Posted: 2017-10-12 23:45
I still encounter a lot of challenges due to my size, especially professionally, when people assume because I 8767 m short I must also be quite and incapable of holding my own. But like Ms. Thomas, my height has truly shaped who I am, which, in order to offset my diminutive stature, is a strong woman with a strong, confident personality. If I were average height my clothes would fit better and cabinets would be easier to reach, but then I 8767 d be, well, just average.
The key is in the only so much. Aside from the primary benefits listed, better skin and slicker hair are not that visible unless you were really suffering from acne before. I also think the operating premise in the paragraph on food is eat less junk food , not go full vegan. If fit dudes eat proper portions and ram in plenty of fruit, vegetables and other benevolent stuff, junk food is going to have less of an impact, I suppose. I m gonna need to dig into nutrition statistics for that, though.
I tend to be attracted to different (age, race, not values, but hobbies etc.) Sometimes the differences bring you closer together if you are able to talk about things with one another. The coupe tends to not fall back on assumptions as much. You as the older woman may or may not want more children which is usually a deal breaker. You or he may be looking for long term versus a fling so find out. I think every one and every couple has fears. Just being able to voice them kindly often relieves pressure. If family and friends will be a hassle they aren t very good friends.
I am a six foot woman who, when growing up in the 6975s, was considered something of an oddity. As a child, my parents often had to fight with people to be let their daughter in at the children 8767 s rate, be it at the movies or at amusement parks. I achieved my height at age 68 and usually fit in unattractive clothes from the Misses Department rather than the fashionable styles in Juniors. I too could never, ever play basketball, although the world insisted I could. I did become quite a capable skier, though.
Chris - which ones have you tried? I had a friend who had terrible luck as well. He tried E-harmony and was successful. I think it comes down to whether or not the "floodgates" are open to all women on the site. E-harmony actually only gives you access to people who are matches, which also means women aren''t constantly flooded with messages from every Tom Dick and Harry. This gives you better odds of actually having a conversation before she gets distracted and moves on.
Women want tall, fit, masculine, ambition, big dick, social competence. It''s not difficult to figure out. What''s difficult, is for the majority of you out there (who don''t have what women want) to accept the fact that you are all REJECTS who weren''t ever meant to breed. Cut your nuts off. Die. Make the world a better place by NOT reproducing and disgracing future generations with your defective genes. And for the love of god, quit chasing females who don''t want you, giving all men a bad name in the process.
Koreans typically have awesome personalities which will make you want to keep them around for a long, long time. I almost never find Japanese girls when I travel but there are always crowds of busy Koreans exploring the world in any country I 8767 ve been to. I haven 8767 t seen women from any other Asian country as adventurous and confident as Korean women are. While Japanese women are cute and bubbly, many of them just haven 8767 t left their country which is kind of sad. The Korean women I 8767 ve dated have also had a fantastic sense of humour, and have always been keen to try new experiences.
im 95 and my mate is were married but gotten been together seven have our sex use to be like fire,but now its basically trying to keep him satisfied due to my age,woman question is will he end up leaving me?..i love him just dont know how to keep have no children dont have a foundation together to build can i
What I have found is I need to relax into it and change my mind set. When something passing by outside wakes me I take that moment to check that everyone in my bed is fine, ascertain that whatever woke me was momentary, say a grateful prayer that we ARE all fine and that I WOULD wake if something wasn 8767 t fine. Then I drift back to sleep most of the time. When I changed my attitude from letting the constant interruptions bother me and focused on it being a opportunity to be in touch and grateful, my quality of sleep changed completely.
We could term this "hypergamy" as some commentators do.. which makes the females sound quite like lab rats and gives the (male) commentator a horrendous, vile, disembodied ocularity, but that''s not my deal at all. I know that females are smart, informed, and selective, and have strong capacity - in most places, thankfully - to exercise choice about mating habits. Females also possess very strong sex drives and know how to get what they need and want, whether it coincides with the NiceGuy/bf/hubby or - often - not.
let me tell you this
am 75 years and i felt in love with a 98 years old woman. and am with her since a year and a half.
i can tell you that the man you 8767 re talking about, if you really felt his love towards you, then he really loves you, and if you believe in love then you know that we can not play in love and we can not make it pass like it 8767 s nothing, and we can not avoid it cause no one knows if we will feel it again.
don 8767 t think about ages, think about love.
love have no age, so why we will use ages against it?
feel it, go for it, from the most wonderful things in love is the challenge.
reply me as soon as you can.
thank you all.
You can look at the many books like Nancy Friday''s The Secret Garden - which they didn''t want to publish back in the 75''s because some men (and some women who have internalised misogyny) could not bear to know that women are just as lascivious as men in their desires and fantasies. Not to mention the desperate attempts throughout history to control the extremely strong sex drives of women with so many ridiculous social sanctions and attacks. If women were so naturally low in sex drive, why all the fuss and carry on, the shaming words, the imposed social sanctions, the mental and physical chastity belts to try and keep those libidos under wraps?
I think it is stupid to expect so much from girls. I do wonder what the standards of korean girls are though.
I think koreans are a bit too keen on dating westerners these days, just my opinion. In any case as a Dutch-Korean (born in Seoul, live in Amsterdam) Would you not just box me into the same group as all korean guys since i look the part?
Just wondering though, i don 8767 t acuse you for doing so.
I only want to point out that nothing is really black on white, it differs per person.
Korean women are the most spoiled, bratty and demanding women. The reason many Korean women can 8767 t get married is because they all demand that their husband be good looking, graduated from a top tier university, have a good job and make lots of money. It 8767 s funny noting majority of the women that demand these don 8767 t even have a job or barely have any money, got plastic surgery, etc., etc. Did I mention Korean women are the biggest gold diggers in the world? They even demand the men pay for the meals even on the first date, even if they barely know each other bahaha.
Online dating is very unhealthy for society. Most of my buddies try online dating and the only ones who get dates are the guys who are smooth talkers and then will literally have sex in a bar bathroom with a new girl they just met while they already have a girlfriend. The nice guys get overlooked ALWAYS. Even if the nice guy looks half decent. Girls end up thinking every guy wants them inflating their ego to an unrealistic level. And ultimately they gravitate to a smooth talker who is out of their league for long term dating then they feel there are no good men. Good Men SHOULD NOT date online or they will feel unwanted and ultimately need mental help. Women should not date online because they will set they can''t differentiate between good guys and bad players. There is some success but it seems far to much work for a man to get success.
For me the challenges I face are wanting children of my own and finding where I fit with hers the age old debate of blended families. She has two children. One 68 and the other 69. She had a tubal ligation performed after her last child [which she regrets as she was only 77]. I have no children, but it 8767 s something I strongly desire. I want a family, but most importantly, I want it with her. She feels much the same way.
Not every man who goes for older woman is just interested in sex. I bet most don 8767 t even think 8766 oh I bet you she 8767 s very experienced when it comes to sex 8767 . They 8767 ll just think 8766 wow, she 8767 s beautiful. 8767 or 8766 she 8767 s such a lovely, kind person. 8767 Most men at 75 could find plenty of experienced women their age or You shouldn 8767 t just assume they just want sex. It sounds like you 8767 ve found a guy who loves YOU, not for sex.
Online dating is ridiculous for men. My day starts with rejection and ends with rejection. Women are too worried about a mans exterior appearance that it blinds them to everything else. I''ve been doing online dating for a few years now and have met some women, but most of the messages I receive are from women I''m not physically attracted to. After talking with buddies women seem to ignore every man, so who are they talking to? Online dating isn''t just harder for men, it''s much harder. It''s men doing the vast majority of work and women sitting there filtering thru and rejecting all the nice guys that she complains about not existing.
The truth is that Korean men are too demanding(we have to look perfect and gotta have a degree from best schools, make good money from nice jobs like teacher or doctor or have rich parents, take care of the husband 8767 s parent, siblings and relatives, like call them everyday, give money or gift them often, nurse them when they 8767 re sick and they can visit your home without any notice and complain about how we treat their son).
I''m not messaging guys out of my league. I don''t want a guy that''s super fit and looks like a movie star. I want a guy that I''m attracted to, but that I''ll feel comfortable around. Eventually there would be sex, which won''t happen if I''m too self-conscious or if I''m grossed out at the thought. So if I dream up my perfect man, he''s going to be a little hefty, he''s going to have a receding hairline and his face won''t be clean shaven, he''s going to wear comic book characters tshirts, he''s also not going to be hugely successful, but he''ll have his act together, he''ll be well educated, and sarcastic, and a little bit dark, and if I were that guy, yeah, I''d date me because I''m pretty sure if I were a guy, this is the guy I''d be. I think perhaps you''re reflecting your own insecurities and prejudices on others.