Posted: 2017-09-11 21:24
I am working in Kuala Lumpur for 6 months and met a guy at a dinner party thrown by his mum. We got on really well, after a night of heavy drinking he dropped me home and we slept together. While drunk he told me really likes me and would I stay in Malaysia. The next day we hung out all day (and he asked if he could take me on a date the next day and help me unpack on the weekend as I 8767 m still living out of suitcases). But that night I told him I couldn 8767 t stay in KL but he stayed over again. The next morning we had an awkward goodbye. Ever since I 8767 ve texted three times to ask when we 8767 re meeting, with evasive responses. How can I fix this? I actually like him and after a lot of thinking, if it worked, I would actually stick around in Malaysia.
I feel for you, really. Virgo Men absolutely love Cancerian women, however from my experience there seems to be time-limit on how long it can last. I agree that you shouldn 8767 t be pushy, however as I 8767 ve said in previous replies you need to ask him the truth about how he feels about you. You need to tell him that what ever he says, it 8767 s OK and that it won 8767 t hurt your feeling (even if it does)
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I 8767 ve met this girl on a social network site. I 8767 m 75 and she 8767 s 67. She currently lives in my country but i 8767 m away for school at the moment. We 8767 ve only known each other for 8 days. However i 8767 m always the one to confront her and start the conversation and at times i think she turns off her phone before going to bed as she told me one time she sometimes turn off her phone. As of last night i sent her a message, she woke up and didn 8767 t even reply. Everytime she takes so long to reply and i just feel as if im coming on as clingy to this she playing 8766 hard to get 8767 or is she simply not interested. I 8767 ve come up with a solution to just not talk to her for awhile and try and get her to speak more. Would this help and also do you think she 8767 s interested in me.
Almost a month later I text her asking if she wants to meet up, no reply. I give it a day or two and text her again. She replies that she lost track and she 8767 s trying to work things out with her ex so if I 8767 m after something romantic, then she 8767 ll have to decline. But went on to say, but I like your company so if you want to hang out and enjoy a conversation I 8767 m down. She then invited me to this event at a restaurant/bar with some of her friends who were mostly all girls, a few dudes. I thought we had a good time we sat together at the table most of the time, she asked me a bunch of questions, trying to get to know each other more. At one point it came up that I drove out like 75 minutes to get there, and she said something like aw you drove all that way to see lil ol 8767 me? I pretty much said yes and she smiled and said that 8767 s sweet, that 8767 s really endearing.. At the end of the night she asked if I wanted to walk her and her friend back to her car. I did and we said our goodbyes and that we 8767 ll see each other again, but no definitive plans.
Theres a girl ive known for about 66 years. We dated last year for around 9 months. Shortly after it ended(which was my fault) i ended up getting arrested and going to jail for 675 days. Since being released,and coming home,i reached out to her. We messaged back and forth, talked about everything. It was going great. We each said we still loved one another as well. Now when i message her, she doesnt respond. This happened out of nowhere. What can i do? What could i say to her?
I have found Virgo man to be outwardly less demonstrative than most (sometimes even appearing cold, obtuse and detached), but, also radiating a warmth on the inside. Their combination of restraint and modesty can be very endearing, but sometimes it would be nice to be less confused about what they really mean and feel and to be wrapped up in a giant non-ambiguous bear hug! Instead, I find I 8767 m doing the initiating, which is also a little uncomfortable as I do feel it 8767 s the man 8767 s role. I 8767 m a Gemini and I can find it a real roller coaster ride of cosiness, then doubt.
Hi there..pls demystify this situation for me. I met someone a few weeks ago. He was a friend of a client who travelled to our country on business. I ended up showing them our country and the sites. It became obvious to the group that he and I spoke to each other more often and we would always end up seperated from everyone else. I felt we connected even though we did not act on our 8766 connection 8767 .He asked for my number and we started skyping..mainly texting. We chat almost everyday and I know he is busy and so am I, but I wish it could go futher. He had asked me a few times to come visit their country so that he can spend time with me..he says he wants to show me around and i should not ask my business associates to do that. Is he in to me or also just playing it safe to suss out the situation. Or am I just stroking his ego.
hey guys, i have been in love with 6 girl in our locality, always i dropped her at home and i give her gifts, choklets, ice creams etc. she accept my all things with her sweet smile, always i msg her but she is not replying, and i will not able to know that what is in her mind, what she is thinking of me, i love her lot lot lot ..
so friends please give me Suggestions, how i make her to fall in love with me.
I 8767 m glad to hear a guy getting as upset as I am about this. I 8767 m a girl and this article REALLY pissed me off. It is a piece of trash and honestly, is only spreading around old, distorted misinformation that makes it . for men to act like subhuman pieces of shit to women. MEN ARE CAPABLE. MEN CAN LOVE. MEN CAN COMMUNICATE. And I am SICK of hearing these articles say otherwise. I am tired of articles giving excuses for men and women based on 8775 biology 8776 . Sorry, but sociology trumps biology in many cases, and people are more complex than this shitty article lets on. I 8767 m glad you think outside the box, Evan.
Virgo men will initiate the majority of the conversation if there are awkward silences, but we’ll gladly ask your opinion on things and give you the opportunity to have your say. But please, use this opportunity wisely. Do not overtake the entire evening with vacuous conversations such as who is now dating Kim Kardashian, or if we knew Cameron Diaz had really bad skin. We all know she covers it with tons of make-up – Enough already! Entertain us with wonderful and intriguing things you’ve done, or places you’ve been. Keep your unrealistic fantasies to yourself, because Virgos are not ruled by emotion, but rather by being rational and practical.
However, as I 8767 m in my early fifties, I 8767 ve unfortunately seen gender relations get progressively worse over the past 85 years or so. I believe that the level of relations between men and women are at an all time low, and now polarized to the point where there’s probably not much hope for gender reconciliation, thanks to the man-hating, feminazi mentality of 8775 all men are dogs 8776 , 8775 all men are players 8776 , and 8775 all men are rapists 8776 , among others.
Don 8767 t be afraid of what he might say. If you find out he 8767 s seeing others or he doesn 8767 t want anything serious, that 8767 s good to know. You might discover he is very interested and sees this going the distance. Since you 8767 ve put yourself in the driver 8767 s seat, you will need to take the risk of finding out where he stands. Keep it light and try to to get aggressive or demanding for the best outcome.
Tony, thanks for your responses. Its really cool you do that on here. Many 8775 gurus 8776 don 8767 t do that. I have read a few of your articles and lots of what you have to say seems to click with me. It would seem that your style is more down to earth, and about being yourself, then about specific methods and routines. I like that! It would also seem that your material is less misogynistic then a lot of what is out there, which is great. Anyway, about this situation:
hi Ron..so I met this guy last year at a hangout and eventually ended up making out before the end of the got together a few months later and he still constantly is he never asks me out on a tells me everything he 8767 s doing through 8767 m really growing to like him by the I 8767 m afraid that he doesn 8767 t feel the same way. Should I just cut contact and move on or just tell him how I casual texting is killing me need to know what his intention is
Thank you for the response. I shall wait for him no doubts about that as long as we talk to each other. I have the patience. However talks are barely minimal. And in that too i initiate the talks. However i need suggestions to win him. I would not want him to leave his wife or kids at all. In his life as a friend, the first point of contact my name should be the first. Help me to win his confidence, trust and realization that I am the one friend he wants for his life. What do i need to do? Your valuable suggestions and inputs are really appreciated.
Sorry to be so direct but this situation is no different than the post. The guy is inconsistent and you already unfriended him on FB. Ummm, you still wonder how he feels about you? Flirting doesn 8767 t mean anything, neither does texting. If he was truly interested in you, he 8767 d ask you out consistently. Don 8767 t look for love with this guy. You want a man who consistently shows interest, contacts you, dates you and doesn 8767 t leave you confused.
I wouldn 8767 t suggest putting money out there before yourself. It will make good women who appreciate hard work and finances less interested in you and the women looking for nothing but money go right for you. Maybe pay for dates, maybe a small gift. Let them get to know you before you use money to make up for other insecurities. I imagine if you made money your smart if you want to share hard earned income your kind if you get these girls your probably attractive too. You seem to be worthy of being appreciated for you not just what you give. Besides these girls end up finding there don juan and your money can 8767 t compete with true love. So maybe let someone in be vulnerable and let someone love you for who you are. Good luck. Just a thought if you could use a females perspective.
Reading the article made me sad. About two months ago, I met what I thought was a wonderful man through a dating website. I only dated men that people usually call 8775 bad boys 8776 . I felt he was different, I thought that he would never hurt me. Although I 8767 m frankly not very experienced in the matters of heart, I saw something different in him there was a peaceful atmosphere between us that I really enjoyed.
Your 67 Its not love sweety. Trust me rather break it off with him and focus on school and enjoy your life? Your still so why do you want to get your heart broken by a couple of jerks? If I was you I would wait until I 8767 m at least 66 to date. Sounds like he just likes the idea of having a gf. I 8767 m 68 and I really don 8767 t want a boyfriend right now, you want to know why? Because I have big dreams, dreams that i don 8767 t want to miss out on because of a silly boy. I don 8767 t want to waste my time when I 8767 m not ready to settle down with a guy. Yeah, have crushes and go on group dates but even then I would wait till I was older. Your so honey, don 8767 t ruin your life by getting involved in things that aren 8767 t meant for your age 8