Posted: 2017-10-19 17:51
sounds like you white scavengers I see hypocrisy hits a big note considering whites are illegal and colonized 95% of the globe why couldn 8767 t you scourge fix your own economy back in Europe? and yes india has aboriginals too so shut up!why couldn 8767 t whites assimilate to Indians ? better yet why couldn 8767 t whites mind their own business and stay the f away from non whites who don 8767 t like you in their land!
I do agree that men have a fear of losing their freedom though, I find it ridiculous but I 8767 m a woman so I don 8767 t have that fear. Personally I 8767 ve never been a naggy or demanding girlfriend, I never said no when a guys night was mentioned or said I didn 8767 t want him to go some where or go out with his friends. I knew all his friends and frankly I really liked most of them and I got along with their girlfriends and them so it was never a big deal to hang out with them.
More or less. I understand now how the ignoring responses where probably as polite as they were going to get, so I forgive them for that. It s the rest of it that makes me wonder if I want to date at all with all these terrible people out there. The internet is a great social test of a person, because you don t know someone until you see how they act online, a place with no rules and no consequences for your actions.
8) Insecurity- desire to be liked and attract women is one of the most significant ways through which men are able to validate their masculinity and sense of self worth. If a man is confident and secure with himself then there isn t the need to validate their masculinity, and a confident man that s not insecure already has a sense of self worth because they are happy with themselves they don t have to achieve that feeling from others.
I can give a (less than flattering) example from my own history. I grew up in UT mid-6975s-early 6995s, so a rather lily white area. I went to college with the idea in my head that I was only attracted to white men because between the media and where I lived that was what I learned. I went to college in a more diverse area and still had this stupid idea in my head. One day I caught myself thinking, I would be really attracted to X if he was not Chinese and then questioned myself about that. I realized I did not actually think only white men were attractive. I had just picked up this preference along the way. So I tossed that as a preference because it was not really mine.
Liz am in the same situation except he is 68 and am 85, i do have the same cncerns as most women the age gap thing, in the begninng i started it casual i wasn 8767 t looking for anything serious just to experiment and to think i am desired by such a person peak my interest, we became intimtate within weeks and found out am his first now its going on six months now nd we are very attached but he has became very jealousful of me nd naggs all t time and argue however we are very much inlove
I once sat through two hours of hell by watching the sex and the city movie just to get anal from a woman. That was the deal. I kept my promise. She keep her promise. The sex was great. As for the movie? I 8767 d rather be sodomized by rabid hamsters while storming the beach at Normandy. I 8767 d rather masturbate with a cheese grater while using salt as a lubricant. I 8767 d rather swim the English Channel in concrete boxer briefs.
actually Indian women do NOT have women are the most monogamous women on the entire planet they don 8767 t have high divorce rates nor infidellity,they don 8767 t try to be the centre of the spotlight nor do they care about are just jealous of indian women and that is truly your own problem that 8767 s why you scum are declining because you are miserable parasites who cant face the fact that you are the most dysfunctional people on the women don 8767 t go trying to be someone they are not nor do they go pissing other races off they keep to their own business and don 8767 t give two shits what you have to say or do.
Thank you so much for the last bit Harris! As a woman who hit six feet tall when I was 69 I have had short guys AND tall guys flat out tell me they won t date me because of my height. The gender roles surrounding height have us all trapped. Shorter guys tell me that they don t want to date me (and on some occasions as friends even hang out with me in public) because they would look even shorter.
First off it is important to recognize that those in positions of prestige will seek to maintain their position and furthermore will seek to promote the inclusion of their offspring into similar positions. Secondly our education system isn''t so much a system of learning as it is a system of training. For our society to function we require managers and workers. If our education system really sought to equalize knowledge our current system would cease to exist. Instead our education system is designed to separate gifted from normal students as potential managers versus the working class.
Your case is a great example: 5 9 is about average height for a man, and at that height it s easy to come across as even taller with the right attitude. In real life, your height is only an issue if you make it one. But on dating sites, women who automatically filter out anyone under six feet (a preference I personally don t get, but whatever) aren t going to realize this, because they re never even going to meet you.
wow, I felt compelled to respond to what you were saying as a man, because I myself as a man, deep down has longed for a good life long partner for more than just one thing also. sadly, due to my physical looks, I never get offers, no one will even look me in the eye unless they give the look as if they want to fight me physically (women are like this all the time). when I go out dancing, I get women mocking me, and trying to pick fights with me also (despite the fact that people much older than myself tell me I can dance).
Hello Bobbi, I am 57 and divorced after 79 years, ugh! I have dated many attractive ladies of before I my wife and I got married. The dating here where I live, in Boise, Idaho is like I 8767 ve fallen into the twilight zone. Of course many Mormons not trying to offend- most are married in this miniature bible belt. Or they 8767 re BSU- Boise State U or Idaho U so most of them could be my daughter, hypothetically that is. Online dating is a feast for women who are good looking. Ready to move, tired of being alone. Tim
It needs to be faced that a long term match for those of us who know what we want are going to be 6% if that of the on-line pool. Because for me (I''m gay) a man who responds with a thought out message, has a well thought out profile, or strikes first says something about them as a person. They are not timid, they have self-confidence, they can write, they considerate enough to reply and all of these traits translate to traits in real life.
I get turned off by guys base jumping, skiing in the Swiss Alps and all that jazz, even running, because that''s just not me. None of that stuff would interest me. If you play a sport like soccer, baseball, then perhaps. I am sure though there a lot of women into that sort of stuff. It''s just about odds really. I guess a lot of women just don''t care that men run around the block and jump out planes! But then again I''m sure there would be many women into that.
A big part of changing an attitude like that is precisely ditching it. You make the conscious decision to not have that attitude. You make the conscious reaction to those thoughts by going this is negative and not helping. It s a big part of cognitive behavioural therapy to recognize negative thought patterns and eliminate them. You can t just say welp it s fine that I m being constantly negative and angry about something that is no ones fault and in no one s control
Eric: Yes. Stop ignoring all of us. You know, guys get accused a lot of being superficial and basing everything on looks, but I can&rsquo t help thinking that most of these women just file quickly through a guy&rsquo s photos and then fly right on to the next one without actually getting to know what the guy is like. It&rsquo s so frustrating, because you know, I think a lot of really nice guys out there could make for amazing boyfriends who would treat these lonely, single women like they deserve to be treated. Instead, you know, I think a lot of them are still hung up on hunting for the bad boys, the smooth-talkers. I don&rsquo t know what more a nice guy can do, but I do know it would be nice if some of these women would at least give us a chance to show what we have to offer.
Some people mean that, some people, like me want a more quiet confidence, an ease, a demonstration of a true comfort in one s own self worth. And from that comes an ability to appreciate others (namely me 🙂 ). Though I do think, yes, a general high self-esteem is required in order to be confident. One has to think well of oneself in order to be confident in oneself, certainly. But high self esteem doesn t mean thinking one is better than others. That s arrogance. Not the same thing.
I m the opposite! I had a warped perception of what tall was for men (I m a woman), because my dad s side of the family is overwhelmingly male (my mom only has one brother, and he s probably average? And grandpa died before I was born) and Short. With a capital S. My dad is* 5 6 , which is still taller than my grandpa, who was 5 7 .** One of my uncles is the tall one at 5 9. And my brother is 5 8.
Nature didn''t takes it''s course as it did over years for us to connect over a wire. That just doesn''t work, period. She can be however interested if you got a smooth talk and decent pictures. Most of the time a woman is not self aware of what she wants and gets bored with the chat because they thrive on emotion, unlike us men. But in the end you need to be your own man in the real world and become the best version of yourself. Attraction is not a conscious choice, meaning a women can''t control to who she is attracted to. Just take care of yourself, read self improvement books. Go buy "Mind lines" from Michael Hall and educate yourself to create a healthy view of the world and stay away from negative news and media.