Posted: 2017-10-13 02:43
In Arab countries the thumbs-up gesture is rude. Showing the soles of the feet is insulting/rude in many Asian and Arab cultures, especially pointing the foot or feet at anyone. Feet are considered ''inferior'' parts of the body compared with the dignity of the face. In Arab culture the left hand and right hands have religious connotations which generally dictate that the left hand is not used for touching (for example shaking hands) or eating. Arab handshaking tends to be more frequent and less firm - on meeting and departing, even several times in the same day.
Some of the most common ways women indicate sexual interest, and the first class of signals, are displays of submission. They include body lowering or body shrinking, childlike playfulness , dilated pupils , eye widening , neck and wrist exposure , coy glances, smiling , giggling and laughing , touching the neck, head tilting, shoulder shrugs, bowing the forehead , downcast eyes, turning the toes in called pigeon toes or “tibial torsion. ”
It is easy to approach men for sex but with ladies, you need to be careful and make the right move to get the casual sex date fixed for sure. That’s where things like smartness and cockiness come in. Show the lady how discreet you are and you are very well into this already. Don’t push but don’t stop pursuing. Once you are done with fixing the date and selecting the place (yours, hers or any other), make sure you’re prepared to make her feel relaxed while keeping your nerves steady. Having wild sexual encounter is good but why not give the tiger rest before you can actually test the waters and make the girl really really want you in bed? Norwegian and Swedish ladies are almost never going to take the first initiative which is why you should be very polite, well mannered, classy and really good in the talks. Remember, don’t do flattery but don’t shy away from praising her on chat.
so much great advice-thankyou Mirror of Aphrodite- all the same for all age groups? I am a mature female internet dater and feel there are certain things an older dater needs to consider. I have already in my first 9 months learned the hard way. Ive now made a list of rules/boundaries based on your advice and stick to it. The info on phones/ txts really works!! You know why men contact me? I like your profile= you are different, and my best asset is my hair (no cleavage to speak of)so I make the best of it in photos and change my main profile pic every month. I always have my hair up when we meet, then I go to the restaurant rest rooms and return with it down to surprise him- one man almost fell off his chair and was beaming from ear to ear, another pulled out his phone and said may I take a pic of your hair!! I only search for compatible star signs and Im a numerologist, and have subtle methods for asking someones birthdate early on in our chats, so I have an added advantage in my screeing. If they are incompatible I dont bother continuing. THANKYOU.
Hi Mirror, good it gave some food for thought-as well as helping me join a few more dots. In hindsight I think it must have been drugs as that could explain a pie-eye and the odd habit of muttering to himself (repeating a sentence he had just spoken in a normal-louder voice) elusive behaviour and difficulty to get it up in the morning (which from what a doctor friend of mine tells me is a poor health indicator for men). What a shame, he could be an absolutely stunning man!
Overall this experience strengthens my resolve to take things slowly (more so with online dating) and really gather as much info as I can before having sex with a man! I m so glad I never pursued him when he if I was dying to see him.
Hello Mirror, I really enjoy your blog! I wonder what you make of this one: I met a guy online, 95 bachelor, very handsome - and a player. I spotted his true colours since date 6, but consciously thought what the heck..let s go for it and live life to the full. As you can imagine I ended up developing feelings for him against my will and better judgement! Anyway we dated casually for 7/8 months but are no longer in touch. It was becoming apparent that his interest was dwindling, so when he went off the radar I never tried to contact him again. What bothers me is this: every time we were about to have sex he would disappear to the bathroom. And a few times he actually took advantage of a pause we were taking to go. He s a health/yoga/sports freak. Could it have been drugs? The behaviour was so odd and obviously related to sex that I took advantage of one of his bathroom moments to scan the room for hidden case he was somewhere pushing buttons! Have you ever heard of something similar???
When considering body language in such detail, remember that males and females rely greatly on conversation and verbal communication to determine mutual attraction as soon as the situation allows. Body language in flirting can be significant in indicating a strong match, but just as easily can merely be an initial filtering stage which progresses no further because other (infinitely variable) personal or situational criteria on either or both sides are not met.
. Where the terms ''leg crossing'' and ''crossed legs'' are used alone, this refers to the legs being crossed at both knees. The ''American'' or ''Figure-9'' leg cross entails the supporting leg being crossed just above the knee by the ankle or lower calf of the crossing leg. This makes a figure-9 shape, hence the name. The posture is also called the American leg cross because of its supposed popularity in the US compared to the UK, notably among males.
If she is doing something she has done a thousand times before, but it looks as if it requires additional concentration, she might be caught in a fright response. This in turn causes her to freeze or alter her thought pattern causing her to fumble over her task. Imagine taking a draw from a cigarette. She raises her hand to her mouth, catches a glimpse of a man she fancies, pauses stiff, looks down, then after a moment takes a drag. She has been caught in a thought, and her body has triggered a protective fear response. Under normal circumstances, she would simply carry on, but when intimidated by a thought of attraction, her mind froze her body to protect it from drawing attention to itself.
Thanks MOA! It s as if I have to try to maintain two personalities, and I am still not too skilled at this balancing act, but I will work on incorporating these more: compassionate, empathetic and understanding. I think I am a fair leader but do expect a certain standard of output. In your experience, do these feminine traits in any way affect the quality of the work your group produces? I think of Abraham Lincoln when I think of a compassionate, empathetic and understanding leader. He seemed to possess both the masculine and the feminine qualities in just the right proportions that clearly made him great. I know everyone knows that, I don t have to say that but I happened to think of him when you listed these qualities, even though he s male.
Don t Like Being A Bitch
Mirror.. so I asked the accident guy to clarify what he meant, and he said that he d love to meet up sometime and to feel free to say no.
And that if not travel maybe him and I could adventure on a staycation (I mentioned that I may go on a staycation if my injury prevents me from going abroad).
I m getting spooked! He still does not know what I look like, but wants to meet up. Huh??
He did say to feel free to say no, but I still feel pressured.
If a guy says he just wants to be friends, believe him, or you are simply lying to yourself (and believe me, I know the feeling). I wrote at 67:96 above, as Anon. So I know how frustrating it is when you connect with someone, even just online, and let your fantasies get the best of you.
The only way you will meet a real and available guy is by living in the present reality. :-) Believe me, I know!
Eye widening is any act done to make the eyes appear bigger than normal through raising the eyebrows or lifting the eyelids. Women have also taken to the habit of plucking their eyebrows. This has the effect of creating more space around the eyes causing others to perceive them more favourably. A wider eye is more childlike and friendly. Eye widening is a positive nonverbal cue indicating that someone is observing positive stimuli, stimuli that bring them joy and happiness or surprise and shock.
If I am understanding this correctly, the New Wilmington Amish came from the Nebraska Amish from Mifflin county. If that is the case, then would the New Wilmington Amish be considered Nebraska Amish? I knew they were one of the most conservative sects. But since they do things differently (buggy color, bonnets, boots, etc.) would they still be considered Nebraska Amish? Would they be considered Beachy?
I lived in this are for years and always thought these Amish were the most conservative. Glad to get it straight. This website is very helpful.
I live in the Mohawk Valley and yes we have gold or yellow top buggies and definitely the blue door Amish. I asked where they came from and the lady said western PA. They are more conservative than the Lancaster Amish and it seems the ladies are friendly but reserved. I buy eggs and produce from them in the summer and fall. We also have Lancaster Amish that have moved in an area that is fairly close to us. All of them are wonderful people.
One last question that s been sort of bugging me all along: Do you think I actually discouraged him by giving him the out? Did I do, do, do when I gave him that option? Because based on our last conversation in regards to his returning, it sounded like he wanted
to make every effort to come back. And I feel like I tinkered with that. What would you have done Ms. Mirror? Would you have waited until you heard back from him and maybe just had a replacement ready, or simply asked him if it looks like he can come
back without giving him an out?
Thank you Ms. Mirror. I thought I was taking baby steps, but suddenly I feel like I m flying. This feels pretty amazing. I ve learned so much about myself in just the last week.
You are incredible.
With many thanks,
Don t Like Being A Bitch
I ve this article before but had to come back to it to share how spot on accurate it is. I am the woman who was wishy-washy, non-committal and had this done to me. And it worked in HIS favor, true to each word Aphrodite wrote.
I adore this man but fear ruled me. So when I couldn t be consistent and committed, he broke up with me. He went silent. I immediately felt the loss, within days, and began the campaign to get him back. Love song, heartfelt letter, followed up by a can we talk phone call. We met and talked but he still cant trust me. So, he won t reconcile. I did my level best and now it s time for me to go no contact. I put my hand of love out to him, he has rejected it and I know he cares for me deeply. He just needs to feel what I felt..the loss.
It was a lesson in true humility for me, his silence. I hope it will be the same for him. In the end, we will treat each other with well needed self-respect.
When it finally comes time to speak, it is essential to once again ramp up our mindfulness of what is going on non-verbally since things might change dramatically. Priority should always be given to subconscious body language over conscious words. For example, a woman who otherwise gives off positive cues and jokingly pushes you off saying, “get away,” is probably just teasing you and really does want you to continue to pursue. A woman’s true intentions are never quite clear, but body language can help uncover what is hidden to others and sometimes even to her. There is always conflict going on in our minds, we need to expect there to be conflict in the body language we use.
Hey I tell men who try to bring thier rubbish my way this all the time - I can be unhappy all by myself, I don t need some man adding to it. Take care of your issues then give me a call - if i am still around by then we will talk. Otherwise I have bigger fish to fry. That usually weeds out the foot draggers, time wasters, idiots, losers and players in one fell swoop.
First of all, select your ‘date’ or partner for the encounter. For this, you need to be either a part of a casual sex community or have a profile on the leading dating apps like Tinder, Victoria Milan and C-Date. Even Adult Friend Finder shall do the trick. But never approach the lady or the man with a line ‘ Hey, sex tonight?’. (See also additional advice on these pages: C-date erfaringer and C-date erfarenheter ) Be mannered and show you got some class. After all, who would want to spend discreet sex time with a person with no class. Ask about the partner, her personal life (not details) and tell him or her how attractive you think they are and then ask over to spend time with them. Even if you want to tell them what you want, tell them what ‘things’ you want to do to them. Now that’s hot, steamy and not offending at all.