Posted: 2017-10-13 00:14
And so it goes, in France, Germany, Bermuda, and all over the world. Men and women are meeting each other, at clubs, coffee shops, and at the mailbox on the corner. So do foreign guys also go out with Japanese women? Sure. Of course. And you probably don’t notice it much unless—-oh wait—-they’re of different races. I personally think the “foreign guy with Japanese girl” sighting is pretty rare. They 8767 re just far more noticeable, that’s all. “Tremendous number”? Really? What 8767 s that, like five, six? Yeah, the tremendous number six. Half a dozen couples a day, out of cities with millions of people.
I also can&rsquo t emphasise enough just how passive the passive partner is. The way a woman kisses is by submissively opening her mouth, not moving her tongue unless she is cued to do so if she&rsquo s really feminine she won&rsquo t open her mouth at all, until she&rsquo s told to. Sometimes women will move around a (very) little during sex, but mostly not at all. The slang term for a woman who lies completely still in bed is maguro (tuna). For me, with my western sensibilities and preconceptions, calling someone a 'tuna&rsquo in bed sounds like an insult, conjuring up images of cold dead fish, but in Japan that word has a very positive connotation. Tuna&rsquo s an expensive delicacy.
Stereotypically Ii find these to be somewhat true. I say stereotypically and somewhat because obviously its not true for individuals. Living in Japan all my life, having mostly Japanese friends as well as Japanese cultured friends, and having a Japanese cultured ex-girlfriend makes me say that there is truth in this article. Everything I read here made me recall things I 8767 ve seen everyday either through tv or through experiences. Yes it sounds gross. But there is a reason why someone would see Japanese women like this. It 8767 s just Japanese culture. It 8767 s funny how similar characteristics can be seen in many of the guys here nowadays.
In short, whether it was your intent or not, your article motivates an expectation of Japanese girls that is unhealthy, unfair, and irrational. We cannot expect all Japanese girls to be 8775 mecha-kawaii, 8776 to serve and nurture unerringly, nor to portray constant optimism, fun, or stylishness. It would be especially dangerous to assume sexual eagerness, readiness, or enthusiasm. We couldn 8767 t expect or assume such things of anyone it would be wrong to always expect them even of ourselves alone.
So there is an active partner and a passive partner, which causes various flow on effects. You can&rsquo t have &ldquo Whoo-hoo! Go for it!&rdquo sex because both partners are constrained by their roles. The passive partner (obviously) because she can&rsquo t move, and the active partner because he has to take care of the passive partner, instructing her on what to do and exerting himself so that she has a good time.
Japanese guys are generally more stressed out by sex than western guys and that is because they are responsible for the sex as the active male, the sex is their burden, they have to do everything, it&rsquo s all up to them. Sex equates not only (sometimes not even primarily) with &lsquo fun&rsquo or 'pleasure&rsquo , it also equates with 'work&rsquo and 'obligation&rsquo .
People tend to cluster with other people from similar economic, social and cultural backgrounds. In Japan, I get the impression that even if you could find people that you would 8775 belong with 8776 (which is not a given) they might not accept you in their midst because of 6. lack of common cultural background and/or 7. lack of language ability. After all, if you are a hot-shot lawyer, would you expect people like you to give anyone with the language skills of a child the time of the day? (Regardless of the beautiful gem of a person you may be inside, really).
Yeah, I guess it would be equally bad to entirely give up. But I know what you mean about myths. For one, that commenter o 8767 er on Japan with the geisha-fixation rather disturbing (and if you 8767 re reading this, hello disturbing geisha-fixated guy). Incidentally, I seem to remember reading something on Reddit or somewhere stating that there are only 85 real geisha in existence these days. Dang child labor laws, am I right?
So would I do it again? Man, that 8767 s hard to say. I honestly would encourage anyone who wants to work overseas to evaluate a number of countries, using some real metrics, as opposed to 8775 I like their toilets and comic books. 8776 Like Australia consistently ranks as a top place in the world to live. And I 8767 ve been to a number of great countries in Europe that would be worth a longer visit. Scandinavia 8767 s looking pretty awesome, although I 8767 ve never been there.
Chinese workers opted to either out-migrate from the South altogether, continue to work as individual contractors (including sharecroppers), or pool their resources to establish small businesses—mostly groceries—locating them in isolated African American enclaves in the Delta. This created two cohorts of Chinese—one rural and one urban. A majority of the rural Chinese appear to have married while the storeowners are purported to have largely remained bachelors (which has not been thoroughly investigated). Of those who married, the Chinese identities of the rural cohort were lost through successive generations by the changing of surnames and by census takers who altered racial classifications, while the identities of storekeepers remained largely intact.
At least in America, the asian girls who date out their race tend to be the uglier asian girls. However, I 8767 ve seen asian girls in canada who were actually quite attractive dating white guys, so asian canadian guys have even more right to be bitter than the ones down south. I think one reason is that in canada, there are very few hispanics and blacks, meaning more white people, and that means asian canadian guys have even more white guys to compete with when it comes to getting asian girls, and based on what everyone else is saying, they seem to be losing the battle pretty badly.
So that 8767 s kind of how my article came to be. And if it sounds a bit like I’m down on Japanese women, that 8767 s not the case. I love Japanese women. Really, as often as they let me. What I’m not so cool with is repeating the same unfounded information about Japan. It was just the hackles, really. Anyway, if you’ve made it through this lengthy preface, then go check out the full article in all its glory , and let me know what you think. Peace.
As someone who has worked all over Asia for several years, the statement that Korean women have the best bodies in all of Asia is complete horse sh!+!!. The hot ones u see in gangnam are completely fake (plastic) and 99% are what we call 8775 fat-skinny. 8776 They are naturally thin, but have no fitness definition because they are relatively lazy. They wear tight pants with fake butt pads and stuffed bras to give the illusion of being fit, but very few will take off their clothes without all the lights off because their fraudulent bodies will completely disappoint you. Japanese girls, on average, have far better naturally fit bodies and much better personalities. Some of the other listed attributes are somewhat accurate, but 8775 best bodies in Asia? 8776 Not even close. They are also notorious for not grooming their covered areas~ only the fake visible areas.
Get pillaged, you basic asian whore. If you believe love is colorblind, then why are there so many of you? If you just want 8775 cuter 8776 half asian babies, why arent any other race of females just as crazy for some? Because people like you are shameless white ass-kissing toys with fake 8775 pride 8776 . What pride anyway? Pride in getting pillaged by white guy after white guy in hopes you become white yourself? Jesus. No wonder you make such pathetic families and miserable children. Thats why every successful half asian you can name, are the ones with asian fathers. Asian females growing up in the US or those that majorly consume western media are largely affected by this complex, and a lot of you are not even aware of having it. If deep down you really think an aryan man is your prince charming, then I advise you to wake the fuck up and take your head out of your own ass.
You want a woman that will fuck, cook, clean, wash and fold your clothes, do your dishes, and give you a back rub. Apparently there are not any Japanese women trying to pursue a career instead of being a housewife? Japanese women who are choosing to not have kids?There are many and they are considered 8775 selfish 8776 and blamed for the declining population rate in Japan. Japan is considered one of the top sexist counties in the world. I am currently living in Japan, and my problem with the article is that Japanese women are worth so much more than this garbage that ropes together a set of sexist racial stereotypes sates.
I just read this article for the first time. Also reading K. comments kind of offends me being a western male. Maybe I am not the typical western male as I enjoy cooking, I do the dishes regularly, I wash my own clothes, I even clean my house. Maybe it is because I had a great mother who taught me first to be able to take care of myself. Second, having a partner no matter where they are from becomes a two party deal. I treat my partner as I would want to be treated and that is with respect and love. Otherwise, I will not be with a person if it is only a one sided affair.
7. Korean women tend to be slender and pretty, but plastic surgery is too common and usually pretty obvious. They also lie a lot largely for cultural reasons, I guess, but sometimes just for no good reason (I guess this is due to insecurities more than anything else). Korean women are 655% different than Korean men in many ways, and are much more inquisitive and open-minded, cheerful and good-natured, sensitive, thoughtful and caring, and fun. It is amazing, I could say a lot more good women are really jewels and I hope to marry one, which should say plenty
6. 95% of Korean men (under about 65 anyways) are garbage. They have almost no redeeming qualities and I feel sorry for Korean women because of that. They also have no idea how to treat women, and frankly, many of them aren 8767 t even interested in women in the tradition sense for example, you will never see a Korean man talk to a women in a bar, on a bus, or really anywhere Korean men seem more interested in other men hard to believe considering how beautiful Korean women true for the most part. I hate almost all Korean men, and I have good reason for it occasionally you will meet a okay one, but even then usually they will hit on you every time you see them, even going as far as touching you in private places, etc. They are all homos, it seems like.
It just started out as curiosity because those are such impressive trombones and I just wondered how much they 8767 d cost if they dropped them so I had some time on my hands and looked it up, just for giggles and grins (and because you CAN nowadays with the internet BTW, I started as a trombone player but went to the Tuba and String Bass). I was wondering why trombones would be used as props though, not something you usually see at a wedding LOL, plus I heard Japanese weren 8767 t too fond of trombones because it requires long arms. Anyway, I hope I made you smile at least with the weird question. P
In case you haven’t noticed, people are majorly opinionated about Their Japan. And not just Japanese folks either I mean foreigners. Like if I said, “Japanese architecture is stunning,” somebody’d stand up and complain that the cities are just jumbled amalgamations of aging concrete projects. Alllll righty. Then how about “Japan’s got some ugly-ass cities”? Oh now somebody else starts rambling about traditional homes being all infused with zen beauty, and gardens and koi fish. So yeah, everybody’s got an opinion. Welcome to the internet.
A few months later and okay, I know this is kind of a theme, but that’s just how things worked out I met this girl in a bar in Shinjuku and we ended up in a love hotel. We paid the money for a room with lots of mirrors, went in, started making out on the bed, and then just as we were about to, as they say, consummate matters, she looked up at me and asked, “Are you my husband?”
I was like, What the hell? Are all the women in this country mental?
And you know I’m not trying to lead anybody on, but for Christ’s sake. I mean, really, have some timing.
I looked at her and said, “I think we can safely conclude that, for tonight, baby, I am.”