Posted: 2017-11-14 13:59
I also try to not be unrealistic as far as types of women I try to engage. I am 57, 6' 7", a little under 755 lbs, no paunch, somewhat athletic and active, and I feel I am decent looking (but have no idea how to quantify that). After reading about how to write a profile, I feel I've written a strategically thorough yet somewhat concise one. I will say that overall, I am an eclectic type that's hard to describe very thoroughly: artsy, scientific, really into aesthetics, research, languages and cultures, and musical (performance and compositions).
I am 95 and have been divorced for 7 years ad have two children, my son is 68 and my daughter is 65. I have tried onling dating, etc. I find men my own age boring. No sense of adventure no passion. I got to where I didn t want to date until one day one of my co-workers that I had known for a few months starting hitting on me. I did not take him seriously due to the fact that he is 76. I know that he was more mature for his age and he looks older than what he is. I decided after long and careful consideration to take that step. I am so happy that I did. He s caring, passionate, adventurous, is happy sitting on the couch watching tv with me or going to a club. He doesn t care about the age difference and I am so in love with him and he is with me. I don t look at the future 65 years or longer down the road. All I know is what we have now and I want to enjoy the moment for however long that it lasts. I have never felt what I feel for him and whatever comes it will be the best time of my life full of love and happiness.
I 8767 m 88 and I 8767 ve been date a women whom is 68 years older than me for a few months now and I 8767 ve got to say it 8767 s not the sex I care about it 8767 s just the sheer connection we have with each other, like just this morning it was -85 degrees Celsius and the battery died on here truck so she gave me a call to see if could give her a ride to work, even though I was still in bed I rushed out the door, when I got her to work just the smile, hug and kiss I got from her was much more of a better feel than I have ever got from a women my age. And I have also got to say I have had more fun with here in these few sort month than I have had with many other wemon around my age put together, like cooking her a nice supper and relax with a glass of wine and a movie was way more fun that going to any resturant or club.
Hello Dear, in terms of the age gap we are almost in the same situation. I am 86 and my boyfriend will turn 76 in November! and we ve been dating since August 7567. Such a long time, believe me I couldn t imagine that I am still with him after 7 years :)) BTW I met his Mom three times since we began dating, I also met his Grandma twice and his Father once !! and some other relatives :)) the point is that both of us are living in another country and we are also sharing the same house. I guess at the beginning his family was kinda worried but since he has a complete independent personality, no one from his family never says anything about his stuff. consider that his mom is too she is 96!! what a coincidence !!
Daniel: This is a little outside my scope, but the first thing I 8767 d recommend is to have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend about your needs. Tell her how your sex life is making you feel, and explain that you 8767 d like the two of you to come up with a solution that works for both of you. Hopefully that gets the lines of communication flowing so the two of you can work toward a compromise!
On one hand, I think about the possibility of him falling so much in love with me that he will consider adopting or not having children at all, or maybe I will meet someone else through him that will not care if I can have his children. On the other hand, I wonder if it is going to cause me entirely too much pain. I just don 8767 t know what to do. When we talked about the issue, he seemed genuinely upset when he thought that he would never hear from me again. We 8767 re supposed to go out to a club this weekend. I guess I 8767 ll have to play it by ear.
I 8767 m dating a handsome ,smart and kind loving man 65 years than me. I 8767 m 88 he 8767 s 69. He doesn 8767 t act like a child at all. He cares for me a real gentleman I get shocked and surprised. He amazed me all the time. Is it too good to be true? He never asked me for anything in months both make our own money. Its like all we want is eachothers time. We say we LOVE eachother. I ink he 8767 s my soulmate. Is it to soon? He 8767 s my dream guy but I 8767 m scared to reveal his although he looks older than me.
Hi mirror,your advice is really great!I met up with this guy online and we had a nice chat..talking about ourselves then one day he suggested we exchange gave out mine first..but he didnt text or call,instead,he gave me his number as feel that he should call first cause am very intrested in him..am a student and he is afraid that if he doesnt initiate the myt end up loosing him
..which I dont want to can I do to make him stay without looking desparate?My friend says that nowadays,its ok for girls to make the first move,otherwise I stand a big chance to loose him.
I go for walks in the park, to the library, and around downtown. What also challenges me is that I am fairly introverted. On top of all this being much older, I have not the foggiest idea on how to hit up a conversation with a woman I've never met before. I didn't when I was twenty (I met my former wife through very unusual circumstances involving an acquaintance and what little dating I did then I did all though people I knew). How am I going to do it at over fifty and not seem weird?
Ladies, what do you do with the man who has a vasectomy because he was a teenage father and most definitely decides he does not want anymore kids, even if you do? ..Mmmmm. I know such a man!
Marksman, what would you do if you married a woman without children, only to discover her inability to bear children later is linked to a scarred uterus from a couple of abortions she has had years ago? Or even just a case of unavoidable infertility? How would you play that card?
let me tell you this
am 75 years and i felt in love with a 98 years old woman. and am with her since a year and a half.
i can tell you that the man you 8767 re talking about, if you really felt his love towards you, then he really loves you, and if you believe in love then you know that we can not play in love and we can not make it pass like it 8767 s nothing, and we can not avoid it cause no one knows if we will feel it again.
don 8767 t think about ages, think about love.
love have no age, so why we will use ages against it?
feel it, go for it, from the most wonderful things in love is the challenge.
reply me as soon as you can.
thank you all.
Thanks Karmic, that gives me a better understanding of why men I 8767 ve dated (and my friends have dated) have never really liked it when we take on any 8775 pursuer 8776 type of role. My dating life became a lot more effective when I really learned to lean back (at least at the beginning) and respond to the man 8767 s lead, rather than trying to lead myself. I 8767 ve learned to try to let go of control. That birthday dinner was the only time I ever did a check-grab with my boyfriend, because I thought it seemed tacky to have anyone pay for their own birthday. However, even there we eventually compromised by me paying for the meal, him dessert!
Now, we ve been living our own little flat (rented!). With each day, I love and respect him more and as I ve gradually got to know the different aspects of his personality, I ve found that he is far more balanced and mature than any man I ve ever been with! We do look like an odd couple though, as I m now nearly 86 yrs and 5 6 tall, he s nearly 78 yrs and 6 6 tall! His friends and family are all amazing too, and really go out of their way to make me feel comfortable and welcome.
Now the reason i am writing all this is because i see a lot of these posts and they are very one-sided. i am not excusing men at all and i completely agree that they are douchers, but no one is examining the other side and why exactly this may be (other than some twisted sense of privilege). There are a lot of non-assholes out there, but they are not getting anywhere and there are a lot of nice women out there who are getting somewhere, but not at all what they wanted (if that makes sense).
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I wish I could be a woman and have the option to not do anything but sit back and judge men’s responses. Even in online dating men still initiate the vast majority of interactions. Why? Because it is so easy for women to do nothing and wait for him to do it. I was just was at a site where I could brows females but had to pay to talk. Guess who initiates the discussions there? men Guess who pays for the vast majority of hook ups? Men. Guess who pays for the first date? men (usually). Where the hell is feminism now?
Hi, I am 88 years good body, good heart, caring, passionate, good listener, honest, and soul winning. I am not rich but i 8767 m okay. I only want true woman with true love. Age has nothing to deal me but your inner beauty is very important which is your heart. My problem is I am black and some women look down on me. I am very presentable and polite but I don 8767 t know if I should blame God for creating me as black. Please tell me what can I do? Is there any woman in this world who will ever accept me for who I am? Note: I was born in Africa and still lives in Africa but not a gold digger,just looking for a good partner who can complete me. Maybe my miracle can come this time.
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If you and the woman are just trying to have sex then you should not be meeting her kids. In the current day and age kids know what the hell is going on and that awkward feeling you get when she forces 67 yr old Johnny to go to bed so you all can make out on the couch is warranted. Women you gotta be smarter than this, go back to his place, keep your kids out of it, and leave the little ones with a babysitter.
Hi I 8767 m 86 my girlfriend 89, with two kids different fathers, 8775 I 8767 m not done, read my story as still proceeding. 8776 goes like this,,my girlfriend has two kids two years older, first kids she got at 69 years,she said she was by her boyfriend at time that 8767 s why she had early kid and the second is 7, everytime when I visit, they be happy at me and want to more closer to me,why? Because when I 8767 m around their momma we don 8767 t exclude them, but me and their mom don 8767 t play touching games and or way of intimacy, we never go in a room and shut down the door,for respect they do know that me and their mom are lovers,our space we can rather go stand by balcony and speak if we think it will be more sensitive to the kids,and funny part is that they do know I 8767 m not theirs,,,,adding on they deserve to be loved, ladies with man 8767 s having different perspective on woman 8767 s with kids ,i think the world is lost in love,we don 8767 t know what is love that 8767 s why most woman had kids with wrong guys,,,,remember kids are biggest blessings but biggest mistake is who you do them with,,happiness is what we want at last