Posted: 2017-09-11 09:56
At this point, the girl has her leg on my knee and I 8767 m rubbing it for a few minutes (careful not to bring my hand too high) and then *BOOM* I get cock-blocked by one of my buddies: 8775 Hey bro, we gotta go RIGHT NOW! Dan 8767 s drunk as fuck and we 8767 re all going to take a cab back. 8776 I shoot back: 8775 I 8767 m kinda busy right now. I can handle myself. I 8767 ll catch up with you guys. 8776 For me, that was the cue as to whether or not she wanted me to stay with her. She simply responded: 8775 I think you should go with them. The bartender is my roommate and I know all the bouncers this guy won 8767 t be giving me any trouble. 8776
I bumped into this girl who i knew of back in high school but we never realIy hung out or talked, anyway so i got her number and i called her the following week and talked to her but didnt ask her out. then i called her twice more after but both phone calls were short because she said she was busy doing things. So at that point I thought she was not interested at all, then a few days later I got this text 8776 sorry for being so short on the phone with you when you called, but I have been really will message you if and when my schedule frees u. Have a good one 8776 . So is she interested or she 8767 s just being friendly? What should I do?
Whatcha think Tony? Should I wait 7-8 days and call to ask again but more straight forward? Or just wait till however long it takes for her to respond? The first date she had to bail last minute on me, but then rescheduled and actually came up with the idea, so she did take initiative after bailing the first time. Not sure if that means I should just sit around and wait as opposed to calling 7-8 days later and yes, I 8767 ll be sure to be a lot more touchy and actually kiss on the second date. Just hard to get really physical when it was a group of us towards the middle instead of just us 7
Sorry for wall of text, want to make sure you get the fully story and understand man!
I 8767 m in contact with an ex of mine. The reasons for the breakup were private and had nothing to do with loss of attraction.
We spoke on facebook and i suggested we should meet up again and have dinner or something and she agreed. I promised to let her know. After which i didn 8767 t for 7 months (stupid, i know). Now i contacted her again through sms and called her the same day. We spoke a little and i reminded her of our agreement. She said: yeah i promised you and i had been waiting for you to contact me. So we decided to meet up but since she is a nurse, she is not always available in the weekends. So she said: send me 8 dates and i 8767 ll have a look at my schedule. I ended the conversation after 65 by saying that i still had to work on a presentation.
I sent her 8 dates 79 hours ago but haven 8767 t received anything back. Weird, those girls.
So it 8767 s running pretty smooth in the first place and then suddenly nothing
I recently met this girl through a friend 8767 s fiancee. The four of us (my friend, his fiancee and her friend) spent a good 8 hours playing bar games and just having a good time. Not drinking much at all. About half way through the night, my buddy asked me what I thought of his fiancee 8767 s friend while the girls were in the bathroom. My buddy 8767 s fiancee walked up while we were having this conversation and she chimed in saying that her friend was not planning on staying out, and that she thought this girl was hanging out because I was there. At the end of the night, I asked the girl for her number, didn 8767 t get it at that moment, instead she asked me if I wanted to walk her to her car. She gave me a ride to my car, told me (without me asking) that she had a good time, and I got her number.
The fact that he doesn t say I m doing game! doesn t change that his character is still describing what game tries to emulate. Game describes making her chase you, being an aloof asshole but not a caring asshole, treating her like she s below you, making it obvious you have other options etc etc etc. Some game describes how you re always better off being a little to pushy than a little to cautious if she actually doesn t want to do something she ll let you know. Again, and again, and again this is how Adam acts. I don t even watch the show,
You re being totally truthful but you re redirecting the question from your weakness to your strength, towards what you re really passionate about: your writing. Even if your job sucks, you re making it clear that you yourself are still an ambitious person actively pursuing your dreams. And you set up a number of conversational branches about your writing, about your restaurant stories, about the sucky economy, etc.
It seems to me that right now (based on the video) that your monotone is creating a mask or barrier hampering potential partners from connecting with you emotionally, and that s a shame. I am also working on an issue that has kept me from connecting with people in the way I desire. It s very scary to make changes that are so fundamental. One of my motivators is Want Fear (what I want is so important to me that I m willing to do anything to make it happen). Good luck.
That made perfect sense to me there is a difference between I really want this date-thing to go well and I really hope the two of us have a good time on our date. I guess it is hard to explain well, though! Most people have at least some nervousness/hoping ya don t do anything stupid. But it feels off kilter and stressful if it seems more like it s about the date than the person.
I don 8767 t ever feel racialized or stereotyped around Adam or his friends (I 8767 ve read quite a few articles with other girls claiming this) – but that could just be because Toronto is such a multicultural place, and our generation is much more accepting than the generation before us. We once overheard a comment from a stranger saying 8775 where do I get myself a hot Asian girl? 8776 but he was obviously from a very different generation.
Hey Tony, I met this girl a few months back through one of my female friends. I got along pretty well with her but saw her as only an opportunity for a casual hook up. i would talk with her and we would hang out but the last time i hung out with her was about a month ago. things were going pretty well but after hanging out for a few hours she told me that she had to go because she had already made plans with her friends for that night. she smiled at me and asked if i wanted to come with her to a party and i declined not being the type of person who is into the big parties she kissed me and told me to text her but i was kind of annoyed because the night ended so i didn 8767 t. i recently have tried to text her only twice within the last month just simple things like 8775 hey, hows it going? 8776 or 8775 wanna hang out some time? 8776 and she hasn 8767 t answered at all. things were never really serious but i have started to have feelings for her and would like to see her again. any thoughts???
Stupid, stupid, shameless geisha whores. Just shameless white male cumdumpsters who are proud of it.. if asian men had any dick or balls, they need to move on to other females and breed out their inferior women, they are already doing their part, and even spitting on asian men while doing it. Yet asian guys yet accept this injustice and still continue to love and care for them.. This fucked up world was clearly not made equal..
Let me tell you that your one single story doesn 8767 t mean shit on this whole topic. When an entire population starts trending towards something, it is not because of small 8775 love 8776 stories like yours coming together. It 8767 s because of external factors that are affecting entire populations (where your little cute story doesn 8767 t mean shit). These factors include media portrayal such as the feminizing of Asian men on tv. People are stupid. You are likely very stupid. You think the only reason your girlfriend went for you is because you were 8775 the one 8776 ? No it 8767 s because there are a million little factors playing in her brain including her image of white people as a population which shes seen in movies, tv, commercials, etc. It 8767 s easy to call bitter men bitter when you 8767 re sitting on a higher seat.
Now, can you find someone without working on improving that, I think so yes. Will it be harder, very much so.
It s very much up to you.
But my opinion is that it is probably one of the major things holding you back.
And are you sure your out of control voice would be as bad now?
Sometimes quirks we get while growing up change or adjust over time. And it is very easy to develop a complex about it that might not be as relevant now.
Do you actually have a follow-up to these valid, non-toxic critiques, or will you shut conversation down once again? I understand that you 8767 re wary of these other toxic commenters who tell you that you 8767 re a 8775 sell-out 8776 and a 8775 whore 8776 (they but some other commenters are coming from a similar place as you and making valid points about other aspects of your post. Yet you refuse to engage in difficult, uncomfortable conversations, even if they relate to your identity? Honestly, how are we supposed to take you seriously?
This girl and I have been dancing around each other for a while. She is recently separated and has a kid. We got to talking a week ago, she told me she is into me but things are complicated (obviously) Then we started texting despite her saying she wasn 8767 t ready to jump into anything. For four days we were talking back and forth with typical get to know you texts, everything seemed cool. On the fifth day I texted her with a quick comment busting her about her team (basketball tournament related) I haven 8767 t heard anything back. Until then everything was fine and I don 8767 t think it was that text that upset her. I stop texting her. It is now Tuesday and I 8767 m waiting on her. I will see her on Thursday at the bar, should I text her before then??
So even if Girl A may look better on paper, the actual interaction between her and the guy may not as good as his interaction with Girl B. And that s going to make all the difference. And it s not some quality of Girl A or B that would make one of them better to get along with than the other. There s some element of compatibility between the two people that cannot be measured separately. A kind of alchemy, as it were.
yo man i aint trollin but keep after that guuuuurrrrrrllllllllll .if she is as awesome as you said homie, turtle her butt till she finally wants to go out turtle is just being her best friend while she es datin another holmes till dey break up..then u r her best homie then you get her homie. Remember .mi nombre es Juan yo voy al Y AMOR HOMIES!
This phenomenon is why sometimes you ll meet someone through an online dating site and think that they seem like just your type and you d get along really well, maybe have some nice message exchanges that imply you d get on really well, but then when you meet in person, there s just no connection. This happened to me on the last date I went on, and I was shocked. I was physically attracted to the guy, and we d had some very good conversations online, and we had a perfectly nice date when we went out. But my emotional response to the whole evening was really flat. I felt like I was one of the aliens from the Neutral Planet: I have no strong feelings one way or the other. He must have noticed the same lack of connection, because he never contacted me for a second date.
Being attracted to looks is something inherent in biology. (I m not saying which looks we find attractive is inherent, though, that seems to be largely socialized to me). The reason why men value looks is because men are expected to do the pursuing. Feminism never quite got girls to be the one to ask out guys (though it did valiantly try for a while), and whoever s doing the pursuing values things it can see up front more. I would bet good money that if we switched it to where women pursued guys, and men were socialized to never ask women out, women would value looks and men would be going on about personality.