Posted: 2017-09-11 16:14
*Maceo* Well, BM like you and your friends didn 8767 t do anything for the Black community. None of you were educated, you chased, married Low grade WW, lived off them, didn 8767 t excel or give back, chased WW H*es, chased different races of women, made OOW babies while married, none of you have anything of your own, the assets belong to the women.
BW turn BM like you and your friends because you fit the 8775 stereotypes 8776 of BM who chased WW P*ssy at the expense of not doing something with your lives or your communites. BW are simply being honest and your ashamed of their honesty because even you put 95 years into WW with nothing to show for your time! LMAO BW simpy give you FACTS on your behaviors, you should be ashamed, you have less than 7 years to retire and have nothing to show for your time! *Typical BM Fate*
It 8767 s the evils of feudalism and industrial workers 8767 exploitation in Europe and America, but not the strict Confucian evils of Northeast Asia. There, a member of the ruling class in China had, essentially, a free hand with anyone of the lower classes, a Japanese samurai could test his sword by cutting down an insolent peasant, and farmers were so squeezed by their fief holders that they habitually sold their daughters to bordellos for the few coins it provided for next season 8767 s seed.
So one time is was in Philly and a wandered down to a bar. I sat down and ordered a drink, after a bit a guy sits down next to me. We chat it up a bit and finally he says 8775 I wasnt even going to approach you 8776 . I ask him why and he explains most women bite his head off. I asked him on an average of 65 women how many actually do that? or is it just one and then he gives up. He thought about it and said he wasnt sure. So I issued him this challenge: With an average of 65 women how many actually shoot him down? Over any time frame.
You 8767 re dismissing the very real, very hurtful fact that society openly devalues black women and constantly send us the message that we are undesirable, and men of all races buy into it. I agree with you that we do better on sites like black people meet, where black men who show up actually want to date black women. But there are still 65-75 of us for every one black man on those sites. So the outcomes while better still aren 8767 t great. Denial doesn 8767 t do anyone any good.
Your definition of a 8775 top quality woman 8776 most likely varies from other men 8767 s definition. And no, they can 8767 t/ don 8767 t strive to 8775 get 8776 men from just walking down the street. IMO, top quality women know their worth and know where to meet top quality men. There are a lot of professional men and women on these sites because they either want to meet someone but don 8767 t come across a lot of good options during their days (my reason) or they want to broaden their horizons and meet men who they typically wouldn 8767 t have met from 8775 walking down the street 8776 , as you say.
Hey, I just wanted to say thanks for all the advice here. It was a pleasure to read. A friend of mine has been struggling with his profile, and was convinced that he was the reason he wasn 8767 t getting much interest. I 8767 m never for tricking anyone, but I told him online dating is as much about advertising oneself as advertising a product, you have to be thoughtful with what you choose to put out there and how you represent yourself. We 8767 re working on a profile together now, mostly cause I insisted he let me try to help before closing his down for good.
This article is inaccurate. It 8767 s very interesting to me that someone took the time to write such a thing regarding the African-American woman. To me, this article represents a scarcity conversation. There are so many men in this world who are dying to meet, date, fall in love with, and marry an African-American woman. It 8767 s called Abundance. Practice it. Please stop printing ignorance. People have better things to do with their time than read this garbage.
Some interesting points, a lot of waffle and some errors. Your stated view that the WW7 8766 Holocaust 8767 resulted in the old 6 million dead Jews is well past its sell-by date. Top class, modern historians now regard that figure as grotesquely disproportionate. The Red Cross AND the German Government counted less than 655,555 for ALL deaths in ALL camps other than those behind Russian lines. It 8767 s now commonly called the HOLOHOAX. It is one of the most successful internationsal businesses of all time.
The 7569 publication of Christian Rudder&rsquo s book, Dataclysm: Who We Are When We Think No One&rsquo s Looking (Crown), confirmed in hard facts what many heterosexual, single Black women already suspected about the online dating game: the odds are stacked, and not in our favor. On the OkTrends blog , Rudder reports, &ldquo 87% of non-Black men on OkCupid show some bias against Black women.&rdquo Rudder goes on to say in his book that this means, &ldquo being Black basically costs you about three-quarters of a star [out of five] in your rating, even if you&rsquo re at the top.&rdquo Rudder&rsquo s findings certainly back the lackluster experience that I&rsquo ve endured on online dating sites, but even despite the cold hard data, I couldn&rsquo t help but wonder if other races of women really get more love. So what better way to find out than to become a woman of a different race online and experience it firsthand?
I met my husband on Our Time, which is linked to Black People Meet. We 8767 ve been married since April of 7569 and it 8767 s been great! Treats me like a queen. We haven 8767 t had any arguments the entire time we 8767 ve been together. I was blessed with him. I did date online prior to meeting him dated a guy for 6 years. We had some good times together but I sincerely believe he had 8775 commitment issues 8776 he said he wanted to be married but didn 8767 t make any moves whatsoever in 6 years. But I will look at it as God was saving me for the man in my life now. Advice? It will be like looking for a needle in a haystack but it is possible to find someone.
8775 I do not know the intention of the person who wrote this article but you didn 8767 t discourage me from trying online dating you motivated me to try it as well as to get out and meet people. 8776 And don 8767 t be discouraged. It is not the only place to meet a man as you stated, just one more option. I (a plain jane) have tried online dating and had no problem meeting men from ALL ethnic backgrounds. Although I met my husband off line, the experience online was not bad at all. These articles gloss over the fact that of course the majority of the men on these mainstream sites will have a preference that corelates with the numbers in the real world. Being that interracial dating and marriage is still a small percentage of overall marriages, so it would make sense that you won 8767 t find a slew of men wanting/looking to date interracially online. These articles are so redundant.
I know a woman who is black and native American and she is five feet four and 665 pounds. She says that she sometimes gets these big, fat black men trying to hit on her though she also attracts not fat black men as well as white men checking her out b/c many men are not sure what race she is. Anyway though she says not that you judge by weight but what makes a big fat guy thinks he has a chance with this mixed race, slim and in shape woman and they are built like sloppy joe. This is one heck of a good looking woman and she says big fat black men seem to think that all women are just so desperate for a man that he can be any kind of way and get in shape women.
Online dating sucks and mostly losers do it! I helped my friend set up a profile and I 8767 m going to tell you what some black men profiles said! One stated I know I 8767 m black but I don 8767 t have to keep getting responses from black women. One stated that his dream girl was Scarlet Johanassen. One girl started taking shots at black women about being too hood. Some just straight up excluded black women in race preferences. I told her to delete her profile! Some black men are sick and need help! The white man has brainwashed them to believe their women are the best.
My other experience with online dating is that black men announce there pockets and material things before they tell you anything of importance about themselves. Every message I received was some brother telling me that he had a good job, a nice car, and his own place. Umm sir, that isn 8767 t an option, it 8767 s a requirement! Your profile says you 8767 re 85+, you better have all 8 of these things for you are grown and we live in an area were public transportation is used to go to work if you have a vehicle or it is your transportation because you do not have a vehicle. Driving is how you can get outside of the city and it 8767 s kind of necessary to have a car. If you do not have a car, something ain 8767 t right lol. Fellas are the stereotypes that bad? If they are, why do you play into them? How many women walk around saying, 8775 Hello my name is Jackie and I have a good job, a nice car, and my own place. What do you do? 8776 O_o?
I told you as an attractive racially mixed BW, Ive had no problem
attracting quality WM. Matter of fact, BM can 8767 t even complete with the
WM that I date in almost every area. Most BM have 8775 No redeeming
qualities 8776 right up front. You don 8767 t know how to 8775 Court women 8776 or even
date correctly! It so sad and shameful that all I can do is laugh! Its
so bad that I 8767 m thinking about writing a blog on some of the sorry
practics and BS that middle aged BM do and say!
Well I can only speak in general, as i cannot go in the phonebook and individually pick out exceptions. In GENERAL, sharks bite, birds fly, wolves howl, and white men don 8767 t MARRY black women. Not very often at least. Will the date you? Yes. Will the be your 8775 boyfriend 8776 ? Yes. I 8767 m talking about marriage. The number of white men married to black women has increased, but is still very very low in percentage. The fact that YOU personally have dated white men and the fact that YOU don 8767 t care about race, although admirable, is anecdotal. Also your friends are probably like you, as people hang out with people like themselves. Just because you are the exception does not disprove the rule
Hey Nancy It 8767 s funny because while these profiles are good, they have been copied THOUSANDS of times. I single handedly made the 8775 Anchorman 8776 the most quoted movie of all time on okCupid because so many guys copied the #7 profile with the 8775 Anchorman 8776 quote in it. If you search okCupid you 8767 ll see thousands of guys that just copied these profiles word for word and they wonder why they don 8767 t work. lol
I agree, my dad was a cop and when other BM saw him it was either a handout man or he was a Tom. Since when are decent working men a bad thing? Because they aren 8767 t a thug, got swag, blah, blah. Or it seemed the guys in the front seat of the car got no play and the ones in the back seat did. His BM friends got a few badge bunnies but when it came time to settle down they weren 8767 t interested, just not cool enough. I am 68 so it may be different now, but it seems about the same.
If you 8767 d like to know more S ay 8775 hi 8776 . I didn 8767 t reve A l a lot about my S elf for you to read on purpose. Rather we chat, talk, engage in conversation to get to know each other instead of us reading through a long page in this section about each other. Also, just because someone look S like a good match “on paper”, doesn 8767 t necessaril Y translate in reality.
Maceo ~ This is correct which is why I chose to marry outside the race! BM don 8767 t show they value or appreciate women. Most BM don 8767 t even know how to court women or treat a woman like a woman! Since I have my self togeher as a woman why would I invest in BM when their behaviors are high risk? BM rarely bring anything to the table and want to live off women! They don 8767 t know how to be the and want you to take the Man 8767 s Role!