Posted: 2017-11-14 12:05
I 8767 m Chinese and I 8767 ve been dating my long time friend for around four months now, and she is white. I have lived in California since I was nine and she 8767 s actually the first blonde person I 8767 ve ever seen. Well, I suppose I could 8767 ve seen some in LAX when my family first touched down, but riding the school bus for the first time in elementary school, even though I didn 8767 t talk to her until we were in junior high, I 8767 ll always remember staring at the color of her hair and thinking how strange it was. At that point I 8767 ve only ever seen blonde hair in anime that I would watch when I was little and I associated it with super saiyans. Seeing it in real life was something else to my nine year old mind!
Hi. This is an interesting read. I 8767 m a huge fan of Japanese culture and would love to live there for few years. But about the AMWF I 8767 m Finnish woman and married to Singaporean man. In our case the cultural differences are very small his first language is English which I speak fluently, same religion, same values in life, both cultures are very family-oriented etc. Dating him has never felt that exotic, we just look really different. We both appreciate each others cultures.
Short men who are successful have no problem at all finding a good woman once they broaden their horizon and date women in other countries and cultures. Mostly fat women whine about their situation. Men short, tall or whatever simply adjust to the situation and deal with it.
I men who just happen to be short, to know how to deal with predjudice people like you in the work place, that is my point. You showed your ignorance again by posting some crap from a website which was just someone 8767 s predjudice opinion. What I posted has true research to back it up. Napoleon complex is a myth.
Maybe it 8767 s because I live in Southern California, but every time we 8767 ve been on dates or go to the market together, we don 8767 t really get any more attention than the longer than usual stare. We don 8767 t really mind, though occasionally some men would try to stare me down. I find them hilarious, because their jealousy makes me feel lucky. We haven 8767 t really experienced anything more hostile than that, but I don 8767 t doubt one day our luck may run out.
I 8767 m a white, European girl and I 8767 m helplessly attracted to asian men and sort of always have been. I 8767 ve at least always been attracted to anything but the familiar, like black, hispanic and asian men. And it 8767 s sometimes not as easy to deal with as I 8767 d like, since people (who are not as integrated with international cultures as I am) always question why. And I can 8767 t always answer off the bat, because it 8767 s just something that simply is, for me. I can 8767 t really explain it. Sometimes I just feel like it 8767 s in my blood, because my mother was married to an Iranian man when she was my age as well (in the 75 8767 s when it was more than unusual) and she was sort of the same with this whole thing.
Wow. So long as the guy is a gem I don 8767 t care overmuch about height. I always thought other issues like compatibility are more important.
That could also be due to my job. As a midget female in the military bigger guys always want to push you around or challenge you. (Officer. Nuff said.) Not all mind you but dealing with the alpha male nonsense can be fun. (Big jerks make big targets in deployed conditions Being short has bonuses.)
Having dated tall or short and divorced from a short I still know one thing. If someone can 8767 t get past something I can 8767 t help I 8767 m grateful. (Shallow? Can 8767 t date a military/alien/short/non-blonde?) Lucky escape for me! Sorry this doesn 8767 t help you though.
I agree there is a lack of respect for men in America but some men don 8767 t deserve respect because of their trashy or egotistical behavior.
You are a good example of that. Short men like any other men don 8767 t need anybody 8767 s sympathy. I just saw how this story points out women 8767 s shallowness because the subject is always men 8767 s shallowness. No one is arguing that either side is shallow, both men and women do basicly the same thing, which is the point I have made dumbass.
Rusty it 8767 s like you are doing a lot of talking but not understanding my point. It sucks you cannnot cut me off and mid sentence like you probably would do in your dailey life. You cannot simply dismissed my point because you feel someone who is short should not have an opinion. I will keep on responding until you finally get it.
You gals are terrible ! Good night, what does it matter if the guy is a little shorter? Is he a good man? Can he provide? Does he make you feel safe amd protected? Is he romantic and can he make you feel special? Can he make you laugh ? Aren 8767 t these attributes a a little more important than 8775 I want to feel petite next to him 8776 or 8775 I don 8767 t want to feel like someone is starring at my breasts 8776 . I can 8767 t believe how shallow you all are being. Ya, you 8767 ll get tall guys allright, but that may be all. Whatever happened to chemistry and compatibility? My advice would be, if you can, go back and talk to your Mothers, I have a feeling they may be able to shad a little light on your confusion, because you have definatly lost sight of what 8767 s really important. Best of luck your gonna need it! And I 8767 m 5 8767 9 8798 by the way.
Great article. I hope your article at least causes people to actually think for themselves when it comes to love between all races.
As an adopted Korean male growing up in a predominately white small Midwestern town, I actually have mostly dated white girls. It wasn 8767 t until I moved off to college that I found a lot of stereotypes against me. I too never realized the greatness of other cultures until I moved to California, so I am just as at fault for having certain stereotypes influence me. I hope you continue to spread your experience and love to the world!
Taiwanese guys here, thanks for talking about the racism which some people don 8767 t focus on it, back in the day in FL when I was with my ex, White guys are the enemies to me, I didn 8767 t have any one of them as friends, thay hate me because we are the first AMWF in the school and other White girls saw us together, they start to date Asian guys as well lol. Now I am back to Taiwan, what I see over here is Asian girls don 8767 t like to see AMWF couples but they want to date White guys so badly WTF?! that is something I can 8767 t stand. I 8767 ve created a habit..when I see AMWF couples I will look out for them if anybody wanna start shit I will slaughter those racist people because I already heard too many AMWF got physical attack, is dating Asian guys a problem? it seems like it is a BIG ONE for some people.
anyway, stay strong and have a great day :D
Tom, I think you 8767 re really brave to put yourself out there and to let Evan put your misfortunes on full display in his blog. I wish you the best of luck, and sincerely believe the right woman 8767 s out there for you. From my perspective, you just happened to have found out the 8766 Match 8767 system of searchable criteria and high-volume dating tends to work against men of your stature. Don 8767 t let your experiences say too much to you about women or your actual prospects.
And this other thing is that people at home always sort of hint that I should marry someone alike since I have blue/green eyes and blonde hair, and they don 8767 t want that gene to go lost and blablalbla I 8767 m sure you 8767 ve heard it. It 8767 s so tiring, because, okay, yes, blue eyes are a minority and they 8767 re nice, but I 8767 m not in the least attracted to men who look like that. And I 8767 m sick of feeling like I 8767 m the one in the wrong because of it. I only like brown eyes, and that 8767 s me.
Wow Rusty I agree with you on the last part of your comment. But this may be hard for you to understand, this person was just pointing out women 8767 s shallowness since women are always accusing men of being shallow. But all good men will eventually find someone. He probably already has. He was simply making a point and I doubt that you are intelligent enough to comprehend. Now I have always suggested short men broaden their horizon and look at non American women. There are some countries where height is not as much of an issue and in some countries height is not an issue at all. Just one month after saying to hell with American women and started looking else where I found the person I am with now. I am tempted to not advise anybody to even deal with an American woman after my very positive experience with different women overseas, but we should not just simply boycott American women because there are a few good ones out there who are not obsessed with height. yes, it will take a long long time, you just have to find them.
I already know my dad will not be happy with my choice in my partner. He has expressed many times that he wants me to marry a Chinese or Taiwanese woman. His reason? He said I 8767 m not just marrying for myself. He says he is also a part of that decision because he would have to interact with my partner 8767 s parents. Think of how much happier if I could drink and have a blast with your wife 8767 s parents, Frank! No. No, fuck off. He has tried so many times over my life to brain wash me with story after story of how every single Chinese man that he has known that has married outside of his race has met a tragic end to his marriage, due to infidelity or cultural differences. Wtf. Leave me alone. I will marry because I love, not because of your stupid ass.
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Congratulations! You 8767 re a really sweet couple and truly in love, that 8767 s all it matters.
Who 8767 s been bothering and asking you to stick with White men? White guys/folks? Asian women? Why couldn 8767 t people tell those WM/AF to stick with white women instead? If anyone comes up telling me that I should only date Asian women, I 8767 d tell them to go pound sand, or better yet, go choke on a BIG YELLOW banana!
Luckily, I 8767 ve never encounter this problem, maybe because my girlfriend is middle eastern (Persian) but people shouldn 8767 t be so quickly to judge. We 8767 ve been together for over 68 years and funny enough, the only unpleasantness we 8767 ve come across are from 8766 certain 8767 Asian women, or White men with Asian women.
Aside from the interesting 8775 sexless marriage 8776 comments you will find in the link above something else came to mind a black woman in Japan told me something I had never considered: an Asian man cheating on his wife will keep everything under control he won 8767 t leave his wife and he won 8767 t screw up his kids a white man probably keep everything under control and probably won 8767 t screw up his family life. A black man (according to her) will probably get out of control and screw up his family life. I have no direct experience with this (not being black) but from what I have seen in Japan there may be some truth to it.
Okay but when you lie about your height you waste everyone 8767 s time! If I am a woman that cares about your height I 8767 m either going to leave or feign sick as soon as I see you and realize you have lied or I am certainly going to not give you a second dare. Or if I don 8767 t care about height I 8767 m going to be pissed that you are a liar and turned off by your lack of confidence and not give you a second date. So tell me how is this working out for you? You lie then get angry at the woman for not giving you a second date?
My mother 8767 s father was a short man. He was the opposite of my other grandfather. He did have a Napoleon complex. He was angry at the world for how he was treated, but what he didn 8767 t realize was that the everyone, even big people have their crosses to bear. He allowed his experience to make him bitter and an alcoholic. He chose to get in my other grandfather 8767 s face, so after repeated warnings that were ignored, my paternal grandfather picked him up by his collar, put him against the wall and told him that if he didn 8767 t stay out of his face, he was going to hurt him. This was before my dad met my mom. It did affect my mom and dad, but didn 8767 t stop them from getting married, obviously. My mom 8767 s mom was a very beautiful woman. And I am not just saying that because she was my grandmother. My mom was a good looking woman, her sister was voted sexiest in her class in a large high school in Columbus Ohio. My grandmother was the type of older woman who attracted men less than half her age when she was out by herself. She was model good looking with naturally platinum blond hair.