Posted: 2017-11-15 01:42
Meanwhile in MoF cheating, the worst that happens to a woman is that her partner might start spreading his resources to other women. Of course, it is advantageous for women to prevent this, preferably by blocking cheating completely. This is why women 8767 s reactions to cheating are more 8775 how dare you, ya son of a bitch! 8776 than 8775 oh the agony. 8776 Physical access may take up some of the male 8767 s available resources, but continuous support for other females requires emotional investment, which is why men tolerate emotional infidelity more easily than women.
I was an awkward and creative kid. I wore the same pair of vans tennis shoes to school for 5 years straight, had long un-brushed hair, and wore oversized sweatshirts and jean shorts to school. I was chubby. I had braces. Name some nerdy quality and I probably had it. I was naturally a very inclusive person. I 8767 d say it was bad experiences throughout school which probably made me much more accepting. I was also a dancer and heavily involved in the performing arts which attracts a wide variety of characters. I always made sure everyone felt welcome and included.
I as a white guy love black women over any race because unlike white girls black girls aren 8767 t always complaining about bullshit and black girls know how to keep a white man happy. They not only have great bodies but great personalities and all white girls I 8767 ve dated only cared about thier popularity status and thier hair and other unnesscessary things. Black girls are amazing and always know what to talk about other than themselves. I would love to talk to a black girl.
So when I met my 8775 husband 8776 in college and eventually shared the news of my son, the comment was, 8775 I had promised myself NEVER to date a woman with a child, but since we have come this far . 8776 . What? Oh my God, where was my good sense then? Mark you, I was 69 years old at this point. I should have body slammed (just kidding) this joker then, but the perception of being in love cloaked in naivity is a mother in itself!
Sorry/not sorry cheating is 655% both the fault and responsibility of the cheater and has absolutely nothing to do with the person getting cheated on. You men need to start taking responsibility for your own actions and stop blaming it on women. And yes it works both ways! People don 8767 t need excuses to cheat they just look for them purposely because they are too cowardly to admit that they can 8767 t commit or stay committed. Quit blaming and punishing your partners for your own selfish inadequacies.
Hi I met my husband on a dating site 9 years ago to recently find out he never came off them, hid them for 9 years!! Went on dates slept with people ect .. They always want what they can 8767 t have when they have it it 8767 s never enough!! I suggest you find someone from somewhere other then a dating site lol. I will come out with you for drinks if you xx sorry you went through this but please be glad you found out now and not 9 years later
Your dad was kind of a dick, but in the end he was right. As soon as there was an out, your boyfriend took it. Even as you were begging him to work it out, even as your Dad removed himself from your life(The racist is gone, you and the BF are free to live as you please without intervention from Dad), he decided he 8767 d rather split.
Thank god you didn 8767 t have kids with this guy before he left you. I don 8767 t know, maybe he was truly destroyed by this, but being the same gender as him, it 8767 s MUCH more likely he was just tired of you and wanted a guilt free reason to leave. Then you displaced all your anger and disappointment on your Dad.
Hell, if I met a girl I liked as much as you said, and her Dad hated me that much, I wouldn 8767 t leave her. Hell, I 8767 d be happy he was out of the way.
Detroit, Philadelphia, Atlanta, Chicago. And that 8767 s just places in America that are in a state of decay that just so happens to correlate with the proportion of blacks to other racial groups. From an anthropological stand point take Greece, used to be blonde hair blue eyes as the norm. Was the birthplace of democracy , Aristotle, Archimedes, Pythagoras, Alexander the Great . the list is almost inexhaustible. Mixed their race with Africans, blonde hair blue eyes changed to Olive skin-dark hair-brown eyes and the innovative place that was a hive of new ideas and discovery turned into a failed state.
Ask any geneticist or physician or anthropologist you trust to give you an honest answer, it 8767 s a taboo subject to speak up about it and many have lost their jobs for going on the record. Africans are really that different from us.
Um, no, everyone doesn t know that, and you offer no statistics. The exact opposite is true: Western men, especially of northern European stock, are the LEAST promiscuous in the world. It is common among men in Latin America, China, India, the Middle East, to think nothing of seeking out prostitutes regularly even while married, or to cheat in a wife with the non-professional kidn. To say nothing of men in Africa, where infidelity is rampant.
This added comment you made is irrelevent. ANY WHO, you could still be respectful. I never said that her father didn 8767 t still love her. Where did you see me say that exactly? Nowhere. 8775 Children should honor their father and mother 8776 yeah that 8767 s true. But you have to gain respect to get respect. Her father isn 8767 t respecting her decision. He doesn 8767 t have to like it, he can be racist about it all he wants, but at least respect her choice. A person is a person. There is no superior race and there never will be. God made everyone equal.
I 8767 ve had a great experience with online dating. Most of the men I 8767 ve gone out with are attractive, employed, intelligent and pleasant. Never met anyone who had obviously misrepresented themselves. No one tried to jump down my pants on the first date. I didn 8767 t feel that any less than ideal behavior on any of my dates 8767 part was beyond what I would encounter if I was on a date with someone I knew from real life ( and I date many men from real life too). I write to many men online first to get higher quality dates. Sure, sometimes you get annoying messages, but I just laugh it off as part of the game.
8775 write a better profile 8776
Ladies really take that to heart. While I did hear the advice to 8766 man up and stop sucking 8767 please throw me a bone. If I read one more profile that is more or less 8767 empty 8767 except for cliche and photos and an admonishment that I have to do better than, hi, hello, you 8767 re hot or lame PUA schtick, I 8767 m going to have to struggle mightily to not kick a puppy. Give us something to work with.
And note how few unsolicited approaches men receive and send out a few of your own.
Media has done a grand job of vilifying men into a place where we have to second guess all motives and for someone in their twenties, saying the right thing to the child may make it a lot to process. You never know what that child will say to the mom, how the mom will take it, if you will be accused of liking the child more oh and that common Hollywood trope where you tell them to stop doing something bad only to hear 8775 YOU ARE NOT MY DADDY! 8776 It 8767 s a lot, and many of these thoughts flash through our heads and complicates things.
The way we talk, the way we walk, our quick Witt, our sense of style non-European men typically don 8767 t have it. And despite the negative portrayals, black men are more than just great athletes and entertainers we are intelligent human beings who continually get knocked down by the system, yet get out of bed every day and try to find our way in a system that was strategically designed to result in our destruction.
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Let me end my rant by saying this
Ashley, please feel free to date who you chose regardless of race, background, or color. There are good and bad people that come from all walks of life and all colors.
You lead a much different life than that of your parents, forefathers, and friends.
Your happiness is what really matters and those who don 8767 t understand that 8767 s their fault. You deserve to be happy and with someone who supports that unconditionally. Be you and respect your own judgement. Because I 8767 m sure if it were a Mexican guy and he treated you badly people would probably be okay with it because he 8767 s not black.
Do as you please dear, it is your life and no one else 8767 s. Think of the bigger problems we 8767 d have in this world if every just blindly followed behind what others did simply because they share a complexion or racial background
I 8767 m a white guy, mid 85 8767 s. Been married to a black woman, early 85 8767 s, for about five years. We love each other, but I would be lying if I told you we did not have racial/cultural related issues occasionally. I work fulltime and am not use to a wife who grew up on fastfood and cold cereal and feeds the kids the same. I guess I expected since I provide, she 8767 d be like any other wife and learn a few dishes, maybe be a bit more of a homemaker.. Everything else is a free ride. Oh well. Wish you guys luck and happiness.
Thanks for having the boundless courage and integrity required to share this story which sheds light on the subversive presence of hatred and denial still existing to this day.
I stumbled upon your post after reading an account written in 6999 by a University of Maryland student named Joshua Solomon after he darkened his skin and traveled to the deep South to gain insight into the legitimacy of his black friends 8767 presentments.
It is stupefying to know that sentiments this deep and which pertain to nothing other than race can remain unapparent for decades even among our closest bonds and still be logicized by countless as 8766 not racist 8767 .
Thanks again for being among the most intelligent. It is indisputable that endless chronicles exist relating to this mentality disorder surely having shattered many family ties and which still remain untold.
I am at 75 year old black female who was ONLY ever dated out of my race. I 8767 ve always been attracted to men of other ethnicities and my family has always stood behind me %655. I will be marrying my fiancé, who is white this summer. I learned that if I wanted something.. I had to go after it. Mostly because of the stereotypes and the thought that white men don 8767 t approach black women. I am from a diverse area of central jersey and interracial dating is common. Don 8767 t get me wrong, I 8767 ve heard my peers talk about how 8775 they would never 8776 and about their extremely racists and ignorant families. My fiancé and I both have been lucky enough to come from two open families.
ANTIDOTE: Like with crack cocaine or polio, when it comes to players, prevention works best. So avoid them! In this hyperconnected world, it’s easy to use online tools to find mutual acquaintances who will give you reliable information about what kind of person you’re dealing with. If he rolls in on his Harley wearing a black motorcycle jacket, that’s your sign. For a comprehensive guide, I refer you to my article “ On Bad Boys and How to Spot Them ” on the blog, as well as Chapter 5 from The Tao of Dating .