Posted: 2017-11-14 15:16
Women dont send dick pics to guys. That's why we are not creepy. If men didn't immediately make everything sexual they might have better luck. I never get guys that ask me about my interest or hobbies. A lot of the men are their own worst enemy. Its their APPROACH that is not working. Guys rant in their profiles. They have few good clear photos or they choose photos with other women in there (and dont crop them out). Most guys put very little effort into their profiles and then they are shocked women aren't interested. I've also had guys get angry because I didn't respond FAST enough. A lot of men come across as bitter, self-absorbed, shallow, perverted, womanizer. They can be the nicest person but if they display any of those qualities they wont get the time of day.
Online dating is very unhealthy for society. Most of my buddies try online dating and the only ones who get dates are the guys who are smooth talkers and then will literally have sex in a bar bathroom with a new girl they just met while they already have a girlfriend. The nice guys get overlooked ALWAYS. Even if the nice guy looks half decent. Girls end up thinking every guy wants them inflating their ego to an unrealistic level. And ultimately they gravitate to a smooth talker who is out of their league for long term dating then they feel there are no good men. Good Men SHOULD NOT date online or they will feel unwanted and ultimately need mental help. Women should not date online because they will set they can't differentiate between good guys and bad players. There is some success but it seems far to much work for a man to get success.
But the reason women always slept around is they're wired that way. As well as the evidence accumulated by Bergner you can look at "sperm wars" and paternity testing for proof. Why do sperm fight and kill one another? They have to if they want a chance at a fertilising an egg, because women have always slept around. And there were a lot of surprised people around when DNA testing of children first became possible.
easy way to get money and not slogged your guts out to get money by working is to marry a rich man of over 55 years old for a few years then divorced and get half of his centuries girls were bethrothed to old men for their money by their parents Old Men are stupid when come to girls,they think between their legs. So they deserved it more so if they devorced their matured wife.
In a prior post, you mentioned that you would fantasize about being married to someone who made more money than you. In another post, you stated that making money is part of what makes a man masculine. Do you think that, after being with you for twelve years, your husband may have come to realize that you harbor these feelings? If so, do you think these feelings could possibly be playing a role in your husband 8767 s reluctance to allow you to spend money on him?
I only ask because many men suspect that the women they 8767 re with have the same feelings as the ones that you 8767 ve expressed on this very blog, which is why they refuse to allow their girlfriends/wives to pay for things even though these men would appreciate it. Also, many men are very cognizant of the fact that they are perceived as moochers if their girlfriends/wives pick up the majority of the tab. One needs to look no further than the comments made after various posts on this blog to see evidence of that.
Ok guys. I have no idea what the other women's profiles look like. I post decent pictures but average on purpose. All I seem to get are the men who I wouldn't ever go out with. Don't take this wrong but their photos are terrible. Maybe good for a desperate woman. Fix yourselves up! Look good. I mean really it is hard to judge a book by its cover but you can at least try. Enough with the bathroom/gym selfies. Macho look at me or a beard down to your chest and beer belly aren't going to cut it no matter how awesome your profile seems. When you message us be cool about it. Don't come across as desperate. My problem is I'm good looking and they won't look past that to see the real me inside. You know the type. The women that you say: you are so beautiful. Why are you still single? Because no one takes a chance to get to know us except for the creepy guys. I don't understand it. Maybe the guys I'm attracted to don't want someone like me. They want an average woman. Can anyone make sense of this? If one more guy asks for a nude photo or worse sends me a pick of his junk I'm going to scream!!!
Of course wealthy men would marry again. Men like to be taken care of and as indicated in the article, their egos play a role. A woman who has a lot of money already has security. Money means that to a lot of women. It certainly does to me. As a women in her 55 8767 s and who 8767 s been down the road of marriage, raising kids, working, yadda, yadda, yadda, I don 8767 t feel compelled to partner up (been divorced for a while). And, I 8767 m not wealthy. Just enjoying my time to do what I want!
I think be reading the comments here on what women want, one can easily tell why men aren't getting what THEY want. It's always funny to see men saying what women really want and what we really think, and with such confidence! Oh, the laughs. Men, you can thank your fellow dudes here for spending too much time in pick-up artist forums, and tainting the dating pool so heavily with these wildly inaccurate childish perspectives they learn from other creepy men. Please do not blame women, for if you had to read dozens of messages from guys in the Red Pill community, who sound more and more like Elliot Rodgers the longer they remain single, you'd probably bow out of dealing with it after too long as well.
People don't aren't any different on dating sites than they are/were in "meat market" bars back in the 75s & 85s. Nice guys never had a chance because they were perceived as wimps. Based on my experince and in spite of what AW says, girls seem to go for the "bad boys" (creeps). I don't know whether if's the excitement of going out with a "bad boy", or masochism of getting no respect, or the futile hope of changing the guy but girls are drawn to creeps.
What you have to realize as a guy is that weirdly enough there are literally thousands of male profiles that have handsome guys educated to doctorate level on these sites. Just take a look for yourself. This means that no woman would even consider your profile if you a) don't have a doctorate b) don't look at least 'ok' but the doctorate is the clincher. Its just as if when us guys look at profiles on these sites if there were thousands of porn star hot profiles on the site and you had some chance of having them reply to you, you wouldn't even think about wasting your time with a quite pretty girl who was really nice. Unfortunately It's as simple as that. It's not cos you or I are mean it just would be lunacy if you found a hot model liked you and you liked her to go for someone else. That is what these girls are all effectively facing from their point of view a dating site chock full of the most attractive guys so why bother on the rest. Not only that but even for the doctorate level entries they don't get women hitting on then out of the blue every 5 minutes. Try it make a fake profile and you'll see what I mean.
Ha typical rationalization, you can do both, give it a try, there is nothing mutually exclusive about doing both, i realize you cant keep up but dont give up, men cant we have do so many more things. seriously women you are really nuts. my favorite is 8775 feminists 8776 saying 8775 oh im a feminist so i pay half 8776 HALF??? thats called egalitarianism, a REAL feminist would for her man also, JUST LIKE 99% of men do, pay EVERYTHING.
I been knowing this guy for 6 years and we just went out on our first date. And about a month later he 8767 s been acting very weird. I would text him because I don 8767 t want him to think I 8767 m running him down. With I am not. All I want to know if he want to still be friends or not. It 8767 s making me very upset about this situation. I just feel like he is using me. I am trying to be nice about to this guy knowing what all he did to me. We both are grown and I just feel like he need to know what he is doing is wrong. Not talking to me like he suppose to. Just lies. At the end of the day I still have to face this guy because his cousin is married to my aunt. I am 65 years than you. If you want to be more than friends let me know. I can 8767 t do everything. I 8767 m telling you what I want so hear me out please. At first you seemed like a very nice guy but now I can 8767 t tell. I am falling for you. I really want this to work. You can ask me out I am ready now. I just need you to trust me.
When I married, I did exactly what you advise women to do, even though this was way before the age of dating coaches :-). I did it intuitively, and it is not surprising, because what you advise is anyhow common sense. I chose my husband based on his looks and character, inspite of the fact he was making less money than me, and knowing that he clearly had a lower earning potential due to lower education and ambition. We dated for 5 years, 7 of which long-distance and 7 cohabitating, so we were both fully aware of what each of us had to offer.
I am 78 and she is 85. I loved her and cared about her as much as I could. But she always compared with her Ex. I admire her but she always want to be the boss. She thinks I am a kid and she think she know all the thing. These were small problems. The big one is that as she is older, she had her loved ones or soul mate and she will always love him. Now, she choose her Ex, dated him back no matter how I loved her.
I do agree that men don 8767 t necessarily care if a hot woman uses them for a sugar-daddy, but I don 8767 t think many women want to be used as sugar-mamas, as the article states, 8775 Only 65% of divorced millionaire males surveyed said falling in love would be the most important factor in their decision to remarry, while the remainder said they’d go into a marriage to “share their wealth” or to “spoil a beautiful woman.”. Women, OTOH, don 8767 t want to feel as if they are 8775 buying 8776 love.
(As a quick aside ot all men on this point- STOP STOP STOP saying we only care about what you “do for a living” or “how much money you make”, car you drive, etc. Just STOP. 9 times out of 65 it is men who tell me within 85 minutes of meeting me that they drive a Mercedes or go on and on bragging about their big shot career without ever asking me a anything about me. Also, “nice guys” (whatever you mean by that) do not always finish last. What you are referring to as a “nice guy” is not the same thing, I think. If a woman says a guy was “too nice” – she means he was a pushover or did not have any opinions of his own or motivation or aspirations, etc. There’s a difference. A true nice guy, in our minds is a man who treats us with mutual respect, And those guys are cherished and sought after, not overlooked. Perhapps there is a reason to ask if those self-proclaimed “nice guys” out there are not as “nice” as you think you are? Or, if you are, maybe you are not allowing that to shine through in your profile somehow? Just a thought. Please get it straight, please).
Then I get down to the decent messages. We chat. I have to ask where they live and work and I flag with them that they are my standard initial questions due to my situation. I don't mind where they live, but where they work is important because I only have lunch times during work days to do initial coffee/meet-ups. My daughter lives with me, but alternate weekends she is with her father. I don't want to commit my free weekends to anyone until I've met them first and have decided that I would like to progress. My free time is scarce so I'd like it to not go to waste.
Feminism hasn 8767 t been about equality for years mate. It became about avenging the wrongs done to women. It has since become an exercise in ensuring women get whatever they want. It 8767 s so rare to see a feminist writing about true equality (ie also giving a damn about the male perspective) that I 8767 m shocked every time I read it. Equality is all well and good when it benefits women, but suddenly the cries for equality stop when it comes to women asking men out, proposing marriage or paying for dates. Those things aren 8767 t inequality, they 8767 re 8775 tradition 8776 .
Also I can attest to the fact that I currently hold an account on okcupid. I am currently looking for a partner. I have also chosen to abstain from competition regarding wealth and power and instead am attempting to find a place on the fringes of society where I can be myself without harming others. I own very little, earn very little, and struggle to find women willing to get to know someone in my societal position as a potential partner.
All this bitterness you're expressing comes through in how you write messages. I can guarantee it. That's why no one writes you back. No one wants to engage with someone they have to prove themselves to. Maybe drop all that anger you have at being rejected so that you can properly open the door up to being accepted. You're approaching these chicks like, "dumb bitch isn't going to write me back anyway why am I even wasting my time." You're reaping what you sow.