Posted: 2017-11-14 11:17
The problem is most people are selfish and self-entitled. I make things happen, I don 8767 t talk, I do. That 8767 s who I am and I 8767 m not going to sacrificing everything I worked hard for to take care of a lay about with no ambition for the next fifty years, I 8767 m going to fight and push and work my way to the top and enjoy what little time I have living life to the max. In this life you can only count on yourself, start investing in yourself, you shouldn 8767 t need anyone else to be happy. 😛
Granted I 8767 m late to this party but I hope you followed the advice and got far away. Jesus dude, have you never heard about not sticking your dick in crazy??? She 8767 s saying she 8775 doesn 8767 t feel safe 8776 have you never heard of that? It 8767 s what they say to the cops when they want you thrown out of your own house. Are you totally new to women? You 8767 re angling to spend 75 years in the state pen on a hoax.
Horribly put. Being attracted to a gorgeous man or woman is not fake at all. 8775 ugly 8776 people live lives where they tell themselves they are happy with their partner as well. That is what is fake. Beauty is beauty. It is not fake to like it. You are confused here. Usually these 8775 ugly people with high IQ 8776 are 8775 ugly 8776 because they are smarter and know there is little value in living a life of material, and invest in what makes them happy- not what they are told makes them happy. That is what the reality is. Not that people are fake.
It makes me sad to think I am at 79 likely to be alone. I know I am not the important things, but I read these accusations of crazy, and selfish, manhating, and money hungry. I would expect people think even more the last looking at me because I do not work, and I am not educated. I was in the too ten percent of my class in high school but I dropped out of college when I was pregnant. I certainly have my issues in that far. But am I so bad? Do I deserve to be alone forever because I am a single mother? I am loving, intelligent, nurturing, industrious, and loyal. I learned a lot from my mistakes.
I know I should not bemoan it, because it is a result of my choices. I could work full time now and go to school full time and put my son in day care and prove myself 8775 different. 8776 if my choice and ex 8767 s choice wasnt that this is best for my son. I could have realized what way things would go earlier, if I had been more mature.
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I just told him that his kids come first and always will do whatever he wanted to so he is taking them all to his house. He thinks I 8767 m jealous but I 8767 m not. I 8767 m just tired of everyone assuming it 8767 s OK to come over every single weekend. My mom is sick and has dementia. Kids screaming and cursing all the time is upsetting to her and some weekends I just want it quiet for her. I guess this is my weekend. But at what cost.
I am single mom and still managed to graduate from the University of AZ, with my masters. I make a nice healthy six figures a year and guess what I did without any public assistance. To put the icing on the cake, I 8767 m also African American. So you can take this article and shove it up your ass. My son is and always has been well taken care of and loved. He has never gone without necessary items, and I 8767 ve managed to finish everything I 8767 ve ever started. : )
I hold hope, though. I haven 8767 t dated yet. Scared of these comments about using single mothers for one thing scared I bring someone else into my son 8767 s life who is not there forever scared of the stories about pedophiles targeting mothers. Yet I have started looking, cautiously. I have so much love in my heart to give. My son tried to tell me I should get married like daddy. He is just three.).
If my ex can find love, surely I can, too? And the woman he is marrying is a great woman. Knowing about their preferences weirds me out, but they promise to not make it obvious to my son and in general we get along well.
I am not sure what the point of all this is Just reactions, I suppose.
I enjoyed this post! I felt guilty for the longest time that I was having a better time fating than I did when I was married! The awesome thing is if you are tired of 8775 eating candy bars 8776 and the 8775 novelty 8776 , & prefer to just lay low for a while go for it! Being single puts the power of choice back in your court. I know exactly what I want and do not want. I become tired of men who try to pressure me into having more kids!!! I have three!!! They say, 8775 well you don 8767 t look like it 8776 etc I think yeah! It was harder than hard to gain my body, confidence, and independence back so back the hell away if you want that er , uh, please find someone else 8767 s uterus to occupy with your DNA. My babes are mine, and that is it! I welcome others 8767 kids with open arms, but my body IS DONE! Case in point ? I am excited to schedule my tubal next month! :D
Never cleaned the house, managed to mess it up but complained of the pain from her health problems made it too painful to clean it up. It was bad. Like 9 days of the kids breakfast dishes side by side on the kitchen table. I 8767 d have to run the dishwasher three times in a row to catch up on dishes. I measured the clean laundry that needed to be put away in cubic yards (usually about 8). And she never worked a day when she was with me. Bad. quarter million fruit flies in my house bad and I never had a fruit fly problem before in my life save for a couple when I had an old banana on the counter.
Sometimes I feel like I’m an amature everything. I cook, road bike, paint occasionally, blog even less often, love snow sports, and am always looking to try new things and learn new things… but I never really master anything! I like to think that makes my resume diverse, but you can give me a hard time about it if you’d like. If you can quote Neil Gaiman, keep up with me on a road bike, and show me something I haven’t tried before you should definitely message me.
I 8767 ve never liked to term 8775 the one 8776 , because there are actually many imperfect potential 8775 ones 8776 out there. I can sympathize with your frustration. I have heard the same thing from other people who are very devoted to Christ. I myself, have been abstinent for quite some time after my divorce. I think it 8767 s incredibly admirable to keep your virginity. I dealt with hpv and cervical dysplasia and a lot of headaches and heartache for having premarital sex with my ex-husband. He turned out to like having sex with new and different women and being verbally abusive. I could have saved myself some pain had I done what you are doing. At least you know if you do marry, that you will be marrying someone with good values and a strong faith in Christ.
My man of 8 years is a wonderful step father & partner to my kids & I, Then he gets his 7 kids, which I also adore, but in those 7 86hour weekends, his contact with me is minimal, & his whole attitude towards me changes, he 8767 s rude,short & gets plan understand he wants to spend time with them, I just wish he didn 8767 t take me off the pedestal., Then they leave & we 8767 re happy family again., it 8767 s frustrating & I 8767 m starting to dread their fortnightly visits.. Not because of the kids, because of him.
It 8767 s interesting you should bring that up because your argument hinges on 7 people staying together, presumably in a marriage. Now the irony here is that the people most likely to stay in a marriage (a first marriage, never divorce) are the same people who overwhelmingly oppose abortion yes, the Christians. These are the people with children that have the best chance for success, based on the study, and are least likely to have children that have children out of wedlock I just find that aspect fascinating.
I 8767 m 77 and this is so me !!! I have a guy who is pursuing me from 6 years !!! And a guy I know from a year who I have a huge crush (love??? Too scary even to admit) but he might be dating someone , we also have electrifying chemistry !!!
Oh and my best friend of ten years and me are very attached to each other in a way that resulted in our breakups with our respective partners few years ago. . we also had a fling after that for few months and decided we are better off friends. .
Becca, that you love someone that treated you so bad, is a little disturbing. He doesn 8767 t deserve you. (he picked some idiot from his high school????) IMO don 8767 t live with a man, IMO this is how it works out. The woman wants a committment, so they live together. HE 8767 s not sure, then she nags, they get married, and it doesn 8767 t work out, because, he was never sure. Watch new men very closely, be very methodical and analytical. See what he does. This way you don 8767 t have to waste years of your life on that crap. Good luck, I think you 8767 ll do well.
These people need a reality check they need to grow up and accept the situation, make it work somehow, or move on.
But no they come into a package deal and they try to change the dynamics with their own selfish interests in mind. They automatically see the kids as annoying brats even if that isn 8767 t true, and they resent their partner for (oh, the horror!) actually being PARENTS.
My bf does not believe in this. We are together 6 years now, I never met his kid, only in the 6th year I met his family, his ex says she does not want the kid near me, and neither him nor her wants me meeting the kid. For his birthday, he is saying again, I cannot be invited, because the kid is planning it, a 9 year old Kid, I suggested that since I never got invited, I can come in the evening, he said no, the kid would have things planned for the evening too..My gosh! Life is great yes, love this man, and do not know how to deal with this frustration!!!!
I was engaged and pregnant by a man who told me he was awaiting a divorce and had been separated from his wife for 5 years and she even had a boyfriend and he had a string of ex 8767 s. He never had a good word to say about her I had to listen to how bad their marriage was all the time. When our baby was 9 months old wedding dress bought etc I found out from ex wife approaching me and my son in the street (to ridicule me she ignored me and cooed over my son, as my fiancé stood by and watched) so I did some digging AND FOUND THE TRUTH.
I also don 8767 t believe it 8767 s the time aspect of it (putting the kids first in time), I believe it 8767 s the aspect of not respecting your quality time with your partner (if you made a dinner date then stick with it your child should be raised to understand that your time is important as well and that you can manage your time without being irresponsible.. unless it 8767 s an emergency).