Posted: 2017-10-13 04:31
Beth, I completely agree that being in an affair is wrong but, I am also aware that people make mistakes and have done things that they regret. Telling people off about what they have done won 8767 t fix anything and it won 8767 t erase what happened. You haven 8767 t walked in her shoes so don 8767 t be so quick to judge her. There is a major difference between giving people advice and making people feel like shit. Also, I pretty sure this woman was asking for Eric 8767 s advice not yours. As for the woman who calls herself damaged I would like to tell her that what she has been through does not have to define her as a person. She is a human being and she deserves to be respected. My only advice to her is to A. Not get into another affair, B. Remember that this man that she had an affair with does not deserve her and C. Please try to figure things out with your husband especially since you have children. I can tell you that divorce aucks ass for kids a lot of the time. I would know I am a child of divorced parents. Whatever you do please have your kids best interest in mind.
First off, shame on you for getting involved in an affair. Yes, I said it. You should feel awful for you are doing to that man 8767 s wife and children. He 8767 s a piece of crap too, but you aren 8767 t absolved of the harm you caused and the fact that you have no freaking emotional self-control. You didn 8767 t just fall into an affair with him because you couldn 8767 t help yourself. You just allowed yourself to lose control.
Try to give yourselves some space. Give yourself time to think about your insecurities you were talking about and reflect. Trying to work things out immediately may damage any chances of reconcilliation. I was dating a guy who had a few and it exhausted me emotionally to the point that I just felt relieved when it was over. But he gave me space and time to recover and think on some things and he also did the same. We ended up becoming close after all that. Just give it a little time and try to learn from it. Hope this helps some.
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Men are way more into cheating & sex than women. just look at the sex industry for example, the female sex workers side is booming, men are lining up at brothels with cash in hand, the heterosexual male side is pretty much dead crickets and cobwebs. The homosexual male side is booming just as much as the females, why? because the customers are MEN! Men are horny beyond comprehension and can 8767 t even hold it together that they are willing to pay hard cold cash for sex. Of course when it comes along for free they will take it up the first chance they get! Thats a really good example of how MEN are way hornier and bigger cheaters than women, in fact, most clients of female sex workers are married!
This is what you 8767 d expect if you look on Tinder. No woman who cares about character over looks would use an app with such a bad reputation. I 8767 d be interested to see how it went down on dating sites with more emphasis on character, or in real life (because frankly most women who don 8767 t care about looks much can find a partner without resorting to internet searching) but on a hook-up app these results are unsurprising.
A woman may date a physically unattractive man if he makes up for it with personality and/or resources.
As a man, when was the last time you said to yourself: 8776 Man that chick 8767 s ugly but she 8767 s hilarious and has a good job our family could rely on that 8767 s a keeper right there! 8776 ? You 8767 d automatically rule out a girl you found physically unattractive. Biology keeps this into account.
Evelyn, he is a cheating, lying POS. He was with you because you were of use to him. Do you honestly think he would 8767 ve broken up with you first then be with someone else? Nope, because he is a characterless low life who wanted to have his cake and eat it too, count your blessings you are no longer with him. Think how you would 8767 ve felt if you were with him 5, 65, 75 years from now and found out he was a serial cheating, lying POS. Open your eyes, I know its harsh but he was using you, just like rest of the cheaters do. Come and join us at chumplady dot com, because being cheated on is emotional and mental abuse. Cheaters blame their actions on everyone else and wont take responsibility. Come over to this site and find this article, 8775 trust they suck 8776 everything you need to know and how to heal is there. My best wishes and hang in there.
6. That dude is not a 65. Far from it.
7. I would imagine those women were 9s & 5s (Who cares if an ugly chick thinks you 8767 re hot?) since you rarely match with the really attractive ones. Many of them are attention whores who just want desperate suckers to follow them on Snapchat or Instagram.
8. LOL, I love how you 8767 re using screenshots from to support your argument. I don 8767 t know if you 8767 re aware but it 8767 s basically a parody site full of the most insecure, brain-dead trolls imaginable.
he eventually contacted her asking her to 8775 help 8776 me (Him to her: 8775 she is not eating or sleeping don 8767 t know who to ask can you take her for walks and food she won 8767 t speak to me she is angry with me) she instantly said 8775 i have no idea what you 8767 re talking about.. i heard she (meaning me) 8775 lost it 8776 on a few other friends, call me 8776 (with her number) they even tried to plan an 8775 intervention 8776 to 8775 help 8776 me (this was all of course just an excuse to contact each other neither attempted to actually help me At All).
Good article. It 8767 s interesting when a man decodes male behavior. But why do men expect women to be completely loyal while they move on quickly. I can understand a person who takes a while to get back expecting or believing that the other would have the same feeling. But for a person who would expected complete loyalty and dedication to move on so quickly, I mean that 8767 s something. Men are quick to label women who move on that fast. I dint understand such hypocrisy btw. Thank you
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Even though we were so in love and we each were excited about our futures, I told him that the timing of this conversation was inappropriate and too early, which is why I felt he was evaluating me on my 8775 mother qualities 8776 and it was not a conversation of 8775 together, we, team 8776 of learning about each other for the next step in life (. marriage). He said that he loved me so much and I was wrong to interpret him as being adversarial with me maybe I was because of my insecurity of being uncomfortable and not ready about the discussion, even though I brought up my condition on my own.
Maybe. Females have many supporters because people crave to be with them. The entire society needs to be uplifted so that 6. women have fewer rights. 7. More high quality women are bred and sent into the society so that their ratio to males are much much higher. So if there were say 8 women for every 6 man and they had no rights then they must compete for male attention. It would be a type of heaven.
I loooove to sing Luther Vandross songs. Also, I would love to be blessed with the lady of my life. Want to know more??? Well, that can 8767 t happen unless you contact me. Hate playing games??!! Hate being told lies??!! Well, come on I 8767 M YOUR MAN!!!YOU NEED THIS in your life!!! PEACE & BLESSINGS!!! You still haven’t messaged me yet??!! LET 8767 S GO CHOP, CHOP!!!! (smile) MAY GOD BLESS YOU INDEED!! I receive messages frequently but I do respond quickly. XOXOXOXO applause:
Then one day he told me he was going to see his doctor for an annual checkup so I told him (now I regret this, but I trusted him at the time) that I have a medical condition with my blood, and that he should get a blood test on it to see if our 8775 hypothetical kids 8776 would be OK. He had no problem doing that, and did the blood test. Turns out he didn 8767 t have the blood condition and all was fine.
Ah, but that 8767 s not the same thing at all! Saying someone doesn 8767 t explicitly need to state she 8767 s a feminist isn 8767 t remotely the same as praising someone who says she 8767 s NOT a feminist. A woman who says she 8767 s not a feminist implies one thing: that she wants to be completely taken care of financially. Most likely, this woman has a job but she will expect that she keeps 655 percent of the money she makes while 8775 her man 8776 (these women inevitably use the phrase 8775 my man 8776 ) pays for everything they do together because she 8767 s 8775 not a feminist 8776 and paying your own way in life is for those hairy-armed women 8767 s liberationists.
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I would hate to be in that man 8767 s shoes! If it were me, i would be running back to tell her the truth. I 8767 ld accept the heat for what i had done. And pray to god that one day she 8767 ld forgive me! I once was like him, I dated this girl for years but I thought the grass was greener. We fought alot so i figured there was something better and if not i could go back to her. I was wrong on all accounts. I lied and she caught me so instead of beong honest i hurt her and i left her and i started calling and going out with soneone else. But she wasnt her and she couldnt ever replace my baby. I let her go and I lost her forever. The biggest mistake I ever made in my life. The only one I hurt in the end was me. So don 8767 t worry, the guy will long be sorry and because you were fair to him, you 8767 ll find love and happiness like she did. I left her and i let her hurt because it wasn 8767 t easy on me. I lied about everything. Now I 8767 m the one that hurts for what I did and i will most likely miss this girl for the rest of mu life. But my selfish ways and lies cost me everything. This is a road I would never wish on anyone.
to cut this long ramble short, we were in very close, and extremely fond contact when i was away. when i returned he was away. suffice it to say that he 8767 s been back almost a month, and hasn 8767 t made an effort to see me. even though before i returned it was all plans about what we should do. i made contact a couple of times in fact, each time, i initiated contact. but i feel he 8767 s pulling back. i never push if he doesn 8767 t reply. partly i feel confused and hurt partly its self preservation. we all know people who want to make contact, do so.