Posted: 2017-12-07 11:26
I never really think about race while dating unless somebody else makes it an issue or I notice that the way a white woman I x77 m with looks at something is flawed because of her upbringing. But that x77 s not a dealbreaker. I view it as an opportunity to educate and eradicate even a small amount of ignorance. If I explain some racially complex subtlety of life to my white girlfriend, that x77 s one more white person who knows why using ghetto as a pejorative is cringeworthy and offensive. That x77 s one more white person who knows why I x77 m going to arrogantly list off my academic and professional achievements if some white person asks me if I play basketball. And I do play basketball. But don x77 t assume that that x77 s how the fuck I got by in life because I x77 m black and tall. And I x77 m going to go off if you say some dumb shit like that to me. But outside of those situations, I x77 m not thinking about race like that. I x77 ve always just dated women who made sense for me. I x77 ve never gone into it thinking, she should be white.
I ve never thought that said much about me the numbers there are close enough to mirroring my environment, and I never found any need for self-reflection on the topic. Still, my "thing" for Latin men has been a persistent joke among friends and family. It s nothing terrible, and these are all accepting people, but it s hard for me to keep my mouth shut when people who ve only dated within their own race make jokes about my apparently notable attractions to non-white men. Aren t they the weird ones? My boyfriends have always been fine as hell.
As a resident Indian I can tell you thats particularly offensive (but hey thats just my opinion) and completely untrue. I assure that most Indian men (despite the supposedly widespread eve teasing, don 8767 t know where you get that from, its no more than what happens in the west it seems) aren 8767 t exhibitionists or barbaric, 8776 uncivilized non-western savage dogs 8776 . Most of them will prefer to bang their chicks in privacy.
The same goes for the opposite side of the spectrum. A white woman can blindly fall in love with a black man for who he is, but society will never let her forget that she x77 s DATING A BLACK MAN. That x77 s just how it is. That comes with the territory. If you x77 ve been doing it long enough you x77 re used to it and it doesn x77 t faze you because it x77 s all you know. But you still get looks. You still get questions. And all you can do is continue not giving a fuck and hope it won x77 t be that way someday.
What would you do if you came home and caught your mom getting plowed by a black guy? Most of us would be embarrased. Some fights might ensue. Some of us would stay and watch. Some of the girls out there would likely ask if they could share. Our MILFs gladly share their lovers black cock with their daughters. And well, they guys? They have to watch as mom decided to give up white cock and go black.
The damage that FOBness does to Indian men 8767 s game is why Americans seem to have by far the lowest opinion of Indian 8767 s game out of any country, as Indian Americans tend to be much more recent arrivals and make a smaller portion of the population there than say in the , where one can meet thoroughly Westernised third generation Indians whose ancestors have lived there since the 6965’s. Should the flow of new immigrants come to a halt, the collective game of Indian men would climb rapidly as they Westernize, break out of their enclaves and abandon their traditional views on sexuality morality which stunts the development of their game.
Well,fuck you! No amount of 8775 accent coaching 8776 will do you good if you are a whiny blue pill. And if you are red pill, I don 8767 t think it matters. Just because you are a UK raised Indian whos 8775 Indian accent 8776 got stamped out by circumstance, just doesn 8767 t mean you are the sole blueprint of success for all other Indians. I know men whos masculine voice timbre and whole getup that could hands down beat alot of the 8775 unaccented 8776 western males, white or otherwise in terms of sheer Alphaness.
Indian men FOB ones though sexually less experienced don 8767 t engage in causal sex unless they see them building a LTR. Some India guys refused sex with other Indian girls because they were not sure they are going to be married in future. Indian men FOBs know that they can get an Indian girl who is educated who will cook, clean for them, will be loyal and respectful. She may not be as sexy as white girl but sexual compatability is never top priority for Indians. Building a family which is stress free, peaceful and tranquil where he can aim to be the CEO of the company. Here you have the American dream for an Indian.
The one thing I only realized afterward was how much shit she was putting up with, as a black person in this conservative city in general, and as a black woman dating a white guy in particular. Two moments I remember: One time we were walking down the street together and I could just feel her tense up and for a second couldn t figure out why. Then, I saw a group of black guys a bit older than us across the street just sort of staring at her, not saying anything even. We didn t talk about it, and I didn t (and still don t) completely understand the situation.
One of the most common insecurities among brown guys asking for game advice is that non-brown girls and in particular, white girls are racist against brown men in terms of dating. Now I want all of you to picture the most stereotypically racist type of person you can think of in the Western world. Whether it’s indeed true or not, the vast majority of readers just pictured something along the lines of an elderly, rural white man (riot in the comments from the HBD 8767 ers in 8,7,6) Now imagine the stereotypically least racist type of person you can think of.
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They are stereotyped as mama 8767 s boys and its true because their culture is extremely family oriented (which is one of the things us goris with a desi fetish love about India and Indian people). Nevertheless it is quite extreme but the only thing Indian men have to do is move out of their parents home as soon as they can in adulthood and then not move their parents back in with him when he marries. The joint family living system really is the only major thing that prevents us American goris with a desi fetish from marrying Indian men.
Although that 8767 s a catch 77 too because one of the things we love about Indian culture IS the family orientedness. We American women into Indian stuff are usually looking for worldly and open minded men who are free enough to travel the world with us, yet commitment oriented enough to offer true romance and love and believe that marriage and family is forever. That is a huge selling point for us 8775 desi deewana 8776 goris.
My experience with interracial dating in the South as a gay black man has been emotionally exhausting. More often than not, I feel as if I''m some sort of Venus Hottentot to the white men who pursue me, and that all they want is my "BIG BLACK COCK" and nothing else. Conversely, white men here in Georgia often go out of their way to shut black men down on the sole basis of them being black. All too often do I see the words "NO BLACKS" on various dating and app profiles, which doesn t provide much insight as to why they feel this way, and what made them declare it in such an aggressive and demeaning way. Honestly, as a black man in the South, you re either fetishized to the point of having a wounded body image and self-esteem (at least in my experience), or you re so ostracized and hated by your white counterparts that you also begin to question your own body politics, but for different reasons.
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I''m an Asian-American woman and 5 feet 8 inches tall. I don t think I m that tall, but most of my dates, usually white or Latino guys, find a way to bring it up in conversation. "Oh, wow. I ve never dated an Asian girl taller than 5 foot." When I meet an OkCupid date for the first time, I usually get, "I thought you lied about your height!" Guys will even say I m curvier or have a more "womanly" body than most Asian girls. Thanks?
Unless you live in a predominately brown country (good luck, you 8767 re going to need it), even if you want to get a girl from your own background in the end to settle down with you 8767 re going to have to approach a large volume of girls to improve your game, which necessitates gaming girls of other races. Accept that the reason you might not do well with girls of other race is about YOUR lack of game and YOUR limiting beliefs and racial insecurities, which instantly dry women’s pussies. Admit that you might suck, all the guys of other races just starting out suck too. Working on losing any accent you may have is very important, although most recent migrants who still have accents would rather marry a plain jane Indian doctor and start a family than learn game so that will not apply to most of you. Replace your glasses with contacts or get laser eye surgery. Most of you will also need to drastically change your wardrobe.
Many Indian and Asian men starting out in game use racism as a defence mechanism to rationalize and distance themselves from the damage inflicted to their ego by their first rejections on approaches. Even I, a completely Westernized brown guy who 8767 d already been dating white girls before I started cold approaching had that thought creep into my head a few times early on while doing direct daygame on the street. This lingering thought of 8775 Is she not talking to me because I 8767 m brown? 8776 comes from the exact same place as does looks, age and height insecurities do. It is your rationalization hamster tricking you into believing you will never be able to improve your success with women due to whatever insecurity you have so that you won’t exert the time and energy that it takes to improve. Your mind is your greatest enemy here and to get over that, you simply just have to approach a lot.
Anyway from that point on I was 8775 hooked 8776 on Indian guys. Lucky for me I went West to college in Cali and there they all were! I actually preferred the FOBs to the Americanized 7nd genners because they were more in touch with their culture and I could attend all the super cool Sikh and Hindu cultural events with them. I studied Hindu philosophy like mad, very profound. The aesthetic culture also, very deep, not stupid trash like American pop culture. But again I faced a WALL when it came to these guys 8767 families and the control the parents exert over grown men!
Before I was even 65, I started having crushes on girls, trying to get my first kiss, and all of that. All I saw around me were white girls. I thought this girl was hot because of her freckles and I thought that girl was hot because of her soft hair or whatever and I just wasn x77 t in fifth grade thinking about the racial ramifications of features that I found attractive. Other people think about that, though. I was consuming all of this media and I could just sense from the adults around me that, as a black person, when I was watching TRL , it was expected that I be more attracted to the girls in Destiny x77 s Child than Britney Spears.