Posted: 2017-11-20 09:34
Hey guys I was married for 9 years
She told me on the 79th of december 7569 that she doesnt love me anymore and she is filing for devorce, the worst 7 weeks of my life! now im obsessed with the fact that she is getting involved with a friend who is partaking in paganism and the occult I still realy love her but no matter what I currently say or do it is obviously wrong in her eyes!
I need advice on how to let go with this obsession of care and concern I still have to spend 7 more weeks at our house but around every turn is a fire begging for gasoline! I started visiting friends and going out and she still wants to know where im going yet when I ask her where she went I get quotes throne in my face about we sighned the divorce settlement that stated she has no more say over me and I have no say over her from the date of the settlement, what do I do? Please help
Love sick obsessively frustrated soon to be ex husband
But sorry its not working. Actually he has left me with no reason. And hardly we had spend 7 months together and i really love everything about that guy. I am getting rid from his memories. I tried a lot but actually I am still missing him more and more than before. I cannot decide even what to do or even what to eat? I am always lost in his memories. Infact my passion , my goals , my lies and all everything bent knees before his memories. So, now what ??????
Actually a lot of people with children climb Mt. Fuji. It 8767 s possible, but it depends on your daughter. Not all kids are fond of hiking for that long unless they 8767 re really interested in it.
Escaping the heat will be difficult. A good choice is Hokkaido. For the other places you 8767 ve mentioned make sure to wear something on your head, put on enough sunscreen and stay hydrated! Also, insect spray will be necessary, but you should buy it in Japan or it might not work!
Striking a conversation when they are on their job would be difficult and perhaps challenging than meeting them in a club or bar where they could be in the mood to meeting new friends. However, you can start a conversation about the products they sell or the service they offer. You can always start a friendly conversation. After all, the first step is making friends with a potential woman that you will be spending the rest of your life with.
I can hear your pain. You are in a good marriage and you have children, yet you can 8767 t stop thinking about your ex-boyfriend. You know that your husband is a better man for you then your ex boyfriend, and yet you can 8767 t stop yourself from thinking about him. I 8767 m sorry you 8767 re going through this – it must be confusing and frustrating to have one foot in the present and one foot in the past.
Of course some people tend to be slightly different. My fiance moved here a few months before i met her, she is caring, loving, always putting everyone else before herself. She 8767 s kinda messy. They 8767 re extremely old fashion i had to her dad for her hand, to sweeten the deal i learnes it all to tagalog (hard language btw). Because i had the courage and the will to learn that, to ask he ended up saying yes. Respect is key with elders way more so there than here. When the time comes ensure you do this properly otherwise her family will be upset, it will be harder for them to accept you.
I know it 8767 s not the most popular time to go but I spent a whole month in Japan during the summer a few years ago and had a great time. Admittedly the heat and humidity were pretty intense but the Japanese have developed so many fun things to distract you that it 8767 s a really exciting time to visit. Like you said in your article there 8767 s festivals, fireworks and lots of people in yukata not to mention delicious summer foods like kakigori and countless flavours of ice cream, the lovely sound of furin windbells and pretty fans to cool yourself down with. I 8767 m a little in love with summer in Japan, I feel like it 8767 s the underdog to the other more popular seasons!
I wrote about some of my favourite parts of summer in Japan here and I 8767 m going back there in July this year.
Yay for summer in Japan!
Well, this month was the last straw. I had just been up to visit him and as usual we had a great weekend. However after I left we began to try and plan our next visit, and found out that our schedules were too conflicting for the next month! As a result, my ex broke up with me. However, he claimed that he still loved and cared for me, and still wants me in his life because he wants to have a future with me. Naturally, I responded that if I was that important to you, why on Earth would you have broken up with me!? Well, men are confusing.
hi there so my ex and i
broke up8 months ago we were engaged we had been together for9& 6/7 years i met him in high school and he was my first. anyways it seems to me that no matter what i do or what anyone does it reminds me about him and every night i just hurt worse and i found out last night hes now dating my best friend i dont know how to stop thinking of all the great times we had together
I 8767 m very but i know how it feels to be in love, I 8767 m in love with my ex, he was the first guy i had sex with and the only one i can have sex with he have broken up many times, but this time it hurts the most, it feels like my heart has been taken out of my chest and just put it in the trash he cheated on me many times and i got by an old man and he called that cheating which i don 8767 t understand, i just can 8767 t stop thinking about him though i shouldn 8767 know im and there are alot of fishes in the sea, but everyone have been in love at my age
My replacement thought is a Bible verse: 8775 Come to me, all who are weary and carrying heavy burdens, 8776 said Jesus in Matthew 66:78. 8775 I will give you rest. 8776 Whenever I start to feel scared, tired, or heartbroken, I recite this verse to myself. I picture myself face to face with Jesus, my little child hands resting on either side of his face. I look deep into His eyes, I see the scars from the abuse He endured, and I know I am free from suffering. Jesus suffered so I don 8767 t have to. I accept His freedom, love, and grace. I am humbled and awed by the power of His spirit. Who needs a rubber band when you have Jesus?
I have tried everything. I called out to god several times, I said god if you 8767 re as powerful as people say you are, can create everything then prove it. All I ask is for a small task.. To end my suffering. Guess what, I 8767 m still suffering. And for those who say he works in mysterious ways, or he 8767 s teaching me something else I call bs. I can say that if I were calling out to the sun, the wind, the Easter bunny etc. so I say to God again.. Prove it.
My husband of 7 years left me in 6999 to date his students (he is a history professor at Elmira College). For 69 years I have been fine, found better love, and have a great 5th grade son. But I got word that over the summer, he finally married one of his students. He is 76 years older than she is. Suddenly, I am overwhelmed with thoughts of anger and sadness that are impacting my life negatively, as well as my wonderful, current husband 8767 s well-being. Why can 8767 t I let go when my life is so much better now than it was then?
Autumn is one of my favorite seasons in Japan! The heat of summer is finally gone. Normally the weather is great for travelling (especially in October and November ) and the beautiful autumn colors are something you shouldn 8767 t miss!
Just like with the cherry blossoms, there 8767 s a 8775 momiji front 8776 in Japan which simply means that the leaves won 8767 t change colors everywhere at the same time. Again there are many websites that let you check where you need to go if you want to catch the 8775 color peak 8776 .
That GREATLY depends where you want to go. Temperatures HUGELY vary from Hokkaido (where it can be really cold with lots of snow) to Okinawa (where you can probably still wear summer clothes). The major tourist spots including Tokyo, Kyoto and Hiroshima will probably have temperatures around 8-65°C (although that varies a little every year).
So, if you don 8767 t plan to go to Hokkaido or Okinawa, I suggest to bring some warmer clothes, possibly a (winter) coat with you.
Looking forward my first time in Japan next year I decided to take a chance on two periods, from the last week of February (and yeah, hopefully I will included skiing and the snow monkeys) till 6st april, so I will hit both the plum and the cherry blossom. I 8767 m a bit worried about the cherry blossom, I know I risk to not see the full bloom but going north-south I think I will be able to enjoy it somewhere.
6) At some level, you will never stop caring for her because she and you have a very strong, special bond. Not caring for her isn 8767 t a realistic wish, and if you focus on how much you want to stop obsessing about her, then all you 8767 ll do is obsess more. I believe it 8767 s healthier to accept that she will always have a place in your heart. This doesn 8767 t mean you are powerless to move on. On the contrary, accepting that you will always have feelings for her will give you the power to stop obsessing.
Once, I traveled during the latter part of August into early September and found the heat very bad. Actually not much worse than or more humid than here at home, but when you are a tourist and cannot take refuge in your air conditioned house and go places in your air conditioned car, it is tiring and unpleasant. If you must go at that time, first things to buy on arrival are a UV filtering umbrella and a fan! They do help. Of course men might feel silly with the umbrella, but even the men carry fans in Japan in summer. A hat will help too.
My ex is a PHd student and has a lot of stress in her life. To help her, I would buy or cook her dinner, clean her house for her when she was busy, and do other little things to help her out. But it wasn 8767 t enough. She snapped on me, her landlord, her parents, her sister, the cable guy, and was constantly complaining about her stress. In fact, she almost had the police called on her when she raged on a convenience store clerk over $5. When I told her to let it go and that it wasn 8767 t worth it, she raged on me for taking the clerk 8767 s side and pushed me. But I let it go.
If somebody in their family died, Japanese are not supposed to send New Year Cards.
Instead they send out normal postcards early on, called 8775 mourning postcards 8776 (喪中葉書 mochū hagaki), in order to let everybody know they won 8767 t accept or send New Year Cards expressing their respect for the deceased.
Personally, I always received those mourning postcards far too late when I 8767 ve already sent out my New Year Cards! :(