Posted: 2017-11-14 14:18
i 8767 m 67 in I dated a girl with all these signs, she got mad out of no where then turn around in be nice then say hurtful things to me then hits me for something dumb then turn around in say sorry then she would try to make me look bad in front of ppl I went to jail because she told me to come get my money then when I got there she didn 8767 t hve any of it in I end up going to jail cause she lied in said I broke in then she tried to apologize to me in say she love me rt afterwards
I 8767 ve known this guy for 7 months. When we first met we were friends with benefits and he was seeing other girls. In February he stopped setting the other girls. We talk or text everyday, see eachother almost everyday, are with eachother 79/7 on weekends. My problem is he says he can 8767 t give me what I want. We dint have sex last two times we did he was a jerk the next day. I asked him about it and he says he doesn 8767 t want to hurt me. When we are together he 8767 ll caress my leg or touch me or something. Should I talk to him about how I feel our should I just let it be what it is? I do like him allot. One when he was drunk last month he told me that he likes nee allot but wants to do this dissent. I 8767 m really confused!!! Please help me.
Tell me about it. My ex pulled the handbrake on my car when I was drying, trashed me car, now its my word against his. he is is bits crying saying that I made it do it and that he is sorry but will never admit it. I love him so much and am internally fighting that he is a good person and I cannot cut contact. However, feeling so low and crying every time I talk to him is not helping. I am in the same boat, may restricting contact to just once a day may help you grow stronger. thats what I intend to do.. x
Guys this is hard if you aren’t a lover of children I cannot stress this any harder if kids annoy you, or if they get in the way for you, then stick to women who lack kids. If you do love kids, or are tolerant of kids in a friendly way, then you must realize that dating a woman with a child is like dating two people. You have to cater to both on some level, especially if the child is a female herself.
After reading this I 8767 ve realized that I am an abuser and guilty of doing all the above but I 8767 m not sure what kind of help I need I already see a Psychologist and therepist twice a week but I can 8767 t stop the things I do or at the least stop hitting him don 8767 t get me wrong he 8767 s a gym rat and could easily thrash me but I know he never would so I hit and kick or punch him harder and more often. We recently had a real nasty fist fight and for the first time in 9 months he did not come home and his phone is off I 8767 m praying he 8767 s safe but does it mean he 8767 s safer without me? How do I get him to come home?
I have gone with married woman when I was One of my married girlfriends quit her husband and married me. I was then married to a woman with a history of quitting a husband for a boyfriend. It never occurred to me that once we were married I would no longer be a boyfriend, but now I was her husband. It didn t take her long to trade me in on a newer model. That was my last marriage. Now I only go with unattached, unmarried trustworthy ladies.
I 8767 ve been married for over 65 years to someone who never really loved me. Most of that time, I 8767 ve spent trying to be who he thought I should be, instead of being myself. But now Im just tired. I have come to the conclusion that he will NEVER love me for who I am. The problem is that I can 8767 t leave him because of my children. I made a huge mistake of moving to saudi arabia with him 65 years ago and now if I leave (which he has made clear that he doesn 8767 t care if I do) it would have to be without my children. I thought that by writing this I would somehow feel a little better, but I don 8767 t. I just wish that my life could be different but its not. and there 8767 s nothing i can do but keep breathing for the sake of my children.
I have been followed for couple years 8767 ve contacted FBI told follow me in stores no matter what time of day or night I go out I c there vehicle It 8767 s no body I know their faces but every time I try to confront them they drive years back I confronted one of them n he admitted he was following me but said he couldn 8767 t say why..what do I do I can never feal comfortable,I 8767 m always looking over my shoulder n I 8767 m scared I 8767 m going to really hurt one of them if I can ever get ahold of 8767 m disabled on a cane so makes it hard for me to catch them..its ruening my friends n family don 8767 t believe me but my girlfriend has seen it she has seen them talking pictures..
Why do I keep going back to him? I feel like when he 8767 s not around I 8767 m lost and when I have him in my life I 8767 m secure. I always feel awkward though and it 8767 s so sad when I think that i know we don 8767 t have a future. I pretend like everything is fine and sometimes i do feel better. I told him to leave me alone and he said he would. The truth is I don 8767 t like what he does to me but I got so use to it and now I feel weird about myself.
I was with a guy who had all except three things on this list. I was with him from the time I was 66 up until a few months ago. He was verbally abusive, very controlling, he made sure I didn 8767 t have friends and the ones that stuck around he bashed all the time. I honestly loved him and I knew I had to leave he had my self esteem so low, he had me thinking that I was so ugly and so fat, that noone else would ever want me. And he used to tell me that if I moved on I could never find a guy to treat me well, when I would tell him he was wrong he would laugh in my face and tell me I was stupid. My family and friends couldn 8767 t stand him. We would fight constantly and it would always be his fault, he loved to argue. So basically it got to the point where I was tired of it and I didn 8767 t argue back I became boring and depressed and that wasn 8767 t much fun for him so he left me and I feel so free now, I 8767 m happier than I have been in years.
I am currently writing an advice book. It is open minded and gives you the individual a chance to work out WITH your partner what it is you both want and how to communicate that without either one of you getting frustrated or misunderstanding. We are all individuals, for every individual there is an individual communication system. To overcome this we must develop a communal and new system between two individuals, sucess of this massive energy consuming task will I believe result in harmonious existence, at least by comparison to prior experiences.
I know it 8767 s really hard to accept, but he obviously doesn 8767 t want to be with you right now.
It has nothing to do with you, I assure you, but that 8767 s still the truth.
The question left now is what you 8767 re going to do about it:
The more you chase him the more he 8767 ll run away.
Try to focus on yourself now, instead of him. And see where things are going after that.
I challenge ANYONE I meet to be the best version of themselves that they can be. I 8767 m a Human Rights lawyer. Yes, I climbed the social ladder to be a leader in government and politics. Because I care so emphatically about refugee women and childrens 8767 rights. Not because I want to prove anything to anyone or because I want to drive a Ferrari and have a home cinema and indoor swimming pool. I don 8767 t treat people like utilities, as all these astrological sites suggest. I 8767 m more invested in people being the best than in the best things. Suggesting that we can 8767 t be bothered with people unless they are useful to us is not true, nor fair.
This is my first time on a blog like this. And I hope you can guide me on how to deal with the situation I 8767 m in. This guy and I have been dating for 8 months (exclusively dating only). He was so sweet and great for the first 7 months and now he 8767 s not exactly that same person anymore. He calls, texts, and goes out with me less and less. I asked him repeatedly many times if he was seeing or talking to someone else, or if he lost interest in me. And he told me that he still liked me and that he 8767 s not seeing or talking to anyone else. Well, I know he just bought a house and is stressed over the new house, and graduate school as well. He also told me to be patient with him and he wants to take things slow. I just can 8767 t shake off the feeling that he 8767 s no longer interested in me. I don 8767 t know if it 8767 s just me being paranoid or it 8767 s the truth and he doesn 8767 t want to admit it. Please guide me on what I should do to take 8775 us 8776 back to where we were or how to 8775 win 8776 him back. I really don 8767 t want to lose him. Thanks!
Until a few nights ago, when things erupted. During the day, he faced frustrations with work where he is extraordinarily talented, yet undervalued. This particular day hit him hard. Meanwhile, a recent communication with his mother was further hurting him. Through the day, he became more silent and withdrawn the evening winded down with several snarky comments and eventually erupted in a screaming tirade that scared me to the point, for the first time, that I thought he might hurt me. I stayed silent and curled in a ball, and he did leave slamming things through the house for the next half hour. Only when I left the bedroom the next morning did I realize he had punched a massive hole in our wall, destroyed the doorframe, broke a door handle, and punched a screw driver into the garage wall.
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I 8767 m going out with this boy and we have been dating for about 8 weeks. He was once my boy best friend for about 6 year then he started catching feelings for me. He asked me out face to face and I said yes. But now 7 weeks has passed, at school he 8767 s starting to talk to his girl best friends and sending them 8766 X 8767 s and O 8767 s 8767 . But after, he sends me long paragraphs saying he loves me and I 8767 m his and nobody else 8767 s. I don 8767 t know if he loves me anymore becuse he changes at school when he talks to other girls. But he gets really jealous when I talk to other guys and threatens to text them telling them to back off. Please tell me what this means and if he still has feelings for me.
. Have you been living with my ex lol. I have never read a post that looked like it was me who wrote it. Amanda stay strong and get out asap. I threw mine out June 69,7567 and have never felt such a relief. Let me warn you though, mine has just started harassing me online talking a bunch of nobody cares shit. He even messaged my granddaughter talking trash and calling me unnecessary names. It makes me want to go off on him and this is just what he wants. I WILL NOT feed into his narcissistic disorder. Good luck and keep us posted.
The hostile attraction guy. He either approaches you with a direct put down, 8775 You 8767 re not that good of a writer etc but hey let 8767 s go out sometime. Or a more subtle version that has to do with implying that even though you have a fault he will consider dating you. Ex: I normally don 8767 t date blonds. Or, I normally don 8767 t date older women, etc. They want to seem they are above you as you are lacking. Perhaps women do these
as well though I 8767 ve never heard a female friend say anything like that nor have my male friends ever complained a woman approached them like that.
I know something is wrong and I know it 8767 s not all me or in my years we 8767 ve been together and he is a very kind person,but what kind person calls you a stupid dumb ads bitch not once a day but at LEAST 55-655 times a day not to mention all the other God awful names. Ignores me Wow, it 8767 s like I don 8767 t exists. Embarrassed me and goes out of his way to do so. Tells me how worthless I am how nobody likes me or. Ever want me. I AM TO BLAME FOR EVERYTHING THAT GOES doesn 8767 t ever apologize for anything because he does nothing was professional model held beauty pageant titles and I know I 8767 m not ugly in fact I 8767 m cuter than shot with a dynamite personality and I 8767 m trying so hard to not lose ight in 8767 m very sensitive and his words hurt and I 8767 m havingvdiffeculties holding in my tears. He throws my belongings out. We live in his now but before he moved in withstand my son in my home all paid off and mine. I 8767 m and alone I frontline narcotics or what he 8767 s about please help me