Posted: 2017-11-13 16:00
Hi, Alan. Good question. I don 8767 t think it 8767 s a great idea for at least two reasons: first, it remove the mystery from who you are and what you really like to do secondly, you wouldn 8767 t be able to use the same romantic things on the women you meet. No girl wants to be run through a 8775 routine 8776 that has been used before. I would actually recommend being evasive when answering that questions and saying something like: 8775 The most romantic thing I ever did is surprising the woman and not telling her what we will be doing or where we are going. 8776
Good point. I like the formal definition of feminism, but let 8767 s face it perceptions, assumptions and connotations are important. They might just be more important that the real definition that few people even know. Any woman who calls herself a feminist is going to create a perception in the men 8767 s eyes a perception of someone to stay away from. Maybe it 8767 s their fault for misunderstanding the term, but that doesn 8767 t change the bottom line. The same would happen to a guy who discloses to a girl that he is a dating coach or that he has a dating blog. She immediately is going to assume that he is a player and he just uses women for information purposes. These assumptions are often completely false and unfounded. That I say from personal experience. 😉
I just clicked on the link below and you completely contradict yourself practical happiness. Your A profile says she is independent. However the link 6. Online Dating Advice for Women: keep this out of your online dating profile s first piece of advise is to not say youre independent. Plus your A profile s grammar is horrible. Do you have any credentials or edit this site?
Here 8767 s an example:
8776 Most romantic thing I 8767 ve done for a woman?
Hmmmmm. Either singing acapella to my gf at the time over a candlelit dinner on Valentine 8767 s Day, or mailing to a woman I 8767 d been dating a CD that contained a video
of myself singing 8776 Happy Birthday 8776 to the camera when I wasn 8767 t there to sing it to
her in person. 8776
These sites, are a scam, preying on desperate and dateless men, and they are actually getting more sophisticated. In the case of AYI by Snap Interactive, all of those profiles, actually claim to be located in random towns nearby to you, in my case, i will still get a ton of matches from women in Victoria, Australia, but they are invariably people from various places, that are paid to set up profiles and have limited interaction with the people that get sucked in by them. But because it only affects men, this is perfectly legal.
Instead, get to the root of who you are and what are looking for. If you are a Conservative or Liberal, then say it upfront. If religion is important to you, say it. If you need someone to be taller, tell them. If there are things you consider 8766 deal-breakers 8767 , then you should say it. Who cares what someone thinks of you if they are not a match? The point is, get to the point about the things that are most important to you right off the bat.
FACE We want to see a picture of your face without being overly made up, with a smile, and not a grainy, unclear photo with bad lighting. I might stress the 8766 overly-made-up 8767 part. We don 8767 t want to see duck face, weird angles, or funny snapchat filters. We don 8767 t need pouty, moody or other types of expressions just a smile. And you should include at least two different face pictures that were taken at different times, but taken within the last month.
Talking about traveling is annoying indeed, but the reason women do it is NOT because they are high maintenance or expect guys to pay. The main reason is that they are so eager to come across as exciting and adventurous. Women talk about traveling for the same reason that guys try to come across as Indian Jones but talking about their hiking, extreme sports, marathons, which I am sure is equally annoying to women.
Also, the others thing I would add to this list is, don 8767 t post pictures of your kids! If you have kids, say so in your profile, but please, for the love of God, don 8767 t post pictures of them! First, I don 8767 t want to date your kids so I don 8767 t care what they look like. Second, are you trying to attract pedophiles? What 8767 s your end game by posting pics of your kids? Third, as a parent, I know that my kids would be HORRFIED if they found out there were pictures of them on one of their parents 8767 dating profiles. I highly doubt any of the parents who post pics of their kids on their profiles have asked their kids 8767 permission to do so, so it just smacks of exploiting your kids without their permission.
8775 I went to school in the east coast, but now I work for a major software company where I work up the corporate ladder. I very busy. I love hiking, watching baseball, and bbq on weekends. 8776 the writer must be reminded that this is a dating profile not a resume or a sales presentation in front of his human resources department. Again, this profile has a very weak beginning. as a rule, you should never start your profile by talking about school or work, as it 8767 s not interesting and not really relevant to what you should be trying to achieve to catch a woman 8767 s attention. 8776
8775 I don 8767 t know if the world is going to run forever, but I know I 8767 m not going to be around forever!
I don 8767 t know if I will finally meet you to warm my heart and join for a better, happier journey, but I know I can 8767 t stop looking for you, and can 8767 t stop calling you in my heart
I also don 8767 t know what life holds for me tomorrow, but I do know that we can only get older and I feel safer to get old with you. Someone to remember the days with, and to grow with.
All profiles repeat the same. Everyone is crying out to say how good they are, how cool they are, how fun they are. But how real are you, and how content are you with your real you? I 8767 m tired of the lies, of the fakes I want someone real! I want my 8775 best friend 8776 , I think this says it all!
Maybe it 8767 s about the right time, right place, right person can online dating be any good? We 8767 ll see :) 8776
There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting the qualities described above. But the tone comes across as unattractive to men. It creates the impression of a woman who is demanding, needy, negative, and someone who may have had trouble attracting the right type of guy in the past. This may not be true, but perception is everything. Men are attracted to positive vibes, not negative. Let 8767 s revise the example above into a profile that men would be more attracted to.
I 8767 ve seen this profile on dating sites copied word for word so many times. I recommend not using it as it is so easily recognisable because of how it 8767 s filled with stupid things no normal guy would ever actually say. Any girl who goes hang on I 8767 ve heard this before, and googles it will discover that you have so little personality that you had to copy a profile word for word.
Just describe who you actually are, honestly. Use your own personality!
That s because you are confused by what a feminist is all about. Feminism is a collection of movements and ideologies aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, and social rights for women. This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment. Opinionated by definition means, holding stubbornly and often unreasonably to one s own opinions. It also means, intolerant, prejudiced, chauvinistic, dogmatic, arbitrary and so on. It s not a good word.
This profile is effective because it gives an insight into this user’s personality and makes him sound like someone thoughtful and appealing. He seems unashamed to be a bit of a softie, which is a quality that women tend to respond to but he makes it clear he 8767 s also assertive and not a complete pushover. His answer to the question about the person that has influenced him most is genuine, and showcases his values and the kind of man he has learned to be.
What makes any female dating profile great is the fact that it stands out from the rest of the profiles on any given online dating site. It doesn 8767 t blend in. It 8767 s not generic, neutral and overly politically correct. It doesn 8767 t describe you with overused adjectives such as 8775 intelligent, compassionate, educated, and independent 8776 and it is free of boring statements that say nothing such as 8775 I am as comfortable staying in as staying out. 8776
Far too many women feel it is necessary to project themselves in a manner that could 8766 capture 8767 as many interests as possible. This is a mistake because you aren 8767 t telling anyone anything real about you. Being concerned about the volume of activity only guarantees that most of the men who contact you will not be close enough to a match to bother with. Be real with yourself, and then real with your profile. By eliminating 95% of the men that aren 8767 t your cup-o-tea, you cut out a lot of aggravation.
I’m definitely not all work/no play though. My career takes me all over the world, so I’ll make time to explore the glittering streets of Hong Kong, sample the creamy gelatos in Italy, and haggle in the street markets of Rio. But most of the time I’m happiest here in good ol’ Seattle. You can’t beat the fresh seafood and craft beers, plus it’s got some of the best paddle boarding on the planet, even if it is a little chilly. And don’t even get me started on all those mountain views
This last profile below gets the highest great for both the content and the creativity. It almost sounds like a poem. What I particularly like about this profile is that it shows that a woman hasn 8767 t lost faith in true love and romance but at the same time she is also realistic. The ending of it might sound a bit on a more desperate side, but all in all maybe it 8767 s not such a terrible thing to sound a bit desperate for love and connection if that 8767 s how you really feel.
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