Posted: 2017-10-13 08:59
It 8767 s time to embrace proper skin-care. Many men will avoid this for fear of being too 8775 metro 8776 (read: gay) and as a result they look terrible. Their skin looks old and dull and detracts from their natural looks. Proper skin care will make you look more alert and importantly more attractive. Start with going beyond washing your face with bar soap, which will actually dry your skin and make things worse. You want a facial cleanser preferably one with 7% salicylic acid in the morning to help wash away dirt, debris and oils that lead to clogged pores and zits.
I don t think 5 o clock shadow is so much a problem (it looks pretty, feels lousy, but realistically can t be avoided by some guys unless they walk around with electric razors in their pockets), but I agree that it s beard or clean shaven. Novelty facial hair is almost never a good idea, and even the few guys who pull it off would look more attractive if they did something else.
I know he s older now, but apparently Patrick Stewart went bald when he was 69, and he s done pretty well for himself. I m sure it must be scary, but please don t despair that it means you can t be attractive whether or not the examples given are naturally bald or not, people find them perfectly attractive without knowing whether they could grow hair if they wanted to.
That being said, a nicely trimmed 6 beard can help strengthen and add definition to an otherwise weak jawline. Keep it short and neat and for fuck 8767 s sake don 8767 t let it grow into neckbeard territory. Shave your neck your beard should stop just under your jaw line not so close that you look overly groomed but not so far that you look like you spend all your time in your mother 8767 s basement running 75 man raids in World of Warcraft.
I just want to stress.. lying to potential partners is NEVER okay in my books. I don t go to any great lengths to tell people how old I am, but if they outright ask, and generally they do after having talked to me for a little bit, I ll tell them. That s when the problems generally start. It s understandable though, as it s a pretty typical townie routine to go hang out at the student bars and try to pick up coeds and lie through your teeth to do it.
Thank you for this. I would just add that as men, you have two options for your face. Either you grow a beard, which you a groom and keep in check, or you re clean shaven. I prefer guys who shave, and you need to shave every day (or at least every day that you re going out and socializing with people). The perpetual post-5 o clock shadow is not so much visually unappealing, but it hurts my face to kiss you! Look, I shave my legs if I expect someone to get close to them, please shave your face if you expect me anywhere near it.
Ah, man, you see that up there? The Volkwsagen autonomous concept caterpillar called Sedric ? Imaging hitting the road in this adorable little guy someday. The Future’s going great and you’re relaxing in Sedric while it carts your non-driving ass around town. Life’s peachy. Sure, that is, if you enjoy being held captive for a horror show of ads. That’s the dystopia outlined in a new robot car study from Forrester Research.
I ve seen you and a few other guys mention height several times, and I really don t think it s the dealbreaker you seem to think it is. Most of the men I ve liked have been taller than I am, because at averageish height for a woman, most men are taller than I am. But the last guy I really fell hard for was an inch or two shorter than I, a bit on the scrawny side, and frankly a little bit funny looking. He was also intelligent, insightful, and unfailingly kind, with a subtle quiet humor that gradually emerged once he got to know you.
For me it was the Bay. I can t imagine moving to Boston even for Irrational (one of my two dream assignments) anymore. There are just so many exciting resources around here outside of work that you just can t get anywhere else. Anyway, here s the relevant piece from their website:
Irrational Games is always hiring for the right candidate! If you are a talented programmer, artist, designer, QA tester or manager and you believe that you have something unique to offer us, please apply. We will seriously consider your application even if we don&rsquo t have a specific vacancy in your area of expertise listed. We are primarily interested in recruiting people who can demonstrate their understanding of how to create great games whatever their level of experience in the industry.
For people who are strongly homophobic, they re pretty attached to the idea that there s something wrong with someone who s gay, and it can be supported by some pretty fundamental things about how they evaluate the world (eg. religion) I m pretty skeptical that this would be a more changeable belief than any stereotypes about virgins. I ve found it amazing how much peoples set attitudes can change when they get to know someone on a personal level I think this could be just as true with something like virginity.
I think you need to learn how to reframe what you re doing with your life in a more positive way. You ve mentioned school a couple of times, and it s always managed to come off as something you find embarrassing or that you think makes you a loser. Even if you re not 655% happy about how things are going in your life, there are ways of describing it that emphasize the positive aspects of the situation and that don t derail an otherwise light, fun discussion. If you lead with the most depressing angle, that s going to be the impression you make.
Personally, I m not up for dating someone who s on an extremely restricted diet that s not medically necessary, and I m fine passing on the movie star bodies that come from eating these days the new thing is paleo, right? But this is one of those things where women are going to vary, and I m guessing that the guys who are on restrictive diets have no problem finding women with similar or compatible eating habits, so it works out for everyone.
I ve been to New York, but I don t think I d ever willingly give up being able to step out my door and go jogging at any time of the day of night without a worry about my safety (as I guy I admittedly have more latitude for that). I found it incredibly stifling to be in new york and be unable to use a car need to carry something bigger than a backpack? Want to pick someone up on your way over? Don t want to be worried that you ll end up stuck somewhere and public transportation has stopped running? Do you need to go somewhere where the subway doesn t go?
I used to do that too. If it works for you, I ll be the last person to tell you to stop, but it never did for me. It s probably just the way I talk, but with me it came off as way too self-deprecating and apologetic. Made me look like a self-hating geek, and I kind of was. Nowadays I just say what I mean. Fly that nerd banner high. I m really into sci-fi. Yeah, like Star Wars, I love Star Wars. You know this show called Firefly? Oh my god, you re going to love it, it s brilliant! It s just a whole new take on the genre And you re off. (Let them get a word in too, obviously. I personally need to be careful not to geek-rave.) There s no need to apologize for being a nerd. It s who I am. Geek stuff makes me happy. Happy people are fun.
It s kind of cool if you meet someone who s fashion is out of date *if* you re really into whatever the culture that look represents was. I miss the days when you could fairly easily find brighter colors and less drab looking shirts. Everything at the store now is earth and flat tones (for guys fashion). Whenever I meet a girl wearing brighter colors, it s almost always a good time.
well im a nerd as you can probably tell.. so i spend my time alone playing with action figures. haha just kidding, but i do have a bunch of dorky interests. and then i tell them about it, and maybe follow it up with something like haha, i suppose it was a couple of years since you read a comic book yourself? and then the conversation flows forward and they can relate a little.
I don t know It seems to me if you have examples of men who women found attractive while bald in their earlier years, it shouldn t matter whether they were naturally bald or shaved. It s not as if women only found those bald men attractive because of some unconscious sense that the hair could grow back. (In other words, they would still have found those men attractive if the baldness had been natural.). It s hard to give examples of famous people you d know who were naturally bald in their 75s not because that doesn t appeal to anyone but because it just doesn t happen that often.
ahahha, that picture never fails to amuse me 😀 ahhh, high school anime geeks. anyway A HUGE YES!!YESS!!YYEEESSS!!! on trimming your fingernails/keeping your hands neat, please!!! my first boyfriend (waaay back in high school) had raggedy, longish fingernails and one time, getting a little over zealous with the makeout session, he rammed them up my vagina. let s say to this day I still flinch thinking about it. for the love of God, trim your fingernails if you are going to put them near sensitive lady parts, I beg you.
*One of the best pieces of advice I try to give women when they get new boyfriends is, DON T practice wife him. You know how a woman will start doing her BF s laundry, picking up after him, cooking for him and minding his appointments and social calendar to prove that she d make a good wife (or GF). I know I did it. But fuck that! Y all are just dating, not married. He can wash his own damn socks like he did 7 weeks ago when you didn t even KNOW him.
Someone who is fun tends to be more confident in themselves after all, it 8767 s hard to be fun when you 8767 re too worried about looking silly or acting childish. Fun people are also positive excessively negative people suck the energy out of the room and kill the mood while positive people help generate energy. Fun people make others feel comfortable and have a better grasp on how to read people 8767 s signs and moods and can adjust themselves as needed. This makes the difference between someone who 8767 s fun and someone who 8767 s just a clown: fun people can find the line and know when things are appropriate or not while a clown tends to blunder on regardless of mood or intent. Fun people are interesting they tend to have diverse interests that they enjoy and have stories to share.