Posted: 2017-11-15 00:33
I 8767 m in contact with an ex of mine. The reasons for the breakup were private and had nothing to do with loss of attraction.
We spoke on facebook and i suggested we should meet up again and have dinner or something and she agreed. I promised to let her know. After which i didn 8767 t for 7 months (stupid, i know). Now i contacted her again through sms and called her the same day. We spoke a little and i reminded her of our agreement. She said: yeah i promised you and i had been waiting for you to contact me. So we decided to meet up but since she is a nurse, she is not always available in the weekends. So she said: send me 8 dates and i 8767 ll have a look at my schedule. I ended the conversation after 65 mins by saying that i still had to work on a presentation.
Well, I sent her 8 dates and haven 8767 t heard from her since. More than 79 hours ago. Guess she 8767 s not interested. There 8767 s a big difference between what women say and what they want.
There must a way though to get her interested. Any ideas guys?
Or your man gets a vibe from other guys, even just going out in public and he leaves you for a moment to come back to find a guy chatting you up. That you are a catch?
It reminds your man, that he 8767 s lucky to have you, without you doing anything at all to encourage it. Like when I work on my car at my bf 8767 s place, and his friends comment that she 8767 s a keeper.. or a cool chick. Can I borrow her? She knows more about cars then me, send her to my place next???
Yeah i know it took a while, all other matches I’ve met within two or three weeks. The first month we were just trying to get to know each other. I don’t remember exactly why we didn’t meet that first month. But he was out of state some weekends and I had previous plans the other weekends. And the other month I was out of the country for the entire month. So when I came back I actually asked if we could hang out. We don’t live super close, about an hour away and we have opposite schedules so luck hasn’t really been on our side.
I 8767 m sort of stuck on what I need to do next. Part of me thinks I need to do the cold approach again, but another part of me wonders if she got in a car crash or something and I want to reach out and ask but it 8767 ll be at the risk of sounding like I care too much. I have no way to communicate with her but through the phone. I have no address, don 8767 t know where she works, nothing. And she could block or cut me off anytime she pleases, but hasn 8767 t done so..she just likes going into stealth mode…it 8767 s coming up on 7 years since we first met as well.
Do you think I said something that just not right or randomly? I 8767 m pretty confuse about the American dating culture so I 8767 m not really sure what am I doing. I tried to compliment her on her picture that she 8767 s pretty or her hair looks nice. I also posted on her Facebook asked that if she has class on the coming Wednesday. Do you think I 8767 m doing too much? Should I just let it go for a while? I feel like an idiot and ashamed. I don 8767 t know what I do wrong. What should I be doing if she doesn 8767 t responds forever?
I always thought they picked pictures based on the country in question. (Yeah I 8767 m probably attributing more thought to the process than is actually used.) For what 8767 s it 8767 s worth, the women here look vaguely Ukrainian but then: I 8767 ve never even been to the Ukraine and have only met maybe half a dozen of their women. I 8767 m hardly an expert here. For all I know they just picked it out of random stock photos. 🙂
I recently moved one state over and a guy I used to work with said he always liked me and we 8767 ve been talking a lot. We went on a date and it was awesome. Now he 8767 s talking about coming to see me. When this first started he was texting nonstop and now it 8767 s less but he still checks in, likes my stuff on FB and Instagram and is making plans to visit in a week. So I need to quit overthinking everything and just calm down.
I don 8767 t know why, but it made me think of earlier this spring. I was taking the wife and kids up this muddy road in my pickup for some reason. We were sliding around a bit, and me, being the responsible family man, was getting nervous about sliding off the road. While driving, this thought came across my mind. 8776 you used to play around in the mud all the time, what is stopping you? 8776 I floored it and threw mud all over the kids in the back, having a grand ol 8767 time fishtailing up this road. Later on, my wife commented that she saw the instant my countenance changed. Enjoy the ride.
I still don 8767 t understand. I like this guy so much and I 8767 m sure he likes me just as much. He has not asked me to be his girlfriend yet and it has been almost 9 months. We hook up like 8 times a week. He has met some of my family and friends. He use to text me back all the time and I would not text him that often because I did not want him to feel like I was blowing up his phone, But like I said he was really good about texting me back or he was always the one to text first. But things are starting to get to the point where he doesn 8767 t text me back at all. I am starting to get worried that maybe he is not into me anymore and I don 8767 t know what to do or even how to feel about this. Should I leave him alone and just wait for him to text me? Or should I ask him if he is ok? I know I am not his girlfriend but he tells me he loves me. I am so confused.
Throughout my time abroad, I 8767 ve come to appreciate some things that are available Stateside (Amazon Prime, customer service, etc.), but there is one thing I just can 8767 t seem to miss. Dating. Undoubtedly, I 8767 ve been spoiled rotten by my experiences in Eastern Europe. I wonder how things will continue to go in the longer-term with her. I guess I 8767 ll let you know at this time next year.
Sherry Argov is being tongue-in-cheek when she uses the term 8775 bitch 8776 in her books. Eric is right, it 8767 s just to create a stir. Basically, her definition of a 8775 . 8776 is 8775 babe in total control of herself 8776 and it means pretty much exactly what Eric mentioned above: 8775 a confident, high-value woman who knows how to get what she wants, doesn’t put up with what she doesn’t want and can do all this in a way that is pleasant, appealing and open 8776 .
The thing that always confuses me is I feel I am a type of girl alot of guys like, and i have been told that from the guys that never ask me out because I seem out of their league. And the guys I am interested in i tend to put it all out there. I just want a clear vision on how you make yourself more 8775 marketable 8776 to be asked out and to be a 8775 prize 8776 . I feel like I 8767 ve been told I am a prize but why is nobody going for me if i seem out of their league?
Tony D, I have been talking to this girl for about a month and a half. We text, I got the occasional drunk dial. We hung out, barbeque 8767 s, bar hopped and just chilled with friends. We haven 8767 t had sex, but we kissed alot and we slept together once and when I moved in for the kill she said thats as far as she wanted to take it that night and I said cool. We texted after, but then all of a sudden she stopped texting me completely. I only texted her twice saying hey, whats up and havent got a reply in 7 weeks. I have a few girls I hook up with from time to time, and I 8767 m by no means desperate, but this situation has got me completely fustrated. I don 8767 t have feelings for her, but I refuse to give up on this broad b/c men conquer worlds. What to you think?
5. While I 8767 m on the subject, I 8767 m going to add another crucial lesson learned both from real life and from the movie men want to feel that they have the pure love of a woman who wants them for who they are and not for what they have. No matter how much Rhett wanted Scarlett, he made sure he had her when she didn 8767 t need his money. Only then did he willingly shower her with a lavish lifestyle. Having money of her own, he could prove she wasn 8767 t sticking to him just because of financial need.
I do agree that men have a fear of losing their freedom though, I find it ridiculous but I 8767 m a woman so I don 8767 t have that fear. Personally I 8767 ve never been a naggy or demanding girlfriend, I never said no when a guys night was mentioned or said I didn 8767 t want him to go some where or go out with his friends. I knew all his friends and frankly I really liked most of them and I got along with their girlfriends and them so it was never a big deal to hang out with them.
If a guy says he 8767 ll do anything for you and then calls late at night and begs you to come over, claiming to be too tired to make the drive over to your place, then he has a very loose definition of anything ! If he says he really cares about you and misses you but then goes days or weeks without calling or making time to see you because he 8767 s swamped at work, or some excuse along those lines, what he 8767 s really saying is you 8767 re not important enough to make time for.
I love this article. I 8767 ve been dating a man for 8 6/7 years who I adore, but we are getting nowhere!!! We have lots of fun when we are together, but spend a lot of time apart I want a commitment from him, but he 8767 s been reluctant and now I know why! I also recently lost some weight, and have a really handsome co-worker interested in me, and now my man is finally getting the point that I am someone who he needs to win. This article will help me bring him to where I want him to be if not, then he 8767 s not the man for me and I can look toward a new guy who is! Thank you for this amazing advice!
I think you shouldnt care too much about text. tbh, i used to always checking on fb messenger to see when was he last active. Ii realized it is driving me crazy because sometimes i saw him online but not replying my msg. Then I questioned him, he said he is not a fan of text message, when he thinks there is nothing important to say, he wont text back. But it does not mean he doesnt care about you. Guys just does not care about text. So we shouldnt too!
Yeah that clears it right up, she feels worthy of the man she wants as well as the ones she doesn 8767 t want, because of self confidence, but as well as that we 8767 re assuming the guy feels worthy too right? You make a point of saying the guy will do all these nice things for her to keep her around, it almost sounds like HE 8767 S the one acting from a place of fear, but I know that 8767 s not what you meant, I just feel like this part should have come at the start to put more emphasis on the parts where it shows that his actions are coming from a place of love, like with supporting him and making him feel like he can succeed with those things he 8767 s passionate about, not that he 8767 s afraid she 8767 ll run off when something better comes along.
Eh tony seeing as you see both sides (persistence and let them come to you) I 8767 ll give your advice a shot
Long story short a buddy lined me up with a girl who knows of me (same previous school however she 8767 s older) she responded with moderate interest so the following day I messaged her leaving her my number of course, no response
I think she would be good for me and well I could at least rase her bar for future guys
But for the present I 8767 d like to at least get a date outa her. Any advice ?