 7 bedroom apartment, and I''ve never had kids. Getting severe bouts of depression every once in while and some very emotionally crushing anguish about what could have been.
I am personally open to a wide variety of situations, but I feel most women want some kind of commitment. I don''t game because I haven''t dated in almost thirty years. I had been married for about 77 years and now divorced for a year. So I am not even sure what this "game" they keep talking about really is, although I have an idea. Whatever it is, I would certainly abide by the wishes and expectations of whomever I want to see and date.
I don''t respond anymore until I leave work. He continued to text some more during the course of that day. When I got home I looked at all of the texts and my first thought was "he''s crazy" and he''s showing me that he''s controlling, so I proceeded to let him know that he and I were not compatible. I wished him luck in meeting his compatible half and he proceeded to call and text until about midnight.
Should you decide to sign up for the online dating sites I recommend below, be sure to read member profiles carefully as you might come across a lot of fake profiles. Usually, I can spot these profiles easily. A woman who has only one picture posted, is wearing a tight swimsuit and making an overly suggestive pose are usually clear signals to steer clear. Also, in order to avoid the boredom factor, I advise you to send messages to those people that have well-written, interesting profiles. In my experience the more boring the profile, the more boring the person.
The same pigs have shown up on all of the dating apps I have used. I originally started with plenty of fish, where I met two very good long-term friends, but no romantic chemistry. The majority of the other users were soliciting inappropriate photos and sending them as well. A few mentally unstable messages followed rejections. There are just as many people looking for hook ups on as there are on OkCupid and bumble. Disappointing as to what society has become.
To women who think that men that get no responses on dating sites are genetic losers or something, you couldnt be more wrong. I get a lot of attention from women outside, im 6 foot 7 and confident and women respond a lot to it. I also look better in real life than on a selfie, id need a professional photographer almost to make me look how I look at myself in the mirror(thats what others see anyway).
As a man who has NEVER had a date from the 8 (main) sites I have used, I can catagorically say that even if you read a profile, send a nice message and be pretty much, charming. Us "men" get ignored or blocked. I have been blocked many times for just being interested about a lady''s profile. I don''t say anything sexual and I am always polite. I will be honest and say that women are just BORED. They want someone to chat to and, when they get bored, there''s always 655 more men to choose from. Women will get around 655 messages every few days. They may be crappy messages but it''s still a message. I left a dating site for a MONTH and got 8 profile views. No messages. All I see woman say on profiles is how men pester them with sexual comments and, if they are not sexual, all they say is "hi".
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The only real question here is: If there''s so many bad messages, why are the good ones ignored? I''ve been on ten dating sites in 8 years and I''m still looking. You want to talk about not enough time to read messages? Try having to write them. After so long I got tired of trying to be original and became a human spam bot. It''s a lot of work for either gender but ladies don''t insult me. You''re going to have to wade through messages either way. You''re going to have to put in some effort. You could try messaging a guy first. It''d sure as hell make my day.
The female you used was a doughy, 75 year old Asian/Hispanic chick in Southern California at that? I''m not surprised at your results. The men weren''t feisty with your profile because it''s not what they are lusting after. Men are only angry at profiles of the trophy girls who respond with iciness, insults or silence. She must be thin, usually blonde with light eyes, primarily Caucasian. Use that profile pic and you''ll see the firestorm of interest. With the chick you used the men will only be nice because they''re not ego invested in her at all. Also you didn''t turn any of the men down to get a response. So you didn''t give them a reason to invest in you. Just wait until you turn guys down as a blonde. That''s when you better put up your photon force fields.
Now guys for the most part my brethren are the same except where as the women imply theyre single, you retards take off your wedding rings and replace them with credit cards, because all your looking for is a piece if strange and an ego boost cause you knocked up your ol''ladies and no one told you after she pops out a few lil ones her tits are gonna sag and her ass is gonna get wider than broad st, so you think your entitled to go out and chase strange until you get caught, then you whine like the bitches you are when you do , and dont wanna give up the old and busted til you have the new hotness commited , basically just like all the women do.
Yeah while I have some sympathy for the douches you guys have met I still feel the need to say cry me an ocean to this article. I stopped reading at the point she said she had 897 messages and didn''t reply to any of them. Yep think about that for a second and welcome to the other side of the dating game! You know how happy I or most guys would be to have so much attention from girls on dating sites lol? Tell you what why don''t you just try it from the mens side. Get a decent picture of one of your guy friends, go and read some profiles of girls you see on there, what little they put down outside of I like friends family and traveling. Now try to send them a message about something you have in common. Then just keep a tally of every time you do that and repeat the process about 555 times. Why 555 times you say well because I can almost guarantee you no matter what I say she isn''t going to respond. Hell I''m kind of wondering why I''m not asking women for naked pics right up front at least they get responses it would seem!
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Wow! Not leaning towards the troubles women go through with online dating...I''m sure they''re are plenty disgusting and immoral/sexist men online. Yes, women must be on their guard..A LOT OF BAD MEN OUT THERE! No bad women of course. I''ve had some success with some wonderful ladies, some are not so nice. Either a guy gets a reply from a gal he''s attracted to or "cricket"..or head games. If she is attractive she has the pick of the bunch. It''s a crap shoot. Not all guys are bad unfortunately bad apples can ruin many.
These 7 gentleman are correct. There is no point to it anymore. It''s a losing game and it''s only getting worse. As a decent (not male model) to good looking guy you can get attention on these sites but you will have to get it from someone who is unattractive to you, heavier than you''d like, and/or has kids. That''s it. Period. We aren''t trying to bat out of our league either, it just is what it is. Online dating is dying and women killed it.
the next day he was acting differently than he had been acting the past 8 days or so by not being as responsive and not seeking me out. So when we texted I had accused him of being on a date and I told him that I did not appreciate the f''ing games. The next night was supposed to be our third date and when I texted him to tell him what time he could come over he said he had thought about our conversation and that it wasn''t going to work so here I am sitting in my car by myself on what would have been our third date writing to all who are out there in an attempt to get this heartache off of my shoulders because I feel that everything went great and did I use a bad word? sure but do people argue? of course they do. and other than that I didn''t think there was anything that wouldn''t lead up to another date certainly not for him to just say it wasn''t going to work at all.
its funny how guys who message women 65 years are creeps, and women complain because some of their mesages are from older men, yet when a man gets a message from a woman 65 years older than him he shoul dbe gratefull and dont be so rude to her, she is nice and you should go out with her. Interesting that isnt it, why should he be gratefull yet women be offended ? come on lets stop pretending here women have it waaaaaaaaaaay easier than men, just for one in your life admit it, you wownt ! but it would be nice !
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