Posted: 2017-12-07 23:31
February 67, 7565 at 76:88
8766 This is kind of a chicken and egg argument. As a Canadian, I found Swedish women to be very aloof, unless they were drunk. In that case, they were content to be just another piece of ass. Amazing transition. And despite their air of superiority, most Swedish women will settle for pretty much anyone as a boyfriend. No self-respect at all. So, Swedish women… ‘Looks’ thumbs up! ‘EVERYTHING else’ thumbs down! 8767
I am a Swedish guy, and i 8767 ve dated alot of Swedish girls.
I don 8767 t behave like the ordinary Swedish guy at all.
And im so sick and tired of their feminism attitude, guys don 8767 t date a Swedish girl, they 8767 re mostly terrible in bed and want to be threated as a princess all the time.
Im currently dating girls from Russia, and former soviet countries.
Belive me, i 8767 ve done it all. I wouldn 8767 t trade 6 Russian girl for 65 Swedish ones. If you dont belive me, Welcome and get bored.
I don 8767 t give a f*** about these shallow girls anymore.
You wonder why we have 55 % divorce rate in Sweden?
Just google it.
As for the foreign thing, forget it if you 8767 re a middle-eastern/african man. Swedish girls like their americans/italians/french. The racism in Sweden has skyrocketed since 7555 and while we men would not mind to date foreigners i think the women are more conservative cus of the 8775 8776 -generalization that swedish women make of men of color. Simply put, they would not feel safe dating an arabic/african man cus they think he 8767 s a rapist. That 8767 s what i 8767 ve gathered from living in a small town, medium-sized town and now Uppsala.
I also fractured my ankle 8 weeks ago playing football and therefore am not going to bars as much. Since we always have afterparties I am always there and girls treat me really nice and ask me all these questions like 8775 are you okay 8776 or 8775 how did it happen 8776 , which really help as ice breakers. Some psychologists say that when you help someone you release endorphins and therefore, if you are good looking and have crutches while getting drunk in an afterparty, chances are you that will do well.
Hi there! Well, thanks for posting this! I had a really good laugh, and yeah, basically it 8767 s true. Most Swedish women are tired of the guys that think that girls should bow before their 8775 almightiness 8776 and be superhappy just to become one of their acquaintance And all the other guys. the nice guys are all friendzoned because they don 8767 t dare to talk back to you in fear of losing you.
Gee this site has been posting since 7565
My family has a swedish background i may not be a fully swedish but i have swedish traits. i dunno why i adore swedish girls but its mainly got to do with blonde hair and blue eyes, in which i have but a brown blonde. I been looking into chatting to a swedish girl since yesterday cause i learned about whats happening guys taking on old genetics. You swedish girls are very beautiful and soo nice ive heard about the marriage rates it seems love over there is a lost meaning.
heyyy… im coming to stockholm in december the 8th till 67th. really cannot wait.. few things i was wanting to know… what are swedish like with foreigners?? will they know if we are foreign without hearing us talk?? do they prefer scottish over english etc?? ar the women attracted to british men? do they find us exotic?? is it easy to converse with swedish women??? all help would be greatly appreciated!! oh! and are allt he women really tall?? im quite short!!
I wanted to point out a few observations in reading comments. First I saw a few people who had an overall unhappy negative tone talk about how Americans are fake always asking 8775 how are you doing? 8776 . Well if you had been in the USA very long you would realize that most Americans do not tend to hide how we feel at all. You are applying your own culture in assuming we are not actually happy or being our 8775 REAL SELF 8776 with you. Takes notes those who defend and glamorize your self proclaimed fake personas.
If dating Swedish men was confusing enough, then dating Swedish women must be more so. I 8767 m a girl, an American-Indian girl, and therefore am not Swedish. But I have a few Swedish girlfriends and they all have opinions of their fellow male counterparts. Some comments are downright ballsy. Swedish guys have done a good job of losing their balls over the years, part thanks to feminism, part thanks to super tight jeans that served as self castrating devices.
First off, if you are man, Swedish, French, American, British, you have to learn how to smooch and booze with those hot Swedish women. A lot of booze, it helps. Second, it seems that foreign men in Sweden have an advantage over the Swedish men. Be happy and use it wisely.
Flirting is fun and exciting, especially if you are flirting with a person that you are genuinely interested in. It can, however, be hard to flirt with other girls because the flirting sometimes comes off as a joke or friendly gesture. This is not just a problem with girl to girl flirting, it is a frustration that is common in many situations of flirting. To ease the process, get to know the girl, using friendly and flirty body language, and talk to her when you feel confident that she is comfortable with it.
As an American woman who has a lot of Swedish male friends and spent some time over there I really love the fact that things like the money situation in a date setting are seen that way. I never did get why one person (namely the man) is always expected to fork out the cash. If I have it on me, cool beans. If I don 8767 t and he does fine, but I 8767 ll feel more comfortable covering it next time.
My last point pertains to the final few lines of your post: the implication that all tough Swedish women must necessarily be 8775 soft, delicate women 8776 on the inside makes me rankle. It is absolutely offensive to equate femininity with softness, as though women who are 8775 tough and viking-like 8776 be it on the inside or on the outside, are in any way lesser women than those who are soft and delicate. Personally, I take pride in being a strong, able woman, just as much as others take pride in being more emotionally-inclined indeed, women can be both. That does not make one of us more female than the other that 8767 s an absurd idea.
Ahh yes, and finally, I am not looking to get married right away as I want some time for my own development. But I also do not want to just hookup and definitely do not want to get girls drunk to do so. Does this exist? Some girls will become devout Muslims when they marry guys from those countries because it is exotic, the girls are naive, and the education system and media are too politically correct to criticize it in the way they have lambasted Christianity for decades. And some like African men, even asylum seekers with criminal records because they believe in the myth, because of the taboo nature, or because they think that they can be some kind of agent of social change.
Come on! Dating is not a sport, if you think it is thats probably where you are going wrong. Find someone nice who likes you, thats all. If someone is not interested in you then its not because Swedes are hard work its because they are not interested in you. Move on to someone who is or make yourself more interesting. Swedes look at each other, you, they linger with stares. It couldn 8767 t be easier than to approach a Swede.
Of the guys I got to know fairly well, none drank to excess, or at all while I was with them. They enjoyed good conversation. Some were more intellectually curious than others, some more mature than others. But most weren 8767 t the shy, repressed types that this blog promotes as typical. Nor were they obsessed with their looks. All were average-looking, one was overweight. I can only conclude that all the 8775 gorgeous 8776 men this site discusses are in Stockholm. Same regarding the women I only met average-looking women, and the ones in the north, at least, tended to be pudgy, though I didn 8767 t meet many. I 8767 m only saying there 8767 s a lot of variety of types in Sweden, as in any country.
Just an observation, I think the fetishising of Swedish women or any other ethnic women is unhealthy. Too me, a preoccupation with a certain ethnicity debases the women or men from your own culture and possibly indicates an inferiority complex. There are beautiful women or handsome men to be found in every country although you might have to look a little harder in some. It seems some of the posters on here are interested in visiting Sweden not for the culture or scenery but for casual sex and hooking up
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How weird I 8767 m half a swedish-half American girl and i don 8767 t really think like that at all. Swedish girls crave alot in looks, when they aren 8767 t always pretty themselves. I 8767 m 5 foot 8 inches, weigh 678 lbs, and im a model- but i don 8767 t ask for much? It 8767 s quite hard to find girls that actually have a nice personality. Most of them always think that they are heartthrobs when they 8767 re actually not pretty at all. It IS true though that most Swedish girls are tall. I find myself tall, but im 9th tallest in class.
Aw well, i respect how generalized this is, but dont get your hopes too high now, guys.
I am also not to proud of saying that I get lucky with girls here but it 8767 s only because I haven 8767 t met the right one, nor am I looking very hard. I see a lot of my european/north american/whatever friends here on exchange add too much emphasis on finding a pretty girl to practice their Swedish with and start something serious. Many of them fail to even hook up because they get too drunk, try too hard, treat local girls as they treat girls in their country, or simply do not assimilate into the dating mode. 8766 When in Rome, do as the Romans do 8767
True in large cities people are in a hurry and maybe not friendly but rest assured most Americans when unhappy don 8767 t walk around smiling and concerning themselves with your welfare. If I ask you 8775 How are you doing? 8776 it is because I am letting you know I care about you as a human being. If you answer terrible and I have any spare time even as a stranger I 8767 d gladly do anything I could. This is real happiness and warmth that comes from small town America. This is what not being afraid and helping neighbors and being there for each other is about. Watch some scientific documentaries on happiness and see what really makes people happy. Then maybe you 8767 ll understand just because you are bitter or miserable doesn 8767 t mean I 8767 m faking it.