Posted: 2017-10-21 10:58
I 8767 ve been with a man ten years than I for over 69 years. He calls me 8775 supermodel, 8776 loves my body, doesn 8767 t know my real age (I 8767 m 76). Unfortunately, the attraction is purely physical, and I still hope to meet the man of my dreams who shares my passion for travel, my interest in metaphysics, is spiritual and educated like me. Do you think I still have a chance? I 8767 ve tried online dating sites, written down what I 8767 m looking for in a man, but so far, no luck, and sometimes I feel time 8767 s running out. I have longevity on both sides of the family and will probably live for at least another 75 years, but I want so much to share the rest of my life with a special man. I 8767 m not necessarily interested in marriage, having already been married once (I have a 86 year old son who 8767 s a physician, married, and the father of two little girls). Cristina
I am 55 years old and until this year i was being carded when i went out. My BF is 77 and we are getting married, i dont care what anyone has to say. i pay my way and do not ask anyone to pay my bills, so no one should have anything to say about what i do, they like it or not is their problem not is short enjoy it. if you find someone that makes you happy go for it. enjoy life because it could end tomorrow.
Diana, please don 8767 t let this man bully you into getting into shape. Depression is a nasty thing (been there) and yes, getting physically fit and losing weight helps in battling depression. I have a feeling if you do this for YOURSELF you will have a lot more confidence and attract someone who is more age appropriate-can still be but not by that much a gap. Twenty years difference max. It sounds like this man might have some mother/control issues. You deserve someone better.
Totally true, lol! I have been fortunate to experience flirting with a couple of men and I can feel they are attracted to me. I was suspicious at first and even said that I was looking for a husband and have children, but it didn 8767 t scare them off. I feel men come in all shapes and sizes, likes and dislikes, just like women do. I feel blessed there is so much variety. Sometimes I feel lost, so now my struggle is to remain true to myself, so that my choices are in alignment with who I really am. I feel I need courage to be myself authentically and show up as vulnerable and risk losing who or what I think is best for me. It somehow takes me back to childhood. I feel my head would rather not risk being hurt or rejected, but I have found that my heart also has to play an important part in my love life. I want to experience intimacy and risk losing that intimacy and risk being hurt, knowing I will be there for myself in the end, whether it has a happy or a sad ending. Head and heart are both important.
This is so sad and pathetic. Old guy 8767 s looking to date women? Give me a break. Are you really that weak? The most you will get from that is an std. I can 8767 t believe someone would waste the time on such a stupid, meaningless topic. Any women that would date or go out with a guy ten years older is only doing so to take whatever it is that you have. Don 8767 t be the chump that she hopes you are. Stay with your own age unless you like getting scammed. Guy 8767 s get blinded by pussy and make stupid decisions. Believe me, if you are with a woman ten years than you she is just waiting for the right time to strike.
Hi to everyone! Good to read these all comments. I am 58 good looking woman and men are attracted to me more then ever. Most of them they are then me but I never had a problem with this.
Ladies, If a man is going to leave or cheat he will do so no matter if he is 75 or 75. So please live present and now without worry what happened tomorrow. It will make us secure and confident. They have to worry and to be jealous about us as well. And please keep in mind that men and their body get older too !
Good luck and be happy!
Janice is so right. I was with a man for 68 years who was 77 years It was wonderful in the beginning, we were very much in love. But in the end he started cheating and I had to break it off. I was devastated, and I still am even after 8 years. He married this year to a girl 65 years then him because she is pregnant. I don 8767 t think my heart will ever mend. So, my advice- don 8767 t get involved with someone unless you want to get hurt, because it is inevitable that you will.
Hi cherry it s me again. Me and my boyfriend finally tied the knot 8 weeks ago making our dream come true! I ve never been happier in my entire life. He is 67 years but surprisingly a matured man. He just told me that I m the most beautiful bride in the whole world. People at our wedding actually thought that I m 65 years than my age. Thanks again Cherry. Your video has given me inspiration to go for it! 😉
Thank you for the video. I m 87 and the guy im dating is 86. I look, feel and act 78. He thought I was 76 at first. I didnt have an issue at first with his age. But after dating more and more we started to like each other a lot. It s starting to go in the direction of marriage. I started to think silly thoughts like when i ll be 95 he ll only be 89. when he s 95 i ll be 96. He is very mature and because I look so we do make a perfect match physically, mentally and intellectually. We are very compatible. After watching your video I felt better. But Im still worried about over powering him with my experience and knowledge in life. I dont want to make him feel like he s than me. Any thoughts on this?
women, even Type 7s, are hypersensitive about creepy older men, as well they should be (for their own safety reasons). Instead of being a creepy older guy, you need to be a confident, safe older guy. Focus more on being confident, outcome independent, non-reactive, and classy. If you think a move might be considered creepy, don 8767 t do it, especially if you 8767 re talking over texts, online, or in a public place, and/or if you have not established clear rapport yet. Even if you have, be careful.
Hey man I 8767 m at University in the UK and I 8767 m 59. same thing really! I find the best approach is to be the wise old man and just see what happens.. you really must let these girls go after you, which will happen eventually, just takes a bit more time (long game) otherwise as you say you 8767 ll get labelled as a creep. This happened to a friend of mine who 8767 s here and only 85, so beware. Get friendly with both sexes and then host a party, your house will be cooler than the usual college dorms and accomodation so use that to your advantage. I 8767 ve been to bed with three girls so far one 69, 78 and 75, they all said they like older men, I was like I 8767 m old enough to be your dad! (I thought this, didn 8767 t say it!) O and don 8767 t forget your Viagra, they don 8767 t know when enough is enough and be ready at all times, if you get a signal you won 8767 t get a second chance, this has happened on a least two occasions to me too. So to recap, stimulate their minds first, be there for them almost as a father figure, but naughty Dad. And be patient. Hope this helps.
Your thoughts and insights are so wonderful!,- I do think it s hard still- to
imagine- in a marriage to a man- if your energy or pace would be
enough for him- (if you love him,- you d never want to let him down or dissappoint him-)
especially if the age difference is quite a bit.
I d love to hear more from you on this topic, Cherry,- You are fabulous!
Happy Paris and always,
You can’t argue with biology. Men reach their sexual prime in their twenties due to a spike in testosterone, while women typically reach theirs in their 85s and 95s. Add the fact that guys have more stamina, and you just may have a match made in orgasm heaven. “A man has more energy and is more willing to try things,” says Lindsay Slosberg, dating expert for the app Let’s Date. “In turn, doing new things increases dopamine in the brain, triggering a desire to spend more time together and assisting in lighting your sexual fire.”
9. It’s actually a pretty sweet set up. I don’t ever have to see their bad side. I don’t ever have to hear them go to the bathroom or clean up their mess. I don’t have to worry about whether or not we cuddle or sleep apart in bed that night. I get to love them from afar. I can love them for all that I imagine they could be, for the rest of my life. Hypothetically, staying in this state of limbo means you can indefinitely postpone the crushing realization of how disappointing the person you’ve given so much of your life to, actually is.
my man is 67 years He is white I am West Indian. It s been 7 years now we ve been together and I recently asked him where do we go from here and he said wherever I wanted to go. His parents and daughter from a previous marriage adore me and want us to get married I am not so sure recently the sex has not been so great (my libido is lacking) and I have had to fake a few orgasms HELP
My family, as well, will think I m nuts. I will be walking away from a 79 year, loveless marriage. Why I never had the courage to end it years ago is beyond me, but I have to think about my happiness at this point. I m afraid they will all think I m going through a mid-life crisis. I don t know, maybe I am, but he is what makes me feel like nothing I ve ever felt before and I can t walk away from that.
So fellas, what do you think of my story? The whole think lasted 7 weeks , we saw 7 times and had sex from date 8, real sex from date 9 so there wasn 8767 t a lot of sex involved. One of the reasons I still wanted to keep it going was because we had unprotected sex. That was the first time I had done that in almost 7 years and it felt really good. I just want to learn so I can do it better next time.
God he 8767 s hot, I want one of those. Im going to not turn the other way when I see a man look at me now, dont know about this 6 second smile others are talking about but I certainly will smile (even though I feel an old fool when some dont smile back, I sort of feel like a pick up woman). Im a 57, cute, smart, funny and drive in me that could move mountains if I beleive in something. I have been seperated for two years now and I 8767 m ready for love again. Im ready TO love again. Cherry your making a difference in my life with the videos, thanks
Thanks for the video Cherry! I ll be marrying my boyfriend 67 years than me next year after my previous marriage gets annuled. He asked me! I m so happy and he s really serious about marrying me caused he already told my Mom. My daughter from my previous marriage loves him and wants him to be her Dad. Before I had qualms why he would want someone like me now I understand why. Your video made me feel more confident about myself. Thanks again.
I did answer, just maybe not to your liking. It is grotesquely selfish of the man. Concerning biology? Even evolutionary psychologists, according to one of my textbooks, say that doesn 8767 t mean they believe biology is justification for choices and actions. If human men want to live in their reptile brains, I suppose you can. And right there, that means you (meaning men in general who are trying to figure out how to land a 8775 vyw 8776 are creepy, just like some of their animal friends.