Posted: 2017-11-14 01:06
When a guy’s profile pictures are all selfies, women assume he’s a massive narcissist—or worse, that he doesn’t have any friends. “One or two photos of you with friends, looking happy and natural, are way better than a profile full of boring, posed selfies, with no friends or interests,” online dating wingwoman Em Hammel of . If you’re feeling you don’t have enough close friends, though, here’s How to Build a Bromance as Strong as Your (Future) Marriage.
Granted, we live in a world of Facebook and Instagram, where everyone is interesting, spontaneous and 8766 lives life to the fullest 8767 . Everyone is brimming with positivity, and wants to be with someone like that. Everyone wants laugh all the time. We all are super fit and eat super healthy except that we also enjoy an indulgence every now and then. We all want to fulfill our 8766 bucket lists 8767 and do exciting thins and travel the world. Many women are looking for their Unicorn.
FeelsAwesome: Is he talking about sex already?
IReallyDoExist: Does he have low self-esteem?
SmallWood: Does this guy have a small penis?
JohnVice: Does this guy have a vice like a drug problem?
DemonWrath: Ummmm (you can draw your conclusion)
DaGift7Womens: Yo Yo, will dis gangsta ask her on a date den pop some caps?
Hey, I just wanted to say thanks for all the advice here. It was a pleasure to read. A friend of mine has been struggling with his profile, and was convinced that he was the reason he wasn 8767 t getting much interest. I 8767 m never for tricking anyone, but I told him online dating is as much about advertising oneself as advertising a product, you have to be thoughtful with what you choose to put out there and how you represent yourself. We 8767 re working on a profile together now, mostly cause I insisted he let me try to help before closing his down for good.
Advice: Don 8767 t believe all this girl power BS that feminists are feeding you. Do you honestly believe that a man would want to do 95 65 hrs of hard labour a week and then come home to do more chores? Don 8767 t be one of those girls that trivialise hard work as 8775 oh its his duty as a man. 8776 If everything else (eg. love, care, affection, work, dropping work if you get sick, outings, family events) is not good enough for you then you need to start rethinking your expectations or consider staying alone.
Hello, Soosoo. Love your comment. Almost everyone looks their age and this is a beautiful thing. If you are 55, what is wrong with looking 55? I have yet to meet a woman who is 95 or 55 and looks like a 85 year old. That would be weird anyway. I luv and have luved every one of my ages. this needs to be placed on a big billboard all around to remind people of this.
Not to mention how ridiculous people sound when they tell others that they look than their age. If they do, they don t need to point that out. If they don t, they will sound out of touch with reality, to say the least.
Oh man, these comments are so confusing, no to mention eye-opening. I 8767 m not really in the dating world, so I am very surprised at how the sexes view each other. But maybe this is why I don 8767 t get many messages on my profile. I am independent, but I 8767 m 87. What else am I supposed to be? That doesn 8767 t make me a feminist or off-putting in any way. I also LOVE to travel. But I am not 8775 into 8776 money. I 8767 m so surprised that some men feel that way. I never knew this! I do love traveling, but I am also entirely frugal. I spent a month in Europe at hostels and friend 8767 s houses. So, I really don 8767 t understand any of this at all. I came here to look up profile advice and I 8767 m more perplexed than ever. haha 🙂
I would hate to bore you by telling you how wonderful I am by attaching to my name a bunch of flattering adjectives. I am sure that you have already found this about two hundred times in all the other profiles. I believe that words are cheap, but actions speak much louder, so why bother? So, why not start with a bad stuff I am impulsive and restless at times, I can 8767 t kill a fly, I cried twice like a girl when I watched 8775 Notebook, 8776 I cuss too often, and stay up way too late way too often. There is something about the nighttime that I find magic, if you will, which keeps me up working or hanging out aimlessly. Can you relate? I have little patience for flakes and fake people those who smile while being angry on the inside, as I never know what they keep up their sleeve. How about you? What annoyed you today? And what made you weak in your knees from joy and pleasure?
Em says that to succeed at standing out, your dating profile should identify the reason why you’d say you’re funny or easy going. “For example, maybe it means you can take a good ribbing. It could also mean that you’d rather chill on the couch with a beer and a movie instead of hitting the clubs on Saturday night. Always identify the things you do or feel that are why you’re ‘responsible,’ ‘fun-loving,’ ‘active,’ or ‘kind-hearted.’”
Compromise of course there is a middle ground. However most women will simply dump the man before they find it and end up being alone again. The problem with narcissism is there is little to no room for compromise “It’s either my way or get out.” For women reading this, I would also like to highlight that they can only reproduce between the ages 68 -85 without increasing their risk of complications. Men however can reproduce into their 65s. On top of that men only need to exert 85% of their labour to live comfortable lives. The rest is pure profit. This means that biologically women are not in a good position to be exhibiting narcissistic behaviour if they want to have kids. On a side note: Men accumulate wealth, prestige and enhance their masculine features over time thereby gaining attraction.
The root cause of contemporary egocentric dating-profile-writing is that it 8767 s understandably similar to appealing to employers via job applications and resume-writing. Until the writer understands that without the advantage of brand-name recognition, it must be clear beyond a doubt what value can be obtained, or what kind of experiences can be enjoyed. A photo is a nice 8775 feature, 8776 but it 8767 s what value you can describe about yourself that inspires an online dater to make the next move.
I am all in favor of the more traditional roles and I am not a fan at all of feminism. Having said that, I am realistic enough to know that no woman is going to say in her profiles that she likes to 8775 cook and clean 8776 , even if she doesn 8767 t mind doing those things and she is traditional herself. That 8767 s just not something that women write. Well, many girls would say that they like cooking, but cleaning That 8767 s really a lot to expect from a profile.
This deserves clarification, and thank you for bringing this to my attention. While saying that you are 8775 independent 8776 in a profile is indeed redundant and somewhat cliche, that one word is not going to ruin an otherwise well-written profile. Also, in this example, the write says specifically 8775 independent but far from being a feminist 8776 which pretty much clarifies things and shows that the woman is aware of the negative connotations that might be given to the term.
Good example. I 8767 ve been playing around with different profiles and can never seem to get myself across to women correctly. Seems if I tailor my profile in one direction, I leave out lots of other bits that are important too. I guess there 8767 s no perfect way to get a profile and the best we can do is get others to enjoy the read. I know hen reading women profiles that it 8767 s like paper work at the office, sifting through the same stuff over an over. But every once in a blue moon, a great profile comes my way and it lifts up my spirits. Even if I 8767 m not interested, I still feel compelled to tells them good job.
Online dating is a great option for more and more people looking to find a long-term partner or just a fun date. Your online profile is what will help people decide whether to contact you or not. To create a good dating profile you’ll want to write an attention-getting bio. Attach a handful of unique photos to your account as well. Keep your profile positive and you soon will be attracting all sorts of potential partners.
But now: Here ye, Here ye Knights in Shining Armor, there is something I must inform you about this profile it is off due to a few things. Did you figure out what that might be? Don 8767 t worry, 8775 Attraction Killer 8776 Red Flag #7 is tough to spot , especially when we 8767 re doing it in our own online dating approach. Take the quiz for instant enlightenment!
That is a good example, but in my experience of online dating, depending how old you are and unless you are seriously unattractive and overweight, sometimes less on a profile can be more? If you need to write a humourous poelm to sell yourself couldn t this be a turn off for women? Doesn t this look needy or desperate? Sometimes one or two short brief careless sentences can give off the idea that you don t online date much and do not really care either way. Some women might be attracted to this.
Other ways to get great keywords:
• Browse through a dictionary for words that look good visually.
• Grab a random book or magazine near you, look through it for words that stand out.
Now that you have some keywords in your list, use to get more ideas. Here is an example of some great words I found by looking up the synonyms of happy.
The above definition is what feminism means. Other negative connotations are being tacted on to it by the woman who wrote the A profile, and are being encouraged by you. Also, what exactly is an extreme feminist and why is it necessary to include that with feminist? When did the quest for equal rights become so negative? Frankly, the word 8775 feminist 8776 has been unjustifiably abused and misused. I would hope that a majority of men and women would identify themselves as feminists.
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