Posted: 2017-10-18 15:23
I have been having some man problem at the moment and stumble into this website which is a God send. Most topics here had been very useful to me. I believe and practice the 8775 secret 8776 and 8775 law of attractions 8776 and therefore I agree with most of your advice but pity I couldn 8767 t see them before reading your articles here. I just want to say thank you rather than comment at this moment. I will however try to remember and apply your and Sabrina 8767 s advice. Good luck to all of us!
Final thought it has only been through meditation practice and study that I finally see how much people don 8767 t truly *see* one another. I see how people (and myself) only have their intense, grasping projections of the other playing on their mental movie screen. People devote their entire lives to the practice of asking their 8775 me, mine, I 8776 to step aside and just be with another human just as they are. What you ask in this post is to try to drop 8775 you 8776 and really look at your man. This is one post I 8767 ve bookmarked for future reminders.
. Have you been living with my ex lol. I have never read a post that looked like it was me who wrote it. Amanda stay strong and get out asap. I threw mine out June 69,7567 and have never felt such a relief. Let me warn you though, mine has just started harassing me online talking a bunch of nobody cares shit. He even messaged my granddaughter talking trash and calling me unnecessary names. It makes me want to go off on him and this is just what he wants. I WILL NOT feed into his narcissistic disorder. Good luck and keep us posted.
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After 6 months on various sites I'm finally signing out today - my advice to men is to just enjoy your single life and use your time productively on hobbies and interests and self improvement etc. - get out into the real world to meet people. You'll probably be quite shocked if you keep a record of how many hours you spend trawling dating sites - I was when I decided to record my usage - One of the reasons that today is delete day - more time for fitness and reading.
I can tell you that the process you 8767 ll face and the route my husband and I took will probably differ greatly, but I 8767 ll still do my best to help. First you 8767 ll need to start looking into doing an application for an immigrant visa for a spouse. Don 8767 t hire an Attorney, the paperwork is very simple and doesn 8767 t require legal knowledge to fill it out. Also, you 8767 ll need to start gathering all important documents (marriage certificate translated and attested, birth certificates, proof of your income, proof of his income, and original passports). Make sure you have ever single document required otherwise your package will be incomplete and not processed. Also, you 8767 ll need to accept that this process could literally take years. Or not. Be patient and I 8767 ll do my best to help.
The best way to get your foot in the door is to find something in their profile to start a conversation about. Ask them an open-ended question so they start talking about that and themselves. Say they list Adele as one of the musicians they like. You could say something like, "What do you think of Adele's new album (whatever)? I think her best effort on it was (whatever song) because. What is your opinion?"
Just an example. I mean at least it shows you read her profile AND it is a conversation starter.
9. Having intimate relations with you then either disappearing for a few days or forever. This happens often and for a lot of reasons. Women in the Arab culture are highly respected and taught to respect themselves. Being intimate with a man before marriage is almost unheard of. So a woman who doesn 8767 t abide by this rule is often seen a a woman who has no respect for herself by an Arab man 8767 s standards. She 8767 s certainly not marriage material. Keep your panties on, women!
9) He introduced me to his Brother early on and after a year his father. I was told never his mother before a ring was on my finger. This made me feel un easy but I accepted his traditions. His brother 7 months before we ended though had told him to break up with me because I am not a Arab (not pure) and I have different values. He had defended me and his brother had stopped speaking to him for that. (I truely believe this was the thing that truely broke us). He could not recover from his family not accepting me, it haunted him.
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When I try to make my guy feel like a winner, he seems very uninterested. For example, he 8767 ll be playing Call of Duty (which he is very good at) and I 8767 ll say, 8775 Wow. You are really good at this! You 8767 re getting more kills than anyone! 8776 And he will, in a low uninterested tone, say, 8775 Uh huh. 8776 That 8767 s one example. I don 8767 t see how to compliment him in a way that matters. I don 8767 t want to compliment him too much and appear fake. But I want to be able to compliment him in a way that mattets. He is always a winner to me in every way.
I have the same situation. I am with my partner for about 7 years, I had a job,rented a flat in centre london,had savings. He was so sweet and nice,we mooved together and after one year when I was pregnant he become an abusive. all I did was wrong, all my friends werw bad, even my douther. We bought a house , I 8767 ve spent all my savings on the deposit, so, after 9 years houses price gous up and he decided to sell it. It was on my name,and I ask him to take 65% of the profit and not live together any more ( profit was 655 555) but he said he need all money to do a business or he will cut my head off. He was illigal,but he got a visa because he is my partner and we have a son. He doesn 8767 t love me,only controlls,but he will never leave me because he can loose his I am with 7 kids, no money and have nowhere to go.
Hi Natt, I really appreciate you feeling comfortable enough to share your story with me. Sadly, I only come to one conclusion based on the information you 8767 ve provided and it 8767 s not good. Of course I could be wrong and he could be completely different, but it just doesn 8767 t appear that way. If he 8767 s serious about marrying you then he needs to make that clear to you AND his family. And until he does you would be wise to protect your feelings.
I 8767 m dating a guy who has a lot of these and it just seems to get worse and worse when I 8767 m not with him he thinks I 8767 m round some other guy or mere someother guy or talking to somewhere guy.. And when I 8767 m on the phone with him he thinks he hears things when he doesn 8767 t and likes blaming me and call me all these horrible names. And Always asking me what am I doing and when I tell him he doesn 8767 t believe me and calls me a liar and so and on and so forth what should I do I do love him I do cause he isn 8767 t like this when I am round him he only gets this way when I 8767 m not with him I don 8767 t understand it at all does he love me or does he just want a girl to control cause he is lonely
One thing you might want to consider is that it 8767 s not that you love your boyfriend so much but that you have a very strong desire to make him who he was before. You 8767 re in love with who he once was but he 8767 s no longer that person. So, ask yourself, if you didn 8767 t know him a few years ago and only met him yesterday is this a person you would want to be with? Is this behavior acceptable? Nah. I think you know better.
I 8767 ve been seeing a new guy for around two months now, at first he was so into me he would go out his way to see me. About three weeks ago he seamed to loose interest he. stopped calling testing he was coming over every day and now I haven 8767 t seen him for over a week.. I ask him if I had said or did something wrong and he says he is going through alot with his divorce settlement with will be very next week and he will be all better. I 8767 m so confused. Should I call it quits or give him time? I feel so hopeless please help.
I can 8767 t comment a lot, since I agree with a lot, including that most women in Japan are sadly only looking for a guy that can walk and provide for them and the family that they want to make. Those women don 8767 t seem to care at all for what 8767 s more important, which is being personally successful, and finding a partner who is your best friend. I can 8767 t imagine wanting to live with someone who wasn 8767 t my favorite person in the world, whom I didn 8767 t want to spend every second with and want to improve myself for. :/ Again, it 8767 s a generalization, and I don 8767 t like that attitude which is why all of the girls that I got along well with in Japan weren 8767 t like that at all.
I 8767 m 66 and he 8767 s 69 coming up 75 and am stuck with someone who is all of these things I can 8767 t get away from him he threatens me saying I will never ever live a happy day in my life again and says I should watch my family because they will get it too, I feel like there 8767 s no way out, I 8767 m a self harmer and have done it since the age of 67 and now I 8767 m strongly considering suicide because it seems as if that the only way I can be happy and get away from him :'(
Oh! Right. There was one thing that I don 8767 t agree with at all, and that was why I really wanted to comment. The statement that there are so many good-looking foreign guys with homely Japanese girls. I 8767 m not sure if this was intentional, or a mistake. Usually, it 8767 s the opposite. In Tokyo at least, it was very, very common to see a homely foreign guy who looks like he hasn 8767 t tried at all looping arms with a slender, petite, smiling Japanese girl dressed to the nines with impeccable makeup. I assumed that it was a big reason that men like Japanese girls at all, at least in the beginning. Unlike girls from a lot of other countries (the US especially), these girls at least look like they put some effort into what they look like.
I had no idea men were so complicated! lol This article has been very eye opening, thank you. I am 98 years old and have been divorced for eight years, I don 8767 t date or go out, so when an old ex contacted me on Facebook I was excited. We 8767 ve been seeing each other for 7 6/7 weeks with constant texting until today. I kind of freaked, like most women would, I suppose, so I did a Google search and found this article. I think we 8767 re ok, thankfully, I just didn 8767 t want to freak out to him and spoil what we have found. Again, THANK YOU!!!