Posted: 2017-11-14 20:50
The common denominator here is that most women are man-hating feminists who behave like narcissistic entitlement princesses & reject good men all day long for no good reason. You even do it yourself in your post here, implying there is something wrong with most men. This is a huge lie & completely untrue. So stop spreading this feminist poison. No self-respecting male believes that crap anyway. Men are now ignoring this sort of stupidity & ignorance from bitchy women & treating them with the contempt that they deserve, especially in Japan.
Evan I used a guy that my coworker wanted to hire for his wedding because he really liked the guy 8767 s portfolio, but ended up hiring someone else, because the guy was too expensive. (I had a groupon.) Didn 8767 t go to the park though, as it was winter and pretty cold outside. Maybe if I saw a good example that worked for someone else, I 8767 d be convinced, but I haven 8767 t happened across one. I 8767 ll ask my guy friends if they 8767 ve ever seen a pro photo they liked. I still think it 8767 s a location thing.
Mirror.. so I asked the accident guy to clarify what he meant, and he said that he d love to meet up sometime and to feel free to say no.
And that if not travel maybe him and I could adventure on a staycation (I mentioned that I may go on a staycation if my injury prevents me from going abroad).
I m getting spooked! He still does not know what I look like, but wants to meet up. Huh??
He did say to feel free to say no, but I still feel pressured.
I 8767 ve had a great experience with online dating. Most of the men I 8767 ve gone out with are attractive, employed, intelligent and pleasant. Never met anyone who had obviously misrepresented themselves. No one tried to jump down my pants on the first date. I didn 8767 t feel that any less than ideal behavior on any of my dates 8767 part was beyond what I would encounter if I was on a date with someone I knew from real life ( and I date many men from real life too). I write to many men online first to get higher quality dates. Sure, sometimes you get annoying messages, but I just laugh it off as part of the game.
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And he said he was extremely tired he had to work that day which it was a Saturday today it s Tuesday I didn t hear from him..he s Capricorn 95 years old..I don t get it I m a mature 89 years old and I really like this guy..why he disappear when he was very interested in really don t understand men these days..if you can answer my question would be great!
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8775 write a better profile 8776
Ladies really take that to heart. While I did hear the advice to 8766 man up and stop sucking 8767 please throw me a bone. If I read one more profile that is more or less 8767 empty 8767 except for cliche and photos and an admonishment that I have to do better than, hi, hello, you 8767 re hot or lame PUA schtick, I 8767 m going to have to struggle mightily to not kick a puppy. Give us something to work with.
And note how few unsolicited approaches men receive and send out a few of your own.
One other thing I 8767 ve also realized is that its not really worth writing to interesting people you don 8767 t have things in common with, even if you like what they 8767 ve written and they seem intelligent. I 8767 d like to think there 8767 s a chance we could *both* take an interest in each other 8767 s passions, but if you don 8767 t have that solid basis of shared tastes to discuss in detail, it just doesn 8767 t go anywhere (or at least, not in my experience). I should have saved myself time and effort through being yet more discerning in who I tried to contact.
Not to sound rude but I don 8767 t send any messages to men or if I do they are very very few. Women receive so many that we barely have time to respond yet alone send. And of course when I respond I make sure to spell things correctly and use good grammar but do I spend time crafting extensive lengthy messages that show I 8767 ve read their profile, no I don 8767 t have to. Sorry guys men are so freaking superficial they don 8767 t care what we say. I guess unless we say we are looking for a hard working man which I think I am going to start saying because I personally don 8767 t see why that would be a turn off for any man? Please explain.
I am not in the top 65% of women, I am attractive but no 9 or 65. When I was on dating sites I would typically get 7-65 messages a day, when I changed something around it would jump to about 75. Out of all those messages I might respond to 5-6 a week. So guys, it really is important write an intriguing first message and don 8767 t cut and past some message from PUA online game forums. I can 8767 t tell you how many guys sent me the 8775 I already married and divorced you in my mind. 8776 message.
Feminism hasn 8767 t been about equality for years mate. It became about avenging the wrongs done to women. It has since become an exercise in ensuring women get whatever they want. It 8767 s so rare to see a feminist writing about true equality (ie also giving a damn about the male perspective) that I 8767 m shocked every time I read it. Equality is all well and good when it benefits women, but suddenly the cries for equality stop when it comes to women asking men out, proposing marriage or paying for dates. Those things aren 8767 t inequality, they 8767 re 8775 tradition 8776 .
Hi I met a guy online we exchanged number he started texting me every day since then,he invited me dinner,so first date we went dinner,second date dinner again and the third date I went to his house and I made an Argentinian dish for him(I m from Argentina)
He loved it we talked,danced,having wine everything was going perfect but he got mad at me because I called him pervert for something he said but I was just joking..ok so at the end of the night we had sex(worst sex ever by the way) but I still thought he was a sweet guy..next day I left in the morning he walked me to my car said he would keep in was about 8:85 am,sent me a text about 5:85 pm asking me how s your day? Wich it was weird because he was always sweet in his texts..I said I m ok
That just sounds like, 8775 make reference to something in the woman’s profile 8776 which you 8767 ve quoted as a boring and unoriginal approach. It sounds as though the men referenced by Jon Millward (incidentally, it looks like it 8767 s his personal perception of 8775 boring 8776 , not something tested on a range of people) were trying to do exactly that and just not quite getting it.
Hi mirror,your advice is really great!I met up with this guy online and we had a nice chat..talking about ourselves then one day he suggested we exchange gave out mine first..but he didnt text or call,instead,he gave me his number as feel that he should call first cause am very intrested in him..am a student and he is afraid that if he doesnt initiate the myt end up loosing him
..which I dont want to can I do to make him stay without looking desparate?My friend says that nowadays,its ok for girls to make the first move,otherwise I stand a big chance to loose him.
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Just to add, from a female perspective one of the biggest turn-offs when receiving responses online is bad spelling, poor grammar and the use of text speech delete, delete and delete! Evan, you also make a great point at the end 8775 Stop blaming Match or women or your city for your failures and learn to market yourself more effectively 8776 It 8767 s so easy to blame others for your lack of success rather than reflect and look at the 8766 common denominator 8767 in the situation which is yourself and work at improving that to get a better and different result.
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I m the same anonymous that posted about Mr. flaky guy yesterday. Anyway, I have a pretty specific situation that isn t geared towards any man in particular but I m still wondering what to do as far as NC or showing interest.
I am a black woman who is mostly attracted to white men. I don t know why, I guess it s just my preference and what feels most right to me.
That being said, I ve been dating online for a few months now and I ve noticed that a lot of white men will not make the initial contact even if they re attracted to me because they assume that black women aren t interested in white men. This leads me to believe that I need to initially show interest to show them that this isn t the case. Now, I know that men with racial hang-ups or men who are genuinely just not interested in black women will weed themselves out, but how do I go about showing that I m initially interested without being the aggressor to the men who are open minded but just didn t think that they would have a chance with a woman of a different race?