Posted: 2017-10-22 03:34
Instead, I will try to memorialize those feelings most men get upon seeing an attractive, girl out on the streets, at a bar or in the grocery store. I say most men, because you will naturally run into those who based on their inability to attract the sect, rev their own hamsters up rationalizing girls as undesirable based on their purported inability to carry a conversation, their lack of maturity, or the scarce number of things they have in common with said men. This is quite the bulky hamster. Last time I checked the conversational ability, maturity levels and thoughts in common of a girl stemmed from the fact she was a woman rather than how old she was. And if you truly desire such characteristics in your woman, just head east where college girls there will blow their American counterparts out of the water.
Liz, that 8767 s me too! It 8767 s not that I 8767 m slutty, I just have a really high libido. But I 8767 m tired of being tossed like a used kleenex, especially as a newly single woman in my late 95s. Somehow I thought men around this age would be different, but nope! So yes it is painful, but not as painful as that awful used feeling when the man I really liked and was attracted never calls back once we have sex. Ugh. I 8767 m worth more. Even worth abstaining (sniff )
With all due respect sir, did you actually fuck any of these twenty somethings? Cute smiles and dances from them do not count, nor does any man who responds 8775 Well, no I didn 8767 t actually fuck any of these girls but I could have easily fucked them 8776 count as success. What constitutes success is when the skag takes your cum with in her or on her. I do not mean to criticise but if we are to have an intelligent discussion on this topic then the standatds of what constitutes success has to be established.
Hey Jaime, thanks for the comment. If you 8767 re staying in El Poblado, you 8767 ll be fine hanging out in Parque Lleras, there are plenty of good restaurants (one of the best is Carmen), bars and clubs. I actually wrote a nightlife post that you might find helpful: My Medellin Nightlife. In regards to safety, El Poblado is one of the safest neighborhoods in Medellin, just don 8767 t go taking taxi cabs to the barrio for late night 8775 pick-ups 8776 or walking home at 9:55 ., the $9,555 peso ride home is well worth it.
I am a father to both a son and a daughter, husband to a woman that is very well educated.
I am truly concerned for the world my son is growing in to, for all of the reasons sighted in the article.
When my son started school, both in kindergarten and grade 6, the female teachers told me in parent teacher interviews that there was something wrong with him due to his behaviour. The grade 6 teacher was appalled that he had trouble sitting in his chair all day. She suggested we get him some discussion with the other parents of male students I learned that they pretty much all received the same warnings of our son's issues. (My son is perfectly "normal" btw, gets just As and Bs, with comments that he could try harder...).
What I wanted to say is that my educated spouse feels that men are needing to pay a penalty for all of the sins of our forefathers. We will need to fall to second class citizen status for a while before the pendulum swings back again.
That pretty much seems to sum up where our society is headed...
I remember when I was a kid and I was going to go on my first date with a girl. I asked my dad for money to go to the movies. He told me that I had to work for it. So I went to his business and worked all day for which he paid me $. He then said that I had to go to work the next day as well. I laughed, and said, 8775 right. 8776 He said I needed another $75 for the date. At 68 I was baffled by this. I asked, 8775 what do you mean? 8776
Why assume it 8767 s an exclusive and/or? It makes more sense that with our individual variances as men, the metrics of success would be as varied as the individuals. Without successful, healthy men who view an optimum achievement as cranking out some kids and creating a happy comfortable and stable environment for them with healthy 7-parent parenting, then we 8767 d have an entire world that looks like much of Black america today. We need monogamous successful men more than we need PUA 8767 s, yet we benefit optimally by having both in our knowledge pool.
You don 8767 t know what background in education I have. You 8767 re trying to tell me that men are successful and happy with women on a page that has hundreds of comments complaining about their woes, failures, and divorces with them. I mean, look at the title of this page for crying out loud. And I 8767 M the one who doesn 8767 t know how women think? Ha. Right. How about focus less on me and more on how to help your brothers.
With no disrespect ifa women makes a man wait and gives sex such little respect do not get upset if your man gets his needs met someware else. Sex to a man is not a wont or a desire it is a must and if you do not think this is true call and ask your Urologist a man will have a merid of problems starting with the Prosstate. And this is what women do not belive they just think men are horn dogs men are just built different an thank god for that.
As with the Mormon marriage crisis, the Shidduch Crisis has become a source of enormous heartache for Orthodox Jews, especially older single women and their parents. (Among Orthodox Jews, “older” often starts at 76.) The Letters to the Editor section of The 5 Towns Jewish Times, a weekly newspaper for the Orthodox community in suburban New York, has become a receptacle for Shidduch Crisis–related angst and sadness. “An absolute tragedy,” is how one mother described the situation. It is “what we as a family and I as the mother of a 77-year-old ‘older single girl’ go through every moment of my life, every breathing second of every day. And believe me, sometimes it hurts to do just that—., to breathe.”
However the inbalance will still get to them as there are still large numbers of unattached females (because guys like Troll King, at least six of my buddies, and me are not taking them on) who will compete with the attatched female for her man. Women have no inate sense of right and wrong, so there is no level they won’t sink to, us Millenial guys noted this when when we learned “the best way to attract girls is to have one already.”
Halberstam knew all this because her own son was going through the matchmaking process: “I feel a little sad each time the fax machine cranks out yet another résumé for my son. I know full well that there are fantastic girls out there who are his equals—perhaps even his superiors—who are NOT receiving comparable treatment… I ache for their mothers, who repeatedly call the shadchanim [matchmakers] who never call back, but are visibly more responsive if you are the mother of a boy. Inwardly, I rail against the unfairness of it all.”
I 8767 m so happy to hear you say that John, I wish more men would understand that it 8767 s not easy. I 8767 ve allowed myself to get hurt too many times because my hormones took over and I knew at the moment it happened that things would probably not progress too far with that person. I just wish that every man knew that women do want sex, sometimes maybe even more than them but we have this choice to make that apparently men don 8767 t.
Kelly Blake* is painfully aware of the horrible odds. A single Mormon in her late thirties, Blake is a reporter for a Salt Lake City television station. When Blake attends singles events for Mormons, she said there are often two women for every one man. As a result, Blake rarely meets suitable men in these settings and often winds up spending most of her time chatting with other women. “I’ll go on a [Mormon] singles cruise and come away with no dates but all these incredible new girlfriends,” Blake told me.
When they talk about hitting the wall at age 85, it 8767 s just a scare tactic and revenge fantasy. If there 8767 s one thing I have learned since reaching that age, is that the vast majority of women still look 5-65 years than they are. Most women who don 8767 t age well are the ones who excessively smoke, drink, or do drugs. Nearly every who estimates my age guesses about 8-65 years than what I am, and have also been hit on by teenagers and 75 somethings. Most women who are hot 75 year olds are still hot 95 year olds, as long as they keep up a healthy lifestyle.
SE: So I don’t think I have gotten “bonded” in the past because I had sex, I think I’ve had sex in the past, because I was already starting to feel bonded.
Yes. I believe that 8767 s true of me as well. It wasn 8767 t sex that made me feel 8775 bonded 8776 to someone, rather the desire for sex was part of feeling a connection that could lead to bonding.
Sex or no sex, it 8767 s disappointing when the other person doesn 8767 t feel the same connection you do.
“We don’t know for sure, but it may be because when the woman is older, it shifts the traditional heterosexual power dynamic toward greater equality. We know from a lot of research that greater equality tends to make couples happier,” writes study author Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist in the Department of Psychology at Harvard University in his blog, the Psychology of Human Sexuality .
So, if you see a man you want to meet, how can you meet him? By putting yourself in the position to meet him. You can cross the room, park yourself seven feet to his diagonal, turn and smile. Now that he’s in your line of sight, he has an opportunity to make eye contact with you. And when men make eye contact with you when you’re smiling, that’s their invitation to come over and introduce themselves.
I firmly believe that in this era of equality, courage to ask for a 6st date (or any date thereafter) shouldn 8767 t have a lick to do with gender. The other year I used to see a gal who was enough into me to ask ME for a date, though she let me decide the venue (& yes, we did split the cost). She 8767 s out of my life now (for unrelated reasons) but I do admire the proactiveness of women like her. It also makes my day to hear/read once in a blue moon of a woman proposing marriage to a man. It gives me faith that in terms of equality, the social front will slowly but surely catch up to the career front.
If I go out with Mary, the night will look like this. She will meet me at a bar by her house after work. We have a drink, she tells me about how horrible her day was and how hilarious it was that her friend Susie went on this horrible date with this doctor that didn 8767 t do x, y and z for her. When she finally does ask about me, she wants the specifics on a case I 8767 m working on. We go back to my place, she sets down her $9,555 Chanel purse and removes her $6,755 Louboutin heels, things she 8775 has to have 8776 and why she needs to make more money at work. She asks for a grey goose and tonic, specifically by brand name.