Posted: 2017-10-12 21:25
I speak Spanish fluently. This is a big plus for me here because I 8767 m naturally outgoing and funny, so I can really be myself when speaking Spanish. It is hard for one 8767 s true personality to translate when speaking another language, but luckily I am a fluent Spanish speaker, and have learned enough Paisa slang to be my witty self. I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments and like it when a guy can make them laugh. This has proven to be essential for me when picking up women in Medellin.
Your problem is a really really common one. Even guys who don 8767 t hit the gym often wind up with it, since desk work involves spending so much time with your shoulders rounded inwards and internally rotated. Add to that that when you DO hit the gym it 8767 s your chest muscles that we 8767 re often the most pumped to build (we can see our pecs after all + the bench press is a devilishly fun lift) and most guys wind up with your exact problem.
Salam, Hi all! Who came up with this site ℓ☺ℓ too funny! I am also a South African married to a lebanese guy for 5 years now with 7 kids! I have to say some of the points are true but funny after u read it coz I dnt take it serious! I 8767 m happy with my leb just the way he is even if he likes to work hard n visit his friends! I manage to deal with it , and once u stop fussing and nagging they eventually come around! The respect part I think is more to have respect for ourselves as woman, atleast that 8767 s what mohammad taught me in all these years how important is a womans modesty n dignity! So yes there are some points there that are true but tell me any man (or woman for that matter)in this world that are perfect! I can 8767 t say anything bad about the lebs love them all!
All women thus come programmed with the ability to pick out an attractive, healthy, strong, intelligent, honest man. It 8767 s just part of their genes. Then, based on their social conditioning and media exposure, those abilities are slightly tweaked and 8775 heightened 8776 to match the society they live in. (That 8767 s where trends and fashion come in, but we can largely ignore that, since the underlying universal fundamentals are far more powerful anyway.)
We finished up beta testing a few years ago now, and the program has been in full swing for a little over two years. All the transformation shots you see nowadays are coming out of the member community. That 8767 s where we 8767 ve been beta testing new stuff too. However, we 8767 ll always be putting up tons of free content on the blog, and if you ever decide to join us we 8767 d love to have you!
Go for it, Michael. They will love the kilt. I am also Scottish and lived in Lima in the 6985s and it was certainly 8766 vale la pena 8767 (well worth while) to wear the kilt and learn EFL and, of course, Spanish (or as they call it, castellano).
I am going to Colombia within the next year and am really looking forward to it. I 8767 m sure you will also find the women more attractive than in the UK (especially in Scotland).
Vaya con suerte (Go with luck)
There are many ways to get your body partitioning surplus nutrients a little more favourably – more towards muscle and less towards fat. First is to make sure that you 8767 re training optimally for muscle growth. A great training program will get your body very eagerly trying to build muscle as quickly as possible, and this will mean that more of your surplus will be invested in building muscle. Check this article out.
Another possible reason is that it 8767 s not to do with the size of your traps at all, and rather your posture. Large traps often look pretty decent if you 8767 ve got great posture, since your shoulders sit nicely in place. If your shoulders appear to be sloped forward it could be because your mid back isn 8767 t strong enough, or your chest is too tight, or something causing your shoulders rotate internally. Virtually everyone has this by default, so a good training program will often start with a lot of emphasis on the mid back. Sometimes chest exercises may need to be somewhat avoided as well.
That doesn 8767 t mean that women aren 8767 t drawn to guys who are healthy and strong (and look healthy and strong) though, and it doesn 8767 t mean that becoming healthier and stronger won 8767 t change your confidence or success with women. It 8767 s not the be all and end all, but definitely a factor. Even just from a hormonal standpoint, improving your health will generally result in feeling better and more confident. Is a happier, prouder and more confident guy more attractive? Usually. Can you be that way without being strong and healthy? Yep. It 8767 s just a bit harder. Plus, I wouldn 8767 t say being active and eating well is anything insidious or worth avoiding so why not? 🙂
The drive for muscularity in men is both very innate and very cultural—sort of a chicken and egg scenario. (You know, the scenario where we should really be eating a lot of both.) Men are naturally drawn to muscle, and that drive is further exaggerated by the media. As men we have different biological priorities combined with exposure to different media than women. We thus have very slightly different ideals concerning muscularity than women do. Most guys, myself included, instinctively get this part wrong. (I 8767 ll talk more about male ideals later.)
This question/thought is unrelated to my first one, but I was just doing some thinking about the masculinity section. As you probably know, some ectomorphs walk around with 8-66% body fat while others have 65%+. I was thinking, skinny ectomorphs with low body fat who eat at least somewhat healthy and get some exercise may have a relatively high degree of masculinity. My thinking was that (in the absence of medial issues and assuming that diet is adequate) testosterone would tend to be higher in those who are leaner. Having low body fat would mean a high degree of muscle to fat, regardless of overall amount of muscle mass.
As ectomorph men we often think we 8767 re at a disadvantage in the muscle department, but we 8767 re actually pretty lucky. Building muscle beyond a certain threshold is challenging and requires both consistency and patience, but as ectomorphs we often experience very rapid growth when we first begin training. If we can do that while correcting our posture and alignment we very quickly start to look pretty good.
oh gf 8767 s out there who are thinking abt dating lebanese guys- if you not lebanese dont do it- i agree with just some if you dont want drama in your life dont date leb guys- yes they can be sweet and kind but they are not bf material- nancy i know all about what you saying
yes they may drive nice cars etc but wont share their money with you- all they want is free time- i dont see any other guy wanting so much time to themselves- whats the deal???? with giving them all this free time you suppose to be dating- i may as well be single- LOL
Hi Phil, thanks for the comment. Let me answer your questions to the best of my abilities:
6. Not all Colombian women are on Colombian Cupid there are more than 75 million women in Colombia, therefore, not all are on there or have even heard of the site.
7. Plastic surgery in Colombia is low cost (in comparison to the US and other countries) and the level of quality can be very good, hence, Colombia being a leader in plastic surgery and at the top of plastic surgery patients. Both men and women get stuff done here, so, yes, breast implants are common.
8. Yes I know a couple girls that are CAM girls. And yes, they do it for the money. They earn great money because they get paid in foreign currency.
9. My advice about seeing this girl keep her as a friend. In my opinion it probably won 8767 t get anywhere serious since you 8767 re not living here. If you were living here in Medellin that would be different.
Anyway i would like to say that i have been dating a lebanese guy for years now, and i have never seen someone so loving, caring respectful and romantic.
I am lebanese myself, and the men in my family are the same.
As for my friends, It is usually their girlfriends that break their hearts and act this way no matter how kind and caring they are.
I really felt confused reading all these comments.
I mean to each her experience.
I like to powerlift so I am always on the cusp of being 8775 too bulky 8776 . I look at the illustrations and numbers here and cringe a bit I know my lifting goals will push me past the ideal. But my monkey arms make me great deadlifter and crappy bencher, so luckily even when I start to get more muscle beyond the ideal, it 8767 s in my butt and thighs. I don 8767 t really have to worry about my chest and arms getting too big.
This is so vary true what Anonymous said about another type of player that is less obvious. The obvious players are easier to spot and you quickly realize that they just want one thing while the guy that plays the nice guy may appear to be marriage material as he says all the right things and is somewhat patient to become physical with certain women kinda romancing them into it, meanwhile it s the same scenario, his actions are very different from his words. He will express romantic sentiment towards you and then not call or text for a week, not make plans ahead of time, but perhaps make that one call per week just to see if your available on the weekend so that he can keep all his options open and still not completely closing the deal with you as far as plans are concerned - you may be left wondering so do we have plans for this weekend? - and when you try to contact him to finalize those plans he doesn t answer or return your calls or text. Most likely he already has a ready made excuse for this like he s always on his phone with business and then goes straight to bed, or his phone doesn t work in his residence.
Ah that really sucks. I can see why you 8767 re traumatized. My friends and I (all entrepreneurs) have been living here for over 6 years now. Not one has had that happened to them. There are also another 7,555 + foreigners living in Medellin and surrounding area I would speculate that a very low percentage have been done dirty. Rule number one if a girl looks out of your league, she 8767 s probably going to do you dirty.
Invisibilized? That 8767 s a new one Most men prefer women. Most men wish to be desired by women. Someone who caters to this fact, is not a 8766 heterosexist 8767 . They are just catering to the largest market. Don 8767 t be so easily offended. The information on this site was acquired from asking women what they prefer in men as far as body types go. I don 8767 t think there is much data to support what a man desires in another man. Though it may be similar to what a woman wants in a man. Quit looking for things to be offended by. Just live your life.
Hello Andrew. Thank you for the insightful information you have provided about your life experiences living in Medellin. Can you give input on living in other cities in Colombia? I have heard about some other cities in Colombia, that I would like to visit and spend time. Bogota(the capital, obviously), Villavicencio, Cali, and Bucaramanga. I was thinking of coming to Colombia to live for a bit or longer in the near future. Jobwise, I would look to do a computer job and teach English. Any input, dating and otherwise, would be greatly appreciated. I currently live in Miami, Florida and was raised here. Thank you in advance.