Posted: 2017-10-13 08:09
Historically, East Asians have been far more progressive on this front than whites. Neither China, Korea or Japan has had bans on interracial marriage up until the late 6965s (See Loving v. Virginia). Also, acts such as the Chinese Exclusion Act allowed white males to bring over Chinese brides, but not for Chinese males to marry white brides (Chae Chan Ping v. United States is still considered good law and highly influential to . immigration law, and there was also a version of this act in Canada).
These men have no shame calling you their little yellow geisha fucktoy. And you 8767 re proud of it too. In fact they are the only option you will ever have, bottom shelf white boy after another and another. In the end, asian females always end up marrying racist trash, turns out all the high status whiteys she were with only wanted to fuck an asian, not end up with one. You are their proud-to-be last resort, their plan B if they were hopeless, sexless, white losers. They know you 8767 ll be there for them. And you 8767 ll be there for them, with your ass up in the air. Please, wake up.
Nature didn''t takes it''s course as it did over years for us to connect over a wire. That just doesn''t work, period. She can be however interested if you got a smooth talk and decent pictures. Most of the time a woman is not self aware of what she wants and gets bored with the chat because they thrive on emotion, unlike us men. But in the end you need to be your own man in the real world and become the best version of yourself. Attraction is not a conscious choice, meaning a women can''t control to who she is attracted to. Just take care of yourself, read self improvement books. Go buy "Mind lines" from Michael Hall and educate yourself to create a healthy view of the world and stay away from negative news and media.
I 8767 ve been seeing a new guy for around two months now, at first he was so into me he would go out his way to see me. About three weeks ago he seamed to loose interest he. stopped calling testing he was coming over every day and now I haven 8767 t seen him for over a week.. I ask him if I had said or did something wrong and he says he is going through alot with his divorce settlement with will be very next week and he will be all better. I 8767 m so confused. Should I call it quits or give him time? I feel so hopeless please help.
Look, most black women aren’t married. Every news agency in the country has done a story about how unmarriageable they think we are…even the thin sistas. But, if by some twist of fate, this black woman does get hitched when she’s thin, since 95% of all diets fail to maintain a permanent weight loss, chances are she’ll gain the weight back. And wouldn’t it suck to find out your boo can’t love you in a bigger body? Unacceptable bullshit.
Thank you for this article, for being so open and candid. I have been on various ends of the spectrum from skinny to fat to thick to fat and back to somewhere in between again. Although I have thought about it many times, I 8767 ve realized there are different men attracted to me at various weights. There are the brothers who have commented even AFTER they began to date me that my weight was an issue nothing had changed, no extra pounds gained. I think they just got comfortable and kicked to the curb ultimately. I have just reached a point in my life where a person needs to take me where I am. Not that I won 8767 t improve, or slim down, or be curvier or whatever, but I am a work in progress as we all are.
A man who can dominate her. Lol, nice try tin foil cooch crusader. Ive been a member of the bdsm community from the vanilla end of the spectrum to the dungeon and chains end of the spectrum, since ive had 8775 hair down there 8776 and if you put down your 55 shades novel once in a while youll figure that the overwhelming majority are switches or experimental and finding a submissive is rare. But highly and obnoxiously advertized. Until it is a common belief.
There''s another guy on here who''s bragging about getting laid by women he barely knows. It''s following a shallow lifestyle to be after people "who attract you". There are more important things in life than the outward appearance. A person''s character traits are important. Honesty, respect, love, loyalty, dependable, reliable are all decent traits to have. Being with a woman for a long time says that you have been dependable and loyal. I''m sorry that happened to you.
Okay, I 8767 m a little discouraged reading these posts. I went online to learn more about virgo men to get to know a virgo guy that has peeked my interest quite a bit. I am very excited about the possibility, but now wonder if I 8767 ll measure up and it will work. We 8767 ve spent the last year getting to know each other (co-workers) and last week he took me out for dinner (laid back pizza). Not sure if that was a 8775 date 8776 or just a friendly gesture and not sure what to expect now. I 8767 m a cancer. Is there seriously no hope for a cancer and virgo? He is Mr. Wonderful and I 8767 d really like to see where this goes! He is a total gentleman, well mannered, caring, would do anything for anyone, very logical and I enjoy our conversations and the respectable way he treats me. Tell me there is hope! What can I do to make it work?
At the same time I don`t think it`s a 8775 new prefrence 8776 that swedish women has built up to foreign men, it`s always been there with the same love as they have for swedish men. It`s just that now when we live in a more liberal soceity that they can show it without beeing socially outcasts. Something women from other parts of the world should strive for. Then again it`s, as you say, only partly true and far from many swedish women prefer foreign men.
It 8767 s the Truth..If it was so bitter then you wouldn 8767 t have responded. You know it 8767 s the truth and therefore it hurts. So many women pour themselves into a man and it 8767 s a waste of time. Always seeking to make things better, meanwhile the man is on the block or at the job chatting up/flirting with other women..So why seek to make things good with a man? Women need to seek treating themselves better, because men don 8767 t give a flying crap.
Both sides have their rights and wrongs. I always liked meeting people in Internet. I always thought (and I still do) that dating websites are a great idea. I always protect dating websites because of a simple reason - it''s a public place where real people are showing themselves. You found creepy people on dating websites? Sure, but you know that they also exist in real life and you could meet them on a classic date, right?
What I do know is this, people love me for who I am not what I am. When you see women my age slamming themselves around the gym, and freaking out over every wrinkle (and just wait girls, gravity will make its way all the up to your face! :)), I have to remind myself that I was not put on this planet to completely obsess about myself. ! Those pesky termites of fear disappear and I get right sized again. Thanks and good night!
yeah i agree with this totally i am chinese myself and i strictly date white girls in my experiences you def don 8767 t want a girl who is all into asian stuff those girls are either weird, ugly, or just plan annoying. might as well date an asian chick Jewish girls are my favorite hehe once you manage to woe a nice jewish girl you will know whats up they Work hard BUT PLAY HARDER after jewish girls id have to say french, italian, eastern european/russian, and finally girls of nordic origin oh and argentinian girls are really cool too and obviously girls of mixed race.
Yet at the same time I have always been extremely progressive. I would want a woman to be highly educated and to work outside the home as I would want her to have some independence if something happened to me. I also believe in evolution, sex-education, reproductive rights, and gender equality. And I live a very ecofriendly lifestyle, am concerned about climate change, and believe in universal healthcare.
i haven 8767 t personally gone through what you have, but two of my best friends have and at a stage they felt worthless and had confidebce issues. Overtime they 8767 ve(and our whole friend group) have come to realise that all those girls were just jealous and unhappy with themselves and tried coming up with excuses or making fun of other people, because they are not the weight they want to be. One last thing, OWN THAT BODY!!!!!!!
In conclusion, generalizing people like that, be they woman or men, Swedish or American, blond or brunettes what have you is completely impossible and, furthermore, potentially endangering or problematic. Obviously, you can just snap back at me that this comment is ridiculous as a response to what essentially amounts to a silly (as in lighthearted rather than vapid) blog post. Still, you posted it in the public sphere and as such all comments are merited: personally, I do think that while you may have intended the post to be playful and a bit jaunty, it gives rise to some real issues and salient points of discussion and debate. I doubt whether you will want to argue those points with me, but there you go, this is my response to what I consider an offensive, problematic post. I like to think the animosity levels were kept relatively low, too. : If you do respond, I 8767 m really looking forward to reading it.
I have a question I hope you could help me with.
I really like this guy and have asked him to hang out with me. He has shown sings of liking me back and has said to love and hang out with me. Now i know he is for a fact very busy and has cancelled because he wants to be engaged and not tired when hanging out with me. I give him space without being needy but i would like to know where i stand with him. The thing is that another guy has asked me out for a date. I feel like i should just go on and have dates but I 8767 m a bit worried it might ruin my change with the guy i really like. Also am not going to sit around and wait for him to make time. Will it ruin my chance or not? Should i confront him with not making an effort and take time for us hang out? I respect his space and know the importance of it to guy.
hi eric charles i really agree with everything that you have said and i think that everyone should be the best that they can be i used to be really big and i am 69 now and in less then a year i lost all my weight over 95 pounds and i feel great! it took me to relize i had a problem and to do something about it its nice to hear diffrent opinions about what men really think about the size of a woman but i also think it souldent be so cut and dry like this is how meany inches you should be ect because every person has diffrent body types like a hour glass woman souldent try to loose her curves and a thinner girl shouldent try to eat alot to try to gain curves because if we try to be something we are not ment to be we become more unattractive i think a girl sould embrace her body whatever shape she was blessed with and truthfully this is a hard topic and i wish people would take more out of this because all this argueing is so not worth it i mean this is a qustion alot of woman ask and theres no right or wrong awencer because everyone is so diffrent but i really do appreciate your posts!
Hi Eric! Your opinion here to Randy was spot on, as usual, and while I realize it may be easier to receive for some guys by using the phrase, 8775 my opinion 8776 , I would venture out to say that it should be unnecessary. Your opinion matters and has validity to Randy and all of us who read your articles and are furthermore subscribed. Please keep pouring it out of yourself to us, I mean just my opinion! 😉