Posted: 2017-09-11 10:00
As important as it is to hear that your child can find themselves in trouble online, if you do not know what internet safety steps can help to protect them, you may be looking for more information. You also may be curious as to what it is about the internet that can be so dangerous. For your convenience, five reasons why internet use can be dangerous for children and teenagers are highlighted below.
If your child continues an unacceptable behavior no matter what you do, try making a chart with a box for each day of the week. Decide how many times your child can misbehave before a punishment kicks in or how long the proper behavior must be seen before it is rewarded. Post the chart on the refrigerator and then track the good and unacceptable behaviors every day. This will give your child (and you) a concrete look at how it's going. Once this begins to work, praise your child for learning to control misbehavior and, especially, for overcoming any stubborn problem.
Set up rules regarding homework, visits by friends, curfews, and dating and discuss them beforehand with your teenager so there will be no misunderstandings. Your teen will probably complain from time to time, but also will realize that you're in control. Believe it or not, teens still want and need you to set limits and enforce order in their lives, even as you grant them greater freedom and responsibility.
Sexuality is fluid. Some people are gay, others are not. People complicate their lives enough. Sexuality is unique, and the boxes people make for others, and themselves, cause confusion for everyone. My advice (and admittedly not the most experienced or the kind that is most sought after) is to find the sexuality that works for you, and have faith in your choice. I 8767 ve questioned myself, but I 8767 ve always came to the same conclusion.
One divorced guy I know, his wife was sleeping around on him all the time this a woman who barely worked, low stress job. At least he divorced her and didn 8767 t come out too bad, luckily. So, now she marries a poor idiot ten years than her AND she -not the new guy has 5 kids (three from my buddy and two from some other guy). The new hubby gets his TV and Playstation broke by her because he 8767 s not 8775 helping enough around the house with the kids that are left at home. Sucker!!
9 – They Are Very Depressed As previously stated, your child may be very happy when using the internet, but another warning sign is that they are depressed, especially when they sign off the computer. What many parents do not realize is that other teenagers use the internet for harassment. If your teenager has a falling out with one of their friends, they may find themselves being harassed online. If that is the case, your child may seem very down, depressed, and withdrawn.
This is certainly a truth. One of the major inequalities in our society is that once a woman is pregnant a guy has no say in the situation. He is merely expected to accept her decision and pay that child support ($$$$). So, many women set a guy up, tell him 8775 I 8767 m on BC, so no need for you to wear a condom. 8776 The guy trusts her, and then finds out later 8775 Oops. I wanna keep the kid and you are gonna pay! 8776
Teaching yourself is an easy way to learn about the internet and computer use. In fact, what better way is there than to just jump on the computer and see what you can find. For starters, examine your computer or your internet browser for free internet safety tools for parents. You may also want to visit some of the websites that your child visits, just to see what they are subjecting themselves to. Visit their online profile for MySpace, Facebook, or another social networking website. Does it make you uneasy? Are the discussions taking place in your child 8767 s favorite chat room too adult?
If this is something that your child has done, be sure to remove the pictures or videos right away. If school officials or authorities have viewed your child’s pictures or videos, he may be facing punishment. A lawyer should be called if your child is arrested. If your child is suspended from school or extra curricular activities, speak to school officials. What you, the parent, and your child can do?
Dear gawd that 8767 s laughable. So if a man didn 8767 t raise kids that his wife used as a weapon against him when she initiated a divorce from him (as wives do nearly 95% of the time taking everything he owns in the process), then he lacks some mythical 8775 connection 8776 to the world that is ultimately some ridiculous 8775 feeling 8776 that you have and not based in reality at all? Is that what you 8767 re saying? Because that 8767 s how I, and any man or woman with good sense and wisdom is reading it.
7 – They Are Secretive When They Use the Computer How does your child act when they are using the computer? Does your child try to hide what they are doing online from you? If they automatically shut off the computer or put a game on the screen, they may be trying to prevent you from seeing what they are doing online. This is a good sign that your child may be doing something they shouldn’t be doing online, like having direct, personal conversations with a stranger, who may be a child predator.
You 8767 re right dirty drawers, it has nothing to do with skin color. I 8767 ve dated plenty of women with ex-husbands who were white, and half of them seemed to have no honor, or decency, regarding their kids. I won 8767 t date single moms any more, partly because the single moms still seemed to pine for these pieces of crap in spite of the ex cheating on them, stealing from them, etc. They just keep chasing the bad boys. If they want them, they can have them.
5 – They Are In Control When your child uses the internet, they are the ones who are in control. This can be okay if your child is older and mature, but you honestly never know. You may ask your child not to communicate with strangers online, give out their phone numbers, or share pictures with strangers, but that doesn’t mean that they will follow your rules. For that reason, if you do let your child use the internet, be sure to monitor their use.
Does she have some serious personality problems or addictions? After all she left the father of her kids. Did the father of her kids divorce her (in the fewer cases where the husband actually initiates the divorce compared to the 75 to 95% of wives who initiate the divorce), and did he do so because she 8767 s an addict? A cheater? A lazy deadbeat? Does single mommy not have any common sense, so she picked a POS, deadbeat bad boy and had kids with him, and now expect me to take on that mess?
You made your choice to get with a POS and not make sure you had reliable birth control. YOU believed his lies, and I bet there was already tons of evidence around him that he would be a deadbeat POS YET you STILL failed to use adequate birth control. YOU had sex, sure, like millions of people do, and millions DON 8767 T GET PREGGO because they are wise enough to use birth control. This guy is a POS indeed but YOU, yes YOU, made choice after choice that put you in this position. And no childless guy with money, time, a good job, a 956K etc. should be expected to step in and take that on and help you. YOU should have thought ahead and made better decisions.
Most of us have gone on dates with strangers from the internet at some point. But even if you met your date IRL, it’s a good idea to give them a Google Voice number when you start chatting, Rucker says. Google Voice lets users generate phone numbers for free and use them to set up other secure chat services like WhatsApp or Signal. A user can easily turn off her Google Voice number and get a new one if her date turns out to be a creep—and she won’t have to go to the trouble of changing her real number and redistributing it to all her friends.
Courts have sometimes viewed all passwords as equal, faulting a victim whose partner hacked her Facebook because she had shared an Amazon password with him. The court questioned whether one password could be considered private, given that she had shared other accounts, Rucker explained. “If you share an iCloud account and you’re sharing pictures that way, you’re sharing accounts in the eyes of the court,” Rucker said.
The problem with single mothers is they are all looking for daddy #7 for their child. They want you to make all the sacrifices by stepping into the daddy role. I 8767 m active with hobbies outside work but singles mothers have always requested that I start attending all their kid 8767 s sporting functions several evenings a week and my hobbies that make me happy go by the wayside. Who is making all the sacrifice here It should be mutual sacrifice. Not one sided.