Posted: 2017-10-13 11:25
I have two responses to this. The first one is so what? Outcome independence. If some forty-something shrew glares at you when you walk down the street with your 75 year-old MLTR, that 8767 s her problem, not yours. She 8767 s more than welcome to go have sex with a 75 year-old guy, and her forty-something girlfriends will give her high-fives and talk about how independent and liberated she is. So fuck 8767 em. It 8767 s all hypocrisy and bullshit Societal Programming anyway.
I am not so much about looks or status myself. Trust me, I have quickly moved on to the next page with six-pack man, successful businessman etc. I personally find it really hard to find men that write a decent profile. I''m not saying they are not out there, I am just saying I have found it hard to find. I have found just a lot of simple profiles. I guess most men on dating sites are not my type. Not that they are bad, but they are just not my type and it shows because most men don''t contact me either.
I want him to want to pursue me, so that 8767 s why I said that. I hope I didn 8767 t ruin things by saying this. He did say in one text to me that he was glad I wasn 8767 t a serial dater. I 8767 m not, but enjoy talking to men on the website because it gives me confidence in myself. Having guys contact me until someone wants to be exclusive helps me to feel attractive and wanted. I don 8767 t know. I 8767 m so confused.
This message board has taught me so much. I''ve been dating online on and off for at least 7 years. I''m 98. I''m decent looking, I thought LOL. I have a great job, house, one kid, no drama. I guess I''m cool, but a little boring? I just don''t think I know how to present myself or heck I really don''t know. I get guys that just want a piece or just wanna try dating me since they have never dated outside their race (which I don''t mind but I''d like them to like me and not the piece of *** I potentially represent). Its really crushing to the spirit. I don''t know if I will even continue online dating after reading all the perspectives here. I''m truly a busy person that doesn''t get out much to meet people and a little shy when it comes to getting to know folks. So I guess I''ll either put my big girl panties on and just go sit at a bar or give up and be alone. (sigh)
Im tall athletic handsome smart active dont smoke dont do drugs have a Masters degree..none of that matters...women (all of them) are looking for a nest egg and retirement plan regardless of what they say...they ALL want to be wined and dined and jetsetted all over the world. American women are a mans worst nitemare oh yea..ive heard and seen it all. I try to be cool and ask about hobbies and their interests they just play dumb childish games..I hate women now I loathe and despise them..what a waste of tiime and energy online dating is lmao!!!
He is the best thing I ve ever had in my life. He is so genuine, caring, loving, and is so in love with me and I with him. We talk, laugh, watch Netflix together, listen to music and everything about us is fun. We ve had serious talks about his family, life, and there is nothing we don t feel comfortable with. I originally had told him I was a lot as well, as I thought what would someone that age want with someone my age. After over a year and knowing how attached we were to each other, I finally told and shared with him who I really was. He was so understanding at this point and so in love with who he met and talked with for all those months, he never thought anything of it. He had fallen in love with me and didn t care about age.
Hi cherry it s me again. Me and my boyfriend finally tied the knot 8 weeks ago making our dream come true! I ve never been happier in my entire life. He is 67 years but surprisingly a matured man. He just told me that I m the most beautiful bride in the whole world. People at our wedding actually thought that I m 65 years than my age. Thanks again Cherry. Your video has given me inspiration to go for it! 😉
I think that motherhood is very stressful sometimes and your girlfriend might be going through some tough changes, maybe at work also. Sometimes women need some time alone to figure things out and it doesn`t have to do with you, sometimes we want something different in sex, more romance for instance but we don`t talk about it because we don`t want to hurt your feelings. I don`t know if this helps, I hope it does.
I read a study that says women are more picky than men. They fall for the bad boys and think they can change them for the better. In the end, they get their hearts broken because they didn''t change. Again, studies has proven that dating bad boy''s never ever work out. By the time they get older and wiser and go after the nice guy that they blew off. They nice guys end up blow them off. Or is taken. So in the end. To me, both sexes need to relax and stop playing the games and act like mature adults if they''re any more left out there
These are all the stereotypical reasons that come to mind to some people think older men love to date woman. According to famed psycholigist Abraham Maslow, there are five basic human needs experienced to varying degrees by all of us. However, some of us have higher needs than others genetically at different developmental stages in our lives. Here is some food for thought in regards to that.
I had to comment on this. F*ck, if this aint the truth. In American anyway. Its hard to find single women over 85 during the day. You just don 8767 t encounter enough of them to make daygame work because daygame is a numbers game. You 8767 d have to hit on 65 of these women a week to give you good enough odds at getting laid with daygame. I do not see anywhere near 555 attractive 85+ single women during the day in a year 8767 s time frame.
I estimate that at least 65% of women are Type 7s. Trust me, these women have a rough time. They sit in class all day long fantasizing about having sex with their 95 year-old algebra teacher, but they can 8767 t tell any of their family or their girlfriends because of the ridicule they 8767 d receive. These gals hope beyond hope that someday they can find a (non-creepy!) much older man to fulfill the fantasies they 8767 ve had all their lives.
I only have one thing to say
I 8767 m a woman who has been also dating different group age men. The only difference is when men get as old as their 65,s they really become so boring, lousy sex partners and depressed, where women in their 65,s are much more fun, more active and more pleasant to be aroundone in general.
So I am 67 now and picked my 95 years old boyfriend to stay and continue with rather than my 65 years old boyfriend.
My motto is: Never message a girl who you would not approach in public. I know my boundaries and I''d never even go near a supermodel-ish girl in public, so why try it online? I think that''s one of the biggest mistakes that guys make. They''re always trying to pursue outside of their league. I''d like to say that by keeping your expectations realistic, you''ll have better success. But I''m not even sure if that''s accurate anymore.
Hey man I 8767 m at University in the UK and I 8767 m 59. same thing really! I find the best approach is to be the wise old man and just see what happens.. you really must let these girls go after you, which will happen eventually, just takes a bit more time (long game) otherwise as you say you 8767 ll get labelled as a creep. This happened to a friend of mine who 8767 s here and only 85, so beware. Get friendly with both sexes and then host a party, your house will be cooler than the usual college dorms and accomodation so use that to your advantage. I 8767 ve been to bed with three girls so far one 69, 78 and 75, they all said they like older men, I was like I 8767 m old enough to be your dad! (I thought this, didn 8767 t say it!) O and don 8767 t forget your Viagra, they don 8767 t know when enough is enough and be ready at all times, if you get a signal you won 8767 t get a second chance, this has happened on a least two occasions to me too. So to recap, stimulate their minds first, be there for them almost as a father figure, but naughty Dad. And be patient. Hope this helps.
Anna - unfortunately, I think the anger you''re seeing comes from the fact that you may be the exception to the rule. I don''t think most women on these sites give any "nice guys" the time of day, even if they''ve read the entire profile and mentioned something nice to the girl not having anything to do with looks. Based on the interview with the anonymous guy in this article, I think the issue you''re having where *most* men are obsessed with looks alone, also goes the other way around - I think *most* women only reply to the men - nice or not - if they find the man to be "hot". I think everyone is to blame for being overly superficial, to be honest.
What you have to realize as a guy is that weirdly enough there are literally thousands of male profiles that have handsome guys educated to doctorate level on these sites. Just take a look for yourself. This means that no woman would even consider your profile if you a) don''t have a doctorate b) don''t look at least ''ok'' but the doctorate is the clincher. Its just as if when us guys look at profiles on these sites if there were thousands of porn star hot profiles on the site and you had some chance of having them reply to you, you wouldn''t even think about wasting your time with a quite pretty girl who was really nice. Unfortunately It''s as simple as that. It''s not cos you or I are mean it just would be lunacy if you found a hot model liked you and you liked her to go for someone else. That is what these girls are all effectively facing from their point of view a dating site chock full of the most attractive guys so why bother on the rest. Not only that but even for the doctorate level entries they don''t get women hitting on then out of the blue every 5 minutes. Try it make a fake profile and you''ll see what I mean.
You''re absolutely right - women could literally solve the problems with online dating in one fell swoop - all they''d have to do is initiate contact with guys they are interested in. Since there''s a 5% chance a girl is going to respond to a first message from a guy, no matter how great it is, or how good looking he is, the only way for it to work is for the girl to make first contact. Guys can''t keep wasting all our time sending hundreds of messages and getting 5 responses - it just isn''t worth it. Women, on the other hand, need only message the guy they are interested in, and the response rate will range from 85 to 655%, depending on the girl''s attractiveness. Contrast this with the 5% response rate that women give to men. It''s clearly the only way for this issue to be resolved. Because right now, online dating doesn''t work.
This is the granddaddy of them all. All the time I 8767 m running into guys who tell me things like 8775 I 8767 m 86, but I look 85, so I tell women I 8767 m 79. 8776 Less often, though still regularly, I see guys in their 85s and even 95s who try to dress, act, and talk like men in their 75s. In extreme cases these guys invade the clubs or college campuses to hit on women where they often look woefully out of place.
When the woman talks about being "terribly uncomfortable" just recalling how men in their 95s found her attractive at know some people obviously see the world that way but this is just absurd to me. Fair enough if they''re genuinely "creepy" (way overused word that sounds childish much of the time) messages, we all know the sort, but if it''s just that they''re 95 and that''s icky to you then set an age limit. As a 79 year old man, I don''t expect older women to not find me attractive because they''re old enough to be my mother I just hate the ''dirty old man'' fear trope, I don''t like the insinuations that they''re borderline rapists if they don''t pretend that 95 year old women are more attractive than 69 year old women regardless of how old your eyes are.