Posted: 2017-11-14 20:47
For me the challenges I face are wanting children of my own and finding where I fit with hers the age old debate of blended families. She has two children. One 68 and the other 69. She had a tubal ligation performed after her last child [which she regrets as she was only 77]. I have no children, but it 8767 s something I strongly desire. I want a family, but most importantly, I want it with her. She feels much the same way.
Why? Because we can. A lot of men find petite women very attractive. As this thread is proving, dating isn 8767 t fair. I 8767 m 5 8767 8 8798 and most of the men I date are above 6 8797 and they are the ones to approach/pursue me. That said, I approach/date men of all heights. I find the comments about shorter men not maturing pretty ridiculous and borderline offensive. Some ethnicities tend to be shorter/smaller. The not liking shorter guys thing is just base biology and gender expectations at its core. Sure, ladies, you are welcome to embrace this, but then don 8767 t be upset if the men around you also embrace their biological urge for a physically attractive woman with a nice body.
A second problem is the amount of fake female profiles. This is mostly on phone apps like Kik and Tinder. It seems to me that over 95% of profiles are fake. They message you as though they are looking to hook-up but then they just want you to join a website. i think this gives a further impression to assholes that this is how you should be using these apps(?) like a dick. That may be a stretch, i don't know.
I 8767 m 68 yrs old i met a women who 85 yrs old in Online , firstly we became just friends and now we became lovers. she is a lawyer and she didn 8767 t marry till now , I LOVE HER SO MUCH and she to love me a lot , my family will not agree to this and she advise me that after my Graduation i can move to her , and marry her . But i think a lot about this and to to decide. and i want to know is this will success. I hope that we will live together with great happiness , but i have still fear in my heart, to do all this i need a good advise for good life
My advice to Eric is to get back on line. He will eventually find maybe not the "perfect girl" but a girl he can live with. And that's another thing. We all form in our mind the picture of the "perfect mate" - the right mix of intelligence, beauty, oersonality and income. Then we measure all prospects against that ideal and, unsurprisingly, all candidates fail the comparison. Life is a series of compromises. As the 6975s song said "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with."
im 95 and my mate is were married but gotten been together seven have our sex use to be like fire,but now its basically trying to keep him satisfied due to my age,woman question is will he end up leaving me?..i love him just dont know how to keep have no children dont have a foundation together to build can i
It's hard to drum up a lot of sympathy for the girl in the article. Yes, I totally get they are getting messaged by jerk guys sending them pictures of their junk, or sending them stupid and worthless messages asking for a hookup. Those can be creepy, and don't often happen in real life. But the other messages of older guys or losers telling them they are "hot"? That stuff happens in real life also. Older pervs hit on women all the time and loser guys hit on women in rl and tell them they are beautiful or attractive. They can handle this stuff in rl but can't handle it online? It's more disturbing for this to happen to them online than in rl? Sorry not buying it.
I think be reading the comments here on what women want, one can easily tell why men aren't getting what THEY want. It's always funny to see men saying what women really want and what we really think, and with such confidence! Oh, the laughs. Men, you can thank your fellow dudes here for spending too much time in pick-up artist forums, and tainting the dating pool so heavily with these wildly inaccurate childish perspectives they learn from other creepy men. Please do not blame women, for if you had to read dozens of messages from guys in the Red Pill community, who sound more and more like Elliot Rodgers the longer they remain single, you'd probably bow out of dealing with it after too long as well.
On arrival found out all the women working there were Chinese. Once in the room, the lady told me to take off all my clothes I 8767 m OK with that, now that I 8767 m not a kid. It is just a little unsettling now not a MAJOR ORDEAL like it used to be. Her massage was really do massage for family and friends, and when I got a massage that is crap, it is quite frustrating.
And yes, I ignored the blind men study because the methodology was (necessarily) significantly different from all of the others. It was testing for something different and it demonstrated something different. However its worth noting that with the exception of WHR difference in the mannequins, they were identical westernized ideals. How do I know this? You ever seen a mannequin that isn t?
I know you didn t ask me, but that s not the tone I got from this at all, not this post and not this blog. I mean, this is a blog about dating, for guys, with advice on how they can meet people and have a fulfilling love life. Of course it s going to be about what guys can do to have that. It s not written for us. And I trust the guys who read this to give their own interpretation to what they think an attractive woman is. If their definition of attractive is supermodel hot , that s their problem.
Don't think women don't go through this too. Unless you're in the top 6-7% in looks or in their 75s, if a woman writes a man, she will get ignored too. Those that don't ignore us are just looking for sex.. It isn't a competition. It sucks for both genders. And, let's not even talk about how bad Black women and Asian guys have it. If any people have the right to complain about online dating, it's them because, from what I've read, it's truly awful for them.
I mentioned something like this in my post up above, but, yeah, sometimes the sexy women as prize! kinda pokes at my tender spots. I try not to take it too seriously when coming from the Doc, because the perspective of the Less-Than-Physically-Attractive, Average-Personality woman just isn t usually acknowledged in media. A lot of times it feels like the whole women who exist are either Physically Gorgeous or Ugly But Fabulous. Not a whole lot of room for us average uglies. BUT can we really blame anyone for forgetting we exist if we re such a hidden minority?
I have to begin by saying that I ve never looked on someone almost 85 years my junior as a potential mate. That having been said I met a man of 68 (I am 97) who has become my lover. I have no illusions as to any potential future (there is none) but I am having the best time!! He adores me (and I him), we have fun together, and yes, the sex is incredible. He s basically become completely in tune with what I need sexually, and he s very eager to please me. Naturally, that works both ways 🙂
One aspect of this article that has been counterintuitive to my experience dating a Japanese girl is the concept of an allowance. When I was in Japan, this girl paid for all my meals, despite offering to pay for the meal, or at least my own. She refused. She never tries to tell me how to spend my money and when she came to America to visit she literally gave me all her money to hold on to for her. She always tries to carry my belongings. If I have a bag with me, she absolutely has to carry it for me and refuses to listen to my objections. She always tries to clean my room and I have to tell her not to. First world problems.
Certainly this could be attributed to my actions. However having lived through the experience I can attest that I strove to make her feel loved and accepted as she was. Ultimately what I've come to understand is that she has not yet learned to accept herself. I believe this is incredibly common in our society. After all our marketing systems have done a very thorough job of setting impossible and often inane ideals and as we are both aware the primary victims are women.
Wow divorcing due to lack of performance, It 8767 s so lucky that when we get married that we don 8767 t make any vows to each other like 8775 For better of for worse 8776 In sickness and in health 8776 8776 In good times and in bad times 8776 8776 Till death do us part 8776 I 8767 m sure that when you got married you made at least some of those Promises ? your poor husband he probably thought he was marrying someone that would support him no matter what. Other than that if we can 8767 t fulfill our vows and promises to each other then what is the point of marriage in the first place. Don 8767 t do it or say or vow to your partner that I will love and support you for as long as I can, Least that 8767 s honest.
i just dont know
so i am playing very stern and kinda putting him in his place, but its like water off a ducks back and he listens but comes back with a powerful question
hes definately the kind of guy that i admire
and direct no beating around the bush, and not for a minute believing that would actually reject him and walk away from this
and he wants me to think about it
but mostly he wants to hang out with me and spend time with me and get close enough to me so that i can feel his breath near to me, his hand close to mine
can 8767 t find another 95 year old One small fact that most people overlook although many deny it, but there actually is a shortage of men suitable to marry. I am 58 and am on friendly terms with several women in their 95s, who are keenly looking for someone to settle down with. There are few single men out there who are economically viable, and who have got their act together. BUT there are plenty of women, desperately lonely, and will do almost everything to have someone love and care for them. There are many more 95 year old women than there are 95 year old men.
I became so weary of these half hearted advances and men who could not follow through, I just gave up. Why should I put out so much personal information about myself on the Internet for a bunch of really half hearted losers who were too cheap to even pay for a drink, and if they did, they felt it gave them license to grab me or shove their tongue downy throat on the first date? These men had no dating etiquette at all.