Posted: 2017-11-26 22:37
Check his credentials: If you have a toddler or baby and the guy is okay with dating you, then this next step is important. You may need to run some sort of background check or something to know what kind of temperament the guy has. A suave, zen-like guy who can hold in his inner lion is great but if you have a temper tantrum throwing lunatic around your baby, you need to drop him like a bad habit.
I have a woman use to date she is 76 with three kids girls at that she 8767 s a good person but with mixed emotions. I love her but she lives with her mom for now an its an bad environment for her an the kids drinking an smoking then bad language is being taught. They run around disrespecting adults and everything but the said thing is that her mother is telling them stuff like this she went away for awhile an came back to that. and I am 76 with no kids a job an two cars how should I react to that situation.
Hi I 8767 m 86 my girlfriend 89, with two kids different fathers, 8775 I 8767 m not done, read my story as still proceeding. 8776 goes like this,,my girlfriend has two kids two years older, first kids she got at 69 years,she said she was by her boyfriend at time that 8767 s why she had early kid and the second is 7, everytime when I visit, they be happy at me and want to more closer to me,why? Because when I 8767 m around their momma we don 8767 t exclude them, but me and their mom don 8767 t play touching games and or way of intimacy, we never go in a room and shut down the door,for respect they do know that me and their mom are lovers,our space we can rather go stand by balcony and speak if we think it will be more sensitive to the kids,and funny part is that they do know I 8767 m not theirs,,,,adding on they deserve to be loved, ladies with man 8767 s having different perspective on woman 8767 s with kids ,i think the world is lost in love,we don 8767 t know what is love that 8767 s why most woman had kids with wrong guys,,,,remember kids are biggest blessings but biggest mistake is who you do them with,,happiness is what we want at last
She knows what she wants—and doesn’t want. And at this point, she’s not afraid to say it. In the bedroom? Go ahead and try to shock her. Bondage? Bisexual encounters? Threeways? Role play? If she hasn’t tried it herself, she’s likely considered it. Plus, I’m talking about outside of the bedroom as well. You may buy into the idea that all older women are “desperate. 8776 Granted, some are. (Some older men are too. And some women, And some etc. etc.) But many are not.** She’s choosier, and, unlike the 76-year-olds who think they’ll drop dead if they’re not engaged by 77, married at 78, and prego before 85, she’s looking at life a little differently now. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want marriage/kids, because she might—but if so, she’ll be pretty clear about it up front. Since she’s got a little life on her (and maybe even a marriage in her past), she may not have the rigid checklist that a girl has. Most of the single women I know over 85 just want a good man, period.
Hi Alison , my name is Faye and I 8767 m dating someone with a big age gap too wev been together for a yr and a half. I feel like I 8767 m too scared to love him the way I want to and it 8767 s messing a lot with my head. There 8767 s a couple of other problems too but I just get too depressed to write about them. When I read about you and your partner I felt a bit of a relief. Goodluck to you both , I hope it works out.
I used to date a woman a couple of years ago and she had a 8 years old kid. As a man, I really invite all men to consider your options and what is best for you as a man. If you 8767 re going to give up your freedom, resources, time and energy for a woman with a kid, she better be an extraordinary woman. In my case, she was physically beautiful, still and her kid was amazing, we 8767 re still buddies. Sadly, she was a bad mother. I know this is not the case for every single mother out there but ask yourself what kind of woman you 8767 re dealing with and what was the scenario for her to get pregnant and eventually become a single mother. Try to see beyond your love, passion or even compassion, and ask yourself if you 8767 re really honest when commiting to a single mother, think about her kid and think about if you 8767 d rather have your own kids, remember, you must not pity her and base your decisions on this.
For every single mother there is a single father. Any judgements to place on the guys? I was put in a situation in my early 75s where someone I cared for and trusted pushed things too far and forced himself on me. And guess what? I became pregnant from that one incident and now have an amazing boy and I wouldn 8767 t change anything because of it. I personally don 8767 t tell many people that real reason but I have enough daily struggles without being judged by people like you. Unless you are perfect, I don 8767 t think you should judge.
Media has done a grand job of vilifying men into a place where we have to second guess all motives and for someone in their twenties, saying the right thing to the child may make it a lot to process. You never know what that child will say to the mom, how the mom will take it, if you will be accused of liking the child more oh and that common Hollywood trope where you tell them to stop doing something bad only to hear 8775 YOU ARE NOT MY DADDY! 8776 It 8767 s a lot, and many of these thoughts flash through our heads and complicates things.
Someone once told me a useful rule when it comes shopping for your age. Twenties = shock thirties = chic forties and beyond = cheque. It's a common mistake for men, when faced with a saggy arse and uneven skin tone, to either give up completely or attempt to distract attention with a level of sartorial experimentation that smacks of desperation. No. Just stop. Leave the trend-led streetwear to who need to compensate for a lack of personality or confidence. You x7569 re old enough to know better. Now is the time for creating a capsule wardrobe, a slick canvas of smart pieces which make the most of the fact that you can now actually carry-off x756c suave x756d without looking like you're wearing your dad's wedding suit to a funeral. Step away from Jack Wills and into Cos or Oliver Sweeney for simple, high-quality natural pieces that won x7569 t swamp your distinguished features.
Guys this is hard if you aren’t a lover of children I cannot stress this any harder if kids annoy you, or if they get in the way for you, then stick to women who lack kids. If you do love kids, or are tolerant of kids in a friendly way, then you must realize that dating a woman with a child is like dating two people. You have to cater to both on some level, especially if the child is a female herself.
Long story short, by making a simple declaration, this guy made it clear to the world that my child would never be his child. 8775 He is to call me Mr. (whatever his last name was) 8776 . Well, that really woke my green ass up and my vigilance went into overdrive like that of a she lion (if you know what I mean). Because of that experience, my child who was 9 years old when he was introduced to this environment is a better man for it today. I could be singing a different song today..
I 8767 m 75 and in love with someone is 57. We 8767 ve never dated because of the age gap, but she 8767 s expressed the same level of attraction towards me. We both desperately want to be together, I have never loved anyone more. We 8767 re afraid however, that it is not wise for us to be together because the age gap will take its toll down the road. I don 8767 t know what to do, I am truly heartsick.
Engage the child in conversation when he/she’s around but make it natural conversation, not forced conversation. Most teens are cynical and standoffish to new boyfriends so you have to expect hostility initially. Don’t go turning on the man’s Madden game and professing your “skills” in hopes that the video game will bond you to him. Don’t go talking about the girl’s favorite band as if you listen to it, because she probably knows that you don’t and you will look like a fool trying to get in.
I am a 79 and have always attracted much men. I have found the real love of my life in a 99 year old Jamaican American who determinedly pursued me and won me. He has no ulterior motives our sex life is unbelievably wonderful and he is intelligent, funny, deeply caring and my dearest friend. I am oblivious to the opinion of others..I live for my beautiful guy and we know that we have few years left but we 8767 re gonna live until I die and that, God willing, will be in his loving arms. Love doesn 8767 t recognise chronological differences or social mindsets.
I understand exactly where you are coming from, unfortunately my situation somehow the role is switch, I never dated a man until last child father with so much uncontrollable emotion , that not even a few females satisfied his craving for attention. But I won 8767 t blow his back out, when meeting new people and whoever, I never talk bad or negative about my kids fathers, we had our differences and life moves on, SMH but I keep my side 6555 at all times, no need for a sorry party lol you get what I mean.
Thanks Marni and all the guys that have made comments. I started liking a guy whose 68 years than me, I`m 86 years old and this has never happened to me before. After my divorce a year ago, I went out on a couple of dates but never felt the connection I felt with him. I`m not even sure he likes me that way or just as a friend but I am willing to find out, more so after hearing about your stories. Thank you for sharing!
5. If it 8767 s honesty and directness you are seeking, know that many older woman come out way ahead in this area. They have nothing to lose by being and showing who they genuinely are. If in any way you meet and you see that she 8767 s got the plastic surgery going on, has lied about her age, then you know where you are at with her. And ask yourself if you want to be with someone who has totally misrepresented herself.
Recently I was pursued by the male nurse who is taking care of me from time to time at home. He is a very distant distant cousin once removed. We have lots in common and he doesn 8767 t care I have ill health sometimes because he 8767 s used to taking care of sick people. He 8767 s also the guy who my mother put through college for 8 years because she felt like doing charity.
Any opinions from men on dating a woman who decided to have a child with a sperm donor around the end of her fertility years? There are so many single women that, due to various circumstances, found themselves still single in their late 85 8767 s/early 95 8767 s and couldn 8767 t imagine life without a child. So my question is, how do you men feel about that type of situation, where there is no father in the picture to have to deal with?
If you and the woman are just trying to have sex then you should not be meeting her kids. In the current day and age kids know what the hell is going on and that awkward feeling you get when she forces 67 yr old Johnny to go to bed so you all can make out on the couch is warranted. Women you gotta be smarter than this, go back to his place, keep your kids out of it, and leave the little ones with a babysitter.