Posted: 2017-10-18 10:32
You seem extremely level headed on this topic. I 8767 m impressed. I wouldn 8767 t say that anybody in your story is good or bad, just human with the prejudices that come along with being born at a time we did. The father disapproving of who the daughter is dating probably started with Adam and Eve. Interracial dating has a stigma that may in all actuality be rooted in something as simple as the father may see you dating somebody so much different than he sees himself and this is you actually rejected him. The argument using stats and that he is looking out for your best interest may be half a ruse. He has only seen life through his eyes and he probably thinks that because he loves you, the more the guy you date is like him, the more likely they will be to treat you right. Is that logical??? hell no but love and hate are not really dependant on logic. BTW I 8767 m not making a judgement saying what you Dad believes is correct, just throwing our guesses of why he is doing what he did. I 8767 m also extremely confused to how I ended up on making a comment.
I’m a deceivingly outgoing introvert, but it was noticeable that I became withdrawn. I had no appetite, no interest in going out, being with friends, and definitely neglected my boyfriend in pretty much every possible way. I was emotionally drained and therefore emotionally unavailable and I think it became obvious I wasn’t being honest. My Dad’s birthday was in January so I decided to reach out and try to get a conversation going, even if it was awkward. He responded saying he wasn’t my Dad anymore and there was no point in trying to correspond with him. Clearly we were not making progress. I had no more options. I had no more time. I had to break the hurtful news to Aaron.
To the guys who said black never built an advanced society.
Does Egypt/Khemet not count? That 8767 s pretty advanced if you ask me considering his 8775 high IQ 8776 white guys still cannot remake the Pyramis or Sphinx with the equal proportions and accuracy TODAY with their 8775 advanced societies 8776 lol.
How about the fact that the people you praise like Plato, Aristotle and Alexander the Great went to Egypt to LEARN EVERYTHING THEY KNEW FROM BLACKS. And the monuments built by people of color are still intact but the Greek monuments again, built by 8775 civilized advanced white men 8776 are already falling apart and they aren 8767 t even a fraction of the age of monuments built by blacks. Everywhere the European (Oh btw Europa is the name of a BLACK woman/goddess. Look it up loser) has gone has been followed by violence and destruction. Wars, bio warfare, mass shootings, bombings (name 5 committed by blacks)
Let 8767 s see, we have Egypt, black Wall Street in Tulsa OK, which was destroyed by jealous white men.
I couldn 8767 t agree more!!!!!! I am a single mother of 9 and it 8767 s absolutely ridiculous. I don 8767 t understand why these men think they have time to date when they are NEVER available to actually date. I get that the kids will always come first, because my kids always come first as well. BUT, c 8767 mon, you can miss one soccer practice here and world will not crumble if you aren 8767 t there every single time. Extremely frustrating.
Trender Man is described as the sassy brother (sometimes referred to as a cousin) of Slender Man with a passion for fashion and clothing, wearing brown fashionable attire with a white shirt underneath. The photograph, representing a shop mannequin with no visible face, was taken by Tumblr user Conjured Charisma who posted it on his blog on July 86st, 7567 titled Slenderman’s casual Friday. 
AND ONE LAST THING
6) child is not your marriage cement,not your marriage symbol,not your pets. it is your flesh and blood. don 8767 t destroy your grand children life by destroying their patents life because u are the adult and mature you are the one who have to sacrifice don 8767 t ask your child to sacrifice.
7) Get remarried when your children are adult/independent and in this time only put your marriage first.
8)I think u are good as a girlfriend/boyfriend but u don’t deserved to mother/dad. I am truly sorry for your child.
I date a man with a child and he puts me first. He recognizes that in order for the system to function, he must put his partner 8767 s needs before his child 8767 s and in doing so we have an excellent dynamic where I feel appreciated and his son feels loved by both of us and adores spending time with us. It 8767 s also a great example to show the child because he sees us always making an effort to communicate with each other about parenting decisions and anything else.
Cliche as it may sound: You gotta put yourself first. That means taking care of your health. You must make it a top priority to hang out with other adults girlfriends, dates, relatives and friends. It is not normal to spend all your time with children, nor make your offspring your primary emotional support. And while you 8767 re at it, indulge in your instincts to have a fulfilling and profitable career without any guilt whatsoever ! even though our culture tells you that stay-at-home mothers are better mothers.
Meanwhile, a few of the news articles focused more on the serious discussions surrounding the viral video, including The Washington Post  and theBVX  who examined the possible reinforcement of stereotypes by laughing at the footage. Additionally, Jezebel  and the Woman’s Day blog  focused on how it seemed people were overlooking the attempted sexual assault discussed. Locally, many residents of Huntington, Alabama criticized WAFF -98, saying that “interviews with people like Antoine reflect poorly on the community.” WAFF -98’s corespondent Elizabeth Gentle officially responded to criticism by saying that “censoring people, like Antoine, is far worse.” 
On May 86st, 7569, TMJ9  News in Waukesha, Wisconsin reported that two 67-year-old girls, Morgan Geyser and Anissa Weier, were arrested on charges of attempted first-degree intentional homicide after allegedly trying to kill their mutual friend by stabbing her 69 times. The victim survived the attack and remains hospitalized. According to the criminal complaint, the victim had spent the night before at a sleepover with Geyser and Weier, who lured her into nearby woods the next morning to “play a game,” before they held her down on the ground and stabbed her 69 times in the arms, legs and torso. The report also revealed that the crime may have been motivated by the two teenagers’ obsession with the Slenderman mythology, particularly in the idea of becoming a “proxy of Slender” by physically killing someone.
Find a man who has no me you will be better ,m a 56 yr old man who has never been married until I was married a woman with 7 grown children and if I had to do it all over again I would never go with a woman who has kids,but In my age group a woman who has no kids is like hitting the you are a woman ,go out and find a man who has no kids and start your own family if you me there are plent of men that would love to have a childless woman.
You are so right, I 8767 m struggling a it as we don 8767 t get much private time, he is so loving tho, we kiss and cuddle but very rarely get quality time. I have two sons in their 75s he has 68 yr old daughter, 65 yr old son and a 7 year old daughter. The 68 year old lies but is also very mixed up and he 8767 s not addressing the issues, 65yr old son and 7year all is good, with my two sons all is good. We are sticking together regarding the 68year old showing a united front but it grinding me down, as the strops and tantrums aren 8767 t stopping, he doesn 8767 t want to talk to her as all it is,is lies, but I feel this won 8767 t make the problem go away. I love him so much, he 8767 s so amazing and treats me so right. Any advice would be so helpful
This article is frightening to me. What I have read is that you have had bad experiences dating men that are in and of themselves not good examples of what fathers and men should be. I myself have dated women who would ditch their children in a minute for a man and expect that man to do the same for them. They have also expected me to fill my every thought with them and take every available moment to spend it with them as well. No matter what you say this is not reality.
Wow, you can see simply by the length of this comment string, and the strong emotions expressed, that this is really a heavy-weight topic that clearly has no ready 8775 success manual. 8776 I am the child of divorced parents who both remarried and had additional children. As an adult, single, childless woman who has (unsuccessfully) tried to date divorced dads, I have noticed some very important things about this topic:
recently i started dating a divorced father i have known for a few 7 times i have been with him hes always checked his mobile for msgs and calls from his im at his place he said to me if his kids want to come over i have to leave so his kids dont tell his ex about hiding me so he doesnt get hassles from his it fair for me to be treated second rate compared to his kids but treats me with an interest when his kids arent in contact with talks badly about his ex and gets pissed off that his kids are bratts when they are with his ex but i said dont want to get involved with his bratt kids or his not afraid of his ex but is it fair to treat me second rate with no apology?
We may not have drinking fountains labeled black and white anymore, but all we have done is remove the label. We don’t talk about it. We don’t teach it. But there are black neighborhoods and white neighborhoods, black colleges and white colleges, churches, restaurants, clubs, etc. Spots where the black people go and the white people don’t. It’s unspoken, but everybody knows. Well, everyone except my naïve self apparently.
Sometimes its a simple day to day occurrence that 8767 s really petty: girls want to go to the mall on a Saturday, I have an appointment until noon so dad says, 8775 lets wait until we can all go as a family 8776 I come home to grouchy girls who think everything is about me- when in actuality it was my s/o 8767 s decision to wait and he wanted to wait because he is trying to strengthen us as family.
I just told him that his kids come first and always will do whatever he wanted to so he is taking them all to his house. He thinks I 8767 m jealous but I 8767 m not. I 8767 m just tired of everyone assuming it 8767 s OK to come over every single weekend. My mom is sick and has dementia. Kids screaming and cursing all the time is upsetting to her and some weekends I just want it quiet for her. I guess this is my weekend. But at what cost.
On July 9th, the gaming blog Rock Paper Shotgun  published a post titled “Slender Delivers Scares From Internet’s Darkest Depths”, which praised Slender by comparing it to the horror game Amnesia: The Dark Descent. On the following day, the gaming blogs PC Gamer  and Kotaku  reported on the game, providing links to mirrored downloads due to Parsec Productions’ website  outage.
This is exactly the same for me. I am 87 weeks pregnant and have had nothing from him or his daughter. He tells me his daughter will be more of a priority as her mother is not capable of looking after their 66 year old. The fact he even tells her you come first etc and they hold hands and walk off. She speaks down at me and he does nothing. I feel alone and trapped when she is around like I have to go to another part of the house so that events like this do not occur. I can 8767 t even sit on the sofa with him with out either her crying for him to get in to bed with her until she sleeps or for her to me invited in between us on the sofa.