Posted: 2017-11-14 13:32
Well he hasn 8767 t changed. I don 8767 t even know if I love him anymore. I have cried, pleaded for him to stop like 55 times but he hasn 8767 t stopped abusing me. We 8767 ve been together for a very long time and just teens. I cant leave I just can 8767 t. When he isn 8767 t a controlling, abusive monster he is the most amazing person. He loves me so much. But when he makes me promise him a million things over and over, accuses me of cheating and when he controls what I watch it kills my brain. I end up self harming. Today he fucked me up that now I 8767 m not sure if I love him. If your partner says that they will stop and they sound sincere and genuine DO NOT BELIEVE THEM, THEY WILL RETURN TO THEIR WAYS I HAVE EXPERIENCE! I HAVE WITNESSED IT. I PROMISE YOU THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE UNLESS THEY WANT TO THEMSELVES. T
I need help and fast! Iv been with my boyfriend for years and it 8767 s killing me. He constantly calls me a fat slut etc because he knows it upsets me. He forces me to have types of sex I don 8767 t want to and is never bothered about how it feels to me (even if I bleed etc) I 8767 m 77 and feel totally lost. I love him to pieces but I don 8767 t understand why he gets do angry. He claims he hasn 8767 t hit me because he reckons hes never punched me which he has. He doesn 8767 t beat me up or anything but foes it hard enough to stun me and make me cry. He does this after a arguement if I stand up for myself or I annoy him to much. I go out of my way for him but it 8767 s still not enough and I try to talk to him about it but he ignores me. I 8767 m so confused and don 8767 t know what to do and I can 8767 t talk to anyone! Most of the time he 8767 s lovely even though he is tight with money and beans me a gold digger but some times he acts crazy! WHAT DO I DO?
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A boyfriend once said about men living with a woman that “we want the bitter with the sweet”. The single EUM once said “We want to see that side too”…referring to expressing anger and dissatisfaction. One of ACs favorite memories of me is when I was coaching him at work, he was sitting, I was standing when our boss walked in and asked me to do something I obviously disagreed with because I started dressing-down the boss as to why whatever he was asking me to do was not gonna happen. AC says “I’ll never forget you arguing with Tom on that first day we met….”. I don’t remember it but I can tell AC was impressed. So many times when AC would leave my home, he seemed to play a little mind game where he’d do things seemingly to irritate.
Courts have sometimes viewed all passwords as equal, faulting a victim whose partner hacked her Facebook because she had shared an Amazon password with him. The court questioned whether one password could be considered private, given that she had shared other accounts, Rucker explained. “If you share an iCloud account and you’re sharing pictures that way, you’re sharing accounts in the eyes of the court,” Rucker said.
I guess I 8767 m playing devil 8767 s advocate here today! When my ex-husband and I separated we each met someone else within a couple of months. I was definitely done with my marriage and thought of myself as single. I eventually bought a house with the man I met and my exH is still married to and has a child with the woman he met back then. We didn 8767 t get divorced for years (until he wanted to remarry) because we amicably worked out our child custody and financial issues and it just didn 8767 t seem vital. In retrospect, I guess it was a bit casual of us but I don 8767 t think being separated rather than divorced is always a giant red flag. As this article points out, there are people who have been divorced for years who may be less available for a r/s than someone who has mentally and emotionally moved on before signing a decree.
Haha, you really do have an inferiority complex and are not very clever. Yes every man enjoys sex, which means every man enjoys easy sex as who wants to work hard for it.
Ok so that probably makes you white then, as 97% of Argentinians are white, of mainly Italian and Spanish heritage. You are descended from colonists who took Argentina from the native people, so without colonialism you wouldn 8767 t even be alive. There is nothing more pathetic than a man attacking his own culture and people, though I doubt you are really a man or Argentinian, as they consider themselves Europeans and not Latinos..
I wasn 8767 t talking about sex, I said every race and ethnicity has been involved in wars and invasions. You need to learn to read and comprehend if you want to discuss something intelligently. Though to answer your points yes all those groups have invaded each others land, killed each other and taken peoples as slaves. African tribes like the Ashanti used to keep slaves and also sell them, many of the slaves were taken in raids.
I like it so much how someone on this thread used the word expect. Great word, why wouldn 8767 t you expect for this man to love you as much as you love him? But he didn 8767 t and the reason is his alone, that 8767 s the bottom line. You have this huge disappointment now and it will pass. It 8767 s your broken heart talking, your daughter is right about him. You are wonderful and you won 8767 t be alone. I don 8767 t wear hats but if I 8767 m wrong, I will buy one and eat it. Huge hugs for you x
I know your territory very well, too as I know Noquay 8767 s. I 8767 m in NJ, but I 8767 ve been all over the US. You 8767 re in Republican country. And, then you 8767 re artsy and a vegan? They probably look at you as a Martian, as traditional as they are down there. Hahaha! Good luck, Sweetheart. I hope for your sake your possibilities are far better than mine, 8767 cause mine ain 8767 t too good.
That sounds so insulting of you saying 8775 if she wears bikini, she 8767 s a slut 8776 .. many decent pinays i know loves to wear bikini and brag it online.. I love beach, i am proud of my body and i wear bikini.. am i a slut? i work hard and i earn decent money more than the average of american monthly salary.. And i 8767 m a single mom because of a man like you who thinks that women are just sex objects..
I think the article overly presumptuous and unfair. I 8767 ve been separated for years and have been dating from very beginning and can honestly say I haven 8767 t had emotional ties to my ex at all during the entire time. Yes, we were/are involved in a legal proceeding but other people are involved in bankruptcies and child support actions and foreclosures and corporate takeovers and will probates, etc. That doesn 8767 t make a person undatable. It 8767 s just part of life.
But I KEEP 8775 GOOGLING 8776 HIM! It is horrible. I know Googling him is useless (and hurts me), but it 8767 s like an addiction. I keep thinking of him, even when I know he 8767 s MR. SUPER DUPER UNAVAILABLE heck, he 8767 s MR. NOT-EVEN-MEETABLE! I just want to stop, and move on, for good. I feel lonely, admittedly and I am battling a chronic illness so I am especially vulnerable to isolation (it 8767 s hard to physically attend social events, etc) and I think loneliness triggers the self-defeating Googling. Sorry to whine.
I am a little concerned that the direction of this article leads women to believe that they can change an emotionally controlling man. Why not just encourage them to find a man of better substance, who is more deserving of their attention? If life has taught me anything, its that making men over is a fantasy best left to the movies. C 8767 Mon Ladies! Hold out for an emotionally well rounded man instead of a fixer-upper!
The fact of the matter is that a man of this type can do irreparable damage to your self-esteem and drive away everyone else who cares about you. Does that sound like love to you?
Noquay, I always empathize with your posts because you and I are in exactly the same boat. I am in the natural resources field, which means I get to live and work in astonishingly beautiful natural areas of the country, which is great, but the down sides are the (forgive me, don 8767 t want to insult anyone) redneck, intellectually and culturally impoverished communities that come with the territory. I was brought up in a world-class city and have always been torn between my need for the vibrant, cultured urban world and my deep love of nature. Very, very hard to find someplace that blends the two. I remember a friend who worked at a gorgeous wildlife refuge in Maine, but couldn 8767 t stay there very long because there was simply no way she could endure the rural culture. She once joked that her only criteria for dating men there was that 8775 they had to at least have teeth. 8776 Needless to say, she transferred out as soon as she could.
If they ask you for money, run. That&rsquo s almost a sure sign that you&rsquo re talking to a scammer. The most common reasons that they give for needing money are not being able to afford a passport, visa, other travel documents, or plane tickets (often to come see you) an emergency stay in the hospital that requires a huge sum of money getting robbed while traveling or not being able to access their money from abroad. There&rsquo s a huge variety of reasons that you could get. The point isn&rsquo t that the reason for needing money is strange it&rsquo s that they&rsquo re asking you for money at all.
I 8767 m afraid its not just the LA thing. I live in the capital of one of the Eastern European countries and all of my foreign friends (guys) just can 8767 t seem to understand how our gorgeous, smart, kind and educated women marry our grumpy, disrespectful men, most of whom seem to let go of themselves after they are 85 or smth. I 8767 m afraid I have lots of Suzies in my social surroundings, especially in the age gap of 75-85. They don 8767 t want to settle for guys who want superwomen, at the same time not being ready to invest something themselves. Even not being super-interesting, nice or good looking those guys still can get pretty awesome women, cause those women have very little choices the number of available men (not even excluding 8775 the flawed 8776 ones: alcohol/drugs abusing, violent and etc.) starts to decrease from the age 85 in comparison to numbers of women of the same age. And its even worse in smaller towns.
You have been spying on me again Nat!!! The Object of My Affections has been blowing hot and cold. I know, I really do, that he is interested, but he pulls me close and then pushes me away again.
He has been divorced for many years and has minimal contact with EXW as kids all grown up. All very confusing. I asked a simple question about why he had started smoking about 5 months ago after quitting for 8 years and he said 8775 Oh the usual reasons, personal problems. 8776 AAAAGGGGGHHHH!!!!!
Run Tabitha, Run!!!!
9. He expects me to have everything in my life in order and his is still a complete mess.
He is still tied to his wife in some ways and wants me totally untied to my husband (we both are separated) us not being the reason, we were separated from our spouses before we met. He once said 8775 I 8767 m glad that you are low maintanance cause I 8767 m low budget 8776 as way of saying he will not spend much money on me, yet his wife (who left him) he willingly gives his money to including retirement without even a fight in court.
Iv been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 he cheated on me for the first 7 years. Even the whoile way through my pregnancy. Yet I stayed with him because I was so desperate for him to love me. I used 7 have loads of friends male and female now I have hardly anyone. If he even catches me looking in the direction of another male it means I want them. Yet I have never wanted anyone but him. I tried 7 do everything he wanted me to to make him happy but all that did was make me unhappy. I 8767 m sick of feeling trapped and now I want my life back. I feel like for 8 years iv lost myself. I was so confident and outgoing but he changed me. Iv come 7 realise if a person can 8767 t accept me for who I am then they don 8767 t deserve 7 be in my life. I 8767 d hate for y son 7 turn out like his dad that 8767 s why I have 7 put a stop 7 this now before its to late.