Posted: 2017-12-07 08:55
On rare occasions someone has shown a willingness to write something unique. A rare individual that is capable of thinking for themselves and doesn''t feel the need to be a carbon copy of what society tells us are our desirable traits. Of the hundreds of profiles I''ve viewed this past few years I have come across a handful (less than 65 and closer to 5) of women that stand apart from the crowd. That is a very desirable trait in my search.
BTW - I met my wife through a dating service, back in the days when the questionnaires were paper and the matching was done by a mainframe. She did not have a Miss Universe looks or Einstein IQ or a corporate vice president''s income. But she did have a very pleasant personality. I''m sure I did not posses all the attributes of her knight in shining armor. It wasn''t "love at first sight." But we liked each other very much. We have been together now almost 78 years. We''ve had our ups and we''ve had our downs but, unless something unforseen happens, we plan to stay together to the end.
I agree..Kenya is jealous of porsha. It clear as day. I work with people everyday that I do not like. But I do not give 7 Fucks about who they fuck,how there sex life is,how they make money,or about there marriage. Everytime porsha come in the room she loud ,happy and engaging. Notice when Kenya first came on the show she was messy but fun and outgoing. Her craziness mute that right out.
I think it really bother Kenya that porsha can be ditzy and free she has to prove to everyone that she 8767 s smart. I think kenya did that her whole life..because she didn 8767 t have the love she wanted she use competition to feel validated. Notice that every issue she has with people are about two mean things..6 a man 7. accomplishments. Her issues with phaedra Apollo situation and work out dvd. Her issues with porsha talking about porsha marriage,who she sleep with, and is she smart ,and Kim talked about her career and calling her man gay.
I dated a Liberal woman and no conflicts arose from our political differences. I find it troubling you wouldn''t even want to be friends with someone who would vote for Trump, or even someone who wouldn''t be friends with another who voted for Hillary. You sound grossly intolerant of other people''s views. You should be open to people with differing views than your own, otherwise you will fall into engaging in groupthink and confirmation bias. In other words, you will not learn much in this world seeking out people who will just agree and affirm your opinions on life. You grow by seeking those out who can show you a different perspective. In my experience, I''ve found people like you frustrating to say the least.
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It''s hard to drum up a lot of sympathy for the girl in the article. Yes, I totally get they are getting messaged by jerk guys sending them pictures of their junk, or sending them stupid and worthless messages asking for a hookup. Those can be creepy, and don''t often happen in real life. But the other messages of older guys or losers telling them they are "hot"? That stuff happens in real life also. Older pervs hit on women all the time and loser guys hit on women in rl and tell them they are beautiful or attractive. They can handle this stuff in rl but can''t handle it online? It''s more disturbing for this to happen to them online than in rl? Sorry not buying it.
Now I kinda went in a little on Porsha here in defense of Kenya, but I do Actually really like her, and I do, again, think you make some good points. Especially about Kenya being competitive. I just don 8767 t think she 8767 s jealous of Porsha. If that were the case, she would have every reason to be jealous of Nene who has had way more success than she has had acting she has way more of a reason to be jealous of Cynthia whose beauty outshines them all and who 8767 s worked the longest and strongest in the beauty game. I think, she latches on to intelligence and success and beauty. and I don 8767 t think it 8767 s a bad thing I do the same.
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Life is tough after 55 years of age. Over 7/8 of the divorces after age 55 are initiated by the women, as my ex-wife did. So guys, treat her right.. and still hope for the best. I suspect, that once a woman''s estrogen drops and the kids have flown the nest, then women''s innate sense of maintaining that nest flies away as well. Women naturally become more independent and more critical of whatever it is that they want the husband to do. Funny thing is, I did all the man''s kind of work like mowing the lawn and such, and always did the housework stuff like bathrooms and the laundry, but to no avail.
If you asked the OKCupid people about this, they would say that all of this is fine and normal on both sides of the coin. Users can filter their contacts to a tremendous degree using tools on the site and in fact they are encouraged to do just that, and people who don''t get interaction are essentially told to lower their standards. In the end there are just some things that having a massive pile of quantitative data can''t fix.
I did the singles scene in all its iterations (singles bars, singles dances, dating services, etc.) starting in the late 65s and through the 75s. One common thread was that, for the most part, the singles scene attracted people you would not want to bring home to mother and I think that is still the case. Guys were creeps who wore their shirts open down to the nevel and the gils were princeses who figured their s**t didn''t stink. Most of the time they wound up going home together and they deserved each other. Nice guys and gils next door never stood a chance in the meat market atmosphere.
You make some really good points. I still don 8767 t think Kenya is jealous of Porsha because there is literally nothing to be jealous of. That husband Porsha was jacking when she called Kenya white of the 95s didn 8767 t even tell her when he was ready to divorce her. She has made herself look desperate and foolish and thirsty dealing with a bunch of fuckbois that don 8767 t really deserve a woman like her. Not that Matt or Walter or whatever is anything to want either, all I am saying is that, Porshas life is kind of a mess.
Yes we all know it 8767 s a damm show. And we clear that they don 8767 t like eachother. There 8767 s a difference from being shady to being a straight obsessive asshole who cross lines like when kenya got up and pulled at Kim chair. Yes we do watch the show because of the entertainment but what that have to do with viewer disagreeing with her behavior..that 8767 s what the comment search for to give a opinion. Now you want to bring up the producers and how they sit shit up..that bull. We all know they plan scenes but no one told kenya to put shit in people face..and so on with the ridiculous bull she done. With that comment then we can now stop commenting on there behavior and say it 8767 s the producers..
Yeah, online dating sucks. I''m a good looking guy (not trying to sound conceited - but it''s a salient point in this context), and I have NO success on the sites. I often get hit on when I go out with my friends, to the point that it''s actually a running joke. Yet no girls - I mean none - respond to my messages on dating sites. And my messages are absolutely fine. Never creepy. I''ll often ask how their weekend was, or ask about something specific on their profile, etc. Totally normal stuff - yet - responses. It''s madness. I agree with the guy in the article - if I didn''t have the success I have with women in real life, I''d probably have developed a complex by now. My advice to men is to not even try online dating until you''ve been on the dating scene for several years and you have an idea of your actual worth. Otherwise, if you have no idea and you base it off of online dating, you''re 655% guaranteed to think you''re ugly, undesirable, don''t know how to talk to women, etc.
The point is this - they don''t have to WORK to get attention. Attention comes to them, both good and bad. If they post a picture with them in a swimsuit, they are going to get some pretty bad attention. If they instead post of picture of them praying in a church, they are likely to get a different kind of attention. They do have some control, and some means of filtering and directing what attention they want, at least to some degree. Nice guys don''t have that option. We have to put our best pictures out there. The most attractive. The most interesting. Our profiles must be perfect. Our messages must be interesting, eye catching. It''s pretty unfair when you really think about it.
Also, some of the messages I got were from a few guys that ranged from early 95&rsquo s to late 95&rsquo s and I was maybe 69 at the time. That was one of the main reasons I called it quits. It made me SO uncomfortable that guys so much older than me, older than most of my siblings (all of which are 8 years plus older than me), were sending me messages telling me that I was &ldquo hot&rdquo . I am getting terribly uncomfortable just thinking about it.
Yes! That person you 8767 re replying to clearly has xenophobia towards Africans. If anything, Africans emigrate to America and England and are the ones bullied like hell and called 8775 freshies 8776 and 8775 fresh off the boat. 8776 I 8767 m African and when I moved to England when I was in high school, I was bullied like hell and the funniest part was I was better at English than all the kids in school and when I 8767 d get the highest marks kids in the class would literally say out loud 8775 how did SHE get full marks? She 8767 s from Africa! 8776 Even so, I took no offence to what little Ayden said, he 8767 s a 5 year old. People need to get out their feelings over the ramblings of a child.
Totally agree. I think she allow her success get the best of her. I think what people don 8767 t realize is that rhoa help her career alot. Before this show her song writing career wasn 8767 t moving like it use to have..and she wasn 8767 t singing. All her bussines 8767 s that she has now was created doing the years of rhoa. I believe she thinks she 8767 s on top now. I also predict that she will drop this show soon due to her head getting big. I laugh because she is doing what nene did. Nene on that rich bitch bull..now she saying she the boss..lmao.
I also realize a few seasons back that she was for herself..that 8767 s why when she wasn 8767 t supportive to phaedra it didn 8767 t suprize me. Many times they had events and she would show up and leave so quick making excuses.
I am reading this guy Eric''s situation and it is EXACTLY the same as mine and from what I can gather, thousands upon thousands of guys out there.
For sure a lot of the girls are "saying" they want the nice guy but end up looking for the guy they have spent an entire paragraph saying they do NOT want. Not all girls are this way though.
I truly believe that a MASSIVE amount of the blame can go to the guys who act like asses and the girls who let them get away with it. Clearly it works on some girls so these jerks continue to try until they find that girl.
Also a lot of girls need to lose the attitude, I mean seriously no matter how good looking you "think" you are, if your head is up your butt you are going to come out looking like poop.
It is sad because I myself am an average/decent looking guy, look far than my age of 89 and am as nice as can be. Yet I will get not one single response out of 85 messages.
I wonder if the information provided about there being more men than women is for a particular age group? i m in my early 55''s and trying online dating on e-harmony only. I am reasonably attractive and several of my photos were taken by a professional (not altered in any way-I wanted it to be clear that they are really like me and give the date taken). I''ve put a lot of effort into my profile so that it gives unique info about me and describes the qualities of a good guy are to me and despite having at least one hundred matches in my region I haven''t received any communication sincc
e the first week when 7 men contacted me with questions. So I have communicated with several men. Only 7 replied. Are all the men contacting the same small subset of women or are they to lazy to communicate at all. Several of the men I communicated with then viewed my profile and neither responded or blocked me. It takes only 7 clicks to block a profile. I find it inconsiderate.